Best Salim M. Tarfa Podcasts (2025)

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The Thing with Mirrors feat. Juliet Godwin 41:41

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3M ago41:41

41:41

What does your mirror say back to you? In this deeply personal episode, I sit with the insightful OAP and Content Creator Juliet Godwin to unpack the layers of self-image, internalized standards, and the long journey toward reclaiming truth in our own reflection. From poetry to personal stories, we explore: 🪞 How the mirror reflects not just a face…

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Living With Your Delusions 13:56

4M ago13:56

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In this episode, I dive deep into the tension between faith and delusion—how our beliefs shape our reality, the stories we tell ourselves, and the fine line between conviction and self-deception. Are we truly standing on solid ground, or are we just convincing ourselves that we are? I share my personal perspectives on navigating faith, doubt, and t…

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Let's Talk: Average 22:35

7M ago22:35

22:35

on this episode I talk about " average" and how this simple word can affect our lives. enjoy

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When Life Isn't Measuring Up 13:50

11M ago13:50

13:50

On this Episode, I share my perspective on how we measure our lives, our process, our growth.

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Does God Exist? Will of God? 58:47

12M ago58:47

58:47

This Episode is straight from my archives, strong topics on marriage, thoughts on failing faith, broken promises, trust, and finding a plan. Raw and unfiltered... I hope this blesses you.

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Best Before Blame Feat. Promise Hyacinth 30:46

12M ago30:46

30:46

On this rant of an episode, I discuss with Promise, a budding career woman with a lot of great banter on the matter of dealing with "Best Before". Enjoy.

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Uncut: 2024 Dating Standards & Expectations Feat. Salma, Idy, Joules 58:11

1y ago58:11

58:11

The dating scene is constantly evolving, and 2024 brings a fresh set of standards and expectations. In this episode, we dive deep into the current landscape of dating, exploring: Shifting Priorities, Communication and Boundaries, and Dating after Experiences

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Do "Second-Chance" Relationships Work? 47:08

1+ y ago47:08

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On this episode, three amazing ladies doing amazing things : Habiba M. Tarfa, Promise Hyacinth and Juliet Godwin, share their thoughts on the question: Do relationships work on the second time of trying especially after a defined breakup. #Relationships #Breakups #Cheating #DomesticViolence #Love #Healing #Marriage ... Let's get it.…

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Should Wives Kneel? Feat. Tola Leramo 9:26

1+ y ago9:26

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On this Episode, Tola Leramo asks an interesting question: Do men want their wives to kneel to show respect or honour? We discuss.

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Myth of the "Understanding" Girlfriend feat. Salma, Idy, OAP Juliet 40:06

1+ y ago40:06

40:06

On this episode filled with fun, laughter and realness, I discuss on the topic of "The Understanding Girlfriend" with Joy Salma, Idongesit Abasi-Uko and Juliet Godwin sharing insights on this very intriguing matter. Definitions, Perspectives and Learning. Let's Get It!

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Adulting: To Be A Man Feat. Simeon Sodo 31:44

1+ y ago31:44

31:44

Robbed, In an Accident, and faced with a dilemma for a Life, what would you do? How would answer the call to be a man? On this episode I discuss with a Simeon Sodo, a man with a story to tell. Enjoy.

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The Hypocrite, The Liar, The Fraud Feat. Onimisi 40:19

1+ y ago40:19

40:19

On this episode, following a conversation on post traumatic experiences and how our actions and habits affect our outcomes. Exposing our hypocrisy, deceit and fraudulence.

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10 Steps to Self-Healing From Pain 18:00

1+ y ago18:00

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In this empowering podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey of self-healing from pain. Join us as we unravel the essential "10 Steps to Self-Healing From Pain," offering insights, practical strategies, and mindful approaches to navigate through emotional and physical challenges.

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The Power of Words as Weights 31:37

1+ y ago31:37

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Words have the incredible ability to shape our thoughts, emotions, and even our actions. They can lift us up or weigh us down. In this episode, we'll explore the impact of the language we use, both towards ourselves and others. We'll uncover how our words hold the power to influence our mindset, relationships, and overall well-being.…

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The Fear Paradox 21:35

2y ago21:35

21:35

From its potential to motivate and push us beyond limits to its dark manipulation as a tool for control, this episode offers profound insights that resonate with the essence of the human psyche. Listen and Enjoy.

