Produced by the Provincetown Recoding Studio, Queer Times is the unapologetic, high-energy queer news podcast you didn’t know you needed. Hosted by butch comedy legend Kristen Becker and razor-sharp commentator Harrison Fish, this Provincetown-based show delivers a weekly breakdown of the latest in LGBTQ+ politics, pop culture, women’s sports, and whatever else we want—served with a side of chaos. From breaking news that impacts queer lives to deep dives into the absurdity of today’s culture ...
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Welcome to The Circle, an on-going conversation about men’s work, men's embodiment practices, and personal growth from the perspective of two queer men. Hosted by Eric Bomyea and men’s embodiment coach, Tim Bish, together, we investigate the purpose of men’s work, how queer men can participate, what value they might receive, and the unique value they add in the pursuit of growth for all. We also explore the challenges, dynamics, and transformative practices that empower men to show up authen ...
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Welcome to the Cape & Islands Podcast where we cover local people, their stories, important community topics, interesting visitors, some history and most importantly work to build a stronger community within Cape Cod, Martha's Vineyard and Nantucket collectively. This podcast will have multiple series and hosts over time. In addition to standard format interviews, one series I am excited about is the "Cozy Corner" where we'll have bands come into the Trove Art Gallery in Orleans and play liv ...
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Seeing Ourselves in Others: Gregory Ganymedes on The Power of Projection in Dreams and Life
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53:52Projection is a fundamental yet often unnoticed aspect of human experience. We see in others what we cannot yet recognize in ourselves, whether in moments of conflict, admiration, or even within the mysterious landscapes of our dreams. In this episode of The Circle, Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish welcome dream worker Gregory Ganymedes to go all in on…
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Harnessing the Fire Within: Transforming Anger into Empowerment
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56:48Anger is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion, especially among men. While society may encourage its suppression or view it negatively, anger, when acknowledged and channeled appropriately, can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and transformation. In this episode of The Circle, hosts Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish go all in on the comple…
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In this debut episode of Queer Times, hosts Harrison Fish and Kristen Becker introduce themselves, sharing their unique perspectives shaped by their diverse upbringings and experiences. From growing up in rural, conservative environments to finding refuge in Provincetown’s thriving queer community, they explore the intersection of queerness, politi…
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Emotional Alchemy with Alex Lehmann: Transforming the Pain of Otherness into Purpose
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59:41Many men grow up feeling othered—whether due to cultural differences, personal identity, or societal expectations. This sense of disconnection can shape their emotional landscape, leading to shame, isolation, and a struggle to express their true selves. But what if those experiences could be transformed into a source of clarity, strength, and purpo…
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Rediscovering Joy in Men's Work: Unlocking Personal Growth and Purpose Through the Embodiment of Joy
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53:27In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we go all in on the often-overlooked role of joy in men’s work and embodiment practices. While grief, anger, and fear frequently dominate men’s spaces, joy remains an underdeveloped muscle—one that, when cultivated, can become a profound source of purpose and connection. Eric and Tim unpack why many men strugg…
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Leading with Heart: Steve Azar on Community, Spirituality, and Transformation
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50:35In this episode, Tim and Eric sit down with real estate entrepreneur and environmental engineer Steve Azar to explore how leading with heart can shape not just businesses, but entire communities. From high-rise developments to Provincetown’s historic Gifford House, Steve’s work is deeply rooted in impact, intention, and connection. We discuss his j…
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Transforming Judgment: A Path to Growth in Men's Work
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59:36Judgment is a natural human response, but how often do we pause to examine its impact on our lives? In this episode, Eric and Tim go all in on the role of judgment in men's work, exploring how it can disrupt presence and hinder personal growth. They discuss the nuances of self-judgment and the fear of being judged by others, particularly within the…
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Steady Leadership: Julian Cyr on Calmness as a Form of Resistance
