Adversity is the common thread throughout the lives of all living human beings. This human condition can either make us or break us. Nothing great comes easy and it's the overcoming of adversity that makes us who we are. Living by the ethos Suffering is THE way to sustainable success and the path to greatness. Always remember Mike Failace.
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Episode 237: The Suffering of Another Rant With Danny Rivera and Tom Flynn
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1:03:11Send us a text The boys are back in town!!!!! We are back in the studio to test out our chops on who can rant on a random topic. Join us on this fun, filled journey that promises laughs, tears, information, and ball busting. FocusLab Media Website Find The Suffering Podcast The Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram Tom Flynn Instagr…
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Episode 236: The Suffering of A Forensic Psychologist with Dr. Dorothy Novitskie
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1:10:24Send us a text Dr. Novitskie's career has spanned two decades largely within clinical-forensic and outpatient settings. She has provided assessment and clinical care to clients across the lifespan, ranging from early childhood to those faced with end-of-life difficulties. Dr. Novitskie has extensive training and experience in conducting clinical an…
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Episode 235: The Suffering of LEO Assistance
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1:12:09Send us a text Adam Blevins is a former Virginia State Trooper and currently serves as the Operations Director for the Virginia Law Enforcement Assistance Program (VALEAP), where he leads statewide efforts in peer support, trauma response, and first responder wellness. He is also an auxiliary police officer with the Saltville Police Department and …
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Episode 234: The Suffering of a Paramedic With Stephanie Niemiec
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1:04:41Send us a text Stephanie Niemiec was raised in Fairfield, NJ. Stephanie graduated from West Essex High School and earned her bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Fairleigh Dickinson University and Thomas Edison State University. Her personal journey has been shaped by significant loss, having experienced the deaths of several close family members f…
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Episode 233: The Suffering of Divorce Recovery with Dr. Courtney Evans
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1:06:39Send us a text Dr. Courtney is a bestselling author, divorce recovery specialist, and writing coach with a DNP (Doctorate in Nursing). She blends science, soul, and sass to uncage her clients to become CEOs, girl bosses, and happily ever after game-changers in a space that desperately needs disruption. Dr. Court is the founder of The Ever After Col…
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Episode 232: The Suffering of Trust With Eric "Loomis" Perluke
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1:12:28Send us a text "Loomis" Perluke was born in 1981 in the Wilkes/Scranton area of Pennsylvania. Loomis found himself in the depths of addiction in his early 20's. 17 treatment centers and countless detoxes Loomis finally pulled himself out of addiction and changed his life at the age of 40. He is now out there telling his story to help others who bat…
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Episode 231: The Suffering of Veteran Services with Eric Crafton
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1:06:39Send us a text Eric Crafton is a decorated army national guard member, committed law enforcement officer with a Masters of Administrative Science – Law Enforcement Administration, and mental health advocate who values dedication, service, and excellence. With a combined 24 years of exemplary public service and mental health advocacy, Eric is proud …
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Episode 230: The Suffering of a Partner's Trauma with Trisha Donaldson & Gary Allsup
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1:04:10Send us a text Tonight we take a look into the lives of those silent heroes. Those that live with a partner that has endured lifelong trauma. We focus our attention on the person who has had unspeakable pain but that pain often radiates through to the ones who are brave enough to stand by and weather the storm. In studio tonight we welcome Trisha D…
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Episode 229: The Suffering of Trauma Informed Training with Sherrie Allsup
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1:10:50Send us a text Sherrie is Back Sherrie Allsup is an international speaker, educator, and subject matter expert with lived experience. She speaks on topics such as sexual assault, sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide. Sherrie is a survivor of long-term sexual abuse, trauma, and suicide attempts. After much hard work and healing she became the founder a…
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Episode 228: The Suffering of a Musician with Kenny Dubman
