Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact [email protected].
…
continue reading
Julie Krafchick | Dating Podcasts
First of All is a real, unfiltered conversation on career, family, relationships, & culture. Your host is actress/director/entrepreneur Minji Chang, who will bring in her friends & special guests from all walks of life to kick back in her virtual living room. Together we will laugh, drop whatever knowledge we have, & speak our truth on weekly featured topics. Get ready for good times & all the feels.
…
continue reading
1
Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships
Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
1
626
Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've ...
…
continue reading
Dates don’t usually end with a satisfaction survey. And yet — we rate everything in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We complete "exit interviews" when we leave our jobs, so why don't we do the same with dating? Dating experts Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (Dateable) invite guests to participate in the ultimate social experiment: conducting exit interviews with their exes and past dates. For the hopeless romantic going out on hundreds of dates without any sticking, will she f ...
…
continue reading
1
Best of Brunch Talk: The Reason Dates Don't Turn Into Relationships
14:25
14:25
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
14:25
Ever feel like you just can't move past those first couple dates or actually get into a committed relationship? You're not alone. Join us this week as we discuss why it's so common to feel this way – even when the reality is that most date's don't turn into more! We're discussing what metrics to focus on when quantifying dating "success", why datin…
…
continue reading
1
537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of Control
58:47
58:47
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
58:47
Welcome back to our series on control! This week, we're talking about control from the perspective of the person who wants to have the control or power in the relationship. There are a multitude of reasons why someone might want to control another person, which we're going to explore in this episode. We'll also discuss the science of control, and t…
…
continue reading
We're officially on the off-season and kicking it off with some life updates from both of us. We recap the first part of 2025 – from our book tour to potential moves to wedding planning. Join us as we debrief about our favorite parts of the year so far and what has been a challenge. Enjoy! Get OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://how…
…
continue reading
1
Best of Brunch Talk: Should You Wait for Them To Be Ready?
18:01
18:01
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
18:01
We're back with some of our most popular #brunchtalks and a question we always get is: what should I do if they say they like me but they just aren't ready right now for a relationship? Should I stay and give it more time or just let it go? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to navigate this tricky situation, especially when i…
…
continue reading
1
536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships
1:01:26
1:01:26
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:01:26
Welcome to part one of our deep dive into control in relationships! Every relationship has power dynamics, but when they get out of control it can be devastating. In this episode, we'll be discussing the experience of loss of control in a relationship, why it might happen, and what to do if you find yourself on this end of the control spectrum. Joi…
…
continue reading
What if we were to tell you there's a way to find the right partner that doesn't feel like you're looking for a needle in a haystack where you will absolutely never settle. In our season finale, we saved one our favorite topics from our book 'How to Be Dateable': our perfect partner equation. We discuss the three core components of this equation, h…
…
continue reading
1
#brunchtalk: Dishing About Why The Matchmaking Industry is F%cked and Our Polar Opposite Views on Materialists
44:31
44:31
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
44:31
Yue almost walked out of the movie Materialists...it may be one of Julie's favorite movies of all times. Whether you've seen it or not, we're having a debate about the messaging and takeaways of the movie as it pertains to modern dating, financial disparities in relationships, height surgery, and the matchmaking industry. We're revealing our true f…
…
continue reading
1
#200 - Into the Unknown & Doing the Work with Ada Tseng (Journalist & Author)
1:38:50
1:38:50
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:38:50
What does it take to make a dream, reality? Any goal, any vision can be daunting when you're at the very beginning. Uneducated, inexperienced, overwhelmed...it's hard to identify or even decide what's the best place to start. And even when you do decide, getting the ball rolling and finally taking the proverbial leap is its own major feat. In one o…
…
continue reading
1
535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A
41:17
41:17
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
41:17
Today we're tackling a question from one of our Supercast subscribers about equity in multiple relationships, feel prioritized, and how to handle tough conversations about energy, money, and mismatched desire in relationships. Become one of our Supercast subscribers at multiamory.com/join to get your question answered on a future Q&A episode! Join …
…
continue reading
1
S20E21: What To Know About Marriage (Before You're Even Married) w/ Casey & Meygan Caston
1:04:41
1:04:41
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:04:41
What happens when you meet the love of your life but then the relationship completely falls apart not long after you get married? You learn what you probably needed to know lonnng before you tied the knot! We're joined with Casey & Meygan from Marriage365 to talk about how their relationship nearly collapsed – and what they did to get it back on tr…
…
continue reading
1
#brunchtalk: Determining If Your Situationship Could Be More (Or Not)
27:30
27:30
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
27:30
