Avoid narcissists. Protect yourself. Gain back your power. Learn to recognize narcissistic manipulation, see it clearly as it’s happening, and respond in ways that shut it down. I’ve spent the last twenty years researching self-worth and narcissistic relationships. As a coach, author, and survivor myself, I teach simple systems to help empower you in any situation. Here, you’ll learn how to: 🔍 Spot narcissistic red flags early 🛡️ Protect your time, energy, and self-worth 💬 Respond with clari ...
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For every woman who’s been love-bombed, gaslit, and manipulated — this is where you’re called to rise. Hosted by Abuse Recovery Coach Meaghan Webster, this show is where truth meets transformation. No fluff. No fear. Just raw honesty, real stories, and relentless hope. You’ll get the tools, strategy, and soul work to learn how to set yourself free, break the trauma bond, rebuild a life you love, and become the version of you a narcissist could never touch. It’s not just about leaving — it’s ...
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The Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast is your trusted companion through every stage of divorce—emotional, legal, financial, and parental. With over nine years of impactful episodes, this top-ranked podcast supports men and women navigating the challenges of divorce, especially those facing high-conflict dynamics, co-parenting struggles, emotional overwhelm, or legal uncertainty. Hosted by Karen McMahon, Certified Divorce Coach® and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, the show offers strategic gu ...
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A podcast for parents navigating the hardest kind of co-parenting—when every message feels like a minefield, and peace feels out of reach. If you’re stuck in a high-conflict divorce or custody situation, this show is your lifeline. Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic co-parent, covert manipulation, or the exhaustion of constant conflict, you’re not alone—and you’re not powerless. Coparenting Beyond Conflict gives you practical tools, expert insights, and compassionate support to help ...
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If you are separating or divorcing, this podcast is for you. Our host, Tamsin Caine is a Chartered Financial Planner and divorce specialist. Across the series, we speak to divorce professionals, divorcees, coaches, domestic abuse specialists, victim survivors and many others who we think would be of interest to you if you are thinking about separating, have separated, are going through divorce or are post divorce. There is also lots of information if you are supporting a friend through divor ...
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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email diane@cp ...
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Coparenting with a Narcissist? Strategies for Sanity and Safety
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17:34Co-parenting with a narcissist isn’t parenting, it’s emotional endurance while protecting your child from instability they didn’t create. In this episode, I break down why co-parenting is impossible with an unregulated partner, how parallel parenting keeps you sane, and why RANGE communication protects your nervous system better than grey rock ever…
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Send us a text Tamsin speaks to actuary and head of Mathieson Consulting, Jonathan Galbraith about the complications of uniformed pensions and dividing them on divorce. If you or your spouse have this type of pension, this is an essential listen! Jonathan Galbraith Jonathan Galbraith is the CEO of Mathieson Consulting and Pensions on Divorce Expert…
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The Hidden Trap in High-Conflict Divorce: When a Man Reacts Instead of Leads, with Holistic Health Practitioner Specializing in Integral Masculine Self-Development, Michael Holt
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52:18In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I'm speaking directly to the men who are walking through the intensity of high conflict divorce — the pressure, the triggers, the confusion, and the deep internal unraveling that often comes with it. Men in high conflict divorce are asked to hold an extraordinary amount: to respond instead of r…
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What Every Co-Parent Should Know About Gaslighting and Emotional Safety with Dr. Karalynn Royster
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37:00In this conversation, Dr. Karalynn Royster discusses her journey into the field of co-parenting and high-conflict divorce, emphasizing the importance of supporting both parents and children through these challenging dynamics. She delves into the concept of gaslighting, its implications in co-parenting, and how parents can recognize and address it. …
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How to be Soft Without Feeling Stupid: The Dark Feminine Balance
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19:26This episode strips the fantasy out of dating and brings you back into your body with discernment, self-respect, dark feminine intuition, and the standards that stop you from spiraling back into men who drain you. You’re going to learn how to stay soft without being stupid, how to hear your nervous system before your mind rationalizes, and how to h…
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The holidays don’t calm a narcissist… they supercharge their manipulation. In this episode, I break down why December becomes emotional warfare for women living with or leaving narcissistic partners. You’ll learn how they weaponize stress, family, finances, and image, why your nervous system braces the second the season starts, and how to protect y…
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Self Trust and Trust Issues Dating After Abuse
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13:45Self-trust is the hinge that determines who you date, what you tolerate, and whether you abandon yourself or honor yourself. This episode walks you through rebuilding the internal compass that trauma shattered. The part of you that knows, feels, and senses truth before your logical mind can catch up. You're tired of second-guessing every signal, co…
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Assess your level of risk 💥 FREE Narcissist Protection Checklist: https://meadowdevorcourses.com/narcissist-checklist-yt?el=PodBy Meadow DeVor Podcast
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Finding Strength and Confidence Post-Divorce
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51:12In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, we dive deep with Cheryl, a mother of two, whose post-divorce journey reflects the emotional complexity so many women face when rebuilding their lives. Cheryl holds nothing back, discussing the early fears she carried—from concerns around safety and childhood wounds resurfacing, to the sheer un…
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What 5 Years of Sobriety Taught Me About Trauma, Love, and Rising From Hell
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21:23This special edition episode unpacks the five lessons that rebuilt my entire life after addiction, narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, and the nervous-system patterns that kept me repeating the same relationships. I'm sharing pieces of my story behind how I got sober, rewired trauma bonds, rebuilt my identity, and learned to trust love again. Thi…
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Excuses That Keep You Stuck: The Lies You Tell Yourself to Stay
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13:23This episode is a full-on reality check for the woman still in it, leaving it, or clawing her way out of an abusive relationship. I’m breaking down the excuses that keep you trapped… “I can’t leave because of the kids,” “It’s not that bad,” “He’ll change,” “I don’t have the money,” “I don’t want to share custody,” and the deeper, unspoken fear unde…
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Where do I begin… with relationship therapist Adele Ballantyne?
