Step into the wildly creative, deeply personal world of Charm Patterns with founder Gretchen “Gertie” Hirsch as she stitches together vintage glamour, pop culture obsessions, body positivity, and unapologetic queerness. From behind-the-scenes design inspo like “Slutty Italian Summer” to candid conversations on beauty, Broadway, and the messiness of creative life, this podcast is part sewing salon, part slumber party, and always ridiculously fun.
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Two Mystics. One Friendship. Endless Transformation. Each week, spiritual guides Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird open sacred, unscripted, space for soul-stretching insights, and spontaneously channeled messages and songs - led by the divine, but grounded in laughter and humility. The hosts' close friendship forms the foundation of the podcast's alchemy - fostering openness, vulnerability, and trust; inviting listeners into their inner circle with warmth and authenticity. Come as you are to th ...
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Hosted by Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. and Megan Hunter, MBA, It’s All Your Fault! High Conflict People explores the five types of people who can ruin your life—people with high conflict personalities and how they weave themselves into our lives in romance, at work, next door, at school, places of worship, and just about everywhere, causing chaos, exhaustion, and dread for everyone else. They are the most difficult of difficult people — some would say they’re toxic. Without them, tv shows, movies, ...
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Recovery through Darkness and Integration
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1:08:57Join Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird as they delve into conversations about the significance of darkness, healing, and integration. They discuss the misconception of darkness, the process of true healing, and the concept and fallacies of erasure. Sharing personal anecdotes and wisdom from spiritual guides, they explore how embracing darkness can lea…
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Family Boundaries: Supporting Children Through High-Conflict Divorce
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32:41Navigating Grandparent Roles in High Conflict Divorces This episode of "It's All Your Fault" features Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter addressing two distinct listener questions. The first explores the challenging position grandparents face when their adult children experience contentious divorces. The second examines complex co-parenting dynamics involv…
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High Conflict Communication Skills: Navigating Personal Change and Blended Family Dynamics
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30:02Navigating Complex Relationships: From Personal Transformation to Step-Family Dynamics Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore two compelling listener questions involving relationship challenges and personal growth. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone dealing with complex interpersonal dynamics or seeking lasting behavioral change. Unders…
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Hallowed Homecoming: A Samhain Retreat in the Forest
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53:35This episode of Mystical Musings features a conversation about the upcoming Hallowed Homecoming Pagan retreat near Triangle, Virginia, featuring two of its staff members, Rayne and Frank. They discuss the event’s history, format, and unique features, including workshops, rituals, and the inclusive, community-focused environment. The retreat, held i…
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Amnivara Part 2 - Perfect Never Comes
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1:04:18In this episode, we continue last week's conversation about recognizing our own divinity and how it empowers us to see the divine in others. Samael's teachings emphasize the importance of acknowledging our inner divine to foster love and unity in a world rife with division. Jen and Tava share personal stories of overcoming perfectionism and embraci…
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Hostile Neighbor Conflict: How to Handle Community Harassment and Stay Safe
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35:26Navigating Hostile Neighbor Situations: Understanding and Managing Community Conflict Responding to a listener question, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter address a challenging situation many face: dealing with hostile neighbors. This episode explores strategies for maintaining composure while protecting yourself and your family when faced with neighborho…
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In this lively episode of Talk Gertie to Me, we dive into the personal stories behind Gertie's tattoos, body image reflections, and tips for setting up the perfect sewing space. Gertie and Andrea discuss the evolution of their body art, the challenges of body changes, and the importance of creating a functional and inspiring sewing room. With a mix…
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People as Portals and Places - Amnivara, The Temple Song is Open
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1:10:15Join Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor in an illuminating conversation as they explore profound revelations about the Temple of Song, an ethereal space built through Jennifer's lifelong singing. Uncovering the wisdom of the seraphim Samael, they delve into the creation and significance of the temple, revealing it to be a powerful energetic place where…
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Setting Boundaries in High Conflict: Your Questions About Difficult Relationships
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35:17In this our next listener’s questions episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy address three complex scenarios involving challenging relationship dynamics, boundary setting, and family conflicts. Mike seeks advice about an ex-girlfriend who refuses to leave his home despite receiving money to do so, using suicide thre…
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In this 2-part episode of 'Talk Gertie to Me,' hosts Gretchen (Gertie) and Andrea begin to wrap up Season 1 with a lively reflection on vintage glamor sewing, creative processes, and the joys and struggles of monetizing a beloved hobby. Engaging with listener questions, they dive into the realities of running a pattern-making business, from the fin…
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Metaphysical Spelunking in The Crystal Cave (Part 2 of Walking Blind)
