Send us a text This episode focuses on setting goals and intentions for 2025, highlighting reflections on personal growth and the importance of accountability. We share personal aspirations and the struggle between motivation and self-sabotage while emphasizing the need for emotional safety in relationships and the impact of judgments in interperso…

Send us a text We tackle the complex dynamics of preserving Oromo identity while raising confident children who can thrive in American society. Our conversation explores how parents can cultivate strong cultural roots at home while preparing kids to succeed in spaces where they might be the only Oromo in the room. • Creating an intentional Oromo-sp…

Send us a text Divorce affects our communities deeply yet remains a topic shrouded in shame and misunderstanding despite its prevalence and our Islamic tradition that address it. • Approximately 40% of marriages in America end in divorce, with lack of commitment cited as a primary cause • Many couples spend time planning weddings but fail to discus…

Send us a text Trigger Warning: This episode talks about sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised. We explore SA within the community, discussing its prevalence, the impact on survivors, and cultural responses to this pressing issue. We engage in open dialogue, addressing misconceptions and fostering awareness around trauma-informed care. Sup…

Send us a text Losing parents at a young age profoundly impacts a child's psychological and emotional landscape. Bonni shares her personal journey as an orphan, exploring the feelings of isolation, societal perceptions, and the need for community support while emphasizing the importance of constructive conversations about loss. Support the show Vis…

Send us a text Our discussion dives into the complexities of grieving within our community, exploring how cultural expectations shape expressions of loss and feelings of isolation. We share personal stories of bereavement and the importance of sustaining support for the long-term healing journey that follows. • Exploring the weight of loneliness in…

Send us a text This episode explores the emotional complexities of parenting, highlighting anxiety, the impact of mental health, and the importance of open communication. We emphasize healthy coping strategies and the necessity of fostering emotional safety for children while navigating challenges within familial relationships. • Discussing anxiety…

Send us a text In this episode, we discuss the profound impact of our childhood experiences on our parenting styles while exploring emotional intelligence and regulation. The conversation highlights the importance of fostering a safe environment for children to express their feelings while reflecting on how our own upbringing shapes our actions as …

Send us a text We all know the struggle of juggling life's many demands, but what if we told you that redefining sacrifice could actually empower you? Join us as we share our personal journey of transformation in 2024—where we moved from cautious beginnings to confidently embracing our voices. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on our podcast's…

Send us a text Unlock the mysteries of Islamic mortgage and financing with our special guest, Hussam Qutub, Senior Vice President and National Sales Manager for Guidance Residential. With a passion for real estate that started in his youth, Hussam takes us on his intriguing journey into Islamic finance, sharing how it aligns homeownership with ethi…

Send us a text It's a journey many of us are on—disentangling from the web of generational habits to foster healthier relationships with our children. In this episode of Difficult Conversations, we wade into the deep waters of family dynamics, sharing personal stories that shine a light on the necessity of transforming our inherited behaviors. Ther…

Send us a text Navigating the ebbs and flows of romance can be enough of a challenge, but throw money into the mix, and you've got yourself a complex dance that many of us find ourselves tripping over. Join us as we traverse the emotional landscape of money management, where tales of self-indulgence, financial guilt, and the fear of a dwindling ban…

Send us a text Navigating the minefield of marriage requires more than just mutual affection—it demands respect, trust, and understanding the psychological dance of ego and validation. This episode doesn't just skim the surface; we dig into the reasons why some partners may seek approval from outside their union, and how this pursuit can erode the …

Send us a text As we navigate the bustling currents of adulthood, we uncover the significance of shared interests and values in the friendships that flourish, and acknowledge the sometimes necessary, heart-wrenching goodbyes that come with life's inevitable changes. This episode delves into the complexities of sharing our innermost thoughts, the cu…

Send us a text Have you ever felt like a chameleon, blending into the background of different cultures and communities? That's a reality for many within the Oromo culture, as we unpack in this episode. Childhood experiences can be like invisible threads, guiding our adult relationships and self-perceptions in ways we often don't realize. We explore…