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58:27In a world that rewards quick reactions, what happens when we choose calmness as a form of resistance? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Massachusetts State Senator Julian Cyr to explore how steadiness, patience, and emotional regulation shape leadership, activism, and personal growth. Senator Cyr shares his journey from growi…
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Embracing Discomfort: Transforming Limiting Beliefs Through Patience and Discipline
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1:03:09In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we explore the discomfort that comes with breaking free from limiting beliefs and stepping into a more empowered way of being. Transformation isn’t instant—it requires patience, discipline, and a willingness to sit with discomfort rather than avoid it. Eric and Tim unpack why growth often feels unsettling and …
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Healing the Wounded Boy: How Men's Work Helps Us Step Into Maturity with Soma Miller
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54:31In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Soma Miller, founder of The Essential Man, to explore how unresolved wounds shape our lives and how men’s work, brotherhood, and embodiment practices help us step into maturity, integrity, and purpose. Soma shares his personal journey into men’s work, influenced by mentors like Francis Weller …
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Building A Better Future & Helping Those in Need with Aleks Mazzeo
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41:59In this episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Aleks Mazzeo of Mazzeo Construction about the charitable construction they're doing for homeowners in need. We also discuss their future plans to start a construction non-profit called "April's Angels" to help with the housing crisis on Cape Cod. Aleks is genuinely building towards a stronger com…
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From Obligation to Choice: Reframing Shoulds & Embracing Intentionality in Men's Work
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56:49In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how men can shift from living in a world of “shoulds” and obligations to consciously choosing their actions with clarity and intention. Drawing from men’s embodiment practices, Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication, and mindfulness techniques, they unpack the subtle but powerful difference…
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Reclaiming Fitness: Queer Strength, Body Image, and Self-Love | GBTQ+ Wellness with Matt Boyles
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1:05:24How do queer men reclaim fitness as a space of empowerment rather than exclusion? In this episode of The Circle, we sit down with Matt Boyles, founder of Fitter Confident You, a fitness platform designed specifically for gay, bi, and trans men. Together, we explore the intersection of body image, societal expectations, and movement—unpacking the hy…
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Writing Children's Books with G. Pa Rhymes
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1:09:14In this episode I have the pleasure of speaking with children's book author Gary Wakstein aka G. Pa Rhymes, the Rappin' and Rhymin' Grandpa! G. Pa discovered his true passion of writing children's books later on in life and wanted to make sure his books not only captivated kids but had a deeper message to instill values of friendship, honesty, brav…
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Expanding Capacity: Building Real Strength to Move from Burnout to Balance
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51:56In this episode of The Circle, the Podcast for Queer Men's Embodiment, we take a deep dive into the strong man archetype—the societal expectation that men must always have the answers, never ask for help, and handle everything alone. These pressures often lead to overwhelm, isolation, and burnout, especially for queer men navigating mental, emotion…
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Embodying Polarity: Mackenzie on Masculine & Feminine Energies Through Drag
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50:18In this episode of The Circle, Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea are joined by Mackenzie, a drag entertainer, philanthropist, and artist. Mackenzie shares their journey of navigating the balance between masculine and feminine energies, using drag as a powerful tool for self-expression and transformation. Together, they explore breaking societal norms, n…
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The Complexity of Gratitude: Moving Beyond Obligations and Performative Thank Yous
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55:59In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric go all in on the emotional complexities of gratitude, exploring how to move beyond performative expressions and embrace authentic gratitude. Through personal stories and reflections, they unpack the challenges men face in connecting with genuine feelings of gratitude—particularly when societal expectation…
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Queer Confidence in Healthcare: Advocating for Authenticity and Empowerment
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1:11:02In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim welcome Jeffrey Schaffer, a nurse and LGBTQ+ program manager, to explore how queer men can approach healthcare with confidence and authenticity. They dive into how men’s work provides tools to navigate medical spaces, unpack stigma, and advocate for oneself with courage and clarity. Discover practical adv…
