Best Relationship Anarchy Podcasts (2025)

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EP460 - Cock Energy: Sex Rituals to Reconnect 28:21

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Welcome to Episode 460 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Lianna Walden, who speaks to me about how men and couples can deepen intimacy and connection through embodiment, sexual energy work, and practical worship rituals. In this conversation, Lianna and I explore the often-overlooked challenges men face in today’s evolving …

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Paint Big, Live Bigger - The Art (and Business) of Reinventing Yourself with Susan Peplar | 036 37:04

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She failed accounting. Became a top storyboard artist. Got booted by the industry. Painted 40 canvases in 30 days. Sold 11 in an hour. Susan Peppler’s story is what happens when you follow your joy and trust your gut – even when it’s covered in paint. Susan Peppler didn’t set out to become a professional fine artist. She just kept following what fe…

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EP459 - Sexual Confidence: Porn, Kink and Hypnotherapy 37:41

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By Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education

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From Pro Boxer to Cancer Survivor And Still Throwing Punches for Good with Shane Schwartz| 035 22:59

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By Heather Campbell

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46. Should we be worried about words changing their meaning? With Robbie Morgan 46:39

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Words such as 'woke', 'emotional labour' and 'gaslighting' get bandied around a lot, especially in online discourse. And as they get bandied around, their meaning can change over time. Of course, changes in the meaning of words are natural, inevitable and, usually harmless. However, Robbie Morgan, back for his record-setting third appearance on Eth…

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Joyful Anarchy – How Kate White Burned the Rulebook and Rewrote Her Life | 034 44:33

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She survived blood clots in her brain, a crumbling marriage, a depression so deep she couldn’t get out of bed – and came back as a full-blown joyful anarchist. Now, Mama Kate’s here to help you torch the “shoulds” and light up your soul. Kate White – aka Mama Kate – has been through it. Fibromyalgia. Liver disease. Brain bleeds. A gastric bypass th…

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EP458 - Dating and Sex: A Divorce Attorney’s Guide 28:28

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Welcome to Episode 458 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and author who brings such a fascinating perspective on dating, relationships, and why so many marriages end the way they do. Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have sh…

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Emily King Had It All Until Postpartum Depression Took It | 033 53:48

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She thought she’d swan dive into motherhood and belly-flop back into boss mode. But postpartum depression had other plans. Emily King had the dream life on paper – a thriving business, a new baby, a panini press (a true sign of adulthood). But what came next wasn’t the sweet maternity leave she pictured. It was darkness. Full-on, heart-racing, can’…

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The Lesbian Relationship Myths We Can’t Kill ft. Shannon 1:10:37

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Banff Pride: https://banffpride.ca/ Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Do all lesbians think the same? We’re digging into the big three stereotypes. Emotional intensity, U-Hauling, and lesbian bed death, to see if Sapphics really do relationships differently…

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When “Wellness” is Just Anxiety in a Cute Outfit with Loren Cellentani | 032 37:24

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She checked all the boxes – dream job, dream guy, dream health – and still had a panic attack in her graduation cap. What her body told her next changed her whole damn life. Loren Cellentani looked like she had it all together. Art school grad. Landed a fashion industry job. Clean-eating her way to Instagram-worthy “wellness.” But when she had a pa…

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EP457 - Is It Cheating? The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Agreement 27:02

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Welcome to Episode 457 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Kevin Patterson who speaks to me about polyamory, representation, and emotional literacy. In this conversation, Kevin shares his journey into consensual non-monogamy and the inspiration behind Poly Role Models, a project designed to broaden representation of polyamory…

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From Breakdown to Breakthrough The Radical Power of Self-Solidarity with Shawn Mahshie | 031 40:49

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The marriage unraveled. Her body gave out. Her big-deal career fell apart. And somehow… she got happier. Here's how Shawn Mahshie flipped her rock-bottom into a life of peace, purpose, and pretty unbelievable healing. Shawn Mahshie doesn’t just talk about transformation – she embodies it. After her health, marriage, and career all collapsed like a …

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EP456 - Expert Insights: What Women Wish Men Knew About Sex 19:38

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Welcome to Episode 456 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Allana Pratt, Annette Benedetti, Caitlin V, Dr. Margaret Cochran, Rob Kancler, Susan Bratton, and Sylvia Solit who help me answer one powerful question: What’s one thing women wish men knew about sex, but almost never say out loud? Across this conversation, our guests…