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1:10:54Send us a text Kenny Dubman is a battle-tested rock and roll veteran, coming up through the club circuit right out of high school, and forging through 3 major label releases with New Jersey melodic rock faves Prophet. After walking away from writing and recording for over 20 years, he's back with a vengeance, writing guitar-driven American rock mus…
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Episode 227: The Suffering of Rants with Bobby Crudele and Tom Flynn
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1:12:02Send us a text Get ready for a lighter mood in the studio as Kevin Donaldson sits down with Bobby Crudele and Tom Flynn once again to see who can rant with efficiency. The wit and wisdom of the men who enter the studio on a consistent basis will be highlighted tonight in the no-holds-barred episode. You never know who will say what, to whom, and in…
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Episode 226: The Suffering of Guilt with Bobby Crudele
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1:05:39Send us a text Get ready for the creation of space to vent, heal, and have a new understanding of the regret and guilt of two men. Bobby Crudele and Kevin Donaldson sit down to discuss the pain and loss of a dear friend, Mike Failace. While they know that very little could’ve been done to halt the tragic events that took place on May 9th, 2024 when…
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Episode 225: The Suffering of The Worst Offense with Kevin and Tom
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1:02:59Send us a text Our scheduled guest tonight canceled, this episode would have been the most difficult discussion to have and record. With the level of importance on the topic, and the push-back we could potentially receive, we were well aware of the potential downsides of doing such a show. It did not work out the way we anticipated but Tom and Kevi…
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Episode 224: The Suffering of The Dallas 5 with Chad Burpee
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1:09:34Send us a text Chad Burpee is a proud father, brother, and a son. Though he grew up in Maine, life’s journey eventually led him to Texas. With a deep sense of duty and service, he dedicated 20 years of his life to law enforcement, serving in Lancaster County, Nebraska, and later in Dallas, Texas. Before that, he honorably served his country as a Un…
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Episode 223: The Suffering of Confidence with Denny Giamazzo
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1:12:43Send us a text Denny is a trauma Survivor - physical abuse, Neglect, PTSD from Combat. Denny Giamazzo, a Worcester MA native, holds a bachelor’s degree in Political Science from UMASS Dartmouth. He Served for seven years in the U.S. Army as an Infantry Team Leader, including a combat deployment to Ghazni Province Afghanistan in 2010. Currently, Den…
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Episode 222: The Suffering of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with Kate Califano and Eric Smith
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1:10:55Send us a text Kate Califano, an entrepreneur, founded Seminar Stack with the support of her husband, Pennsylvania State Trooper Eric Smith, to equip first responders and civilians with essential safety and resilience skills. Eric’s dedication stems from his recovery after a near-fatal on-duty crash in 2020, during which he discovered the Adopt A C…
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Episode 221: The Suffering of Coffee with Sean Abrusci
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1:09:16Send us a text In 2009, Sean joined the US Marines and served in the infantry. In 2011, Sean deployed to Sangin Valley, Helmand Province, Afghanistan. In 2013, Sean decided to extend his contract of service for the opportunity to go back to Afghanistanwith his unit. This time he served in Garmsir, Helmand Province, Afghanistan. While being tasked t…
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Episode 220: The Suffering of Self Worth with Connor Furu Part 2
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54:34Send us a text Parrt 2 Conner’s journey is a powerful testament to resilience, faith, and purpose. Raised by a single mother and told to “change his name” by his struggling, addict father, Conner found his value in football. His Division 1 football career was marked by unrelenting perseverance, enduring seven season-ending injuries and an astonishi…
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Episode 219: The Suffering of Self Worth with Connor Furu Part 1
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1:05:56Send us a text Part 1 Conner’s journey is a powerful testament to resilience, faith, and purpose. Raised by a single mother and told to “change his name” by his struggling, addict father, Conner found his value in football. His Division 1 football career was marked by unrelenting perseverance, enduring seven season-ending injuries and an astonishin…
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Episode 218: The Suffering of Faith with Adam Burt
