In the final episode of 2024, Raeann and Kristina share personal experiences about uncomfortable situations with friends and the societal obsession with being thin. The conversation shifts to their travel plans for 2025, including trips to Japan, Puerto Rico, Greece, and potentially Disney and The Cayman Islands. They also share highlights from 202…

In this festive episode, Raeann recaps her restorative Canyon Ranch trip—three days of much-needed wellness despite the rec center aesthetic. Kristina shares that her dog Dué is heading into surgery to give them a little more time together. The girls also chat about the Matilda Djerf workplace controversy and the mysterious drones flying over New J…

This episode is all about the struggle of saying NO and how to break free from people-pleasing habits. Raeann and Kristina chat about the balance between honoring your commitments vs saying no with conviction. Kristina shares her progress in setting family boundaries, while Raeann reflects on the regret of skipping her family’s safari trip. Saying …

Today, Raeann and Kristina are chatting all things pop culture—from Wicked’s whimsical set and goosebump-worthy music to Vanderpump Rules’ fresh new cast and Lala’s Photoshop fail. They fan-girl over Ilona and Alan for single-handedly reviving Dancing with the Stars and applaud Steve for his undeniable star power. Meanwhile, Jacob Elordi’s beard de…

Before this week’s Ask Away kicks off, Raeann shares her sister’s Breckenridge house chaos and Kristina agrees that homeownership isn’t all sunshine and roses. They also get into the Christmas spirit by sharing Christmas highlights from childhood gifts to nostalgic movies. In today’s Ask Away, the girls dig into relatable struggles, from ending the…

Today, the girls are chatting all things Thanksgiving—from Friendsgiving highlights to niche family recipes. Raeann explains the lore behind her family’s infamous Watergate marshmallow salad while Kristina’s family keeps to their Greek roots. They also recap their best-ever Friendsgiving with fellow Confidants. It was a safe, judgement-free space w…

This week, Raeann and Kristina get real about body confidence, reflecting on the pressures of “thin is in” culture and how it affects their mindset. Both girls have faced a tough year with their body confidence—Raeann’s ups and downs of feeling hot vs hating her body and Kristina’s struggle with clothes that don’t fit and the suburban skinny bubble…

Today, we welcome on Brittany Ball, a social media personality, who shares her journey of motherhood, self-discovery and dating. From life in Hawaii with her ex-husband to starting fresh in NYC as a single mom, Brittany turned her challenges into a journey of self-discovery, creating a beautiful life for herself and her son. She talks about her pea…

Kristina’s tackling hair struggles, from finding the right cut to using a silk bonnet, while Raeann talks about doing a strict wellness retreat this winter to focus on her health. Plus, we talk about motherhood and our latest obsessions—Kristina’s encouragement to strike up a conversation with new people and Raeann’s Spanish lessons with Gabe. In t…

Today, we sit down with Kerry O’Brien, a powerhouse in real estate who pivoted her career in her 40s and quickly became a billion-dollar seller in Monmouth County. Karrie shares her advice on how to go after what you want in life, from doing things out of your comfort zone to going the extra mile to embracing the hard moments. It’s never too late t…

This week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year’s show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotl…

Kristina took a peaceful but semi-chaotic bike ride to the podcast studio today. Raeann chats about her wholesome weekend with her parents and how her dad will strike up a conversation with literally anyone. Kristina also shares her perspective on school uniforms and how parents put pressure on themselves just to impress other parents. They also ta…

Today’s episode is all about the art of delusional confidence, but first, Raeann chats about her birthday plans for Gabe’s 29th and Kristina tells us about her upcoming suburban block party. Plus, they share everything that’s on their fall wishlists—think apple picking, chunky sweaters, and fall re-runs like Practical Magic and Gilmore Girls. Now, …

Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first, the girls fill us in on their trip to sunny Los Angeles. Kristina and Raeann chat about their live show in LA with Naturalizer, where they interviewed Deepika Mutyala, Founder of Live Tinted, and celebrated the launch of Naturalizer’s most inclusive boot line yet. They also try to decipher the question of,…

In this *Live* episode from Los Angeles, Raeann and Kristina, along with special guest Deepica Mutyala, engage in a lively conversation about confidence, inclusivity, and fashion. Deepica shares her journey in the beauty industry, challenges of representation, and the success of her brand Live Tinted. They discuss confidence in dating, career hurdl…

Today, we’re joined by Payton Sartain, content creator and podcast host of Note to Self. We chat relationships, city vs. country living, and how to navigate life transitions. Payton talks about her frequent moves—from the Midwest to Fashion Week in NYC to preparing for her next chapter in South Florida. As someone who thrives on new beginnings, she…

