"Confessions of a Counsellor" is about mental health in bite-size chunks. Janice Lyons is not just a therapist but shares real-life self-help. Let's talk about therapy, counselling, and life tools/ tips to use every day in five minutes or less. I'm glad you're here :) In case you're curious, I am an introvert (INFJ) and a lover of chocolate, a good book, and fluffy animals! Follow me @aboutconnection
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The Emotional Eating (and Everything Else Podcast) is for women who want to change their relationship with food, their bodies, and themselves. How we use food and how relate to our bodies is complicated. That’s why we’ll be talking about everything that has anything to do with emotional eating. Like exiting our toxic diet culture, creating new coping skills, learning how to respect your body, and adopting an Intuitive Eating lifestyle. Yes, we’ll be covering it all! So if you’re ready to fin ...
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In today's episode, Janice talks about grief and the ways that grief impacts us.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the tactics used in gaslighting so that you can recognize them and ask for help if needed.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about boundaries. What are they, and how to set healthy ones.
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In today's episode, Janice discusses change and how therapy supports the change process.
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Relationships and the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (John Gottman)
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7:54In today's episode, Janice talks about the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and their antidotes and how these conversation styles can erode a relationship and how you can repair them.
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What makes a healthy relationship? Part One (John Gottman)
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8:27Today's episode is split into two parts, discussing John Gottman's seven principles of making a relationship work.
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Making a Relationship work? Part Two (John Gottman)
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5:49Today's episode is split into two parts, discussing John Gottman's seven principles of making a relationship work. This is the second part.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the communication tool of Non-Violent Communication created by Marshall Rosenberg.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the stigma around therapy.
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Five Tips for Getting the Most Out of Therapy
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8:27In today's episode, Janice discusses her top five tips for making the most of therapy.
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In today's episode, Janice discusses how creating change in your life is not solely about the therapeutic hour.
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The Power of IFS: Kali and Amanda's Stories
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1:28:08It's episode 100 of the Emotional Eating (and Everything Else) Podcast--I can't even believe it! And to celebrate, I thought I'd invite two amazing women who I've had the honor of working with come into the show and share their experience with IFS. Kali and Amanda are two former clients who graciously agreed to talk about their struggles with food …
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In today's episode, Janice talks about mindfulness and whether it really works.
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I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that at some point in your life, you've tried to change what you're eating. Perhaps because you started a diet. Or you were trying to "eat healthier." Or maybe you were trying to move toward a more Self-led or Intuitive Eating approach to food (where you're really tuning into your body and feeding your body i…
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In today's episode, Janice talks about how to care for ourselves practically without all the fluff of self care.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the function of our feelings and why we have them.
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In today's episode, Janice discusses how our nervous system impacts our emotional regulation skills.
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Let's Talk About...Episode 98: Let's Talk About...Connecting to Your Body’s Hunger and Fullness Cues
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38:11On the last podcast, we talked about "blocking parts." And by blocking, I meant parts that tend to come up when you’re trying to get to know another part. Like when you’re headed for the kitchen and a part of you says, "I should get to know the part that’s leading me to the kitchen right now" but another part comes up and says, "Nope! I don’t want …
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In this week's episode, Janice talks about the window of tolerance and how we can recognize our capacity to handle overhwlem.
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In today's episode, we breathe together, with no fluffy language, props, or extra fuss, just breathing.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the benefits of letting us feel our feelings and let them go.
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Let me ask you this: have you ever noticed yourself heading for the kitchen to get some food, knowing you aren't hungry, and when you start to check in with the part who's leading you there, you hear something like, "Oh don't do that crazy IFS stuff--just eat the food." Or, "Ugh--who cares why we're heading to food--just eat it!" Or even, "Life is …
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In today's episode,, Janice discusses how slowing down to take a moment can support our ability to regulate emotionally.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about Joys and Drains and how this skill is something she finds very effective in therapy.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about therapy and how to make it effective for you.
