Best Trandescendant Podcasts (2025)

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The Different Ways Pride Month Saves Lives 33:07

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Does visibility truly matter when your community feels isolated? Pride Month isn't just parades in big cities—it's survival in small towns, cautious celebration in suburbs, and bold expression in urban centers. Participating in Pride activities creates ripples of change that extend far beyond June, whether by raising a flag in a town of 1,000 or sh…

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The Power of LGBTQ+ Support Groups 32:16

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Have you ever felt like no one else understands what you're going through? Support groups offer more than just friendly faces—they provide crucial knowledge sharing, emotional validation, and the relief of not having to explain your experiences. Finding your people doesn't have to be overwhelming. Even if you're convinced there's no support communi…

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What We Wish Skeptics Knew About the LGBTQ+ Community 31:24

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Have you ever feared that accepting your LGBTQ+ loved one might compromise your deeply-held values or beliefs? Many parents, relatives, and friends struggle with this exact tension, feeling forced to choose between their principles and their relationships. The truth is, you don't have to sacrifice either. Understanding the authentic, lifelong natur…

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What's Actually Wrong With Me? A Therapist's Surprising Answer 33:19

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Mental health professional Michael Larkey joins Joe and Rya to discuss the hidden culprit behind our nagging self-criticism. Why do we feel like we're never good enough? Why do we struggle with accepting ourselves or the ones we love? Especially for those in the LGBTQ+ community, the stakes can be life-threatening. This simple but powerful approach…

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Exploring Representative Sarah McBride's Positive Politics 30:17

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How do we respond when politics becomes personal? Representative Sarah McBride made history as the first openly transgender person elected to the United States Congress. She recently gave an insightful interview with The Atlantic where she shared her thoughtful approach to navigating hostility while maintaining focus on her constituents and mission…

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The Most Important Tool You Need When Words Fail 25:13

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Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all. Knowing when to use silence can completely transform difficult family conversations. While silence can feel uncomfortable at first—even like surrender—it actually demonstrates remarkable strength. If you're working to keep important relationship connections despite challenging differe…

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"Stop Trying to Fix Me!!!" 28:38

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When a child comes out as LGBTQ+, parental instincts shift into "fixing" mode. We approach with good intentions, believing we know what's best. Moving from fear to freedom means releasing our vision for our children and embracing their truth. When we let go of being right and lean into being kind, both parent and child find unexpected freedom. The …

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The Happiness Heist: Steal Back Control of Your Life Immediately 27:39

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Have you ever wondered who's truly in charge of your happiness? The real power to transform your life isn't held by external circumstances but lies within you, waiting to be reclaimed. It's time to reject conventional wisdom about where fulfillment comes from. Too many people never discover the surprising truth that our inner world determines our e…

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Don't Make This Devastating Parenting Mistake 25:04

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What makes a parent respond with love when their child comes out? When Rya transitioned, Joe's immediate thought wasn't about changing her—it was about preserving their relationship. His values created the foundation for unconditional acceptance. Joe shares how his faith deepened his commitment to love rather than judgment. Their strong bond didn't…

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This Four-Word Phrase Can Stop LGBTQ+ Arguments Before They Start! 21:56

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Have you ever felt cornered in a conversation about LGBTQ+ issues? Too often, we find ourselves on the defensive, scrambling to respond to accusations and misconceptions. But what if you could flip the script with just four simple words? Joe and Rya reveal a powerful conversational technique that isn't about winning arguments; it's about creating s…

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One Simple Act That Tells LGBTQ+ They Truly Belong 31:23

2M ago31:23

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What if we could create spaces that feel so welcoming, it would get someone to drive four hours just to experience it? Martha Juillerat shares how one simple yet profound act can transform environments from merely tolerant to soul-affirming. Imagine creating a place where LGBTQ+ individuals finally feel seen, embraced, and able to breathe freely. S…

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How to Respond to Spiritual Abuse 27:47

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LGBTQ+ individuals in conservative religious environments often face a harrowing struggle to discern between spiritual abuse and genuine care. Recognizing the signs of toxic faith communities—such as demands for blind loyalty, prioritizing rules over people, and equating dissent with disobedience—can be life-changing for those trapped in cycles of …

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Moving Beyond Political Divisions 31:01