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When It's Your Fault 19:09

2y ago19:09

19:09

Tune in to discover how embracing personal accountability can lead to profound transformation and foster healthier relationships.

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Relationships : Red Orange Green Flags Feat. Osayuki-chan 1:07:36

2y ago1:07:36

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On this episode we talk on relationships: red flags green flags and "orange" flags with the amazing Yuki. Enjoy.

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The Power of Belief & Rejection 41:38

2y ago41:38

41:38

On this episode I share my thoughts on the Power of Belief and Rejection. Enjoy

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Poll: Dealing with A Bad Break 5:39

2y ago5:39

5:39

It's a poll. Care to share your angle?

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Are You Self-Sabotaging? 36:41

2+ y ago36:41

36:41

You may be a victim of sabotage—self-sabotage. How do you know, and what can you do about it?

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Relationships: Are You The Prize? Only Fans & High Value Feat. Joules & Idy Uko 59:58

2+ y ago59:58

59:58

On this fun episode, "Joules" Juliet Godwin, "Idy" Idongesit Abasi-Uko & I team up to tackle a question made prime in our generation on what it means to be the "Prize" in relationships. We touch on only fans and high value partners. Lots of goofing around but ultimately enlightening. HIT THAT LISTEN, SHARE! PEACE! ✌🏼…

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Consistency: Gaming, Business, Life. Feat. Mr Kosisi 33:35

2+ y ago33:35

33:35

On this episode of The Fizzy Speaks, Mr Kosisi, the legendary man behind many booming business across Abuja gives an insight into how he put consistency to work for him. Learning is an ongoing thing. Enjoy! It's a goofy yet serious fun one.

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Relationships: High Risk Ambitions Vs Compatibility Feat. Salma 25:48

2+ y ago25:48

25:48

Can you, should you, how do you cope with the idea of a partner in a high risk field? Should we give up ambition for love?

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Overcoming Grief and Finding Acceptance Feat. OAP Joules 52:35

2+ y ago52:35

52:35

Grief is a part of virtually everyone's story at some point, navigating loss and the hurt that comes with it is why Joules and I teamed up on this one. We address Grief, myths about dealing grief from death, heartache and more. Enjoy.

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Shower Thoughts 🚿: King Solomon, Shazam, Women feat. Uske 49:25

2+ y ago49:25

49:25

On this episode, Usman Abdulrazaq Kayode and I discuss random thoughts surrounding King Solomon's exploits, Wisdom Vs Compatibility in relationships and marriage, some history, and so much more. Enjoy!

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Finding Your Authentic Self 33:04

2+ y ago33:04

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To kick start a fresh year of Podcast episodes, I share some perspectives on realising our Authentic selves and how pivotal that is in attracting the right people into our lives. Enjoy!

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25 Signs You're Ready for a Relationship Feat. Joules 55:47

2+ y ago55:47

55:47

On this episode, OAP Juliet Godwin(Joules) and I go through 25 signs you're ready (Or not) for a relationship. Talking points and more... Enjoy.

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Mindfulness: Going Alone 42:18

2+ y ago42:18

42:18

On this episode, I talk on the benefits I've realised from going alone and why I think everyone should spend some time in self awareness. Enjoy!

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Mindfulness: Hurting Our Energies 43:34

2+ y ago43:34

43:34

Starting a new series talking on mindfulness, sharing some talking points on how we, hurt, damage and in some cases, how we can start the process of healing our energies. Enjoy!

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Anikulapo: The Movie Review Feat. Salma 49:22

2+ y ago49:22

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Kunle Afolayan's Anikulapo movie has a lot of people divided over the various talking points in his epic production. On this Episode Salma and I attempt a review of this movie and some talking points that many might be missing. Enjoy.

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Avoiding Pain: The Happy Lie 32:35

3y ago32:35

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On this episode I discuss the different ways we seek to avoid pain and the lies we have been told about happiness. Let's Get It!

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BurnOut: Help! I'm Burnt Out! Feat. Juliet Godwin 53:22

3y ago53:22

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On this Episode, I discuss with OAP Juliet Godwin and youth convener of "Into the Real You" to discuss on the phases, causes, counter measures and the ills from burnout. Connect with her @intotherealyou for more information on what she does and how you can be blessed identifying your true self. Enjoy the episode! Peace! ✌🏼🎧…

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Are You Bitter or Better? 31:58

3y ago31:58

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On this episode, I share some personal experiences and thoughts on the concept of identifying the dangers of not overcoming bitterness and more. Enjoy.