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1:09:59In this episode of Mystical Musings, Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor discuss the mystical properties and energies connected to crystal skulls and the Crystal Cave, a continuation from a previous episode titled 'Walking Blind.' The episode dives deep into experiences and profound connections individuals have had with crystal skulls, highlighting thei…
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High Conflict Listener Questions: When Different Personalities Collide in Families
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24:13When High Conflict Personalities Interact In this listener-driven episode, High Conflict Institute co-founders Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy tackle three complex scenarios from listeners, exploring relationship dynamics between different personality patterns, protecting children from parental alienation, and repairing family bonds damaged by forced es…
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MYSTIC FIRE: An Interview with Liz and Cael Jacobs of Wilder Grove (UPDATED)
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Walking Blind- Embracing Trust and Awakening Your Senses
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1:24:56In this transformative episode, Samael shares wisdom on a variety of topics, beginning with how to reawaken our senses and find magic in the mundane. Jennifer Taylor shares an unexpected and intimate experience of walking blind with the angelic guidance of Samael, demonstrating profound power of trusting your guides. Discover the power of presence,…
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High Conflict in Court: Managing Charm, Control, and Challenging Testimony
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36:47Mastering High-Stakes Legal Testimony: Confronting High Conflict Behavior in the Courtroom Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter analyze a compelling murder trial where a defendant who demonstrated high conflict behavior attempted to control courtroom dynamics through charm, intelligence, and confrontation. Drawing from this case study, they explore how legal…
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Song and Word as Charm, Pattern and Vibration Part 2
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54:30Re-join your hosts for the exciting conclusion of the conversation which began 2 weeks prior with the discussion of song and words as charms, patterns and vibration. After a brief reminder of Samael's words from Part 1 Tava and Jenn continue their exploration of song as divine patterns, full of information, healing and remembering. The concept of s…
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Falsely Blamed? How to Protect Yourself and Respond • REBROADCAST
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27:49REBROADCAST In this vital encore episode, Bill and Megan provide essential guidance for anyone facing false accusations or becoming a target of blame from high-conflict individuals. They explore practical strategies for protecting yourself while maintaining composure, offering specific tactics to minimize risk and manage difficult accusations effec…
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Why We’ll Always Love Broadway (and Costumes!)
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44:52Gretchen and Andrea LOVE Broadway! Learn about their separate backgrounds in theatre, the shows they're loving now, and how those shows have inspired patterns at Charm. Plus, they drop tips on how to see theatre in NYC on a budget! Links & Images Charm Patterns mentioned include: The Starlet Gown The /Broadway subreddit (with discount tix) RENT (th…
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An Interview with Jason Mankey, Author of High Priest, a Biography of Raymond Buckland
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1:00:57Exploring the Life and Legacy of Raymond Buckland with Jason Mankey In this episode of Mystical Musings, host Jennifer Taylor and co-host Tava Baird welcome guest Jason Mankey, a prolific author in the world of modern witchcraft. The discussion delves into Jason's latest book 'High Priest,' a biography of the influential figure Raymond Buckland, re…
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RIP Joann. Where do we buy fabrics now???
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1:07:45The episode where we diss on JOANN Fabrics (RIP) and share our favorite places and tips for shopping for fabric & notions online. The Charm Studio is in a very small city - we have to drive at least 90 minutes to touch fancy fabrics, too! Links & Images Charm Patterns & books mentioned include: The Betty Dress Gertie's Charmed Sewing Studio book An…
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The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3) • REBROADCAST
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35:47REBROADCAST In this essential encore episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter delve deep into understanding high conflict borderline personalities, often called the "Love You Hate You" types. They explore the complex world of these challenging relationships, where charm can rapidly transform into rage. The discussion illuminates the defining characteris…
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Song and Word as Charms, Patterns, and Vibration
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1:06:36In this episode of Mystical Musings, Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor open to their guides and receive fascinating information about the metaphysical uses of song and written word. The messages necessitate the exploration of the ancient definitions and traditional uses of amulets, talismans, and charms, - highlighting their differences and applicatio…
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Sage Advice with the Hilarious Susie Dahl
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56:34Come join us for a laughter-filled chat with one of our favorite models and Charm team members, Susie Dahl. She's been with us for over seven years and she knows ALL of our secrets! Links & Images Charm Patterns (great for burlesque!) mentioned include: The Vargas Panties The Hollywood Dress and Robe The Wanda Pencil Skirt with secret thigh slit zi…
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10 Steps to Sovereignty by Samael and Lilith. Reclaim Your Spaces and Your Spirit
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2:10:04This information in this podcast is absolutely invaluable for anyone needing to reclaim their life, their space, their spirit from unethical nonphysical entities. Samael encourages Jennifer to begin by channeling Lilith in her opening song, and the episode is off and running. This is a powerful and profoundly impactful episode. Samael lays out 10 c…