You met someone amazing. The chemistry is incredible and you really enjoy their company. So this is obviously headed into relationship territory, right? Not always...We're discussing if your situationship could actually turn into a relationship or if it's stuck in casual territory. We're discussing what to do when you aren't fully aligned with what…
…
continue reading
1
534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)
1:08:25
1:08:25
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:08:25
This week, we're diving into what happens when a partner asks you to change, whether it's a small behavioral change or a big fundamental or values change. Regardless of what kind, change can be difficult, for both the one asking for change and the one being asked to change. We're going to discuss the feelings that arise when being asked to change a…
…
continue reading
1
S20E20: Ask A Matchmaker w/ Matchmaker Maria
1:17:03
1:17:03
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:17:03
Ever want to pick the brain of a matchmaker? Well we're about to as we're joined with Matchmaker Maria to discuss her journey as a fourth-generation matchmaker and what it's like to be a matchmaker in today's world. We're discussing the pivotal quality she bases her matches on, how the 12 date rule can set you up for success, and why it's important…
…
continue reading
1
#brunchtalk: The Real Reasons You're Getting The Ick
25:26
25:26
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
25:26
So you met someone you could be into. And then it just hits you and takes over the entire situation. Something they did gave you the ick – so much that you are debating never seeing them ever again. We're discussing the two main reasons you get the ick, the origination of how the ick came to be, and what to do when you get it. Enjoy! Take the Datin…
…
continue reading
1
533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
1:11:45
1:11:45
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:11:45
Today we're joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable to talk about--you guessed it--how to be dateable. We're going to be talking about traditional dating advice, dating archetypes, different perspectives on dating, and more! Julie and Yue are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, r…
…
continue reading
1
S2019: Doing Love Differently w/ Dediker, Jase & Emily of Multiamory
1:36:17
1:36:17
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:36:17
From monogamy to nonmonogamy, casual dating to queerplatonic partnerships, married couples living separately to those who are single by choice, we're diving into the many ways to do relationships – and how to find what works for you. We're having our first official fivesome as we chat with the crew over at Multiamory about everything from the evolv…
…
continue reading
1
#brunchtalk: Dishing About The Dating App for Foodies, Do You Tell Your Friend & Love Bombing
36:43
36:43
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
36:43
We're catching up as we talk about a situation of 'should you tell them or not' when you know something about their relationship but you're not sure if it's your place to share. We're also chatting about a new dating app that caters to foodies and debate if this is a good idea for a first date. And of course, we answer a listener question about lov…
…
continue reading
1
532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?
1:02:49
1:02:49
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:02:49
We're returning to attachment theory this week as we go over some of the criticisms it has faced since rising in popularity. For some, attachment theory has been a powerful tool of self-discovery, but others dismiss it as pseudo pop psychology. Where do you fall on that spectrum of credibility? Today we're discussing the cases for and against attac…
…
continue reading
1
S2018: Meeting Someone 'Later in Life' w/ Sandy Weiner
1:05:39
1:05:39
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:05:39
Reality check: You can find love at any age. And often times the BEST relationships happen "later in life" (which for the record is definitely subjective) We're diving in with our guest Sandy Weiner who shares her own story and those of her clients. We're discussing why age should not deter you from dating, the different complexities that come from…
…
continue reading
1
#brunchtalk: Why They Lost Interest After the First Date
27:22
27:22
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
27:22
Nothing is worse than when you have a seemingly great first date...and then the next one just never happens. Whether they ghost, tell you there wasn't a connection, or whatever other excuse comes up, it can be so damn confusing! We're diving into why this happens – from the reasons that come with dating to what could be personal to the person. We a…
…
continue reading
1
#199 - Following Your North Star with Director Andrew Ahn
1:27:20
1:27:20
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:27:20
We show up to work, to relationships, to passion projects and hobbies in various phases of our lives and do the best we can, never knowing if and how we may be changing the world around us. For director Andrew Ahn, he's never endeavored to change minds or hearts doing what he loves most (and is also really good at), which is telling funny, vulnerab…
…
continue reading
1
531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A
59:02
59:02
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
59:02
We're back with another Q&A episode this week! Today we'll be discussing some listener questions about using the word "love" in a relationship, polyamorous identity, and talking about non-monogamy with friends and family who think it's all about the sex. Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25…
…
continue reading
1
S2017: How To Stop Wasting Time When Dating
59:22
59:22
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
59:22
The #1 thing we hear is: But I don't want to waste time. We feel you! Time is our most valuable asset and nothing feels more discouraging than spinning your wheels when dating without results. But what are the perceived time wasters versus the true ones? We're diving into the areas that we believe are the hidden time sucks, how to maximize and pres…
…
continue reading