In this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann’s dopamine…

In this *LIVE* episode of TCC, Raeann and Kristina sit down with the iconic Lauren Chan. Together, they dive into the world of fashion, body confidence, and how to authentically show up as yourself. Lauren shares empowering insights on choosing outfits based on how they make you feel, not just how they look. Plus, they discuss fashion inclusivity, …

We're back, Confidants! Raeann and Kristina are back from their summer break, settling into their new sunroom studio! They dive into the joys and challenges of suburban life and how they’re striking the perfect balance between that and their city roots. Rae shares her summer adventures, from horseback riding to hiking in Colorado, while Kristina re…

In the final rewind episode of the summer, we turn back the clock to one of our personal favorites! Remember when Rae dropped the big "what are we" question? And Kristina rocking the neighborhood mom scene. We're also spilling tea about the craziest things we've ever done in relationships (hint: it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗). We ch…

In today's throwback episode, we got some great tips to help you embrace your "Main Character Energy" all year round. Plus Kristina shares an epic story involving a magical Tesla, a lost purse, and a white fig tree that led her to realize her current house was meant to be. We also dive into the Beckham documentary and discuss why it’s so captivatin…

Even the most confident among us can be deeply hurt by fat shaming. Intentional or not, overt or covert, no one wants to experience it. After a recent conversation with our friend Rosie about her distressing encounter with fat shaming on a plane, we found ourselves asking: Why does this still happen? Why is "fat" used as an insult? And why do some …

Today we're revisiting an enlightening episode featuring Kiana Reeves, a leading voice in sexual wellness and Chief Content Officer at Foria, as part of our summer rewind series. Kiana shares her expertise on how to enhance your connection with your body and experience more pleasure in your sex life. Join us as we explore the holistic approach to s…

Welcome back to another summer rewind episode of the Confident Collective! Join us as we revisit a fan-favorite conversation with Ashley and Taryne, our fabulous co-hosts from the Unsolicited Advice podcast. Together, we dive into a variety of intriguing topics, from navigating the complexities of the dating scene to confidently setting boundaries …

Dusting off a gem from the vault! Join us as we revisit a classic episode packed with all the vibes. Raeann reflects on five years of singlehood, embracing every moment along the way. Meanwhile, Kristina, amidst the NYC hustle, dreams of sandy Malibu shores, contemplating a sunny return to LA. We also dive into Kristina's obsession with Vanderpump …

In this revisited episode, we boldly explore the audacious comments men have thrown our way. From ridiculous remarks about our looks and mannerisms to downright bizarre statements, we recount personal anecdotes that showcase just how surreal these interactions can be. Additionally, we revisit some of the most jaw-dropping stories shared by our TCC …

Join us as we revisit an insightful conversation with Kristina, Raeann, and special guest Rosie, exploring Raeann’s evolving views on casual sex. We delve into Raeann’s reflections from her ‘hoe phase,’ where she embraced casual encounters without regrets, to her subsequent ‘celibate era.’ Discover how Raeann navigated dating during her 'siren summ…

We had the best time at our 2nd Annual Confident Collective Pool Party this past Saturday in Los Angeles!! The sun was shining, the outfits were slaying (shoutout DSW), the girls were hyping each other up, and everyone was just living their best lives while feeling confident in their own skin! We were so happy with how everything turned out, from t…

On today’s Ask Away, we’re delivering candid advice to your burning questions! To the person that asks why every photo they take of themselves looks bad, we remind you that everyone posts their best angles online and that even lighting can make or break a photo. Have a crush on a coworker? Go for it girl, flirt your little heart out!! We also addre…

Today we welcome special guest Katie Austin, a multifaceted fitness personality, recipe developer, Sports Illustrated model, and app creator. Known for her attainable and balanced approach to health and wellness, Katie gives insightful advice from how to change your mindset around nutrition to creating a simple morning routine. She shares how growi…

Today’s solo episode is so summer-coded, but first, let’s catch each other up! Kristina shares how she used to romanticize traveling, but when the kids stay at home, the fear sets in. Also teeming with anxiety, Raeann talks about the chaos of moving in New York. And of course, our weekly obsessions — Kristina chats about The Valley, while Raeann do…

Today, we welcome on Anna Kai of @maybeboth — content creator and the friend you call if you need life advice. From the outside looking in, Anna seems to have it all figured out, yet she shares her story through the uncertainties of life beyond the highlight reel. We chat about how life isn’t one perfect timeline or plan, and we aren’t meant to hav…

Today’s Ask Away episode is full of juicy drama, but first, get excited confidants!! On June 29th, we’re throwing a Confident Collective Pool Party in Los Angeles! It was one of our highlights from last year and tickets sold out so fast so make sure to set a reminder to buy them this weekend. As we recap our week, Raeann shares the details of her f…

