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Estate Planning Meets Family Law: Generational Wealth & Trusts
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38:14In this insightful discussion, Cameron, the Marketing and Business Development Manager at New Direction Family Law, and Elizabeth Stevenson, a partner at the firm, dive deep into the intricate intersection of estate planning and family law with Hampton Crumpler, an attorney at NC Planning. They explore the complexities of generational wealth, trust…
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Tips for Choosing the Right Divorce Attorney
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20:52In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Ashley Oldham of New Direction Family Law discuss the crucial process of selecting the right divorce attorney. They cover essential steps such as the importance of initial consultations, building a trust-based relationship, understanding retainer fees, and ensuring transparent communication. They also emphas…
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Military Divorces: Tips and Insights from Family Law Experts
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19:20Join Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act.…
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Protecting Your Business in Marriage with Matthew McGonagle
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17:28Join Sarah Hink and Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they chat with guest attorney Matt McGonagle about crucial aspects of business creation, estate planning, and protecting your business in the event of divorce or death. They discuss the importance of having proper legal agreements like operating agreements and shareholders' agreement…
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How to get a Domestic Violence Protective Order
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22:45In this episode, Sarah J. Hink and Ava K. Jennette from New Direction Family Law discuss the procedural steps involved in obtaining a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) in North Carolina. They offer advice on resources such as local domestic violence resource centers and highlight the essential details needed in the complaint form, including…
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Navigating Absolute Divorce in North Carolina - Absolutely
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17:06Join Sarah Hink and attorney Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they delve into the intricate process of filing for absolute divorce in North Carolina. Learn about the requirements such as the mandatory one year and one day physical separation, the importance of resolving property and alimony issues beforehand, and the nuances related to…
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Rings, Romance, and Real Talk... Prenups!
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21:22Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and Assets In this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal a…
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Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation
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23:29In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing…
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High-Conflict Divorce: The Role of Parenting Coordinators
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18:32In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to as…
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Navigating Taxes During Divorce: Expert Tips from Jason Deshayes
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32:54In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of trans…
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All I want for Christmas is... An Annulment?
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20:17Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on…
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Top 10 Things to Know When Going Through a Divorce
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28:39Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From…
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Courtroom Drama: How to Avoid Being a Hot Mess
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18:01Summary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with …
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Pride Month Special: Navigating Family Law for LGBTQ+ Couples
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16:17Summary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, …
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Episode Summary: In this episode, Sarah Hink, a seasoned family law attorney, explores a significant North Carolina Court of Appeals case that sheds light on custody disputes, particularly focusing on the implications of a parent's terminal illness and the subsequent legal maneuvers to ensure the well-being of the child involved. With Elizabeth Ste…
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The Art of Divorce Rituals: Breaking Bonds, Building Bridges
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26:35Episode Summary: In this episode of the New Direction Family Law podcast, hosts Sarah Hink and Jenn Bordeaux are joined by Elizabeth Barbour, a seasoned life and business coach with 24 years of experience, and the author of "Sacred Celebrations: Designing Rituals to Navigate Life's Big Transitions." Coming from Asheville, North Carolina, Elizabeth …
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Betting Against the House: When Gambling Threatens Marriage
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18:29Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, Sarah Hink, an experienced attorney and partner at New Direction Family Law, is joined by Jennifer Bordeaux in the absence of Elizabeth Stevenson. As North Carolina embraces March Madness, the duo dives into the recent legalization of online sports betting in the state, its implications for family dynami…
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Facebook Legal Advice Fails: The Not-So-Fine Print
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37:36Overview: This episode of "Exit Strategy" delves into the risks and misunderstandings surrounding seeking and giving legal advice on Facebook. Hosts Elizabeth A. Stephenson, a family law attorney, and Jennifer Bordeaux, specializing in marketing and beyond at New Direction Family Law, dissect real examples from social media, highlighting the misinf…
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Love, Marriage, and How Not to End Up in a True Crime Podcast with Amanda Lamb
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34:04Our Guest: Amanda Lamb is a veteran television crime reporter with more than three decades of experience and is also a podcast host and producer. She works for award-winning WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina. Amanda currently hosts and produces a weekday morning podcast called the WRAL Daily Download. She has also hosted and produced two true crim…
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New Year, New Me - How to prepare if you’re considering divorce in 2024
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35:20Hosts: Elizabeth Stephenson and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law. Topic: Preparing for and navigating separation and divorce. Key Discussions: The tendency for people to consider separation post-holidays. Consultations as a tool for preparation and planning, offering legal advice and a "toolbox" for navigating separation. Addressing fears…
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Breaking the Rules: What to do if Your Ex Isn't Following a Court Order or Separation Agreement.