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Self Affirmations 16:26

3y ago16:26

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On this episode we run through some self affirmations and touch on why this is a great way to bless ourselves each day. Some examples to run with as well! Enjoy!

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To Be Nigerian 34:54

3y ago34:54

34:54

On this episode, I speak on the happenings in Nigeria, the "Jesus" posts, and thoughts on the upcoming elections. Enjoy!

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A Tribute to my General 35:02

3y ago35:02

35:02

A Tribute to a great man, friend, father and more, with some lessons to note. Enjoy. Rest in peace Dad.

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Pseudo Flourishing Vs Self Love Feat. Lawlah 44:38

3+ y ago44:38

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On this episode the Baby Cakes of the federal republic and I discuss a number of cases involving people like us who have lived in conditions where they felt stuck in a rut and some ways to know when to make the next move. Enjoy.

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Breakup/Breakfast Myths Debunked feat. Sheddy Fresh Part 1 22:50

3+ y ago22:50

22:50

Heartache, breakups, the trauma that's all within, these are all things many of us can clearly relate with. There are a lot of myths related to dealing with breakfast. On this episode, for the young at heart, we look at some myths and Debunk them. Part 1

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This Vs That 15:08

3+ y ago15:08

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Is it right to say everything's basically one way or the other based off of our feelings and that there is only one right answer? Ever wondered if we can be blind to truth?

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Lost Ones: This Isn't Home 18:02

3+ y ago18:02

18:02

All episode inspired by a sermon. As tempting as it can be to treat our temporary situations as permanent, we need to open our hearts and minds to our journeys. Enjoy.

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The Complex Life We Share 15:59

3+ y ago15:59

15:59

Inspired by the gradually creeping awareness of the lives of a lot of people around me including those I do not know much of... If you feel alone maybe this episode is just for you.

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Overwhelmed with something Hooge 36:09

3+ y ago36:09

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Big expectations, big dreams, a lot of stuff to overwhelm us. On this episode I go over some ways to cope with feeling overwhelmed while we wait, work, for something Hooge. Shout out to BarnzyBeats for the cool soundtrack!

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The Ronaldo Effect 13:30

3+ y ago13:30

13:30

After yet another dreamlike comeback by Cristiano Ronaldo, I'm inspired to make this episode. What is the Ronaldo Effect? Listen, enjoy!

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Nigeria: The Mental Episode 40:35

4y ago40:35

40:35

On my way home, I share my moments and thoughts on Nigeria in a rant like episode. Enjoy!

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Perfectionism Debunked Part 2 Feat. Uyiosa Egharevba 23:01

4y ago23:01

23:01

Continuing the conversation from where it ended in part one, Uyiosa Egharevba continues to share his perfectionist experiences with regards studying, relationships, and expectations in general. Enjoy!

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The Birthday Podcast Episode 26:21

4y ago26:21

26:21

It's MY birthday!!! In this episode, I take a moment to appreciate you all and share some free...Vibes. Enjoy!

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Perfectionism Debunked Feat. Uyiosa Egharevba Part 1 50:30

4y ago50:30

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There's big talk about being perfect and from all sides there is a lot to tell us how to do it right. On this episode with Uyiosa, a multi-talented go-getter, we debunk Perfectionism...Oh, and this is a two-part series. Part 2 Drops soon! Enjoy!

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The Dark Side of Chasing Your Dreams: Taekwondo Edition Feat. Hassan Nurudeen 41:44

4y ago41:44

41:44

In this episode, we have Hassan, an enterprising young dream chaser, with a love for people, travel and food. He describes his journey in bits, highlighting his experiences through Electrical Engineering, Sales Engineering, Content Creation and Martial Arts. How does everything combine to shape him and how does he deal with the pressures of living …

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No More Mr. Nice Guy 43:33

4y ago43:33

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In this episode of The Fizzy Speaks, I share some experiences from my journey transitioning niceness to kindness, highlighting the many ways niceness can actually work against us and keep us from living truly better, more balanced lives. Enjoy!

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Hope Vs Everything 41:46

4y ago41:46

41:46

Sapa, Nigeria banning Twitter, other issues that seek to rob us of our joy, our peace, and eventually our hope. On this episode, I talk about hope versus everything. Let's get it.