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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expect ...
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In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his…
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In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity. Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disc…
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Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth. Building on last week’s insights—where we defined fra…
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Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is ess…
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Discover the final 5 of the 10 Laws for Married Men in Part 2 of our series. In this video, we dive deep into essential tips for a thriving marriage, covering why open communication is critical, how to avoid letting sex become a reward, and the importance of maintaining effort. Learn why setting boundaries and being willing to walk away are game-ch…
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Unlock the secrets to a thriving, passionate marriage with my "10 Laws for Married Men" series! In this must-watch Part 1, we break down the first 5 essential principles every husband needs to master to become a better partner and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Designed specifically for men, these powerful laws cut through the nois…
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Is marriage really a financial disaster waiting to happen, or could it be the key to a richer, happier life for men? In this in-depth video, we’re tackling the big question: Is marriage worth it? We’re diving into a fascinating article from the Institute of Family Studies (https://ifstudies.org/blog/debunking-the-ball-and-chain-myth-of-marriage-for…
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Are you a married man stuck in a sexless marriage for years—or even decades? You’re not alone. In this in-depth video, we explore the heartbreak of sexless marriages, a major source of unhappiness for countless husbands. Why do men stay? The top reasons I hear in the comments are: 1) wanting to raise their kids, 2) fearing financial ruin from divor…
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In this powerful episode, Monica Almaguer sits down with Ralph from Dad Starting Over and HelpForMen.com to dive deep into the topic of "dead bedroom" struggles in relationships. Ralph, author of the bestselling book The Dead Bedroom Fix, shares his personal journey from divorce to rebuilding his life and offers practical advice for men facing inti…
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Are you feeling emotionally disconnected from your spouse? In this in-depth video, we explore why emotional connection is the key to a thriving marriage—and why it’s often the missing piece when intimacy fades. Based on real-life insights, I share my own experience of noticing distance from my husband and realizing it stemmed from unspoken issues. …
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What Would You Do If Your Husband Tracked Your Sex Life? | Viral Reddit Story Breakdown Ever heard of the husband who made a spreadsheet of all the times his wife denied him sex? This wild story, originally posted anonymously on Reddit in 2004, went viral again recently—and people have opinions. Over 7 weeks, he logged 27 attempts, with only 3 succ…
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I attended a marriage conference hosted by a Las Vegas community church last weekend—not to learn, but to research. What are these events teaching about marriage priorities? After two days, I found the same surface-level advice: pray together, communicate better, keep God at the center. Check, check, check. But something critical was missing—sex. S…
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Is your wife having an affair? Discover 7 subtle signs your wife might be cheating or your marriage is at risk— from leveling up her appearance to secretive phone habits. Don’t confront her too soon—gather proof first! We dive into stats (like a 75% divorce risk if her friend’s divorced) and real-life insights. Watch now to spot the clues: new ling…
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With a 50% divorce rate and women filing most cases, are men opting out of marriage? In this video, we dive into hypergamy—women’s natural tendency to seek higher-status partners—and the concept of 'monkey branching.' Does hypergamy stop after marriage, or do women keep searching for a better option? We debunk myths (no, it’s not just about money!)…
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Struggling in a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the tough question: When is it time to leave a sexless marriage? From years of no intimacy to a complete lack of affection, too many men are stuck in "Sexless Island" —some for decades—turning into shells of their former selves. We explore why guys stay (faith, finances, kids), when divorce…
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Welcome back to our channel where today we dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity in marriage. Can a marriage truly recover from such a betrayal? To explore this, we're joined by George Hayworth, a husband, father, combat veteran, and the founder of Elite Sentinel Coaching. In This Video: Introduction to George Hayworth: Discover George…
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Ever wondered why your sex life might change after marriage? In this eye-opening video, we dive deep into the world of hormones and their impact on marital intimacy. What You'll Learn: The Reality of Hormonal Changes: Learn why your wife or fiancée might lose interest in sex as she ages, and how this is a common biological shift rather than a perso…
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Explore the complex dynamics of love, safety, and excitement in relationships! In this insightful video, we delve into: Core Needs of Women: Understanding why love and safety are fundamental yet can lead to issues like boredom. The Gentleman vs. The Beast: How the dual nature of providing stability (Gentleman Mode) and adventure (Beast Mode) can ke…
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In today's video, we're diving into an important topic: the impact of the words men use when addressing a female: whether it is their wife or daughter. Have you ever said something that unintentionally made your wife feel like she's "not enough"? Let's break down common statements like "you always..." and "I wish you were more..." and explore how t…
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The Power of Reframing A few days before Christmas, I found myself in the ER after weeks of mysterious headaches. What followed was a rollercoaster of emotions, a surprising diagnosis involving a "brain crystal," and a heartfelt lesson in reframing life’s challenges. 🧠✨ In this video, I share my personal story, the quirks my husband now attributes …
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3 Ways Women Destroy Their Relationship Without Realizing It | Women Behaving Badly In this video, we dive into three behaviors that can unknowingly damage your relationship, and how women sometimes destroy their man's confidence without even realizing it. Relationships can be complicated, and small actions or comments can have a lasting impact on …
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Ever wondered if your wife might be having an affair? In this eye-opening video, I share personal insights from my own past experiences as a former cheater to help you spot the signs. Here's what we cover: Sign 1: Sudden Improvement in Appearance - Why a change in style might signal more than just self-care. Sign 2: New Friends or Interests - The i…
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In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concerns: Physical, financial, a…
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Is your marriage at risk? In this thought-provoking video, we explore the profound effects of male obesity on marriage, focusing on how it impacts key aspects like attraction, safety, and emotional well-being. 🔹 What You'll Discover: Physical Attraction: How obesity can diminish the physical attraction your wife felt when you married. Safety Concer…