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45. Are ethicists paying enough attention to social class? With Orla Carlin 45:23

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Epistemic injustice is a broad category of injustice relating to knowledge. It can involve people from marginalised or oppressed groups being excluded, silenced, misrepresented, or not taken seriously — in conversations, education, or professional settings — because of their membership to that group. In academic contexts, this kind of injustice can…

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Bisexuality Isn’t 50/50 - It’s a Bi-Cycle ft. Kelc And Joe 1:20:23

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Banff Pride: https://banffpride.ca/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Sexuality isn’t static, it’s a shuffle. Sometimes you’re feeling super gay, sometimes a little straight, sometimes both at once, and that ebb and flow is what we’re calling the Bi-Cycle. We’re breaking do…

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Worn Out and Over It Journey to a Life That Fits with Jesseca Tighe | 030 41:15

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She had the PhD, the healthcare leadership job, and the burnout badge of honor. Then COVID and E. coli said, “Sit down.” So she did – and stood up for her life. Before she became a burnout coach and psychology-whisperer to high achievers, Jesseca Tighe was a therapist-turned-healthcare exec just trying to keep it all together. She had the title, th…

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EP455 – Soloamory: The Ultimate Self-Love Relationship 44:42

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Welcome to Episode 455 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff who speaks to me about consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and soloamory. In this episode, Dr. Eli shares her personal journey navigating relationships with both monogamous and polyamorous partners, and how those experiences shaped her professional…

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Ep. 46: Big Feel in Polyamory (cuz You're Not Alone) 51:22

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In this episode we're talking about the BIGGEST of the BIG FEELS in Polyamory: Jealousy, Comparison and Fear of Abandonment cuz you are NOT alone if you experience one or all three of these! We changed things up- added some segment titles and SFX this time. Let us know what you think! Curious about Coaching with Greg or Leanne Certified Relationshi…

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From Cardiac Nurse To Energy Healer - The Power of Listening To Your Body with Jodi Anne Law | 029 44:34

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She left her marriage, her children, and her entire identity as a cardiac nurse – because her body begged her to. It nearly broke her… until it didn’t. For decades, Jodi Anne Law was the picture of Western medicine: cardiac nurse, ICU shifts, adrenaline-fueled precision. But her own heart had other plans. After a breakdown left her sobbing through …

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EP454 - A Sexual Revolution: Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances 31:09

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Welcome to Episode 454 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Sam L. Feldman, who speaks to me about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, and the evolution of sexual liberation across the decades. In this episode, Sam shares insights from his book Hookups, Hiccups and Happenstances, which reflects on the changing landscape of sexual…

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The Chronic Stress Loop That’s Sabotaging Your Health (and How to Break It) with Claire Ketchum | 028 35:22

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She finally cracked the code on mindful eating – then life flipped the table. A terrifying diagnosis. A stress spiral. A breakthrough she never saw coming. Claire Ketchum had finally found food freedom after 20 years of yo-yo dieting. Mindful eating wasn’t just working – it felt like magic. Until her 9-year-old daughter was diagnosed with type 1 di…

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44. Do large language models gossip? With Lucy Osler 41:23

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Gossip is an ethically interesting phenomenon when humans do it. It creates a bond between the people doing the gossiping, but it does so by implicitly excluding the person being gossiped about, and can cause harm, especially when the gossip is malicious, or simply isn't true. What I hadn't realised until I spoke to Lucy Osler, a Lecturer in Philos…

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How to Hook Up With Your Friends ft. Syd And Zhané 1:25:14

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friends…

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Burnout, Boundaries, and Building a Life That Fits with Rachelle Collins | 027 33:51

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She was taking care of everyone – her parents, her child, her career, and someone with cancer. Then she realized she was disappearing. Rachel Collins was juggling a demanding HR career, raising a son, and helping care for her aging parents – when someone else in her life was suddenly diagnosed with stage 3 cancer. With zero warning, she became the …

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EP453 - Just Watch Me: A Hotwifing Story 32:15

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Welcome to Episode 453 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Serenity Cox and partner Timothy of WIFEY, who speak with me about their journey into the hotwifing lifestyle and how it has shaped their relationship. In this episode, Serenity and Timothy share how their interest in hotwifing began as fantasy and roleplay, before e…

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From Good Girl to Art Rebel – One Nude Drawing at a Time with Michelle Dovey | 026 50:23