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37:50Send us a text Tamsin and our guest Adele Ballantyne guide the listeners through the first decisions after a relationship ends, focusing on pacing, safety, and pathways that reduce conflict and cost. Adele shares practical ways to build a support team, choose kinder legal routes, and protect children while emotions run high. Adele Ballantyne MA Rel…
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You don’t owe them shit: Stop Turning Casual Dating Into Emotional Labour
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13:24Dating after abuse hits different… Your nervous system wants to overgive, over-explain, and emotionally carry men who haven’t earned a single inch of access. This episode exposes the real reason you slip into wife energy with men you barely know and shows you how to shift into the Black Cat identity: grounded, discerning, unfazed, and impossible to…
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Assess your level of risk 💥 FREE Narcissist Protection Checklist: https://meadowdevorcourses.com/narcissist-checklist-yt?el=PodBy Meadow DeVor Podcast
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How Do I Know If It's Time to Divorce? The Brutal Truth No One Talks About
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16:36In this episode, I'm inviting you into one of the most tender and complicated questions you may ever face: How Do I Know If It's Time to Divorce? If you've been living in a cycle of uncertainty, replaying conversations, second-guessing yourself, or worrying about the impact on your children, this conversation is designed to bring you clarity, calm,…
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Grieving the Illusion: Mourning the Relationship That Never Existed
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8:59You’re not grieving a breakup. You’re grieving the abuse. You’re grieving the illusion you attached to, and the version of them that never existed. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down why the grief hits hardest after the abuse ends, why your nervous system stays hooked to the fantasy, and what it takes to rebuild the version of you the ill…
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Dad’s Law School: Tools to Advocate for Your Kids with David Pisarra
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32:35In this conversation, David Pisarra, Esq. discusses the challenges fathers face in family law, particularly in child custody cases. He shares insights from his experience in family law, emphasizing the importance of effective communication, emotional support, and self-representation. David highlights the need for fathers to advocate for themselves …
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The Black Cat Dating Code: 18 Red Flags That Don’t Look Like Red Flags
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17:18You think it’s chemistry when it’s actually your nervous system screaming… In this episode, Meaghan Webster exposes the 18 red flags that don’t wave, they whisper. The ones that feel like connection, safety, “soulmate energy” but are really control, projection, and manipulation dressed up as love. You’ll learn how to stop gaslighting your own intui…
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Divorce Disaster Waiting to Happen: The Cost of Not Building a Strategic Team Early
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31:40In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, we explore one of the most important strategies for navigating divorce: building a collaborative team from the start. I talk with Andrea Vacca, a leading collaborative divorce attorney, about how legal, financial, and emotional professionals working together can reduce stress, protect your long…
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The Costly Mistake Most People Make in Divorce: Ignoring the Money Trail
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47:44Are you worried your spouse is hiding money or manipulating finances during your divorce? In high-conflict divorces, it's all too common for funds to be moved, concealed, or dissipated, leaving one partner in the dark and anxious about their financial future. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I dive into the high-stakes world o…
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The Narcissist Discard: Closure You’ll Never Get and the Freedom You Deserve
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12:08The discard isn’t a breakup. It’s an emotional assassination. One day, you’re their everything. Next, you’re blocked, erased, and replaced… Left trying to understand how someone could love you and destroy you in the same breath. This episode breaks it all down… The mechanics of the discard, the trauma bond that keeps you hooked, and why your body r…
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Where do I begin... divorcing a narcissist
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47:34Send us a text Planning a safe exit from a narcissistic or abusive relationship isn’t a single leap—it’s a step‑by‑step operation. We’re joined by Diana Jordan, former family law solicitor and author of How to Divorce a Narcissist and Succeed in the Family Court, to unpack what narcissism really looks like in separation and why time rarely calms a …
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Why Emotional Immaturity Destroys Relationships: A Conversation for Men & Women
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1:01:35Why do so many relationships fall apart because one partner can't—or won't—connect emotionally? Why do men and women alike find themselves trapped in cycles of emotional immaturity, disconnection, and pain that lead to divorce? For many women, life with an emotionally unavailable or immature partner feels confusing and isolating. For single moms, t…
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Boundaries as Foreplay: Desire and Standards After Abuse
