The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges ...
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EP224: Success! Strategies for Better Relationships With Complex Teens
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33:09When parenting feels like a constant battle, is there another way forward? In this episode, Marina G. shares her powerful shift from stress and control to calm and connection. Listen until the end and discover what happens when, through subtle but meaningful changes, a parent chooses curiosity over command. What to expect in this episode: Why letti…
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EP223: Avoid Meltdowns & Shutdowns with ADHD Communication Tools
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36:55Meltdowns aren’t always what they seem, and your child’s silence might be saying more than you think. In this episode, we explore the hidden connection between communication struggles and emotional blow-ups. Therapist Holly Blanc Moses joins us to unpack the subtle signals parents often miss, the assumptions that can get in the way, and the small s…
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EP222: College Confidence for Complex Teens: Finding the Right Fit
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31:22Getting into college isn’t just about grades. It’s about finding the right fit emotionally, socially, and academically. In this episode, Dr. Pamela Ellis shares how families can approach the high school-to-college transition with more clarity, less stress, and renewed confidence. From building trust with your teen to letting go of outdated expectat…
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EP221: Parenting Tips When Emerging Adults Feel Stuck
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29:26They’re adults now, but they’re still stuck—and nothing you try seems to help. You push, they resist. You back off, they stall. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and unsure how to actually support your young adult, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what really gets in the way, and how a small shift in your approach can make a big d…
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EP220: Tabletop Gaming: Social & Emotional Skills for Neurodiverse Kids
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45:03What if imagination could build real-world skills? In this episode, we will explore how tabletop role-playing games (RPGs) like D&D help neurodiverse kids develop confidence, communication, and connection. Guests Bex Taylor-Klaus and Mischa Stanton share how these games create powerful opportunities for growth. Ready to rethink what play can do? Hi…
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EP219: How to Help ADHD Students Succeed in the Classroom
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33:20If you’ve ever sat in a school meeting thinking, “They just don’t get my kid,” this episode is for you. Guest Cindy Goldrich, an ADHD and executive function expert, reveals what most teachers don’t know about ADHD, why school support often misses the mark, and how to advocate with compassion, not conflict. Whether you're a parent seeking support or…
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EP218: Family Meetings for Better Communication, Trust, and Connection
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23:01Family meetings often sound rigid or old-fashioned—but what if they were the key to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork at home? In this episode, Diane and Elaine share a modern, lighthearted approach to turning family meetings into something everyone looks forward to. With practical tips and a focus on communication (not control), you’ll learn …
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EP217: Online Safety for Kids: Roblox New Parental Controls
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32:56The world your child plays in is bigger than you think, and it’s changing faster than most parents can track. In this eye-opening episode, Dina Lamdany, a product manager at Roblox, joins us to unpack how the platform is evolving to protect kids and spark healthier digital conversations. But this isn't just about parental controls or privacy settin…
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EP216: ADHD & Memory: It's So Important, I Forgot
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40:08What if forgetfulness isn't a flaw but a clue to how the brain really works? In this fascinating episode, memory researcher and ADHD coach Daniella Karidi helps us unravel the layers of how we remember, why we forget, and what makes memory especially tricky for those with ADHD. You’ll walk away questioning everything you thought you knew about remi…
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EP215: Parenting Siblings: Neurodiversity, Conflict & Fairness
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32:07Sibling tension is a normal part of family life, but when one or more kids are neurodivergent, the challenges can feel even more intense. In this episode, we peel back the layers of comparison, conflict, and misunderstanding to reveal what’s really going on beneath the surface. Join us as we explore how to support every child’s needs, create a sens…
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EP214: The Secret to Letting Go: Supporting Teens Without Micromanaging
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38:46Parenting through transitions isn’t just about preparing your child for what’s next. It’s also about redefining your own role in the process. In this episode, Elaine and Melanie dive into the emotional shifts, mindset changes, and quiet growth moments that often go unseen. If you've ever wondered how to stay connected while letting go, or how to su…
