Best Kink Perspective Podcasts (2025)

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Season 4 Episode 42 - When the Body Reaches Before the Mind Feels Safe... 38:30

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5d ago38:30

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when the body starts reaching for connection before the mind feels ready. After loss or betrayal, the drive for closeness doesn’t disappear, it just gets confused. I talk about why attachment and grief are inseparable, how avoidant and anxious patterns develop as survival strategies, and why betrayal grief fe…

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EP202_Carlton FC 2025 - Curnow, Closure and Blue Skies Ahead 2:54:33

1d ago2:54:33

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Panelists: Dim, Steve (Brothers N' Others Podcast) and Big Terrance (Blue Abroad) Talking Points: The trainwreck that was 2025, the Charlie Curnow sized elephant in the room, the toxicity, the time wasted on players with 'potential', The Ross Lyon enigma, the 2025 Trade Period, breaking up with Jack Silvagni, Blue Abroad sponsoring someone new, Big…

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EP201_[Mid-Week Rub] Car culture, Personal Theft, Australis's migration issue, Charlie Kirk Conspiracies, Ace Frehley, Ed Gein and the Senator's Wrap 2:42:16

7d ago2:42:16

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Panelists: Dim, Andrew, George, Con Talking Points: The Destructive DIY, top of the range car audio, getting robbed, vintage phones, barometers of time, the anti-migration protests, stopping migration for 5 years, conspiracies surrounding Charlie Kirk's assassination, remembering Ace Frehley, replacing dead singers and the Senator's final thought. …

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Season 4 Episode 41 - After the Scene Ends: When Connection Turns Quiet... 39:40

12d ago39:40

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when the scene ends and connection turns quiet. This episode concludes a two-part series exploring avoidance, intimacy, and what it means to stay when the instinct is to run. We look at the drop from both sides: the person who retreats and the one left in the silence, and how the nervous system tries to find …

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#24 Monotony, Erotica and Spicing Ourselves Up 26:08

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Jen and Noelle talk about realizing the ruts that are easy to fall into within long term relationships and being open to new things including thinking about how to Spice Ourselves up and using baby steps to do make changes. Perimenopause and medication related hormone changes are talked about and how it feels on the inside. Instagram: @VaginaWhispe…

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Ep. 53 - Design Your Pleasure Plan: Creating a S*x Life That Thrives! 18:09

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💋 Episode Summary Your pleasure isn't accidental—it's intentional. In this episode, Khrys guides you through how to design your own Pleasure Plan—a roadmap to deeper intimacy, body awareness, and consistent satisfaction. Whether you're single, partnered, or exploring new dynamics, this conversation will help you identify what turns you on, what blo…

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Season 4 Episode 40 - The Body Arc — When the Body Betrays, Commands, and Speaks... 45:36

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On today’s show, I explore the body as the place where memory, desire, and truth all live. We move through what happens when the body betrays us through trauma and disconnection, when it begins to command through craving and impulse, and when it finally speaks with clarity. This episode looks at how kink, embodiment, and awareness can help us under…

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Ep. 52 - Monogamy? Couldn't Be Me: A Poly Man's Truth with Jahmaul Joseph 1:07:22

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Episode Description: In this unfiltered and expansive episode, Khrys sits down with Jahmaul Joseph, a man who proudly identifies as polyamorous—and who has built a thriving relationship outside of traditional monogamy. They dive into what it really means to love with freedom, how to handle jealousy, and why commitment doesn't require exclusivity. 💬…

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Season 4 Episode 39 - Intimacy as Mutual Risk... 48:42

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EP200_[Low Hanging Fruit] Retro Games, Forfeiting Security, Kinks, Arab States & A Bracketsie. 3:36:22

28d ago3:36:22

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Panelists: Dim, Jon, Andy Talking Points: Retro Gaming, Mixed gender teams in video games, WNBA negotiations, normalizing the 'meathead' zone, the internet Age Verification rollout, digital ID, exposing your kinks, Social credit system, empires' falling, Apophis, card trading, are you prepared to have your kink judged?, the threat in the Middle Eas…