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Caftans = Freedom (with Elizabeth Taylor)
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36:45Why are caftans/kaftans so popular among Hollywood icons from the golden age as well as the queer community? In this solo episode, Gertie discusses the fashion (and cultural) history of this gender-free garment, spanning from ancient Egypt through to the modern day. Links & Images Charm Patterns mentioned include: The Elizabeth Caftan The Pride Caf…
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Narcissistic Co-Parents, Borderline Spouses, and Intimidating Behaviors • REBROADCAST
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25:07REBROADCAST In this valuable encore episode, Bill and Megan tackle three critical listener questions that remain deeply relevant. They begin by addressing a parent's concern about protecting their toddler during a high-conflict custody case involving someone displaying narcissistic traits, offering practical strategies for both the legal process an…
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Messages and Miracles (Part 2) In this episode of Mystical Musings, Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird continue their deep dive into divine guidance and the significance of earthly struggles. They explore the messages brought through dreams and shamanic journeys, discuss the delicate balance of heavenly intervention, the power of asking for help, and h…
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Vintage Swimsuits (and their modern interpretations)
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1:01:01We've made two vintage-inspired swimsuits at Charm and they are WILDLY different. Learn why with Gertie and Andrea, who dive deep into the making of these two projects, as well as the aquamusical, submechanophobia, and the "famous" Jewels of the Sea ad that has lived rent-free in Gertie's mind for decades. Links & Images Charm Patterns mentioned in…
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In this episode, Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor share personal stories and receive insights into miracles through the help of Samael. Tava shares her progress on her latest novel, 'The Book of High Places,' part of her Spiral Pathways series followed by an amusing story about spirit communication at the Blue Ball Inn involving a protective poppet. …
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Recreating Audrey Hepburn's lace dress from the 1952 Oscars
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42:47Join me while I discuss recreating the white lace dress that Audrey Hepburn wore to the 1952 Oscars. It's a bit of fashion history mixed with some sewing fun! Links & Images Charm Patterns mentioned include: The Waterfall Dress The Sabrina Dress The Holly Bodice Backs Expansion pattern for the Sabrina Dress The Lamour Dress The free Charm Circle Sk…
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High Conflict Patterns: Understanding Situational vs Long-Term Behavior • And We Introduce Conflict Influencer!
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43:21Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the crucial distinction between temporary high conflict behaviors and established patterns of high conflict conduct. As co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, we address common misconceptions about conflict dynamics while introducing our new platform, Conflict Influencer, designed to support individuals navig…
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Fallen Angels : Watchers and Willing Ones (Part 2 of 2)
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1:04:11S2 Ep 30 Part 2 Fallen Angels In this episode, Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor continue their conversation with the Seraphim Samael. They explore the profound sacrifices and the roles angels embrace, especially regarding 'The Fall'. They delve into the true meaning of judgment, the misconceptions surrounding divine figures, and the intrinsic connect…
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What is "Slutty Italian Summer" and how has it influenced Gertie and the patterns at Charm? Listen in as Gretchen and Andrea talk about the vintage and modern inspiration behind this catch phrase, and how it has impacted the Charm summer collections for the past few years. Links & Images Charm Patterns mentioned include: The Lisa Bodice The Gina Bu…
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Welcome to the first real episode of Talk Gertie To Me! Come get to know Andrea and Gertie as they talk about who they are, how they've come together, and why they're excited to be doing this podcast. Links & Images Maintenance Phase podcast - What's Our Deal? episode Gertie's 2020 daily livestreams on YouTube Gertie's Blog for Better Sewing (2009-…
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Child Abuse Allegations: Finding Truth and Safety in Family Court with Dr. Wendy Bourg
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52:00Child Sexual Abuse Allegations in Family Court: Expert Insights with Dr. Wendy Bourg In this compelling episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter welcome clinical psychologist Dr. Wendy Bourg for a rare and candid discussion about one of family court's most challenging issues. With decades of experience developing forensic interview guidelines and workin…
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Fallen Angels : Watchers and Willing Ones (Part 1 of 2)
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1:06:09In this episode, the hosts discuss a range of fascinating topics, including the sudden discovery of varying sigils for the angel Samael and the dual representations of angels and demons in different contexts. They delve into a new and intriguing concept of 'fallen' Angels and the deeper meanings behind it. The hosts reflect on their personal experi…
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Trauma vs. Entitlement: Finding Balance in High Conflict Situations
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33:55Beyond Trauma-Informed: Finding Balance Between Compassion and Consequences Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the complex relationship between trauma-informed approaches and setting appropriate boundaries when dealing with high conflict situations. This timely discussion examines how professionals and individuals can balance empathy with necessary…
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Part 2 Bones and Boundaries: Communing with Ancestors