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Our political climate has made it feel impossible to keep relationships with people who see the world differently than we do. But what if building bridges was easier than we think? Political differences often mask shared values underneath. But a simple refocus on our shared underlying values can transform even the most challenging conversations. Wh…

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What Is Your Definition of Woman? 28:23

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Transgender advocates seem to say outlandish things sometimes that seem so far outside of the realm of common sense. Do they really believe a man can become a woman? What is happening to our culture? Has woke ideology make half the population lose their minds? There must be a way for people of good faith to find our way through the conflict. In thi…

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An Open Letter to a Skeptical Parent 30:39

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What does it mean to be there for someone you love when you don't agree with their decision? When a child or loved one comes out as LGBTQ, it is natural to experience struggles and questions. Love doesn't mean instant agreement or abandoning your beliefs. Joe and Rya offer advice for parents seeking to preserve relationships while navigating unfami…

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Stop Being Your Own Worst Critic: 7 Ways to Beat Internalized Homophobia 26:15

4M ago26:15

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Internalized homophobia can feel like carrying around a weight that no one else can see. But what if you could learn to set that weight down? From grounding yourself in scientific research to mastering the "lockout" technique, Joe and Rya outline seven practical ways to cultivate your own self-acceptance. The path to authenticity opens up when we g…

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How to Deal With Excessive Worry 27:44

4M ago27:44

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What if we could worry less and live more fully? Joe and Rya explore practical strategies that help us break free from the grip of excessive worry. Most of our worries never materialize. What if we could channel that energy into activities that truly enhance our peace of mind? Create a more balanced life by mindfully choosing what to consume - from…

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Rejection Sucks—Here’s How to Heal 32:58

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Rejection is one of the most universal yet misunderstood experiences, capable of leaving deep emotional scars that shape how we see ourselves and others. Whether you’re struggling to heal from a recent rejection or simply want to better understand this common human experience, this episode can help you turn pain into resilience. Joe and Rya discuss…

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Rebuilding Trust After Family Rejection 34:05

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For LGBTQ+ individuals and their families, the journey toward healing can feel overwhelming. Is it possible to restore connection and understanding after feeling betrayed and hurt by a loved one? This episode explores important principles of healing and reconciliation. Through them, families can move from estrangement to deeper bonds. Whether you'r…

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I Once Was Blind But Now I See 30:29

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In 1996, New Testament scholar Richard B. Hays wrote the definitive text on New Testament Ethics for the Evangelical Christian church. In the chapter on homosexuality, he wrote, "same-sex relationships are a tragic distortion of God's created order." Now, twenty-eight years later, he confessed that he got it wrong. And it's sending shockwaves throu…

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7 Behaviors that Rob You of Happiness 30:57

5M ago30:57

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What if the secret to happiness isn’t about finding it but clearing the path for it to flourish? It's time for a fresh perspective on the pursuit of happiness. Uncover the seven terrible habits and mindsets that hold us back. Let's shift the focus from chasing an ideal to creating space for authentic contentment. This episode provides inspiring ins…

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So You Think Diversity Isn't Profitable? Think Again 34:04

5M ago34:04

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What if your business could be a force for inclusivity, equality, and economic growth—all at the same time? Whether you’re a business owner, an ally, or simply curious about how diversity drives success, you'll want to learn about the inspiring work of the LGBT Chamber of Commerce. From combating discriminatory legislation to fostering partnerships…

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A Workplace Where Everyone Belongs 34:48

5M ago34:48

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What does it take to make workplaces truly inclusive for LGBTQ+ employees? Drawing on personal stories and practical advice, this conversation explores how you can foster authenticity and respect at work. With just a little thought about how to build inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued, each of us can find ways we can ensure our workplaces…

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How to Create a Safe Home for Everyone 32:03

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What can parents do to create a home where LGBTQ+ children feel truly safe and affirmed? Joe and Rya explore the transformative power of unconditional love and acceptance, revealing how even small acts of rejection can leave lasting scars. By prioritizing communication, affirmation, and inclusivity, we can ensure that our loved ones feel valued and…

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The Emotional Cost of Being Queer in Today's World 33:22

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The LGBTQ+ experience is often shaped by discrimination, microaggressions, and minority stress. Joe and Rya examine how these challenges intersect with body image concerns and the personal struggles of LGBTQ people. Navigating a world that frequently misunderstands or marginalizes queer identities requires a healthy dose of resilience. This episode…