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Season 4 - Episode 38 - The Friendship Deficit & Beyond... 45:20

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On today’s show, I discuss the role of friendship as the most overlooked form of intimacy. This isn’t “just friends” in the casual sense. It’s friendship as radical intimacy, the kind that offers safety, recognition, and patience. It is the ground where conditional value loses its grip and where desire wired for depth can finally thrive. Continue t…

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#23-Autopilot, Lots of Feelings and New Perspectives 45:17

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Jen and Noelle catch up about hormonal, seasonal and other changes, the mixed feelings of being uncomfortable in your own body and smarter ways to communicate about that. A lovely message from Jen's Spirit Guide comes through with words of affirmation including "Enjoyment (of the season of life you are in) is in the meaning." Instagram: @VaginaWhis…

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Season 4 Episode 37 - When Both Are Hurting: How to Care Without Losing Yourself... 40:50

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On today’s show, I discuss what it means to care for a partner when both of you are hurting. We look at the risks of one-sided care, the pressure of roles in D/s and other relationships, and the shifts that make support sustainable. This episode explores how to stay present without losing yourself, and how honesty and flexibility keep relationships…

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Ep. 51 - The Sound of Desire: Exploring the Importance of Moaning 14:11

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✨ In this episode, we dive into why moaning is so much more than just a sound—it's an expression of pleasure, release, and connection. 💋 From boosting confidence to intensifying intimacy with a partner, moaning can transform your erotic experiences. We'll explore how sound frees the body, enhances arousal, and creates a deeper energetic exchange du…

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Season 4 Episode 36 - Kink, Community, and the Politics of Silencing... 40:29

2M ago40:29

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On today’s show, I discuss how the rise of silencing, exclusion, and conformity is affecting kink communities. We look at the psychology of groupthink, the danger of rhetoric turning violent, and why protecting difference is essential to the foundations of BDSM. At its heart, kink depends on consent, creativity, and dignity. When fear takes their p…

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#22 part 1-Choices, Outgrowing Fantasy and Being Grateful 36:56

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Jen and Noelle talk about possible past/parallel life impacting today including choices, decisions and growing past being stuck and bringing your energy with you. Jen shares about a Shamanic visit with her recently departed dad. Lots of vulnerability and some genuine laughs. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at: VaginaWhispering@Gma…

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#20 - THE Vagina Whisperer shares a wealth of knowledge. 47:19

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Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer, really graces us with her presence, wisdom and passion for teaching women about their vaginas, pelvic floor needs and so much more. Her book, FLOORED: A Complete Guide to Women’s Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage is her first book, is available through Amazon and will start shipping on June 10th. Here is…

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#19 The Energetic Impact of a Hysterectomy and More with Maria and her Vagina 28:18

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Jen and Noelle interview Maria, an intuitive medium, looking for more connection and communication with her body. Lots of metaphors, loving suggestions, humor, a bit of snark and lots of info to get back to be more fully alive and integrated. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at [email protected] Website: www.VaginaWhisperi…

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#18 Part 2-Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW) 26:41

2M ago26:41

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Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ourselves and that "pleasure is the fuel for your productivity." She brings in BDSM principles, conscious kink, TAG (trauma i…

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#21-Braces, Self-Consciousness and EmBracing You Now 36:29

2M ago36:29

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Jen shares about how getting braces has impacted her. Noelle talked about some of her own self-consciousness that is coming up at this time. Both look for ways to outgrow self-consciousness and do things to feel good now. Instagram: @VaginaWhispering Email Jen and Noelle at [email protected] Website: www.VaginaWhispering.com Disclaimer: Wh…

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EP199_[Mid-Week Rub] Charlie Kirk, Migrant Crisis, Dezi Freeman & Rolling Stone 2:21:29

2M ago2:21:29

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Panelists: Dim, Andrew, Con, George Talking Points: Hierachy at the gym, Dan Andrews in China, Protests in Melbourne, How is news covered in 2025, idiots with platforms of influence, Dezi Freeman and the Sovereign dillusion, The Rolling Stone Top 10 of all time, pirated music and punishment for scammers #charliekirk #gym #news #melbourne #social #c…