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14:23You were never “too much.” You were just in rooms that required you to shrink. This episode will change the way you see boundaries forever. Because boundaries aren’t walls - they are how you turn safety into seduction and standards into foreplay. I’m walking you through what it means to set boundaries with yourself first, how to reset your standard…
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If They Say This… They’re a Covert Narcissist
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10:28Assess your level of risk 💥 FREE Narcissist Protection Checklist: https://meadowdevorcourses.com/narcissist-checklist-yt?el=PodBy Meadow DeVor Podcast
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Recognizing the Subtle Signs of Abuse Before It Escalates
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13:11Abuse doesn’t always scream - sometimes, it whispers. It hides inside love, care, and kindness. In this episode, Meaghan Webster breaks down the quiet erosion, the isolation disguised as protection, the apology used as control, and the sensitivity weaponized to silence you. You’ll learn how to recognize the patterns that most women miss: How subtle…
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Breaking Energetic Ties After Divorce: Healing, Letting Go & Reopening to Love with Joanna Shakti, The Soul Love Mentor and Founder of Ecstatic Intimacy
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56:34Have you ever wondered why, even after divorce, your ex still feels energetically present in your life? Divorce isn't just the end of a relationship... it's a profound emotional, energetic, and spiritual transition. Long after the legal papers are signed and the physical separation is complete, many people remain unconsciously bonded to their forme…
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You’re Not Crazy, You’re in Family Court: Lessons from a High-Conflict Strategist with Bridget Bennett
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27:24In this conversation, Bridget Bennett shares her insights on navigating the complexities of family court, particularly for co-parents dealing with high conflict situations. She discusses the importance of understanding the legal process, the value of self-representation, and effective communication strategies. Bridget emphasizes the need for proper…
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Date Yourself First - How to Make Singleness Sacred and Become Untouchable After Abuse
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16:39You don’t need another partner - you need a mirror. You’ve already done the hard part: You left. You healed. You stopped mistaking pain for passion. Now it’s time to make your singleness sacred - the season where you turn freedom into fire. In this episode of The Narcissist’s Worst Nightmare, Meaghan drops the truth no one tells you after abuse: Th…
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The Hook on the Hurt: Why Pain Feels Like Proof (and How to Break the Bond)
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15:13You don’t miss them - you miss the chaos your body called love. In this episode, Meaghan breaks down how abusers weaponize your deepest wounds… The Abuser Trinity: Abandonment, Shame, and Scarcity that keep you hooked in cycles that make pain feel like proof. You will learn what’s actually happening in your body, how to starve the trauma bond witho…
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The Shadow Contract: The Parts of You That Chose the Pattern (and How You End It)
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17:26What if the pattern wasn’t punishment? It was a promise your shadow made to keep you safe… This episode dives into the invisible contracts your nervous system wrote in survival and the vows that keep you chasing chaos, mistaking intensity for intimacy, and calling pain proof. We’re breaking the spell and rewriting the contract. You’ll learn: • Why …
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How to Know When a Narcissist Is Testing You
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When Your Wife Wants a Divorce... And You Didn't See It Coming with Relationship and Personal‐Growth Coach, Tim Wade
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54:43When your wife says she wants a divorce... and you never saw it coming... it can feel like your world is collapsing. Most men panic in that moment. They chase, plead, argue, or withdraw… all the things that feel natural, but only push her further away. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with transformational men's coa…
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The Trauma Bond Explained: Why You Stay When You Want to Leave
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9:14You didn’t stay because you’re weak. You stayed because your nervous system was hijacked. The trauma bond is the reason you went back after the lies, manipulation, and gaslighting. In this episode, I break it all down: • What a trauma bond actually is and why it feels stronger than love • How reward, punishment, and relief condition your body to cr…
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Send us a text Divorce doesn’t have to be a maze of conflict, confusion, and spiralling costs. We sit down with award‑winning divorce coach Arabella Paul to map a steadier path: build your three‑part support team, get financially organised early, and protect your energy so you can make clear decisions for yourself and your children. Arabella Paul A…
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Navigating Narcissistic Co-Parenting with Clarity and Strength with Dr. David Hawkins, Founder and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute
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40:34Co-parenting is never easy—but when your ex displays narcissistic or emotionally abusive behaviors, it can feel impossible. You're not just managing logistics—you're protecting your peace, supporting your children, and trying not to lose yourself in the chaos. In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. David Hawkins, founder of the Marriage Recovery Center…
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