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23:18The episode's topic is the serious implications of violating a court order, specifically in the context of family law. Violating Court Orders: Discuss common ways people violate court orders, including not following custody or child support orders. An explanation is that judges are not pleased with non-compliance and the importance of settling case…
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I Want Out: How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce
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32:44You don't want to start the beginning of the end conflicted. So when possible be kind. Discussion About Guests and Support: Mention guests who have supported people during a divorce. Emphasizing the need for support for those who have been through divorce. Introduction of Tracey Stracener with Simply Thrive Therapeutic Associates: Discussion about …
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From Tin Cup to Enforcing a Prenup: Our Take on Kevin Costner's Divorce
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17:42Introduction Elizabeth Stephenson and Sarah introduced themselves from New Direction, Family Law. They discuss their passion for trash-talking and telemetry. Main Topic: Rich People's Divorces The topic concerns divorces, specifically among the rich, covering issues like child support, custody, and property. More money is involved, but issues are s…
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Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part: The intersection of family law and estate planning featuring Adam Hopler
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35:33Guest: Adam Hopler, an Estate Attorney from the firm Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna PLLC. Adam shares about his personal background, including his experience of practicing law in Durham for 12 years and being a father to six kids. Discussion about the intersection of family law and estate planning: how divorce and separation can impact one's estate and the…
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How to Talk to Your Children about Divorce
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24:16Guest: LINDSEY OHLER, PSY.D. Introduction: Hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law invite Dr. Lindsay Ohler to discuss a critical topic - how to approach the conversation about separation and divorce with children. The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children: Dr. Ohler emphasizes the profound emotional effects of divo…
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In this episode of the New Direction Family Law Podcast, Elizabeth, Sarah, and guest Kerrie Droban discuss the pathology of the criminal mind and identify the traits of sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissists in the context of family law. They also provide strategies for victims to protect themselves and unmask their abusers during litigation. Eli…
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I Always Feel Like Somebody's Watching Me: Is Your Spouse Spying on You?
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18:31What do you do if you think someone is stalking you, digitally or in real life... Spying is a common issue in family law cases. People may spy on their spouses because they suspect infidelity or substance abuse. Hiring a private investigator or conducting your own investigation by looking through trash or tracking purchases can gather evidence. Spo…
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Divorce Lawyers at Your Service for Service Members
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16:57Sarah, a partner and attorney at New Direction Family Law, interviewed Ashley Oldham, another partner, and attorney at the same firm, about military divorces. Military divorces have unique challenges, such as deployments, custody during deployment, and division of military pensions and benefits. There are three bases for jurisdiction under federal …
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In this episode: What are some reasons that the court would say you can move or not move during a divorce? Domestic violence is a completely different circumstance. Some of the things the court considers is: will it benefit the child family crime statistics culture & art an opportunity to make a better living Many times a separation agreement will …
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In this episode: What is a prenup and why is it important Advantages and disadvantages of prenups When should a couple consider getting a prenup Common misunderstandings and myths about prenups What should couples consider when creating a prenup What are the legal requirements of a prenup How do you make sure that a prenup is legally binding What h…
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In this episode I've been separated for a week can I get on tinder? We just got married on a week ago, it was a mistake, can we get an annulment? I've been living in NC for a while now and I need to change my custody order, but it is from another state. How do I do it? I think my spouse is hiding income during the divorce, how do I find out? There …
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What's It Worth? Business valuations with David Amiss
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41:16In this episode David assists attorneys, business owners, and other professionals in determining the value of a company or interest. He focuses primarily on family law, gift and estate, and mergers and acquisitions. His clients enjoy working with him because of his years of experience and choice to pursue long-lasting, trusted relationships. David …
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Military Divorce with Attorney Ashley L. Oldham
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24:45In this episode We talk about the different aspects of divorce as it applies to military families. We discuss pensions and how the National Defense Authorization Act changed what a spouse winds up with a divorce. It gives spouses of service members a pension that ends on the day of divorce instead of the full percentage. If you are getting ready to…
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Legal Fees: Who, What, Why, When and How Much?
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33:38In this episode Why do you have to pay for an initial consultation. This is the reserved time for you to sit with your attorney to get a snapshot of what's going on and answer your questions, educate you of your legal rights and options, and help you develop your plan moving forward. You will be listened to and not "talked-at." Make sure you tell u…
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In this episode Let's take a relatively simple case where you have temporary custody and support hearing that is limited to two hours with two issues. It will likely take your attorneys four to six hours to prepare. We walk through some common outcomes for time spent in court in various situations. All the judge has to go on, often times is the cre…
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Adam Levine Sliding into DMs: Was it Illicit Sexual Behavior?
