Sex and the Psyche is hosted by clinical sex therapists, Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz. Married with two children, Jenni and Daniel, take listeners behind the scenes on how they talk shop on a deeper level as they conceptualize the intersection of relationships, sex, and psychology. With over 16 years of helping couples and individuals enhance and optimize their sexual function, pleasure, and knowledge of human sexuality, Sex and the Psyche covers the issues that affect most everyone ...
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S3E11: The Male Low Sex Drive: Americas Biggest Sex Secret
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38:13Jenni and Daniel read 3 listener questions from women who have male partners with low sex drive. Learn what depletes the male drive, even when testosterone is healthy or high. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S3NeuroSexy Bonus: Resentment Only Hurts Yourself
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27:39Jenni and Daniel continue the conversation with colleague and friend, Michelle Miscione. They dive deeper into how resentment erodes relationships, and how laughter and personal responsibility are essential antidotes. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S3E10: NeuroSexy & the Art of Explicitness
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33:32Jenni and Daniel sit down with couples therapist colleague, Michelle Miscione, to discuss a case study on sexuality and neurodivergence. Michelle talks about "Eli and Marcus", who navigate ADHD and autism traits and how they successfully have made sex and intimacy work for them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…
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S3E9: Delayed Ejaculation Bonus: Jenni and Daniel Find Common Ground
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19:35Dr. Jenni and Daniel resolve their marital tension on this bonus episode that follows Delayed Ejaculation: Jenni vs Daniel. They explore differences in their styles of thinking, and differences in how they approach sex therapy. Listen as they find common ground- as a couple and as colleagues. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…
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S3E9: Delayed Ejaculation: Jenni VS Daniel
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34:44Dr. Jenni and Daniel explore delayed ejaculation, teasing out their different approaches to this topic. Listeners get to peek into real-time conversations between Jenni and Daniel, witnessing their marital conversations and disagreements around sex therapy. They define the Arousal Spectrum and why it's so important to work with this in your body to…
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S3E8: The New Rules of Dating: Let's Be picky Together
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25:42Dr. Jenni and Daniel chat with sexuality journalist, and Lifestyle editor for the New York Post, Fabiana Buontempo about her experiences in the dating world professionally and personally. The stakes are higher for men as women create autonomous and lucrative careers; while other women are taking a "pseudo"-celibacy approach to their dating game. Je…
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Listener Question from a 45 year old male in the dating scene asks about how to name his desires in the bedroom without it coming off as criticism. Daniel and Jenni discuss the difference between criticism and feedback; why he might be blocked, and how to feel permission and space to name what he wants. It's validating to pleasure your partner for …
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Dr. Jenni and Daniel talk with new mom, Suzie, and discuss the challenges in how to reclaim her sexual identity after postpartum with a toddler and a baby. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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Dr. Jenni and Daniel have a conversation with their guest Andy, who asks how to transition from being a silent sexual partner to creating a strong masculine presence in the bedroom. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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Guests, Rocky and Monica, discuss long-term marriage (35 years +) and navigating waning desire and grief/loss. Both guests have been married over 35 years, and struggle with being the sandwich generation and feeling very full taking care of their own children as well as elder parents. Jenni and Daniel discuss key aphrodisiacs for long-term relation…
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S3E1: Modern Pleasure Becomes Sex And The Psyche
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22:50Co-host Kim Kaplan transitions to Producer of the Year as Dr. Jenni and husband Daniel take off with season one of Sex and the Psyche. Daniel and Jenni are not just clinical sex therapists, they are married. They take listeners behind the scenes of sex and relationship therapy- diving deeper than just the mechanics of sex, but also exploring why we…
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Guest, Liz, mid 40s female, asks about how to navigate a desire discrepancy with her husband, so it feels fulfilling versus filling a quota. Dr. Jenni and Daniel explain asynchronous arousal; and offer tips on how lower desire partners could be invited with more space and intention; while Daniel offers insight into the higher desire partner's think…
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Today's guest, Kim Kaplan, Producer of SATP, asks her own listener question about what makes good sex. After after experiencing a surprising, spontaneous afternoon delight with her husband, Dr. Jenni and Daniel discuss the ingredients that make up good sex, how lingerie is so subjective, and XXX. Kim learns how her secret to success is not to take …
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Sex and the Psyche is hosted by clinical sex therapists, Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz. Married with two children, Jenni and Daniel, take listeners behind the scenes on how they talk shop on a deeper level as they conceptualize the intersection of relationships, sex, and psychology. With over 16 years of helping couples and individuals enhan…