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Authentic Power: Moving Beyond the ‘Strong Man’ Archetype in Men’s Work
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56:57In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric break down the difference between fear-based, control-driven power and a more authentic, heart-centered approach to strength. They challenge the “strong man” stereotype—where force and dominance prevail—and introduce men’s work principles that help men tap into self-awareness, conscious choice-making, and…
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From Superheroes to Real-World Heroes: Phil Jimenez on Men’s Work and Authentic Heroism
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1:02:08In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we dive into the world of superheroes with special guest Phil Jimenez, renowned comic book artist and writer. Together, we explore how the traits that define our favorite heroes—presence, authenticity, vulnerability, and courage—are also the “superpowers” everyday men can cultivate through men’s work. Phil sha…
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Structured vs. Unstructured: Balancing Masculine and Feminine Practices in Men’s Work
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59:36In this episode of The Circle, we explore two core approaches in men’s work: masculine embodiment (clear, structured, linear steps) versus feminine embodiment (open-ended, unstructured, fluid exploration) and discover how each can expand your personal growth. Join us as we explore why perfectionism often emerges in structured, linear practices and …
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Beyond Doing - Exploring Identity Outside of Roles and Accomplishments
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53:32In this episode of The Circle, we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic i…
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Detoxing Limiting Beliefs and the Narrative of Unworthiness and Shame
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50:19In this episode of The Circle, we tackle the transformative process of letting go of harmful narratives and limiting beliefs that hold us back. Drawing inspiration from a recent embodiment circle, we reflect on common struggles men face—feeling unloved, undeserving of love, or carrying shame, particularly as queer men. What You’ll Learn: * How to i…
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Meeting Your Edge: How Men’s Work Helps You Push Through
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47:03Men’s Work often asks us to meet our edge—the point where we encounter discomfort and resistance. In this episode, we discuss what it means for men to confront their edges and how Men’s Work can help them push through to new levels of personal growth. We share practices for navigating these moments and embracing the transformation that happens on t…
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In this special episode, hosts Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea take you behind the mic to share their stories, their connection to men’s work, and why they’re passionate about creating a space for queer men to explore personal growth, embodiment, and spirituality. Discover how Tim’s journey as a professional dancer and acupuncturist intertwined with h…
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Men’s Retreat Recap: Showing Up Powerfully as a Queer Man
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58:52Join us as we recap our recent men’s embodiment retreat. Tim has attended eight retreats, while this was Eric’s first. We discuss the power of showing up in these spaces, especially as a queer man, and the challenges and opportunities it presents. We cover what happens at a men’s retreat, the growth that unfolds, and how queer men can show up authe…
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Holding Space, Creating Space, and Sacred Drala
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45:56Holding space is one of the most powerful gifts men can offer to others. In this episode, we explore the art of holding space, creating space for self and others, and the concept of sacred drala—a spiritual awareness that enhances presence and intention. We dive into how men can develop these skills to foster deeper connections and create environme…
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Intuition and Inner Knowing in Men’s Work
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54:12What role does intuition play in Men’s Work? This episode explores how intuition goes beyond instinct or perception, becoming a key tool in decision-making and personal growth. We discuss how men can develop and trust their intuition, avoid over-analysis, and align with their deeper truths. Through embodiment and mindfulness practices, we explore h…
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Presence in Men’s Work: Grounding and Awareness
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50:27Presence is key to Men’s Work, offering men the ability to ground themselves and develop a heightened awareness of their emotions and actions. In this episode, we discuss what it means to be fully present and the importance of embodiment practices in helping men become more aligned with themselves. Tim shares his experiences leading men’s circles a…