Send us a text Ever find yourself climbing a ladder only to realize you're the one shaking it? Our latest heart-to-heart tackles that very conundrum, unraveling the perplexities of self-sabotage that often hold us back from seizing the life we yearn for. We highlight the transformative power of therapy and a robust support network. We're passionate…

Send us a text Family dynamics are like fingerprints—unique and sometimes, complex beyond words. Join us as we talk about forgiveness and how it can sometimes be hard to navigate with people closest to us. We'll explore practical strategies for dealing with challenging interpersonal dynamics, and reveal how forgiveness, can be a vehicle for profoun…

Send us a text Ramadan is here! What have you prepared for it? We extend our thoughts to those who may find the month challenging, such as new Muslims and individuals without Muslim family members, emphasizing the importance of inclusion and support within our community. As we highlight the value of charitable acts and community integration during …

Send us a text As the world spun on its axis, grappling with the chaos of the first three months of 2024 Abshiro, Bonni, and Dahabe – sat down to untangle the year's most complex threads. Embracing the precipice of a new year, we share our collective aspirations, recognizing the need to step beyond well-worn paths and into spaces where dialogue and…

Send us a text As we wrap-up season two, we talk about what we have learned from our interviews with young men, young women, a married women, a married man, and our discussion on parenting. We tackle the glaring disparity of expectations between genders, examining how societal norms and cultural influences often lead to the marginalization of singl…

Send us a text Have you ever wondered how Montessori principles can transform not just your child's learning but your entire approach to parenting? Join us as we sit down with Asiya, a devoted Montessorian and mother of two, who has embraced this revolutionary methodology in her home. Asiya’s insightful journey into Montessori parenting began after…

Send us a text You've heard the saying 'love knows no boundaries,' but what happens when love crosses cultural lines? Discover the fascinating journey of our multilingual guest, who not only works as a senior constituent advocate in US Senator Amy Klobuchar's office but also navigates a vibrant marriage. From his early days of marriage, through the…

Send us a text Imagine walking down the aisle at a young age with no real expectations for your future marriage. This is the reality for our guest, Jarai, who joins us to share her 16-year journey through love, compromise, and patience. From learning to understand her partner's background and values, to navigating societal pressures and discovering…

Send us a text Tune in as we give our insights on our interview with three young women (Iman, Darartu, and Layla) and their perspective on love and marriage. In the quest for love and companionship, understanding each other's expectations is paramount. Do men and women really want different things? We dissect the disconnect between what men and wom…

Send us a text Have you ever considered how ingrained gender roles are in your relationship? Let's discuss and dissect this topic with our wonderful guests - Iman, Darartu, and Layla - who will share insights from their personal lives, how they navigate family expectations, academic pursuits, work, and the often complex world of dating. This episod…

Send us a text We learned a lot from our interviews with the college and post-college guys about their experiences with dating and courting. From discussing gender disparities in relationships, to shedding light on how family, religion, and culture shape our thoughts about love and companionship, we’ve got it all covered. We also touch upon the dou…

Send us a text In this episode, we explore the lessons learned from past relationships and the significance of maintaining loyalty to Allah within them. The complexities of young dating are laid bare, and we grapple with the challenges they present, never shying away from the tough questions. How do shifts in environment, commitment levels, and lif…

Send us a text Ever wondered how an educator's cultural background influences their approach in the classroom? Tune in to join us and our guests, Ahmed and Mohamed, as we traverse the intricate layers of singlehood, career in education, and the profound impact of our diverse cultural roots on our lives. Drawn from our personal narratives, we engage…

Send us a text How do we navigate the complexities of culture, relationships, and personal growth in the Oromo diaspora? Join us as we tackle the often unspoken topic of courting, discussing the lack of conversation around relationships in families and how parents often turn a blind eye to the realities of hormones and peer pressure affecting their…

Send us a text What if we told you that the story of two couples with different backgrounds could provide valuable lessons on love and relationships? Join us for a captivating conversation as we explore the profound impact of culture, family, and upbringing on our views of love, partners, and relationships. We uncover the importance of focusing on …

Send us a text What happens when you find the courage to stand up to arranged marriage expectations, but still find yourself searching for your soulmate at 33? In this heartfelt episode, we hear from a brave listener who shares her emotional journey of defying her parents' wishes for an early arranged marriage and navigating the anxiety of finding …