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1:11:49Send us a text Adam Burt (born January 15, 1969) is an American former professional ice hockey defenseman who played in the National Hockey League (NHL). He was drafted in the second round, 39th overall, by the Hartford Whalers in the 1987 NHL Entry Draft. Adam played four seasons for the Ontario Hockey League's North Bay Centennials before joining…
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Episode 217: The Suffering of Podcasting with Tom Smith
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1:10:42Send us a text Tom began his distinguished career with the NYPD in 1990, following his graduation from the Academy. He was assigned to the 30th Precinct in West Harlem, one of the busiest precincts in the department at the time. From 1996 to 1999, Tom served in the Bronx Narcotics Unit, where he was involved in multiple large-scale narcotics operat…
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Episode 216: The Suffering of a Cop's Parent with Barbara and Drew Oldrati
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1:12:21Send us a text Corporal Salvatore Oldrati from Mantua Township Police Department, Gloucester County, New Jersey, who has fully dedicated his life to protecting and serving the residents of his community. During the early morning hours of September 14, 2021, Mantua Township Police arrived first on the scene and were confronted with a man armed with …
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Episode 215: The Suffering of Peer Support with Nick Ricciotti
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1:05:44Send us a text Nick Ricciotti is a former law enforcement officer and served in the state of NJ for 6 years. After losing his job to substance abuse, he became an advocate for mental health and substance abuse awareness within the first responder community. Nick holds a masters degree in mental health and is a Licensed Associate Counselor (LAC). He…
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Episode 214: The Suffering of More Fun with Mike Depalma and Tom Flynn
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1:08:08Send us a text As we travel along this journey to find stories of strength and resilience, it’s easy to get caught up in the sad sadness. Every once in a while, we need to bring ourselves back and show that life is beautiful and full of joy. There are no better people on the planet that exemplify the meaning of friendship then Mike DePalma, and Tom…
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Episode 213: The Suffering of Season 4 with Tom Flynn and Kevin Donaldson
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1:21:02Send us a text It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair. In this opening line from the classic Charles Di…
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Episode 212: The Suffering of Resilience with David Berez
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1:17:42Send us a text David Berez is a retired Police Officer and Drug Recognition Expert, having served more than 20 years with the East Windsor Police Department and a total of 33 years in Emergency Services, including EMS and OEM. Following his retirement, Mr. Berez is now the President and Founder of Six4 Consultants, a Public Safety Consulting Firm. …
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Episode 211: The Suffering of Injuries with Shane Crudele and Patrick Donaldson
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1:08:55Send us a text Shane Crudele is a student athlete at North Arlington HS in lower Bergen County. He is a sophomore varsity QB1 and he also plays Safety! He also is a varsity boys volleyball player as a freshman and will entering his sophomore year in volleyball this spring. Shane maintains a high grade point average and is very academic. Shane has b…
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Episode 210: The Suffering of Being Shot with Steve Byrne
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1:30:51Send us a text Corporal Detective Steven Byrne, shield 271, of the City of Chester (PA) Police Department has endured a 22+ year career in law enforcement. Cpl. Byrne comes from Ridley Park, a small borough within Delco, Delaware County PA, south of Philadelphia, where his father, Thomas J Byrne Sr retired as the Police Chief in 2012, and two broth…
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Episode 209: The Suffering of EMDR with Ana Pais
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1:07:50Send us a text Ana Pais is a dedicated and compassionate mental health professional who specializes in supporting first responders and their families. She earned her Master’s in Forensic Psychology in 2010 and went on to obtain a Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling in 2014. As a Board Certified Licensed Professional Counselor and a Certif…
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Episode 208: The Suffering of Ketamine with Dr. Joseph Affortunato and Dr. Jerome Balbin
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1:09:59Send us a text Ketamine is emerging as one of the new break through medical treatments for a variety of ailment from Depression and Anxiety to Post Traumatic Stress. On this episode we feature two board certified doctors who administer these treatment and are here to bear witness to the benefits. Dr. Joseph Affortunato: Joseph Affortunato, DO, is a…