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EP213: Life After 18: Unique Paths for Neurodivergent Young Adults
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29:57Not every young adult follows a path from point A to point B after high school, and that might be the key to growth. In this episode, we will explore how parents can support complex kids during one of life’s most uncertain transitions. From building trust to stepping back at the right time, this conversation challenges traditional ideas of success …
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EP212: Beyond the Label: How to Help Your Child Flourish Using Brain Science
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32:28What if the way we view our kids could literally shape their brains? In this eye-opening conversation, Sue Langley blends neuroscience, psychology, and personal stories to explore how strengths-based parenting can shift everything. Whether you're feeling stuck or simply curious, this episode invites you to rethink what’s possible for your child and…
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EP211: From Chaos to Calm: Building Sleep Routines for Sensory-Sensitive Kids
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30:54You’ve tried the white noise, the cozy bedtime stories, even the perfectly timed evening routine. And still, sleep feels like a nightly mystery. If you relate to this, then this episode is for you! Dial in as we explore the subtle but powerful shifts that can make a real difference for complex kids who struggle to fall and stay asleep with sleep sp…
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EP210: Why Smart Kids Struggle in School and What Executive Function Has to Do With It
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25:14Uncover the critical intersection of executive function and educational success. This enlightening discussion reveals why some of the smartest kids face unexpected challenges in school and how understanding these hidden barriers can transform their academic journey. Tune in for unique insights and expert strategies to support your child's learning …
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EP209: Peaceful Parenting Secrets: How to Build Trust and Raise Confident Kids Without Control
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31:12What happens when you stop trying to control your kids and start truly collaborating with them? In this episode, we sit down with Sarah Rosensweet to explore fresh perspectives on raising complex kids. Sarah shares stories, strategies, and insights that can challenge how you think about parenting. Tune in and see how changing your approach can tran…
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EP208: Unlocking Teen Potential: Resilience, Innovation & Hope in a Complex World
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29:25Elaine sits down with leadership expert Ed Gerety to discuss the intersection of leadership and parenting teens. Drawing on decades of experience working with youth, Ed shares actionable strategies for fostering open communication, focusing on effort over outcomes, and helping teens develop independence. If you’re looking for practical tools and fr…
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EP207: Rebuilding Trust with Teens: Cleaning the Slate Conversations
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24:09Rebuilding trust within a family is no small feat, especially when past hurts linger. In this episode, Elaine and Diane tackle the complexities of mending relationships and navigating emotional barriers. They share practical insights and a transformative strategy -- cleaning-the-slate conversations -- to guide families in clearing old wounds and cr…
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EP206: Neurodiversity is not a Character Flaw: How to be a Brain Friend
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33:53What happens when a seasoned corporate leader finds herself rethinking everything she thought she knew about neurodiversity? Join us as Kristen Pressner shares how unexpected insights reshaped her perspective at home and at work, changing the way she approaches challenges, relationships, and what it really means to thrive. What to expect in this ep…
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EP205: Parenting Beyond Media Stereotypes & Perfection with Bridgett Brown
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28:32Discover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build con…
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EP204: Practical Nutrition Tips For Neurodiverse Kids: Expert Advice with Kelly Dorfman
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27:26Could food be the missing piece in your child's development? Learn the answer in this episode with nutrition expert Kelly Dorfman, M.S., who explores the hidden connection between diet and neurodiversity. Listen until the end for practical strategies to support your neurodiverse child through targeted nutrition! What to expect in this episode: The …
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EP203: The Power of Good Enough: Progress Over Perfection
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25:09What if perfectionism is actually holding you back? In this episode, Elaine and Diane discuss how to shift your focus from impossible standards to steady improvement. Learn why striving for “perfect” often backfires and how you can find more freedom and growth by choosing progress instead. Here's what to expect in this episode: The different forms …
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EP202: ADHD Can Help You Succeed in Unexpected Ways with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D.