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37:53In this continuation of their exploration into ancestral connections, Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird delve into the complexities of communicating with and honoring familial spirits. From sharing personal anecdotes to practical advice on setting boundaries, the discussion offers listeners strategies for balancing reverence and self-empowerment. This…
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Welcome to the Bone Reading Episode! Today, Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird dive deep into the art of bone reading and the intriguing messages it holds. In this episode, we start with a light-hearted conversation, only to segue into a profound and mystical bone reading session. Things quickly shift as Jenn experiences a strong visitation by her ance…
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Female Teacher Sexual Misconduct: Understanding Power Dynamics and Emotional Drivers
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33:30Female Teachers Who Sexually Assault Male Students: Understanding a Complex Issue Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the concerning pattern of sexual misconduct between female teachers and male students. This episode examines the psychological, interpersonal, and cultural factors that contribute to these situations, while providing insights for pre…
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High Conflict Surprises: How to Recover When You Never Saw It Coming
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32:54When High Conflict Takes You By Surprise Life can change dramatically when you unexpectedly encounter a person who demonstrates high conflict behavior. Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter from the High Conflict Institute in Scottsdale, Arizona, explore the unsettling experience of being blindsided by high conflict situations—whether in a new job, relationsh…
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Balancing Your Energies: Senses, Breath and Bells (Part 2 of 2)
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53:12In this intriguing episode, join hosts Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird as Samael guides them into the realm of energy balancing, grounding techniques, and the power of breath. Samael guides them through understanding how to tune our senses to better connect with the divine and maintain internal balance. Discover practical exercises to return to your…
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“Why Don’t You Just Leave?”: Understanding Abuse & Finding Your Way Out
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45:20Understanding Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter return for their seventh season of It's All Your Fault to tackle a challenging but critical topic: why people stay in abusive relationships. Drawing from their extensive experience at the High Conflict Institute, they explore the complex psychological, financial, and …
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The Temple of Song: Calling Your Energy Back (Part 1 of 2)
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57:26The Temple of Song: Calling Your Energy Back In this episode, Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor discuss the effects of energetic expansion. Jennifer speaks about her recent experiences at a family wedding that left her feeling energetically drained. She recounts how she called on Archangel Michael for healing and guidance, and how she used clearing an…
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Embracing Presence: Open. Open. Open.
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1:26:00Embracing Presence: Open, Open, Open. In this unscripted episode, hosts Jennifer Taylor and Tava Baird explore profound themes of embracing the present moment, letting go of plans and fear, and the magic of being physically embodied. They discuss the joy and healing power of daily rituals, physical touch, and creative expression. Through a dialogue…
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Histrionics Unveiled: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 6) • REBROADCAST
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35:21While we’re on our hiatus, we’re playing some of our popular episodes again from our ‘5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life’ series. Enjoy! REBROADCAST The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Series: Histrionic High Conflict Personalities In this installment of "The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life" series, Megan and Bill explore th…
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Unmasking the Narcissist: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 5) • REBROADCAST
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46:58While we’re on our hiatus, we’re playing some of our popular episodes again from our ‘5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life’ series. Enjoy! REBROADCAST Navigating Narcissistic High Conflict Personalities In this revealing episode of "It's All Your Fault," part of the Five Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life series, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy …
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Angelic Chemistry: Samael Explains The Poison of God
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1:22:46In this episode Tava Baird and Jennifer Taylor unravel the mystery behind Samael referring to himself as The Poison of God. In this profound and meaningful episode your hosts, along with their guides Samael and Archangel Michael, explore the inner workings of angelic chemistry. Along the way, deeper insights into the personal soul journeys of these…
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Recognizing High Conflict Patterns: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 1) • REBROADCAST
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29:45While we’re on our hiatus, we’re playing some of our popular episodes again from our ‘5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life’ series. Enjoy! REBROADCAST Introducing the 5 Types of High Conflict Personalities: Who Can Ruin Your Life? (Part 1) In this thought-provoking first episode of a new series on It's All Your Fault, Megan Hunter and Bill Eddy…
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Queer Rites and Perfectly Buttered Toast: The World of Author Enfys J. Book
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1:28:32In this engaging podcast episode, hosts Tava and Jen welcome the eclectic author, clergy member, and musician, Enfys Book. They discuss Enfys's journey in the pagan community, touch on their written works including 'Queer Qabala' and the newly released 'Queer Rights: A Magical Guide to Honor Your Milestones with Pride.' Enfys shares insights into t…
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