Welcome to The Last Bachelor, the podcast that challenges misogyny, unpacks intergenerational trauma, and promotes wellness in relationships, life, sexuality, and more. With over 25 years of personal experience and more than 4 years of dedicated research in healthy lifestyle development, I bring you insights grounded in knowledge from licensed professionals and accredited studies. Each episode is a thoughtful exploration of self-discovery, relationships, and modern masculinity, offering prac ...
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Send us a text In this powerful episode, we explore what it truly means for men to build emotional bonds — with their children, their loved ones, and themselves. We break down the stigma around vulnerability, share expert insights on fatherhood and mental health, and offer real steps to start healing and connecting on a deeper level. Whether you're…
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Send us a text In this episode, we challenge outdated beliefs about masculinity and discuss why vulnerability is a sign of strength, not weakness. Learn how embracing emotions can improve mental health, strengthen relationships, and redefine what it truly means to be a man. Tune in for expert insights, real-life examples, and practical steps to bre…
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Send us a text In this episode, we break down the keys to effective communication—why it matters, common mistakes we make, and expert-backed strategies to improve. Whether in relationships, friendships, or at work, learning to listen, express yourself clearly, and handle conflict can transform your connections. Tune in for practical insights that w…
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Send us a text In this powerful solo episode, I open up about my past in the gang life—the dangers, the lies, and the harsh realities that come with it. Drawing from my own experience and expert insights, I break down why the streets are a dead end and how young men can break free before it’s too late. If you or someone you know is caught up in tha…
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Send us a text Body image struggles aren’t just a women’s issue—men face them too, but rarely talk about it. In this episode, I break the silence on male body image pressures, from unrealistic fitness standards to the mental and physical toll of chasing an impossible ideal. With insights from psychologists and fitness experts, we explore how men ca…
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Ep 45: Understanding Men in Modern Relationships
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6:00Send us a text Why do men struggle with emotions? What are they really looking for in a relationship? In this episode, we dive into five of the most common relationship questions women have about men. From commitment fears to modern gender roles, I break it all down with expert insights and real-world advice. Whether you’re dating, in a relationshi…
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Send us a text Men’s sexual health is often overlooked, but it’s a crucial part of overall well-being. In this episode, we break down the stigma and tackle common issues like erectile dysfunction, low testosterone, and mental health’s impact on libido. Learn how lifestyle changes, medical advice, and open conversations can make a difference. It’s t…
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Send us a text In this episode, we dive into the hidden epidemic of loneliness among men. Learn why it’s so hard to talk about, how it impacts mental and physical health, and practical steps to build meaningful connections. It’s time to break the silence and reclaim the power of human connection.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Exploring the layers of identity within masculinity, this episode unpacks how race, culture, class, and sexuality intersect to shape men's experiences and challenges societal norms.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, we explore practical strategies for Mastering Stress and Achieving Work-Life Harmony. From setting boundaries to prioritizing self-care, learn how to create a balanced lifestyle that fosters productivity, happiness, and personal fulfillment. Tune in for expert insights and actionable tips to help you thrive both at w…
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Send us a text Losing a parent as a teenager is a life-altering experience, but it doesn’t define your future. In this episode, we explore the emotional impact of such a loss, share steps to build resilience, and remind you of the strength within to overcome adversity.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, I dive into the essentials of effective co-parenting as a father. From prioritizing your child’s well-being to building strong communication with your co-parent, I share practical tips and personal insights to help dads navigate this journey with confidence and purpose. Let’s raise great kids—together.…
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Send us a text In this episode, I dive into the transformative insights of Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are. We'll explore the science of desire, the power of self-compassion, and why embracing your unique sexuality is key to deeper intimacy and joy. Let’s talk about what it means to truly come as you are.…