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Mental Health and Men’s Work – A Conversation with Colin Stack-Troost
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53:23In this special episode, we sit down with Colin Stack-Troost, a queer psychotherapist, to explore the unique mental health challenges that men face, especially queer men. We discuss why men’s work and embodiment practices can be transformative tools for all men to heal, grow, and find connection. Colin brings his expertise to highlight how men’s sh…
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Purpose, Intention, Integrity, and Devotion in Men’s Work
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52:01In this episode, we investigate the core needs of men, particularly the search for purpose and how Men’s Work can align men with their intentions and values. We explore how living with integrity and devotion allows men to lead with love, authenticity, and impact, focusing on collective well-being rather than personal gain.…
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Masculine and Feminine Energies: Finding Balance Beyond Gender
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50:20In this episode, we revisit the dynamic interplay between masculine and feminine energies. We explore how these energies manifest in daily life, beyond the confines of gender and sex, and how men—especially queer men—can harness them for deeper self-expression and personal growth. We also discuss Yin and Yang, Alpha and Omega, and how to find balan…
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Local Creators of the QuadShot Podcast Ronan & Aiden on their Mission
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1:02:38In this episode I speak with local creators Ronan Chisholm and Aiden Salzano about their new podcast titled The QuadShot Podcast. Ronan and Aiden are long time friends that grew up playing soccer against each other and have built a strong, long-lasting relationship that includes a love of surfing, sports and so much more. Throughout the episode we …
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Introduction to Men’s Work and Queer Embodiment
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38:06In this debut episode, we explore the foundations of Men’s Work and embodiment practices, with a focus on how these tools uniquely benefit queer men. We discuss the Provincetown Men’s Embodiment Circle, the purpose of this podcast, and our personal journeys. Topics include the integration of masculine and feminine energies, challenging societal nor…
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Adopt-a-Family for the Holidays with Hadley Luddy & Joan Morgan
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38:44In this episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Hadley luddy and Joan Morgan about their collaboration to support the Homeless Prevention Council's Adopt-a-Family for the Holidays Program. Learn more by going to the HPC website hpccapecod.org. Hadley is the CEO of HPC and Joan is the Co-Chair of the Orleans Pickleball Adopt-a-Family Event & Fu…
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Beyond the Bounds & Celebrate Our Waters with Naomi Steckman
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50:40In this episode I speak with the very talented Naomi Steckman; the Artistic Director, Cellist & Founder of the non-profit Beyond the Bounds which she Co-Founded with Dancer & Choreographer Diana Steinberg in 2020. Beyond the Bounds focuses on building a strong coastal community by utilizing dance parties, beach cleanups, educational programming on …
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Illustrious Photojournalist Rowland Scherman on his Landmark Career with Special Guest Judge Jones
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50:51In this episode landmark photojournalist Rowland Scherman graces the podcast with his presence along with his close friend Michael "Judge" Jones. I couldn't be more appreciative and honored that Rowland spent the time for this interview, it was a true pleasure, thank you Judge Jones for facilitating this special occasion. Rowland's illustrious care…
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Kevin "Foggy" Foley on his Lived Cape Cod History; Surfing, Sailing, Art, Theater & More
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2:47:05In this interview I have the privilege of speaking with local legend Foggy, otherwise known as Kevin Foley. In this episode we dive deep into Foggy's lived history on Cape Cod as well as his extensive knowledge of general local history. From helping to open the historic Jasper's Surf Shop to saving & owning the famous schooner Hindu, to digging the…
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Estate Planning, Power of Attorney, Health Care Proxy & More with Patti Novak
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1:13:13In this episode I speak with Patricia (Patti) Novak, an accomplished lawyer who focuses on Estate Planning in all capacities. Patti is a long time friend & supporter of my shop Trove, where we've had many conversations over the years which have ultimately led to this podcast happening. Patti has worked for Falco & Associates P.C. out of Quincy Mass…
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Artist & Creator Rob Nitsch on Exploring Generative A.I. Art (and Much More)