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28:50If you're living with ADHD or love someone who is, you know it's more than just forgetting keys. This episode dives deep into the emotional realities of ADHD with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D., exploring self-acceptance, family dynamics, and the power of community. Get ready for a conversation that finally "gets it." Listen now! Here's what to expect in this…
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EP201: Meet Fawn: A Tool for Nurturing Emotional Growth in ND Kids
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24:37Parenting in today’s world can feel more complex than ever, especially for those raising neurodivergent kids. In this episode, we engage in an inspiring conversation with Peter Fitzpatrick, the co-founder of Fawn Friends, to explore innovative ways parents can cultivate emotional trust, safety, and intelligence in their children. Tune into this epi…
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EP200: Reduce Family Stress by Taking Aim
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21:54We're celebrating 200 episodes of the Parenting with Impact podcast with a deep dive into what it really takes to create lasting change. In this special episode, we explore the first step of our proven Impact Model: Take Aim. Learn how to cut through the noise and pinpoint the one area you want to focus on to achieve actionable change. Tune in now …
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EP199: Relatable Social Skills for Kids with ADHD with Ryan Wexelblatt
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26:04Raising kids with ADHD can be a journey filled with unique challenges and incredible growth opportunities. In this episode, we dive into a dynamic and insightful conversation with Ryan Wexelblatt, widely known as the ADHD Dude. We’ll uncover powerful strategies to help parents guide their children with ADHD toward greater independence and resilienc…
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EP198: ADHD & Sleep pt 2: Getting Kids In & Out of Bed
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26:12Bedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach…
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EP197: School Advocacy: What Parents Need to Know with Alyson Young
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28:02Navigating the school system can be overwhelming for parents of children with learning differences. In this episode, Elaine Taylor-Klaus sits down with Alyson Young who shares key information about what parents need to understand to advocate for kids with learning challenges. Tune in to learn how to unlock your child's potential and navigate school…
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EP196: Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it)
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22:13Are you someone with neurodiversity who’s struggling with sleep? Join us as we dive into the unique challenges of sleep for neurodiverse individuals and explore why it’s often a struggle for families. From uncovering the deeper reasons behind sleep difficulties to sharing actionable tips for building healthier habits, this episode is packed with in…
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Episode 195: Highlight Reel: Impactful Moments & Guidance from 2024
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36:57Have you ever thought about that word: Parenting?Parenting is actually about us, not about our kids. Sure, part of the job of parenting is 'child-rearing,' or 'raising kids,' or whatever you want to call it. With one of my kids, I used to say that it is "my privilege to supervise her while she raises herself." But really -- parenting is not about t…
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Episode 194: Inspiring Stories: Celebrating Parent Successes
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46:11Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they highlight their Impact Parent success stories. In this special episode of Parenting with Impact, you will hear clips from inspiring success stories from our very own Impact Parents. These clips and stories are the best from this year. You can find link to the full episodes b…
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Episode 193: A Psychiatrist's Perspective on ADHD & Autism
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28:50Dr. Brandi Bolling is a triple-board-certified psychiatrist and pediatrician specializing in ADHD and autism spectrum disorders. With nearly a decade of experience and approximately 20,000 patients seen, she empowers mothers and educators to support children with ADHD through her concierge practice, speaking engagements, and annual ADHD summit. Dr.…
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Episode 192: Navigating Big Emotions with ADHD (Ours & Theirs!)
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34:19One of the trickiest aspects of parenting with ADHD is that, very often, the best parenting strategies -- the ones that help our kids the most -- require calm, well-regulated parents. And that’s not always easy to accomplish when parents have their own big emotions. In this conversation, we’ll identify at least 2 of the 10 main differences in an AD…
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Episode 191: From Undiagnosed ADHD to Dope Black Dad
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42:47To say that this conversation is inspirational and heartfelt, thoughtful and emotional, and fundamentally captures all that this summit intends to convey to our listeners -- well, that’s an understatement. This conversation with Marvyn Harrison offers a fresh perspective on what it means to be an adult diagnosed with ADHD, what it means to be a bla…
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Episode 190: Social Growth & Emotional Intelligence in Children (Part 2)
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26:13Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss emotional intelligence and social dynamics.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain understanding one's own emotions and being empathetic towards others are key components of emotional intelligence.Building a supportive environment within t…
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Ep 189: Eliminating Shame to Be 'Unapologetically ADHD'
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35:45Since 2010, Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright have been the co-hosts of the award-winning podcast, Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast, speaking to adults with ADHD all over the globe. Over 29 seasons—and more than 600 episodes—Nikki and Pete continue to offer support and strategies for adults living with ADHD. And now they decided to write their first boo…
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Ep 188: Executive Function through the Lens of Social Thinking
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38:12What does it mean to break down information in order to build up social competencies? And how does that relate to people with compelling social anxiety? In this discussion with the founder of Social Thinking, Michelle Garcia Winner, we explore the relationship between "being social" and social cognition (ie. social thinking). We touch on four areas…
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Ep 187: The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting
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25:37Parenting With ImpListen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss Emotional Intelligence. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain children learn by example, so showing them how to express emotions in a healthy and constructive way can have a lasting impact.Elaine and Diane suggest helpi…
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Ep 186: Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future
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39:15Dr. Andreas Krafft holds a doctorate in Management Sciences from the University of St. Gallen, specializing in Organizational Psychology, Culture, and Development. With academic expertise in Social, Work, and Health Psychology, as well as Positive Psychology from the University of Zürich, he serves as an associate researcher and lecturer at St. Gal…
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Ep 185: The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids
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30:29Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the three A’s: Awareness, Acknowledgment, and Action. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and a willingness to experiment."Commit to calm before you take action;" By cultivat…
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Ep 184: Why Your Child May Struggle with Following Directions (hint: PDA?)