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Episode 207: The Suffering of Parental Alienation with Jeff Golden and Dave Fischer
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1:12:25Send us a text Dave Fischer and Jeff Golden are committed to developing the minds of parents alienated from their children which happens all too often when divorce is the end result. Both men are members of FACE (Fathers' and Children's Equality). A membership organization that educates parents as to their parental rights and custody rights. FACE i…
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Episode 206: The Suffering of Discipline with Antony Autry
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1:18:04Send us a text Anthony is an individual driven by passion and discipline. His relationship with God comes first and foremost to everything. His wife is second future children would be third and then country. He’s a product of a single parent home however, father was involved attended sports games has always been there for him and currently is still…
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Episode 205: The Suffering of Corrections with Matt Patunas
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1:23:26Send us a text Matthew Patunas is a 53 years old retired corrections officer roaming the halls of Rahway State Prison. Matt grew up in the small town of Moonachie located in Bergen county NJ. Growing up in a middle-class family Matt’s father Gene was a union ironworker that owned his own company, while his mother Ann was a stay at home mom. Family …
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Episode 204: The Suffering of WWII with Walter Nolting
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44:55Send us a text MR. WALTER HENRY NOLTING, Mr. Nolting has a military career serving both the United States Army & Merchant Marines. He enlisted in 1942 he was only 17 years old. Walter was Honorably Discharged in 1946. Listed below are more details. Stationed: Fort Devons, MA & Utah, France Wars & Military operations & Deployments: WWII Utah France …
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Episode 203: The Suffering of a Frogman with John Collins Pt 2
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55:17Send us a text Part 2 John Collins is a Navy SEAL veteran. He was born and raised in Sykesville MD. The oldest of 3. Growing up, he played football, lacrosse and he was a wrestler. He graduated from Glenelg High School in 2003 and joined the Navy on October 31, 2006. He served for 12 years. He was in 6 BUD/S classes. He went through first phase 4 t…
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Episode 202: The Suffering of a Frogman with John Collins Pt 1
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1:04:04Send us a text Part 1 John Collins is a Navy SEAL veteran. He was born and raised in Sykesville MD. The oldest of 3. Growing up, he played football, lacrosse and he was a wrestler. He graduated from Glenelg High School in 2003 and joined the Navy on October 31, 2006. He served for 12 years. He was in 6 BUD/S classes. He went through first phase 4 t…
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Episode 201: The Suffering of Life On the Run with Ed Bullock
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1:11:09Send us a text Stuart Chirachella and Jason Antonette join in on this amazing episode. Edward Bullock was born and raised in Jersey City New Jersey, his family quickly moved to Bayonne for a better life, but tragedy struck when his mother was Murdered by a Bayonne Police officer. After suffering this emotional trauma Ed went to Virginia to live wit…
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Episode 200: The Suffering of Secrets with Kathy Dixon
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1:11:39Send us a text Kathryn Dixon is a second generation social worker who has experienced the positive impact of Social Work first hand. She was adopted as an infant by a foster care social worker and an accountant. Kathryn received her Bachelor's in social work with a minor In justice studies at the University of New Hampshire and afterwards she worke…
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Episode 199: The Suffering of Episode 9 With Mike Failace
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1:06:16Send us a text Take a step back in time and see where it all began for The Suffering Podcast. Episode 9 was the first time that Mike and Kevin appeared together in front of the microphone. Only on audio at the time, this animated and re-cut version of the original podcast airing on February 14th, 2021 is the beginnings of a partnership that lasted …
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Episode 198: The Suffering of Cults with Chasya
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1:19:55Send us a text Chasya was born the 4th out of 8 children. It would have been 13 children had her mother not have 5 miscarriages that spared an additional 5 innocent children being born to a cult-like life. Growing up Chasya right away didn’t fit in. There are no exceptions when born into the ultra religious sect. She was expected to follow her trad…