Send us a text Have you ever felt like a stranger in your own skin, trying to navigate cultural identity and personal growth? Join us on a heartfelt journey through Abshiro's childhood memories - from her playful days in Ethiopia to her challenging experience of moving to America and adjusting to a completely new culture. As the conversation unfold…

Send us a text As we continue to introduce our co-hosts, join us for an introspective conversation with our co-host Dahabe as we explore her captivating life journey. Ever wondered how someone with a background in akhlaq teaching - the Islamic study of manners, spends their weekends? Spoiler alert: it involves teaching at Madrasa and going for hike…

Send us a text Have you ever felt the weight of family expectations and struggled to find your authentic self? Join us as we sit down with our lovely co-host Bonni and dive into her inspiring journey from a small town in Adis to life in America. Bonni shares her unique childhood stories, including the dynamics between her parents, her early schooli…

Send us a text Welcome back to season two! What are we about as a podcast? What do we want people to take away from this season? We are focusing on all things relationships! Red flags, green flags, and what makes them work. In this episode, we renew our intentions and touch on what we hope to achieve. Support the show Visit our IG page at https://w…

Send us a text We are excited to kick-off this season with a pre-season episode! This Ramadan we want to put a spot-light on one of our favorite charities; The American Relief Agency for the Horn of Africa (ARAHA). ARAHA's mission is to strive to alleviate the suffering from hunger, illiteracy, diseases, and poverty in the Horn of Africa, as well a…

Send us a text How do you show up for others the way they would like you to show up for them? What does it mean to have empathy? In this episode we talk about how one can make space and be there for those that are struggling with mental health issues. We talk about what the symptoms of depression might look like and how they might present. Support …

Send us a text How does mental health show up in a marriage? How can we be there for our spouse if they are going through mental health issues? Join the conversation @dc.overcoffee. Support the show Visit our IG page at https://www.instagram.com/dc_overcoffee/ to join the conversation!By dc.overcoffee

Send us a text What does a healthy friendship look like? In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a good friend and how sometimes your friends can negatively impact your mental health. We discuss how we show up as a good friend in our personal lives and we explore ways to maintain and cultivate healthy connections that could last a lifeti…

Send us a text In this episode we discuss boundaries as it relates to family. Our family members are the hardest to say 'no' to but it is sometimes necessary for our mental wellbeing. Connect with us on IG @dc.overcoffee and share your thoughts with us! Support the show Visit our IG page at https://www.instagram.com/dc_overcoffee/ to join the conve…

Send us a text How do we de-stigmatize talking about mental health? Stigma is defined as "a mark of disgrace associated with a particular circumstance, quality, or person." Although talking about mental health has become more common, people still associate negativity with those battling mental health. In this episode, we discuss many life pressures…

Send us a text Being alone is a state of being and Loneliness is a feeling. In this episode, we talk about what it means to be alone and how that shows up fro most people. Loneliness exasperates many mental health challenges and many people don’t have a coping mechanism for it. What do you do when you are feeling lonely? Connect with us on IG @dc.o…

Send us a text We are always told to follow our passion but is passion enough? In this episode we talk about what the role of passion is in our careers. How does one follow their passion in the real world? What does passion mean? Does everyone have something they are passionate about? What do you think? Join the conversation on our social media! @d…

Send us a text Have you ever been depressed? How would you know if you were depressed? Depression is a very common and serious medical illness. It negatively affects how you feel, think and act. In this episode, we just scratch the surface of what is depression. Join the conversation and follow Dc.overcoffee on IG https://www.instagram.com/dc_overc…

Send us a text In this episode we talk about submissiveness in marriage and what that looks like. We discuss it in the context of an interview of Jasmin Brown by Shan Boody ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m51p72b7NT4 ). Connect with us on IG @dc.overcoffee and share your thoughts with us! Is submissiveness the way to a happy marriage? Listen and …

Send us a text Stay tuned for our podcast launch on September 12th 2022! Support the show Visit our IG page at https://www.instagram.com/dc_overcoffee/ to join the conversation!By dc.overcoffee