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46:17In the world of childhood ADHD, you may have heard of Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD), and you might even have some opinions about it, too. It often travels with untreated ADHD. But as the medical community begins to understand the overlap between ADHD and Autism, we want to invite you to learn more about a presentation of Autism called PDA (P…
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Ep 183: Complex Kids are Gifted (& Other Secrets about Their Brains)
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34:06Dr. Robert Melillo is a leading expert in developmental neurological conditions such as ADHD, autism, OCD, tics, dyslexia, anxiety, and depression in both children and adults. With extensive knowledge of brain function, he has perfected a noninvasive, multi-modal method to significantly improve and correct many neurological disorders. His expertise…
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Ep 182: Using Novelty to Hack Your Child's ADHD
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33:08Whether you’re talking about ADHD, Autism, or 2e, developing neurodivergent brains in kids require adults to understand what it takes to get activated. The ADHD brain, for example, is understimulated. It doesn’t respond to rewards the same way as neurotypical brains. And it has a complicated relationship with motivation. So how can you help kids wi…
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Ep 181: Why Focus on Parents? Complex Kids Need Our Guidance
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22:27Parent focus in parenting is an increasingly important topic in today's complex, globalized society. Elaine and Diane bring unique perspectives to this discussion, rooted in their experiences and beliefs. Elaine emphasizes the crucial role of self-care for parents, likening it to the necessity of putting on one’s oxygen mask first. She believes tha…
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Ep 180: Helping Kids Manage Grief, Loss & Disappointment
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31:39Lynne Hughes lost both her parents by the age of 12. She recognized the lack of resources available to her as a grieving child, and into adult life realized child bereavement resources were still nonexistent. So, she took her love for summer camp and founded Comfort Zone Camp, the first-ever national 501(c)3 bereavement camp for grieving children a…
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Ep 179: Procrastination: Getting Started AND Getting Finished!
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32:16You’ve got to understand procrastination in order to overcome it. So in this conversation, we'll explore why kids tend to stall on tasks, from unrealistic goals to unclear plans. And we’ll also look at how a child’s procrastination often leads parents to react in ways that may not actually help the situation. If you want to minimize procrastination…
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Ep. 178: Parents: Are You Making Your Kids Your Job?
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23:14Parenting is a balancing act of love, care, and self-preservation. Elaine and Diane dive deep into the challenges and rewards of finding that sweet spot between raising your kids and nurturing your own identity. How do you maintain this delicate balance in your own life?Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they disc…
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Ep 177: No Time for Judgment: Talking to Teens About Pornography
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33:31Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Monika Roots about talking to your teen about pornography. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide…
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Ep 176: Adult Material Online: Risks & Prevention for Children & Pre-Teens
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35:05Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Paul Simon about risks and prevention for children watching adult material online. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in…
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Ep 175: Research Results: Porn Exposure in Pre-Teens & Teens
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30:36Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Supreet Mann about potential psychological and emotional impacts of exposure to pornographic material on children and teens. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your…
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