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Ep. 50 - Reclaiming Pleasure: Intimacy, Imprints & Liberation with Khrys & Dalya 1:16:45

2M ago1:16:45

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✨ Episode Description ✨ What does it really mean to be sexually liberated? In this powerful conversation, Dalya dives deep into the layers of sexual liberation—from unlearning shame to embracing pleasure without apology. She opens up about the ways sexual imprints—those early messages, experiences, and conditioning around sex—can shape the way we l…

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Ep. 49 - Beyond Vanilla: Exploring the World of Kink with a Professional 1:19:59

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Episode Summary: In this episode of Sex Talk with Khrys, I sit down with a seasoned kink professional, Sir Lezzus who brings years of wisdom, experience, and passion for the art of kink. This conversation is raw, real, and oh-so-revealing. From safety to seduction, to fantasy, we dive into what kink really is beyond the stereotypes. What You'll Lea…

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Ep. 48 - Own It: Power, Sex & The Man Behind the Business 57:59

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Own It: Power, Sex & The Man Behind the Business 💋 SHOW DESCRIPTION He's not in the kitchen—but he owns the damn kitchen. In this episode, I sit down with a young, successful restaurant owner and we strip back the layers of ambition, image, and masculinity. What's love like when you run the show? What turns him on when the doors close? And what kin…

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Season 4 Episode 35 - Jealousy, Envy, and the Digital Trigger... 40:25

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On today’s show, I discuss the sting of jealousy and envy in the digital age, and how even a simple like on social media can trigger deep insecurities. We’ll break down the difference between jealousy and envy, explore how exclusivity is tested in public spaces, and talk about practical ways to respond when those pangs hit. I’ll also bring this int…

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Season 4 Episode 34 - My Interview with Redwarrior... 57:03

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On today’s show, I sit down with redwarrior, a Leatherwoman, author, teacher, and titleholder who has been part of the BDSM community for decades. We talk about what first drew her into the lifestyle, how she discovered her roles as both sadist and masochist, dominant and submissive, and her passion for the Leather community. We explore her views o…

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Season 4 Episode 33 - Gender, Power, and the Pressure to Stay Put... 33:57

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On today’s show, I discuss how social pressure and conditioning shape the way we experience power dynamics in kink. We’ll look at why curiosity about crossing the slash often collides with fear, shame, and self-judgment, and how internalized expectations can hold us back from exploring roles that might feel authentic. This episode challenges the id…

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[Desk of Duke]_22-08-25_Machetes, Kitty Litter and Mistaken Identity 32:23

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Panelists: Dim Talking Points: Car jackings, the RSL raffle, Forklifts and Guns, The Hellenic Athletics Shoe #melbourne #social #concerts #thedukeleverageshow #instagram #spotify #podcast #itunespodcast #soundcloud #australia #newpodcast #podcaster #newepisode If you think you have a story to share or want to find a safespace to argue the pointless…

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Season 4 Episode 32 - The Messy Middle: Between New and Grounded... 37:48

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On today’s show, I discuss the messy middle of kink, that stage where the thrill of being new has faded but you do not yet feel fully grounded. We explore what this phase looks like, why it often feels awkward or isolating, and how psychology helps explain identity drift, loss of novelty, and comparison traps. I also talk about how to reframe this …

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Season 4 Episode 31 - Reclaiming Kink After Abuse... 34:50

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On this episode, I discuss the real process of reclaiming your kink after it has been used to harm you. From understanding the unique impact of abuse in kink, to navigating the messy middle of recovery, to taking small steps toward safety and choice, this conversation is about rebuilding trust in yourself and others without losing the parts of you …

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EP198_[Mid-Week Rub] Backseat DJing, Greek Carnivals, Urinal Comrmaderie, Iconic gigs, Greek distribution, Trump's Cane Sugar, Hulk Hogan 2:38:19