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Fellas, have you ever found yourself in the middle of a heated moment with your wife, wondering, "Why is she so emotional about this?" If you’ve tried to “logic” her out of her feelings, only to make things worse, this video is for you. We dive deep into the emotional dynamics of relationships, explaining why logic doesn’t work in these situations …
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🎥 7 Signs She’s Into You (And 1 Misleading Signal You Need to Ignore!) Do you ever feel like women are speaking in a secret code when it comes to showing interest? Don’t worry—you’re not alone! In this video, I’ll guide you through 7 unmistakable signs that she’s into you. From personal space to lingering glances, I’ll help you decode the signals y…
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Do You Feel Like You've Been Bait-and-Switched in Your Marriage? 🤔 In this video, we explore why some men feel like their marriage took a turn for the worse after the honeymoon phase ended. You might be feeling like your wife has lost interest, the passion has faded, and that you've been bait-and-switched. But is that really what’s happening? I bre…
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Understanding each person's core needs the basis for a relationship/marriage long term success. In today's video, we explore what are the core needs of women. It is only by understanding your spouse's core needs that you can then meet them and have a long term healthy and happy marriage. Core needs are the building blocks in which the rest of the r…
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Life can be difficult but even in those tough times there's valuable lessons that can be learned. In this episode we explore 5 life lessons I learned by playing a treasure hunt type of radio station contest for the last seven years including one big mistake that cost me the $10,000 prize. Stick around for these motivating, inspiring and funny stori…
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Men often will rejected their wife's offer for duty sex due to feeling like it's just another chore, something to cross off her "to do" list, taking it as a lack of physical attraction and desire for him, leading to a cascade of problems in their marriage. This video covers why duty sex shouldn't be considered pity sex. How it's not a rejection of …
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Today we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. While we've previously discussed potential physical obstacles with both the man and the woman. We start by jumping into detail what I believe is the #1 cause of women rejecting their husband's sexual advances. In this video we are diving into potential emotional problems with the man. Specif…
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What is a Godly wife? In this video we examine the one of the most popular Proverbs. 31:10. We examine in detail this entire chapter to get a better insight into the qualities and attributes of a good wife. And the findings just may surprise you, as it did me. For instance, we often think a Godly wife solely stays at home with the children and does…
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Are you a married man who's wife doesn't want to have sex with you? Today, we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. The last two episodes we focus on how the "problem" could be from the man's side. Today we turn our focus on reasons having to do with his wife. Specifically, we discuss physical issues such as medicines, medical conditions…
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In this video we continued the Roadblock to Attractions series. Today, we explore how a man's physical body can enhance or detract his woman's attraction for him. We discuss the need to refer back to his wedding picture as a clue or a reference point to what physically turns her on. Do you look as good, if not better than that day? Or is did you do…
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All women want strong male leadership in their relationship. But what does that even look like? It's likely that you have you been getting your advice from other guys. And while that is extremely helpful, I think there's a piece of the puzzle missing... a woman's point of view? And that is what I'm here to help you with today! This video covers wha…
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25 to 50% of today's marriages today are sexless. This is often called a "Dead Bedroom". This leads to a feeling of rejection, frustration, and resentment for many people Today we have taken some posts from the Reddit community in the Dead Bedroom Subreddit. Follow along as I read some of the posts and offer my thoughts and opinions of what is the …
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Explore real Dead Bedroom Reddit stories in this video. Find out how others have dealt with intimacy struggles in their relationships. With almost 5000,000 members on Reddit's Dead Bedroom forum, the lack of physical intimacy and the emotional impact it has on a person's sense of self-worth and the relationship as a whole is greater than we ever th…
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Unlock his heart and transform your marriage with the secret power of homecooked meals! 🥘 Join me, Monica Almaguer, as I share my personal journey from a career-driven mom who saw cooking as a chore to discovering its profound impact on a happy, successful marriage. Through a life-changing realization, I found that homemade meals can boost your rel…
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Last week, we explored praise, appreciation, and gratitude. Now, I'm sharing actionable tips and tools to balance praise and criticism effectively. In my personal journey, I've noticed how easy it is to focus on the negatives, especially with my kids and husband. But here's the secret: Your compliment-to-complaint ratio needs to be right! Aim for a…
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Ever wondered if you can change your husband? The answer might surprise you! In this video, I explore how focusing on your own actions and mindset can transform your marriage, leading to deeper intimacy and profound improvements. Through heartfelt anecdotes and actionable tips, I'll share how praise, appreciation, and gratitude can create a positiv…
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Ever had those days where your husband walks in grumpy? I've been there! In this video, I share my personal journey and a life-changing realization that transformed my marriage. Discover the 4-step strategy to handle disagreements with grace and build a deeper intimacy. Join me as I dive into my own experiences, from funny anecdotes to heartfelt mo…
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Have you ever been baffled by something your spouse said, leaving you wondering what they really meant? That happened to me when my husband mentioned he wished I was nicer. Initially, I got offended, but a simple moment in a small mountain town led to a profound understanding of what he truly meant. Join me as I dive deep into actionable tips I use…
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Ep 11: Words Matter! How to Speak to Men in A Way that Actually Works So You Can Have the Relationship of Your Dreams! -Part 1 Hey there! 🌟 Do you find yourself stuck in the same old communication patterns with your husband? You've heard it before: "Communication is key!" But what if the way you're communicating is actually the problem? Join me as …
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🌟 Transform Your Marriage: Sneaky Threats You Must Avoid! 🌟 Ever wondered why we spend so much time protecting our valuables but often neglect the most precious thing - our marriage? In this video, I'm diving into the sneaky threats that can sabotage your relationship without you even realizing it. From subtle online interactions to unexpected adva…
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