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Send us a text Discover how healthy eating can transform your life. In this episode, we explore the connection between nutrition, chronic disease prevention, and mental well-being. Learn simple, practical tips to build sustainable eating habits that fuel your body and mind.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, I dive into the importance of sexual discipline for young men, exploring how self-control, respect, and responsibility can shape healthier relationships, prevent risks, and pave the way for a more focused and fulfilling life.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, we explore how developing emotional intelligence helps men build stronger relationships, lead with empathy, and live more fulfilled lives.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, we explore intergenerational trauma within the Afro-Latino community, drawing inspiration from Dr. Mariel Buque's Break the Cycle. Join me as we unpack the historical roots of this trauma, its impact on our lives today, and the powerful steps we can take toward healing and breaking the cycle for future generations. #…
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Send us a text Setting Boundaries is an Important Form of Self Care. Let’s try it!By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing The Myths Behind The Dreaded Child Support.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Dating A Single Mom Has Some Guidelines... Be Prepared.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text 10 Things Men Can Learn From Women. #WomensHistoryMonthBy Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Top 5 Fears All Men Try To Bottle up.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing The benefits of Physical Health.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Exploring the unique strengths and life lessons gained from being raised by a single mother, this episode delves into resilience, independence, and the deep bonds formed in the absence of a father figure.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Mental health is just as important as physical health, yet it often gets overlooked. In this episode, we explore why taking care of your mental well-being is essential, how to recognize when you need support, and practical steps to maintain balance in your daily life. Let’s break the stigma and embrace the importance of mental health…
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Send us a text When Explaining Things to Women, Try NOT to Mansplain.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text How To Have A Successful Friends With Benefits Situation. (P.S. Its not for everyone)By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text 10 Healthy Tips To Help Avoid Becoming a Toxic Person.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Exploring the roots, impact, and everyday manifestations of misogyny, this episode sheds light on how societal norms perpetuate gender inequality and what can be done to challenge them.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Picking Someone's Brain Can Be a Difficult Task, But The Best and Simplest Way is to Start a Conversation and Ask The Right Questions.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing The Mental Health Effects of Police Violence.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text There's A Thin Line Between Flirting and Harassment.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Breaking Up Is Never Easy but We Can Find A Healthy Way To Do It.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text The Dangerous Effects Of Disinformation in Todays Politics.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Rape Culture is an Environment in Which Rape is Prevalent and in Which Sexual Violence Against Women is Normalized and Excused in The Media and Popular Culture. This Culture Disregards Women's Rights and Safety.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing the Difference Between Entitlement and What You May actually Deserve.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text No Such Thing As A Perfect Relationship and Choosing To Be In One Requires a whole lot of Maturity.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing The Joy Of Fatherhood. (Dedicated to my sons)By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Exploring why self-awareness, confidence, and emotional maturity are the ultimate attraction for women seeking meaningful connections.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Long Gone Are The Days Of Gender Roles. Time To Welcome Today's Man.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Home Should Be A Sanctuary and Not A War Zone. Unfortunately Staying Home Might Not Be The Same For All. The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.7233 or visit thehotline.orgBy Elvin Matos
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Send us a text We All Have Insecurities But Do We Know What They Look Like or How To Let Them Go? Maybe Not, But We Can Learn.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Single People Assumptions Are A Real Thing. You'd Be Surprised at What Some People Think.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Accountability is Part of Becoming a Man, but its Also Rarely Practiced.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text We Must Learn To Enjoy Every Minute Of Our Lives... Our Time Is Limited, So Don't Waste It Living An Unhappy Situation.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text In this episode, we dive into the essence of true friendship. What does it really mean to have someone who stands by you? Learn how to identify genuine connections, spot red flags, and nurture relationships built on trust, respect, and mutual growth. Discover the qualities that set real friends apart from the rest.…
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Send us a text Its Time We Stop Promoting Destructive Behaviors... (R.I.P. To The Ones We Lost Along The Way🙏🏽)By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text YOU'RE NOT REQUIRED TO BE ONE.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Honesty is Always The Best Policy. There Truly is No Need To Deceive.By Elvin Matos
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Send us a text Addressing The Concept That All Men Are Solely Driven by Sexual Desires, Ignoring Standards.By Elvin Matos
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