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Panelists: Dim, Andrew, Con Talking Points: The Death of progressive music genres, backseat DJ'ing, Memorabilia prices, Raffles, the return of the Greek dinner dance, does Toilet Comradery exist with women, the most memorable concerts attended, Trump's Cane, The Controversy around Hogan, Lockout sessions Don't forget to hit the URL in the profile t…

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Season 4 Episode 30 - When Sadism Becomes the Self... 25:31

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when sadism shifts from a chosen erotic expression to the only way a top feels seen, safe, or connected. We’ll explore how dominance can begin with presence and intention, but over time, turn into emotional regulation or even identity. This episode isn’t about shame, it’s about reflection. I’ll walk through t…

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Season 4 Episode 29 - Being Outed – The Cost of Exposure... 39:15

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when someone in the kink community is outed, whether by carelessness or intent, and why it’s a serious breach of trust and consent. I share real stories, including my own recent experience, and explore the psychological fallout, community responsibility, and the quiet ways outing erodes safety. This episode i…

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Ep. 47 - 💋 Sex Talk With Khrys: The Art of Dirty Talk 💋 24:52

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💋 Sex Talk With Khrys: The Art of Dirty Talk 💋 In this episode, Khrys breaks down the art of dirty talk and how it can ignite your sex life, deepen connection, and help you confidently express your desires. We explore different dirty talk styles so you can find what feels sexy, playful, and authentic to YOU. ✨ What We Covered: • Why dirty talk matt…

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Season 4 Episode 28 - Pickup Play, Negotiation, and the Crossroads of Swinger and BDSM Culture... 37:36

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On this episode, I discuss what happens when BDSM and swinger cultures overlap in shared spaces, and why the differences between them matter. Prompted by a listener’s question, I break down how consent, structure, and intention can quickly get blurred in environments that weren’t built with kink ethics in mind. From navigating pickup play to holdin…

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EP197_[Low Hanging Fruit] Ironheart, Reddit, Stop Killing Games 3:30:44

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Panelists: Dim, Jon, Andy Talking Points: Expanding on existing IPs, Lionheart and Superman, Reddit, Jim Jeffries, taste tests, the Epstein list, Wrestling Mt. Rushmore, Jon and Dim's wrestling lore and legacy, Dating a Gamer, Stop Killing Games movement, more Beats By AI, the Benoit issue #LOTR #terminator #wwe #nxt #wcw #gaming #epstein #reddit #…

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Season 4 Episode 27 - Living with Agency, Not Obligation... 39:25

4M ago39:25

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On today's show, I discuss the often misunderstood concept of agency, what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many people unknowingly live without it. We explore how agency gets eroded through trauma, family systems, cultural roles, and relationship dynamics, including in kink and power exchange. I break down the difference between agency and control…

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EP193_[The Stakeout] Coburg to Ivanhoe 1:37:15

4M ago1:37:15

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Panelists: Dim Jimmy Drama Talking Points: Breaking and Entering Firebombing your own house Neil Simon's 'The Odd Couple' Lord of the Fries, Krispy Kremes and Kebabs Roadside diarrhoea Health and ingrown toes BJJ classes and BVVP Bad builders in Australia Suburbs with a feel Missing the property boat McDonalds Metric for cost of living Remembering …

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EP196_[The Stakeout] Danny's, Cobbler and Not Much Else 1:14:58

4M ago1:14:58

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Panelists: Dim, Jimmy Drama Talking Points: Sleeping at work, Local kebabs, Danny's Burgers, A chefs five minutes, Car pains, Northlands, Marriage Lockdown, Cobbler #stakeout #marriage #kebabs #grifters #spanian #neighbourhoodwatch #coburg #brunswick #preston #thornbury #northcote #news #melbourne #social #thedukeleverageshow #instagram #spotify #p…

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Season 4 Episode 26 - Emotional Needs and Navigating Relationships... 46:25

4M ago46:25

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On today's show, I discuss the challenge of feeling like you're "too much" in relationships, especially when your emotional and sexual needs aren't being met. We explore how emotional needs are not too big but are often about finding the right compatibility with someone who can truly meet you where you are. Whether you’re in a traditional or BDSM r…