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Episode 197: The Suffering of Scars with D
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1:02:07Send us a text Dejah-Maia’s story is one of incredible resilience and inspiring transformation. Born in San Diego and raised in the vibrant neighborhoods of Spanish Harlem, New York, and Maplewood, New Jersey, Dejah-Maia now calls Maplewood her home. She is the second eldest of four siblings, each of whom shares a bond strengthened by their shared …
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Episode 196: The Suffering of A Journalist with Keith Sargeant
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1:09:19Send us a text From July 2014 through 2022, Keith covered Rutgers athletics for NJ Advance Media, the content company for NJ.com and The Star-Ledger. The dean of the Rutgers football beat, Keith covered thousands of games and big-picture topics surrounding the state university’s athletics program since 2000. Keith recently garnered two national awa…
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Episode 195: The Suffering of Transformations with Dr. JC Doornick
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1:09:40Send us a text Dr. JC Doornick “The Dragon” comes from a fascinating life and family history full of pioneers in the entertainment industry and professional athletes. Later in life becoming a servant to the people as a Doctor of Chiropractic and Cofounder of a worldwide Humanitarian relief organization serving the third world with health, education…
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Episode 194: The Suffering of Narcissism with Yvonne Elwood
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1:06:00Send us a text You can take the girl outta Texas, but you can’t take Texas outta the girl. Despite some hardships, the Texas grit has re-emerged in Yvonne, along with the fight and warrior spirit engrained into her from her hardworking and moral parents. Yvonne Rogers was born February 2, 1968 at Reese AFB, Texas, in Lubbock County. She is the youn…
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Episode 193: The Suffering of Retirement with Bobby Crudele
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1:13:55Send us a text One of the best Police Officers to ever take the oath of office in recent years has chosen to pull the plug and finally retire. On this Episode, Bobby Crudele comes in to talk about his career and next phase in life. His unique perspective on the Job and leaving it behind will bring laughs and introspection as we dive deep into his u…
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Episode 192: The Suffering of Operation K9 Beethoven With Brian Reyngoudt
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58:47Send us a text Brian Reyngoudt is the Vice President /Co-Founder of Operation K9 Beethoven. He was born and raised in Hasbrouck Heights, New Jersey. As the son of a 3 time purple heart Vietnam veteran it has been his purpose in his life to always to help our veteran’s and active members of our military. It has been such a great honor and experience…
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Episode 191: The Suffering of My Shooting with Mike DePalma and Tom Flynn
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1:08:56Send us a text On the date of this recording, July 10th 2013, Kevin’s life changed forever. On this episode, Mike Depalma and Tom Flynn are in the studio to reveal details that can only be replayed amongst good friend and confidants. Find Mike Depalma https://www.instagram.com/mdepalma20/ Find Tom Flynn https://www.instagram.com/thetomflynn/ Find T…
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Episode 190: The Suffering of CoVid With Stefanie Shellhamer
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1:06:15Send us a text Stefanie Shellhamer is a 32-year-old born and raised in New Jersey. She is a daughter, sister, aunt and friend. Stefanie is the daughter of retired police captain Peter Shellhamer, whom she adored very much. She has a unique understanding and perspective of law enforcement because of this relationship. Unfortunately, her father passe…
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Episode 189: The Suffering of A Navy Seal with Taylor Cavanaugh
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59:03Send us a text Taylor Cavanaugh went from jail, to Navy SEAL, back to jail, suicidal, to French Foreign Legionnaire. Learning to self-actualize his divine design via a correct system of life disciplines. Now he is on a mission to show others how to re-align their lives to experience peace and clarity by training the mind deliberately as well as the…
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Episode 188: The Suffering of Mike Failace with Bobby Crudele and Mike DePalma
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1:28:21Send us a text On May 9th, 2024, Mike Failace sadly took his own life. A man who impacted so many was put to rest and those that are left behind have to witness the fallout and the carnage by this permanent solution. Mike Depalma and Bobby Crudele have been life long friends of Mike Failace and we all sit down to talk about the good and the bad tha…
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