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You Can Overcome Your Negatives Emotions—Here's How 30:04

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Struggles with identity and acceptance can weigh heavily on both LGBTQ individuals and allies. Questions of identity can create difficult emotional challenges, from internalized homophobia and transphobia to the anxiety of coming out. External struggles like family rejection and social isolation can also cause difficulties. So how can we overcome t…

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The Ebenezer Scrooge Guide to Changing Hearts for LGBTQ+ Inclusion 29:48

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How can we help the “Scrooges” in our lives become more inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community? We can use A Christmas Carol as a framework to explore practical, research-backed strategies for changing hearts and minds. Each of Scrooge's encounters suggest concrete steps for fostering empathy by sharing personal stories and guiding people toward a more …

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A Handful of LGBTQ Films We Think You'll Love 27:07

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So much of what we learn about others comes from the media we consume. Listen in on Joe and Rya's conversation about how allies can educate themselves on LGBTQ experiences by engaging with film and television. They share some of their favorite queer movies and reflect on the power of media to foster empathy and understanding. The discussion offers …

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American LGBTQ Milestones on the Path to Affirmation 30:39

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What can we learn from the pivotal moments in LGBTQ history in the U.S.? This episode explores key events that have shaped the fight for equality and civil rights within the U.S. government. From the Lavender Scare to the Stonewall Riots, and through landmark legal cases like Obergefell v. Hodges, they reflect on the challenges and triumphs of the …

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Two Decades in the Closet: Military Service Before Obama 26:26

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From 1981 to 1999. she lived in constant fear of being outed, knowing that discovery could end her career in an instant. In honor of Veteran's Day, Monica Skarban returns to the podcast to share her personal story of serving in the U.S. Air Force as a closeted gay woman. She watched firsthand as friends were dishonorably discharged after being expo…

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Bonus Podcast: Our Take on the Election 6:25

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For those struggling with the recent election results, this episode offers a bit of encouragement. Joe and Rya share their thoughts on the outcome and present a perspective you probably haven't heard. Send us a text Support the showBy Trandescendant Podcast

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The Lavender Scare: How the First Gay Activists Stood Up To the U.S. Government 30:37

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The mid-twentieth century was a defining moment in LGBTQ history, marking the beginning of a long and difficult fight for equality. Joe and Rya retell the stories of Frank Kameny and Jamie Shoemaker, two key figures whose lives were forever changed by the persecution of LGBTQ individuals. Kameny’s activism helped ignite the struggle for LGBTQ right…

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Pixels, Pride, and Progress: How Technology is Shaping LGBTQ Experience 29:29

7M ago29:29

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Imagine if computer AI could help you discover your true identity—perhaps even before you understood yourself. From personalized health care for trans individuals, to tools that aid in gender exploration, "Artificial Intelligence" is transforming the LGBTQ+ community. We live in a time of exciting possibilities for progress. But is there also a dar…

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Behind the Algorithm: What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know About Artificial Intelligence 33:36

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In this episode, Rya and Joe have a heartfelt discussion about how AI is transforming society, with a focus on its potential impact on the LGBTQ community. They explore how AI functions, its growing role in various fields like healthcare and creative work, and the ethical concerns surrounding data usage and misinformation. The conversation touches …

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Life After Rejecting Conversion Therapy 26:05

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In the second half of their interview with John Paulk, Joe and Rya continue to explore the complexities of his journey out of the ex-gay movement. Rya shares her experience attending a Love Won Out conference as a closeted trans woman in the '90s, while John opens up about the "dirty little secret" within the ex-gay community—that no one actually c…

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The Damage of Conversion Therapy 25:45

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Our good friend of the podcast, John Paulk, returns in this important episode. John is a former leader of the ex-gay movement who has since renounced conversion therapy and embraced his true identity. He gives a first-hand account of why conversion therapy is so hurtful. He discusses the lack of evidence supporting the idea that anyone can truly ch…

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Allyship Gone Wrong: When Good Intentions Fall Short 32:59

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Many well-meaning allies unknowingly cause harm by not recognizing their own ignorance. Joe and Rya explore how even the most supportive allies can miss the signals that they are pushing their loved one away and don't know it. Good intentions are not enough. What does it take to educate yourself? Using sales analogies from their shared business exp…

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How Playing a Made-up Role Can Help You Live Your Most Authentic Life 29:52