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Season 4 Episode 25 - The Urge to Lose... 37:20

4M ago37:20

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On today’s show, I discuss what it really means when someone feels the urge to lose. To give in, fold, apologize, or beg for forgiveness, not out of peace but out of fear. We look at the collapse response as a survival strategy, not a flaw, and explore how it shows up in both vanilla and kink relationships. I break down the difference between colla…

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#18 Part 1 - Queer, Kink and Conversation with Big Dick Energy's Whitni Miller (TW) 33:09

4M ago33:09

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Whitni Miller is a Queer Couples Intimacy Coach and Sex Educator. Whitni shares stories and examples and tips of how to increase communication, safety, security, related to intimacy and connection. She reminds us that we own ourselves and that "pleasure is the fuel for your productivity." She brings in BDSM principles, conscious kink, TAG (trauma i…

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Season 4 Episode 24 - Trauma Bonding in Relationships... 29:50

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On today’s show, I discuss trauma bonding, what it is, how it forms, and why it feels so powerful. We take a clinical and grounded look at the psychological mechanisms behind trauma bonding, from intermittent reinforcement to early survival adaptations shaped by attachment wounds. I break down how these patterns show up in both vanilla relationship…

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EP195_[Mid-week Rub] Perspective is Everything 3:08:32

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Panelists: Dim, Andrew and Con Talking Points: Badoom TSCH, Tires (the show), Jon Lovitz, Relativity and Perception of age, Beverly Hills 90210, The 30s, Looking rich, ChatGPT, Dealing with the Post-Covid Era, Long service gifts, Ange Postecoglou, Banning the sale of Machetes, Useless Remakes in 2025, Timbaland & Tata, Ethical Streaming, Terrible '…

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Season 4 Episode 23 - Love Bombing: Intensity Isn’t Intimacy... 38:45

5M ago38:45

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On today’s show, I discuss the reality behind love bombing: what it is, why it works, and how it shows up in both vanilla and kink dynamics. We’ll look at the psychology behind the behavior, the emotional impact on the person receiving it, and the signs you might already be in it without realizing. From rushed intimacy to coercive affection, I brea…

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Season 4 Episode 22 - When the Terms Change... 36:00

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when the relationship you built no longer fits the life you’re living now. I explore the need for renegotiation, not because something is broken, but because people change. From emotional contracts and outdated roles to attachment patterns and the psychology of growth, I break down why honest check-ins matter…

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Ep. 46 - Finance Over Love: When Love Isn't Enough 49:56

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💔 Episode Summary: In this raw and unapologetic episode, Khrys sits down with a woman who chose financial stability over romantic fantasy. After years of marriage, she made the bold decision to walk away—not because she stopped loving her husband, but because he consistently failed to meet the financial responsibilities she believed came with being…

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[Desk of Duke] - 03-06-25_The Reset Method, Shaking Trauma, Retribution 53:20

5M ago53:20

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Panelists: Dim Talking Points: The Reset Method w/ Fabien Shaking trauma Childhood retribution #mentalhealth #theresetmethod #somatictherapy #breathwork #mentalhealth #wellness #ruok #beyondblue #nostalgia #news #melbourne #social #thedukeleverageshow #instagram #spotify #podcast #itunespodcast #soundcloud #australia #newpodcast #podcaster #newepis…

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Season 4 Episode 21 - Erotic Mismatch in Relationships... 39:09

5M ago39:09

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On today’s show, I discuss what happens when love and erotic identity don’t align. Can a relationship survive when one partner is kinky and the other isn’t? I explore the emotional split, the impact of performative dynamics, the hope that love can “convert” desire, and the quiet cost of suppressing who you are to stay connected. This is an honest l…

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Season 4 Episode 20 – The Rise of Trauma-Irresponsible Educators in Kink... 41:36

5M ago41:36

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On today’s show, I discuss the growing misuse of trauma language in kink education and why it’s more than just a trend. From burnout worksheets shared without context to influencers offering therapy-adjacent advice without credentials, we’re exploring where personal experience stops and clinical responsibility begins. I break down the differences b…