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1:59:47In this episode I speak with my friend and accomplished artist & creator Rob Nitsch. As a professional photographer, cinematographer, designer and visual effects artist Rob has accomplished great things in his career. In the past few years Rob has dug deep into generative Artificial Intelligence, more specifically MidJourney; you may be surprised b…
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The Joy of Painting with Taylor Fox
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1:11:13In this episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Taylor Fox, one of my favorite Cape Cod painters. Taylor has 4 main styles that he focuses on; portrait, landscape, still life and my personal favorite, narrative. Taylor has been painting at figure sessions at the Schulenberg studio for the past 15 years. You can catch Taylor's artwork in Adorn …
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Love Live Local: All About the 501(c)(3) Non-Profit with Co-Founder Amanda Converse
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1:16:40In this episode I speak with Amanda Converse, Co-Founder of the Love Live Local 501(c)(3) Non-Profit that has committed to supporting local businesses on Cape Cod. "We are a nonprofit organization dedicated to strengthening Cape Cod's local economy by promoting the importance of supporting small businesses and fostering a thriving community." Read …
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Housing, Stretch Code & Energy Efficiency with Constance Kremer, Hakim Janah & David Abel
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1:32:47In this episode we speak about the Massachusetts stretch building code as well as energy efficiency, fossil fuel dependence, housing capacity & struggles on Cape Cod and more with Constance Kremer, Hakim Janah and David Abel. David joins us about half way through the interview. This fall at the Orleans town meeting, the expansion of the stretch cod…
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Homeless for the Holidays Charity Drive with the Orleans Fire Department
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40:06In this episode I speak with firefighters Gabby Parker and Ian Mack of the Orleans Fire Department about their charitable efforts surrounding the 2023 Homeless for the Holidays drive from December 6th through December 10th in Orleans. They and their firefighting colleagues will be camping out for 103 hours straight to gather donations for this driv…
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Shannon Davis & Molly Parmenter Album Release Celebration!
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1:13:57In this episode I have the pleasure of speaking with two extremely talented musicians; Shannon Davis and Molly Parmenter, both Cape Cod natives. We discuss their recent new album releases and their upcoming album release celebration on December 7th at 7pm at Cape Cinema, link to purchase your ticket below! We also chat about their evolution as musi…
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Michael "Judge" Jones on Artificial Intelligence & Copyright Implications
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1:27:06In this episode we hear from Michael "Judge" Jones about the topic of Artificial Intelligence and the implications on US Copyright Law. Michael is an accomplished US Circuit and Trial Judge with his Law Degree from Miami as well as a Law and Museum Studies Masters from Harvard, an MBA from the Warton School, Finance degree from UPenn and many more …
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Solgyres joins us for Cozy Corner #2 and brings their roots reggae, ska, dub, latin, jazz and rock fusion vibes to the studio! With such a wide array of skills and influences Solgyres provides a completely unique sound. Founded by siblings Skyelyn (keys/vocals) and Scott Bernier (bass/vocals) in 2020, the group has added key artists throughout thei…
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Grace Emmet on Foraging, Beech Leaf Disease, Eco Art & PAAM Youth Programs
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1:09:55In today's interview I speak with the extremely talented Grace Emmet. We discuss her foraging techniques, her efforts related to Beech Leaf Disease, her Eco Artwork and background in commercial design, her work at Provincetown Art Association and Museum (PAAM) as well as their classes, her Naturalist Certification with Mass Audubon and so much more…
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Laura Kelley on Preserving Our Waters & Pesticide Reduction
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1:28:4311th Generation Cape Codder Laura Kelly founded Protect our Cape Cod Aquifer (POCCA) www.poccacapecod.com in 2013, showing her commitment to the local environment she cares so much about. Laura is a highly influential environmental activist who has dedicated her life to sustainable living and collaboration with stakeholders to improve our environme…
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Multi-Platinum Songwriter Sam Hollander on Writing 22 Top 40 Hits
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1:23:33Sam Hollander is one of the most important songwriters of our time, so I wanted to give you all a chance to meet him. Sam comes to Cape Cod often and last summer recorded his audio book "21 Hit Wonder: Flopping my way to the Top of the Charts" in my Orleans studio Checkpoint East. Go listen to the audio book, it is quite a story! Sam has written fo…
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