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Joe and Rya take a deep-dive into the ways LGBTQ people can learn to accept themselves through play. They discuss Rya's childhood love for Dungeons & Dragons, a game which is celebrating its 50th anniversary in 2024. They explore how role-playing games and other childhood hobbies offer queer individuals a safe space for self-discovery and expressio…

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The Remarkable Power of Therapy in Family Dynamics 32:53

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Is mental health therapy really worth the investment, especially when navigating complex LGBTQ experiences? In this episode, Joe and Rya consider common skepticism about therapy's value, addressing concerns over cost and effectiveness. Through personal reflections on seeking therapy before coming out, Rya illustrates how professional guidance can o…

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How Our Biggest Political Enemy is Hiding in Plain Sight 30:34

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What happens when our opponents' political rhetoric spirals out of control? Joe and Rya explore how the intense divisiveness in politics feeds the growing conflict surrounding LGBTQ+ issues. The way we frame our own stories can mask the true values that would bring us together. Send us a text Support the show…

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Be Not Afraid: A Priest's Coming-Out Story 34:06

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Father Greg Greiten knew from an early age that he had a secret. In this episode, he shares the deep mental anguish he experienced trying to keep his identity hidden, including moments when he considered ending it all. In this episode, Father Greg tells Joe and Rya how he finally came out as gay to his parishes, and what happened in the aftermath. …

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"I'm Worried My Son Is Gay. How Do I Cope?" 30:56

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A listener shares how she has been grappling with fear that her son might be gay. Joe and Rya offer thoughts on how to maintain a strong relationship without compromising her beliefs. The discussion centers on how to reconcile personal values with the love and connection she has for her son. Joe shares some ways he coped when Rya came out, and Rya …

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When it Becomes Wrong to Fight Injustice 28:50

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In this episode, Joe and Rya discuss the complexities of fighting injustice, exploring when standing up for what’s right can go too far. They examine how political divisiveness and social media can lead to the dehumanization of others, even in the name of a good cause. The conversation also touches on the importance of preserving dignity in all rel…

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Understanding Asexuality, with Will Church 28:36

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In this episode, Will shares his experiences of being asexual and aromantic, providing insights into his journey and what it means to navigate the world with these identities. The conversation delves into his worries about coming out at work and how his message would be received. Additionally, the discussion turns to the importance of being a bette…

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The Difference Between Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation 30:48

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Did you know that there is dramatic segmentation between different parts of the LGBTQ+ community? We often group people together when we don't understand them. But no one is a stereotype. Each person is an individual, and each is on a continuum. Joe and Rya explore the variety of ways people might find themselves as a part of the LGBTQ+ community. …

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How She and Her Wife found Acceptance in the Catholic Church 31:35

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In this moving interview with Monica Skarban, she shares how her Catholic Church embraced her with full acceptance after the death of her wife. She discusses the rejection she experienced in some churches and the joy of discovering a parish that fully embraced them. Monica’s story highlights that there are affirming churches for everyone, and no on…

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The Roots of Homophobia 38:25

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This episode delves into the origins and complexities of prejudice against LGBTQ+ individuals, specifically focusing on attitudes towards homosexuality. Homophobia extends beyond mere dislike or fear; it encompasses deep-seated societal norms, cultural biases, and often religious teachings that contribute to discrimination and exclusion. This episo…

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Common Lies that Homophobes Like to Tell 29:00

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Have you ever tried to convince someone they are believing a lie? If you say something enough times with no proof at all, people start to believe it. A lot of what homophobes have been saying for decades just isn't true. But you can't convince them otherwise. So what can you do? Speak up. Dismantling lies happens the same way they are constructed i…

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How Two Transgender Muslim Women Fell In Love When They Least Expected It 29:23

11M ago29:23

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Every love story is different. Ameera and Julia didn't plan to have a relationship. It just happened, and suddenly they realized they were together. Despite objections from conservative Muslims peers, they affirmed their gender, retained their faith, and pursued their love. After three years of marriage, their love for one another shines even brigh…

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Exposing Rya's Deepest Insecurities 32:47

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Rya had an emotional session with her therapist this afternoon. In this episode, Joe and Rya discuss what happened and why she felt so vulnerable. Joe asks about the value of seeing a therapist. We all know mental health is important, and we need to learn to accept the help that is available for us when we need it. Discover how to live life to its …