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She left a penis off her sketch – and it cracked open a decades-long pattern of shame she didn’t even know she was carrying. When Michelle Dovey sat down to draw a statue of Apollo in Florence, she didn’t mean to leave something out. But there it was – a blank spot where the genitals should’ve been. This accidental omission turned into a revelation…

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He Lost Everything at 60 And Says It Was the Best Year of His Life with Dallas Collis | 025 45:07

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He lost his marriage, his home, his business, and his health. He hit rock bottom – and called it the best year of his life. Dallas Collis didn’t just get a curveball – he got the whole pitching machine. In one brutal year, he was diagnosed with cancer, hit a breaking point with alcoholism, and watched his marriage, family, and business fall apart. …

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Ep 45: Mononormativity with Marla Schreiber @polyamarla 1:09:21

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If you've been on IG or TikTok you probably know @polyamarla - and NOW they've got an incredible book out "Non-monogamy and Defying a Paradigm"! We had such a fun time together! Follow us (if you can...three people with ADHD) as Marla takes us through their polyamorous journey, the "h" word (and why they don't want to talk about it), couple privile…

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EP452 - Relationship Anarchy: Breaking the Norms 41:32

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Welcome to Episode 452 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Roy Graff who speaks to me about relationship anarchy, consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication in alternative relationship structures. In this episode, Roy shares his deeply personal journey from decades of serial monogamy to embracing polyamory a…

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Wrecked, Bruised, and Still Standing – What Real Healing Looks Like with Lillian Mumford | 024 41:44

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She woke up in an upside-down car, miles from home, with a shattered pelvis – and still tried to project manage the rescue. Lillian Mumford was riding in an Uber, two states away from home, when a car crash turned her world literally upside down. One moment she was the new hire on a business trip – the next, she was lying on the roof of a totaled v…

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The Epidemic of Masc Fragility ft. Ms. Myles And Danielle Lastres 1:04:31

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Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to skip to the next episode if it’s not the right time for you. CONTACT DANIELLE Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/danielle…

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The Truth About How Men Grieve And Why It Needs to Be Heard with Jason Tuttle | 023 43:36

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He spent years saving his kids’ lives. Then he lost his son – and found his voice. Jason Tuttle was in the trenches of parenting in a way most of us can’t imagine. His two children were born with rare, complex medical needs – non-verbal, seizure-prone, and in need of constant care. Jason became their full-time caregiver, learning to read every cue,…

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EP451 - Coloring Outside the Lines: Freedom in Polyamory 46:14

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Welcome to Episode 451 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who speaks to me about navigating non-monogamy, jealousy, and building healthy polyamorous relationships. In this conversation, I invite Joli to share the very human, very messy path she took from a long-term monogamous marriage into consensual non-m…

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Her Backup Plan Failed So She Made Her Own Rules with Tiffany Archer | 022 54:42

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Her backup plan needed a backup plan. Then Tiffany got creative – and made $7,000 off Craigslist without leaving her house. Tiffany Archer was cruising through life with not one but two careers – flight attendant and real estate agent – until the pandemic took them both out in a matter of weeks. No flights. No listings. No paycheck. But instead of …

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EP450 – Monogamish: Exploring Intimacy and Freedom 41:11

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Welcome to Episode 450 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Carrie Jeroslow who speaks to me about exploring monogamish relationships, communication, and relationship diversity. In this conversation, Carrie unpacks the term “Monogamish,” originally coined to describe a space between strict monogamy and fully open relationships…

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How to Alchemize Fear, Howl at the Moon, and Manifest Like You Mean It with Allison Al-Khemia | 021 1:14:48

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She saw the pandemic coming before it had a name. Then she manifested a private jet in under two weeks. But the real plot twist? She’s here to help you do the same – no magic wand required. What do you do when life flings a flaming curveball at your head? If you’re Allison Al-Khemia, you turn it into something sparkly, meaningful, and maybe even ai…

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“I’m Not a Lesbian Anymore, I’m Queer” ft. Tyra Blizzard And King 1:13:21

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Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT TYRA Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tyrablizz/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tblizzy CONTACT KING Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/king.charming9/ Barbe…

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ADHD, Layoffs, and the Money Moves That Changed Everything with Sherry Andrews | 020 41:57

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She got fired from her “safe” job after 17 years. Then she hiked the Inca Trail, discovered ADHD, and became a financial coach. (Not in that order.) Sherry Andrews spent nearly two decades climbing the corporate ladder at a cheese packaging plant – no joke. She was loyal, reliable, and doing what she thought she was supposed to do. Then the company…