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S2E22: EP 22: Daniel Lebowitz - Navigating ED and Other Sexual Issues
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30:15Kim and Dr. Jenni bring Jenni's sex therapist husband, Daniel back into the conversation to discuss the issues that most affect men. We learn more about his treatment methods and why it's so important for men to have a safe space to discuss these issues and how it benefits them and their relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inform…
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S2E21: EP21: Dr. Hollie Neujahr - Understanding Pelvic Floor Issues and How to Treat Them
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41:29Dr. Hollie Neujahr is the owner of N2 Physical Therapy, LLC and is a specialist in a number of different types of Physical Therapy, but works extensively with women and men on pelvic floor rehabilitation. Kim and Dr. Jenni learn more about her work, why it’s so important and how issues in the pelvic floor can really work against you in the bedroom.…
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S2E20: EP20: JulieSondraDecker- The Asexuality Convo
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43:18Julie Sondra Decker is the author of the book The Invisible Orientation, and is a strong advocate for the asexual community since 1998. In this episode, Dr. Jenni and Kim have an in depth and personal conversation about Asexuality, the myths, the truths, and some eye opening revelations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…
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S2E19: EP19: Dr. Craig Heacock - Psychiatric Meds and Sex
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43:00In this weeks episode, Dr. Jeni and Kim talk to Dr. Craig Heacock, an adolescent and adult psychiatrist and addiction specialist in Colorado who hosts the psychiatric storytelling podcast “Back from the Abyss.” (He is a co-therapist in the Phase 3 trial of MDMA-Assisted Psychotherapy for PTSD and has particular interest in the use of psychedelics t…
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S2E18: EP-18: Deb Rubin - Talking with Teen Girls about Sex
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46:35Dr. Jenni and Kim talk with Deb Rubin, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and founder of Mother Daughter Journey, a program that offers Mother Daughter workshops and parent coaching to help strengthen the mother daughter bond. She also hosts the Motherhood Uncut Podcast and is a delight to talk to. In this conversation we learn when and how to dive …
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S2E17: EP-17: Katelyn Scott - Empowering Body Image Through Boudoir Photography
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39:35Kim and Dr. Jenni sit down with Katelyn Scott, a professional photographer who focuses her lens on the art of Boudoir photography, but this isn't your typical Boudoir session! Her story is inspirational and dives into body image and how focusing the lens on herself helped her to become more empowered. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informa…
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S2E16: EP-16: A Conversation with Dr Jenni and her Sex Therapist Husband Daniel Lebowitz
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37:14In this episode, Kim puts Dr. Jenni and her sex therapist husband on the hot seat and finds out more about this intriguing couple and how they balance their sex therapy business with the everyday challenges of life and marriage, with questions ranging from what they talk about at the dinner table to how they rate their sex life and a lot more! See …
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S2E15: EP-15: Why Nice Guys Struggle Sexually - The Intersection of Masculinity and Sexuality
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40:29Ryan Michler is an author and founder of the Order of Man, which features a podcast and blog that provides a community for men to help them become better versions of themselves. Kim and Dr. Jenni have a very upfront conversation about why this movement is necessary, where do women fit in, and the approach he uses when it comes to relationships, sex…
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S2E1: Episode 13: Sex and Menopause with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus
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27:28Kim and Dr. Jenni have an informative and engaging discussion about sex and menopause with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, who is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author of the book "Satisfaction Guaranteed, How to Have the Sex You've Always Wanted" and served as the Clinical Director for twenty-years at one of the largest sexual health centers i…
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S2E2: Episode 14: Part two with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus - Sex and Hormones
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33:03Kim and Dr. Jenni continue their conversation with Dr. Bat Sheva about sex and hormones, and how hormones play an integral part in a healthy sex life. We also talk about how to use them, where to put them, and the differences between them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S1E13: Modern Pleasure Podcast_Season One Trailer
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3:17Modern Pleasure Podcast is an informative and intriguing podcast about sexual health, awareness and discovery that is presented in a thought provoking and entertaining conversation with sexual health experts and our host, Kim Kaplan, who is just as curious as you are. The discussion is real as it is tasteful, and encourages the listener to lean in …
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S1E12: Episode 12: More Orgasms - From the Elusive to the Multiples!