We’re thrilled to welcome Talia Hubble, founder of linens brand Maude & May, content creator, and queen of girly pop aesthetic. Talia shares her secrets to mastering the art of dinner parties and gives us a step-by-step guide on how to host a stunning summer soirée without all the stress, from choosing a theme to crafting the perfect menu (whether …

In today’s solo episode, we are chatting about embracing the cringe and not letting people’s opinions get in the way! Raeann posted about her butt acne issues and her community came through with helpful advice, the girlies understand. Especially helpful as we’re in our sporty girl era, Kristina is excited about joining a beach volleyball team and R…

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Kaitlin Reagan, a content creator whose journey through love, loss, and self-discovery has inspired many. Kaitlin and her boyfriend of 9 years, Francesco, began to share their love story on TikTok during the monotonous days of the pandemic and quickly grew a loyal following. She reflects on their beautiful …

Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first a little life recap! Raeann may have came back from her Mexico vacation paler than when she got there, but her relationship with Gabe has grown stronger. Raeann and Kristina share how they feel like they are glowing down, but apparently it’s a normal feeling in your early 30s so love that for us. Speaking o…

Today we sit down with Chelsea Blackwell to unveil what really went down during her time on Love is Blind, the Megan Fox debacle, and her dating life post Jimmy. Chelsea thought she didn’t say or do anything too crazy on the show that would bring unwanted attention, but little did she know that she would soon be roasted by America for saying Megan …

In today’s solo episode, we talk about growing up as the bigger friend and the universal experiences we went through as a result. But before we dive in, we have to fill you in on a few things. Big steps were taken as Gabe met Raeann’s parents for the first time! There might have been a little chaotic family energy but we realized every family has a…

We are thrilled to sit down with the inspiring plus-size content creator, Emma Arletta. She is the face behind the ‘Big Girls’ movement, is a prominent voice in the body confidence community, and is known to give great advice about dating as a plus-size woman. Emma delves into the dynamics of growing up with a thin mom and how her journey for self-…

Well, first things first. Raeann is filling us in on her and her boyfriend and expressing how she can be her weird self around him (*insert Olive Garden metaphor here*). Kristina chats about her stunning New Jersey home and how it got chosen for an insane remodel opportunity via an interior design magazine. Get the inside scoop, a full home tour, a…

Today we sit down with Lauren Chan, supermodel, Sports Illustrated rookie, and plus-size fashion designer (yes, she really does it all). Lauren is a prominent voice in the body-positive and self-love community and is truly redefining beauty standards across every avenue she ventures into. In our conversation, Lauren opens up about her trauma-driven…

In this solo episode, we’re talking all about the craze behind Ozempic and of course, catching up with our girls. Kristina spills the tea about her bougie Aspen brand trip, meanwhile, Raeann had a much-needed low-key week. Kristina and Raeann chat about how drastically different their lives are now as Kristina talks about how special her first moth…

In this solo episode, we are chatting about spring trends and giving our honest opinions as true fashion connoisseurs. But before we get into it, Kristina and Raeann catch us up on what’s new. Kristina and Raeann unveil that they are both thriving in their fitness era — Kristina even signed up for a triathlon!! Raeann confesses her love for buffalo…

We’ve all binged or heard about @ReesaTeesa and her 50-part TikTok series about her pathological liar husband, right? Well, let us introduce you to Raeann’s sister, Tory Langas, who’s about to open up about her 5-year relationship with a man who ended up being a sex addict and narcissist. The red flags started early on in their relationship when he…

In this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey even break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also spar…

If you’ve found yourself saying “they hate me, it’s been 6 hours since my last text ” or if you run as soon as feelings start to brew, this episode is for you. Dr. Morgan, a relationship coach, is here to help us navigate through the four different attachment styles and give us advice on how to stop self-sabotage and break toxic relationship patter…

We have a LOT to catch up on and we are going DEEP! Rae for one, drops the big “what are we” question, but does that mean they are official?! Meanwhile, Kristina is slaying the neighborhood mom scene, future Mayor Kristina D’Angelo anyone? We’re also spilling tea about the craziest shit we’ve ever done in relationships. Hint, it involves jumping ou…

Buckle in for the juiciest month of the year! Raeann opens up about being single for the past five years and how she’s learned to embrace and celebrate this era in her life. Kristina, drowning in NYC gloom, daydreams about Malibu beaches and for a minute contemplates a dramatic return to LA for a little sunshine. We also get into Kristina’s love fo…

Kristina is filling us in on her new neighbor meetup and Raeann tells us about the MOST chaotic Pilates class she’s taken— no but really. You have to hear this story. Then we’re getting a Dating Challenge Update from Rae … it’s a good one and we’re excited about it. Also, OSCAR NOMINATIONS are here and there are discussions to be had. So we will ab…