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15:11In this episode We discuss what is happening in celebrity news in the case of Adam Levine. Has he cheated in the eyes of the law? From Adam Levine "I used poor judgment in speaking with anyone other than my wife in any kind of flirtatious ma manner, I did not have an affair. Nevertheless, I crossed the line during a regrettable period in my life. I…
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In this episode The idea around parental alienation is that one parent is doing things to alienate their child from the other parent. It could be saying bad things about the other parent, not allowing communication, restricting access, etc. Richard Gardner was the first one to coin this term. Here are a couple of facts about him: He had no research…
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In this episode Meredith Pope is a realtor with Inhabit Real Estate. And Christina Jasper is a mortgage lender and the branch manager at Benchmark Mortgage. They both specialize in helping people going through divorce and separation work and helping people decide what they're gonna do with their house? Who's gonna keep it, and how are we gonna fina…
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Who's Speaking Up for the Kids? with Kelli McGonagle
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24:21In this episode Kelli declared at eight years old that she wanted to be an attorney. Her caring and compassionate nature, and her passion for advocating for children, led her to the practice of family law. Kelli seeks to help families through some of the most difficult times in their lives while keeping the best interest of the children and her cli…
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Domestic Abuse: Identifying, Getting Help and Providing Support (Part 2)
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17:12In this episode Tasha Sullivan, MSW – Senior Director of Domestic Violence Services talks about what InterAct is and how it can help people who find themselves in an abusive relationship. InterAct is the only provider of domestic violence and sexual assault services in Wake County, North Carolina - saving lives, rebuilding lives, and securing safer…
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Domestic Abuse: Identifying, Getting Help and Providing Support (Part 1)
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29:48In this episode Today's guest is Ryan Kelly, MSW, Associate Director of Victim Services from InterAct. Ryan shares about her role and InterAct and how she helps survivors of domestic abuse. Ryan shares about the ways domestic violence shows up in relationships, physical abuse is often only one piece of the problem. She breaks down the power and con…
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How to Effectively Communicate with a Hostile Ex
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27:54In this episode Lepage Associates is home to a highly experienced team of experts dedicated to helping you with your concerns. They recognize that when people seek a psychologist, therapy, or psychiatric services, they are experiencing a problem they would like solved. By the time you start to think about seeking a mental health service, you have l…
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Open Marriages: Define it and Notarize it.
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33:42In this episode We talk about the Will Smith and Chris Rock drama, and how Will's marriage is well known as a non-traditional or open marriage. We share about open marriage stories we've heard as lawyers. We are great at drafting contracts, if you'd like a non-traditional marriage agreement reach out to us. What percentage of marriages are open? Le…
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In this episode SAFEchild stands for Stop Abuse For Every Child and is a Wake County organization that offers a full range of child abuse prevention and intervention services to children and families at no cost. Cristin DeRonja, SAFEchild’s executive director since 2015, joined the organization in 2004 and has served many roles. She has worked with…
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In this episode Jamie comes back onto the show for a second time. Jamie is a private investigator that works for Blackman Detective Services. We talk about serving papers and how important it is to keep a case moving in the court system. We talk about the different levels of serving people that private detectives take, but that doesn't always work …
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Super Lawyer Answers to Frequently Asked Questions
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33:33In this episode, Elizabeth and Sarah provide answers to some of the most frequently asked questions regarding North Carolina divorce law. Some of these questions include: Do you really have to be separated a year to file for divorce? What if the other party will not leave your home? Do you have to have a separation agreement or court order to be le…
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Getting Under to Get Over: When to Start Dating Again
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26:09In This Episode: Infidelity relationships outside of the marriage account for almost 60% of separation and divorces. This episode airs the day after Valentine's Day 2022, so happy valentines day! How soon can you date: At least wait until you're separated, (legally, not just a verbal agreement) When you're separated in NC, you have to be separated …
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In This Episode: During the pandemic there has been an increase in domestic violence. We have to protect people in violent relationships. That's something we've observed just as family law enterprise. We also talk about coming out of the pandemic (we hope), and what we've learned just in our practice, people staying at home together. Did it make th…
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In This Episode: We talk about custody issues that come up during the holidays. What to do and what to avoid if you're dealing with a contentious or congenial custody dispute this holiday season. When thinking about your custody agreement this season it's important to think long term: think about what's important to you, what traditions you want to…
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In This Episode: There are all sorts of ways to handle custody agreements. In the best-case scenario, we would hopefully be able to resolve custody with some sort of parenting agreement or separation agreement. How do you enforce a contract? First of all, what do you need to have a contract? You need two reasonable people, even though they both hav…
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