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58:54In our last episode of Season 1, Kim, Dr. Jenni and Savannah talk about orgasms! And why not! We learn about more than just the run of the mill orgasm, as Dr. Jenni fills us in on other parts of the body that also orgasm. Who knew?! Join us for a fun and enlightening convo as we close this season with a bang! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy…
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S1E11: Episode 11: Single Sex in a Culture of Instant Gratification
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57:33Kim and Dr. Jenni talk about navigating as a single in todays dating world of instant gratification and sexual relationships, and hear from one of our podcast listeners, Candy who shares her experiences. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S1E10: Episode 10: Low Stress Sex - The Role of Mutual Masturbation
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1:02:23Kim and Dr. Skyler's conversation focuses on "Lazy Sex" and why it works, how to get there, and how mutual masturbation can be really gratifying in a number of ways. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S1E9: Episode 9: LGBTQ Sex and Relationships
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1:06:24Kim and Dr. Jenni discuss sex and relationships within the LGBTQ community and have an important discussion with two Transgender women, Kayla and Khilynn about thier sexual experiences and the myths that surround the Transgender community when it comes to sexual relations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…
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S1E8: Episode 8: Sex & HIV and Other Chronic Illnesses - Co-Creating a New Normal
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1:02:27Our guest Shelley Stinson is the Director of Project Empowerment at UCSF Benioff Children's Hospital Oakland. An HIV Prevention program for black cisgender and transgender women designed to improve their emotional wellness and other issues related to living with HIV. This became a very enlightening discussion surrounding not only HIV, but other ill…
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S1E7: Episode 7: Sex and Relationships - Let's talk "Out of the Box"
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1:07:27Savannah joins Kim and Dr. Skyler in a very open discussion about the different types of sexual relationships, from serial monagamy to zoophilia and everything in-between! We definitely jump out of the box on this one!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.By Kim Kaplan Productions
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S1E6: Episode 6: Let's Define Kinky Sex- Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced Ways to Play
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55:01We dive into the definition of "Kinky" and discuss the pros and cons of BDSM (Bondage, Dominatrix, Sado Masochism) in this very informative and real discussion. Savannah also makes an appearance and reveals her own experiences as well as introduces us to some "kinky" products for the beginner to the advanced. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy…
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S1E5: Episode 5: Permission For Pleasure - Why and How Sexual Shame Develops
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1:01:46Leaning in to our sexuality can feel awkward, especially if you've developed feelings of sexual shame, or have suffered any type of sexual abuse, among many different reasons for not allowing yourself pleasure. In this episode we learn what it feels like to surrender to pleasure, and understand the different forms that pleasure can come in. Spoiler…
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S1E4: Episode 4: Mismatched Libidos - Why This Happens and How To Solve It
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1:05:19It's true that men have more testosterone than women, which is a simple answer to the mismatched libido question, however...there is more to this quandary than you think! In our conversation with Dr. Skyler, we learn more about elusive libidos and why it's important to take responsibility for our own arousal to feel empowering and sexy and how to r…
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S1E3: Episode 3: Madonna-Whore Complex - What Is It and Why Does This Happen?
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59:25The Madonna-Whore complex is a psychological term that describes the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship, and it’s more common than you think. In this episode we learn about why this happens, and take part in an exercise that Dr. Skyler uses to understand more about objectifying your partner in a positive wa…
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S1E2: Episode 2: Obligatory Sex: Why it Happens, and How Much Sex is "Normal"?
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50:01In this episode, we discuss the common occurrence of obligatory sex. Why it happens, why it shouldn’t happen, and why you don’t have to feel obligated to please your partner sexually. Understanding the negative narrative discussed in Episode 1, we learn how that impacts our sexual relationships and why it builds resentment among couples. We also di…
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S1E1: Episode 1: The Big Bad Narrative of Good Sex
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56:59What is “Good Sex”? How many times a week should you have sex? Society, Hollywood, and our own past experiences can influence bad narratives when it comes to sex. In this episode, Kim and Dr. Skyler discuss the many harmful narratives that can limit us to achieving our own personal sexual growth and discover how to turn the negative narrative into …
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