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Here we are, in the middle of the holiday season, and I thought it might be helpful to go back to the basics of the Emotional Eating (and Everything Else) Podcast and talk about, you guessed it, emotional eating. Yep, it's been 94 episodes since we've focused on this topic. Well, that's not exactly true. We've focused on specific aspects of emotion…
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In today's episode, Janice discusses the importance of the connection between therapy and emotional regulation.
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In today's episode, Janice discusses the connection between therapy and emotional regulation and how they work together.
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Emotional Regulation with Freeze and Shut Down
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6:05In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and the impact that freeze and shut down have on our nervous system.
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Unburdened Eating, with Jeanne Catanzaro
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1:14:04This week's episode features Dr. Jeanne Catanzaro, who's a bit of an IFS rockstar. Jeanne has been one of the strongest voices in the IFS community in regard to food and body concerns, and I'm so thrilled to have her on the podcast! Just a little about her: Jeanne is a clinical psychologist who has specialized in the treatment of disordered eating …
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In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and Fight and Flight's impact on our nervous system.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about regulating our emotions when we feel low and heavy emotions.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about regulating our emotions when we feel heightened (activating) emotions.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and how we can use our skills to help us upregulate or downregulate.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about regulation in terms of the window of tolerance and what we need to know so that we can regulate back to our baseline.
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Well, it's fall here in New England, which means cooler weather, absolutely beautiful trees, and apple cider! (And for those of you who love it, pumpkin spice!) It also means lots and lots of raking is in my future! And it also means sweater weather!!!! Yay!!! So many of my parts love sweater weather. Throwing on a big cable-knit sweater just feels…
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In today's episode, Janice discusses when emotional regulation is important and how to notice when we might feel overwhlmed.
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In today's episode, Janice talks about emotional regulation and the progression therapy has taken towards intergrating our bodies into therapy.
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Understanding Binge Eating Disorder, with Amy Pershing
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56:02On today's episode, I'm so excited to be joined by Amy Pershing to talk about Binge Eating Disorder (BED). Amy is essentially THE expert on treating BED with IFS, and I'm so thankful that she's sharing her wisdom with us! We've been trying for months to record an episode, and we finally did it! Just a little about her, Amy Pershing, LMSW, ACSW, CCT…
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In today's episode, Janice talks about why our feelings might be so strong and the function of these feelings.
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In today's episode, Janice discusses the function of anger—what is happening in our bodies, and why do I get angry?
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Let's Talk About...Creating a Parts Check-in Practice
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29:54If you're someone who's done your own IFS work, you were likely encouraged to check in with a part that you met during your session on your own regularly throughout the week. And you may have thought, how in the world do I do that? Hopefully, the therapist or coach you're working with helped you with that process. But if they didn't, you're in luck…
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In today's episode, Janice explores the topic of grief and what is the function of grief.
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In today's episode, Janice explores the function of denial and why we experience denial.
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In today's episode, Janice explores the function of tiredness and why we feel emotionally tired.
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Let's Talk About...Anxiety (and why our parts eat when we're anxious)
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32:27On this week's podcast episode we're talking about anxiety, one of the most common things that lead our parts to food. Very often, parts in our system use food to calm our anxious parts. I think this happens for a couple of reasons. First, food can be a great distraction when we're feeling anxious. And second, food actually calms us down. Research …
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In today's episode, Janice explores sadness's function and why we sometimes feel sad.
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In today's episode, Janice explores the function of being overwhelmed and what happens in our bodies when we feel overwhelmed.
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In today's episode, Janice continues to talk about the function of anxiety, why we have anxiety and what it means to experience anxiety. I've split this conversation into two parts. Check out last week's episode for more of the conversation!
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In today's episode, Janice talks about the function of anxiety, why we have anxiety and what it means to experience anxiety. I've split this conversation into two parts. Check out next week's episode for more of the conversation!
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