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EP449 - Sex and Self-Image: A Pleasure Journey 31:23

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Welcome to Episode 449 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Jackie Goldschneiderwho speaks to me about eating disorders, body image, recovery, and how all of this intersects with sexuality and pleasure. In this conversation, Jackie shares the raw, unglamorized realities of living with anorexia for two decades, much of it whil…

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104 : My Medicine Path Journey with Ayahuasca & Kambo (July 2025) 1:08:39

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Tune in for a share on the past -- present -- and future of my path become the steward of the soluna medicines altar. Connect with Chantelle : Instagram @solunamedicines Visit solunamedicines.com/offerings Add Chantelle on Facebook Email : [email protected]

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Why Burnout Isn’t a Buzzword – It’s a Body Alarm with Dr. Zarya Rubin | 019 42:15

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She spent 15 years chasing a dream that almost killed her. Then came the burnout, the grief, the tango – and the decision to turn back. Dr. Zarya Rubin was supposed to be living her dream. She was on track to become a neurologist, deep into her fellowship at Columbia, doing the doctor thing after fifteen years of training. But the dream had started…

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The Yoga Teacher Who Found Herself By Losing Everything with Taylor Lorenz | 018 45:19

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She was living the travel blogger dream – until the dream got old, COVID wiped her income, and Google finished the job. Taylor Lorenz had what most of us daydream about: a life of nonstop travel, a successful blog, and money rolling in while she crisscrossed the globe. But behind the highlight reel? A serious case of burnout, loneliness, and a cree…

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EP448 - Connection and Pleasure: Reclaim Lost Desire 26:33

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Welcome to Episode 448 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, who speaks to me about navigating low desire and reigniting intimacy in long‑term relationships. In this conversation, Kate and I normalize the reality that everyone, including sex therapists, experiences fluctuations in sexual desire. She shares…

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43. How do you assure AI for bias and accessibility in the NHS? With Adam Byfield 48:09

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Adam Byfield is a Principal Technical Assurance Specialist at NHS England. After his previous appearance on the podcast, discussing providing ethical assurance for AI applications in healthcare, we were keen to get him back to dive into some more specific issues. We chose bias and accessibility, two related issues that are clearly central for anyon…

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You’re Not Gay, You Struggle With Same-Sex Attraction ft. Luke Wilson 1:18:39

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Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA What do electric shocks, shame sermons, and fake science have in common? They were all used to “pray the gay away.” We’re diving into the twisted world of conversion therapy with survivor and scholar Lucas Wilson. From evangelical trauma to the ex-gay movement’s most delulu masc villains, we…

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She Chased 7-Figure Success - Until Her Body and Business Both Broke Down with Laura Brandenburg 39:05

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She tried hustling her way to success – until a hurricane, an ICU stay, and a failing launch forced her to rethink everything. Laura Brandenburg was chasing every online business goal: bigger launches, bigger teams, bigger revenue. But in 2018, life said, “Girl, sit down.” First came Hurricane Florence. Then, a mystery illness that landed Laura in …

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She tried to end her life - Then built a business that saves others with Alexis Skopos |016 34:54

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She tried to end her life at 13. Now she helps others find their way back from the dark – with a literal magic wand. When Alexis Skopos was 13, she made a decision to end her life. Instead, the universe threw her a messy, painful curveball – one that rewrote her story entirely. She grew up, got her degree in counseling, and dove headfirst into comm…

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EP447 - The Mother of Sex Coaching: Wanting Love, Finding Yourself 48:24

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Welcome to Episode 447 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Patti Britton, who speaks to me about her new memoir Chasing Sex, the life events that shaped her as a pioneer in sex coaching, and how we can all cultivate pleasure and transcendent intimacy at any age. In this heartfelt conversation, Patti traces the winding pat…

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Ep 44: Nicole Thompson from Religion to Relationship Anarchy 1:04:41

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Wow! What a journey Nicole has had! With eloquence and awareness she shares what it was like to grow up in purity culture and to come to terms with her own queer and polyamorous identities. Nicole Thompson is a sex and relationship psychotherapist, host of Modern Anarchy Podcast, the author of the first published research study on Relationship Anar…

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EP446 - Feminist Porn: Producing Pleasure 41:53

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Welcome to Episode 446 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Inka Winter, who speaks to me about her journey from surviving a sex cult to pioneering feminist, female-gaze erotica that centers women’s pleasure and authentic consent. Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn …