This isn't a new problem but people have being calling me literally WHATEVERTHEFUCKTHEYWANT for many years and I've been taking it! FULL STOP TODAY! I still get so mega angry triggered when ppl call me stuff like "mistress mommy domme professional dominatrix" and ALL combos of those things. Let's talk about what those words mean and why I do not li…

SORRY! The ENTIRE 30min audio is now uploaded. This is supposed to be May 2nd episode. Let's do a TMI "Ask Me Anything!" TMI means Too Much Information, as in ask VERY personal questions where I'll give way too much detailed, cringe info. I got a lot of General Advice type questions as well but I'll answer those in a future video.I answer all the S…

Who hasn't felt guilt or shame with liking AB/DL, diapers and ageplay?I think the answer is most of us. We (Greejay & JayBDL) have a LONG & EMOTIONAL (ok, it's me crying as usual) discussion about dealings with these feelings. How does our guilt/shame play into our relationships? How do we start finding self acceptance?This one is more of a casual …

Aging while one part of you wants to be young again! It's gonna happen to each & every one of us. What's it like being in our 40's and seeing the demographics change at events? JayBDL and Greejay have a long discussion about our feelings, perceptions and experiences in the ABDL "community" (we all participate in events and online). Do you think you…

It can be scary going to your first AB/DL event, especially when you don't know anyone. How do you get the conversation started? JayBDL & I come up with some SAFE conversation starters (and also what not to talk about) in this video. I also inspect a 6 tape Depends diaper & it's like, why are they so thin?! Other MUNCH/EVENT related videos you may …

We're excited to announce a brand new convention, the first of it's kind, DiaperFetCon - a DL focussed gathering! There are plenty of ABDL events but here's one for DLs to have their kind of fun. Oct 29-31, 2025 in Las Vegas, Nevada! Complete with interesting classes & seminars such as:- Restraints & Diapers- Introducing your partner roundtable- Fe…

Livewire25 suggested I write a book about my time as a professional diaper fantasy facilitator and I'm like "nope! I'm way too lazy and no one wants to know all that stuff. They can just book a session with any pro DFF" and he's like "people want to know what's behind the velvet rope" and I"m like "you're ridiculous. I'll just make a tell all youtu…

Join SleepySunflower (FetLife) and Diaperperv as we work out our personal ABDL boundaries on video, LOL. What happens when our boundaries get crossed, how to we discover our boundaries and learning how to say no. How do we communicate it to others?Then we try Jelly Belly "Beanboozled" where you don't know if the jelly bean is a yummy flavor or a GR…

I'm answering more of your questions today (from YT, FB & Twitter). Stuff like: How can we foster a better ABDL community to What to bring for babs on the go! You can watch the AMA part 1 (Reddit edition) here: https://youtu.be/COthEmCT_bo?si=KmQrnpdJuBy8S2Dq For my Ask Me Anything about ABDL Sessions (last year), here's part 1: https://youtu.be/av…

We've got Diaperperv (straight), MuscleDogSlayer (gay) and Baby Donny (bi) having a casual and honest discussion about the differences & similarities between gay, straight and mixed ABDL events. Is there drama in both circles? Do you go to different events or do you stick to one type only?Add MuscleBard https://bsky.app/profile/musclebard.bsky.soci…

It's been 3 years since my last AMA. I did an "Ask Me Anything about being an EX-Pro Diaper Fantasy Facilitator" last year here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=Gk9YU0_eD4wv738H and Part 2 here: https://youtu.be/OnxJz1O_F7U?si=QKYkU4QR4DeRix0uThere were so many questions, I had to split it in two. I balanced them the best I could; most of these are…

It's Diaperperv, Livewire25, SleepySunflower and her daddy RecklessJay here to share some ABDL and general kink advice! We talk about some of the non engaging and less than stellar messages we've gotten and how that can affect peoples perceptions of you when you transition to a real life event! Aka. the cr*p that we deal with & how not to be that p…

We (LiveWire25 & SleepySunflower) do a mini review of the new Potty Training Dropouts - Beddy Bye adult abdl diapers. They have a heat pressed outer, non-plastic backed shell & can hold up to 6500ml of pee. They are hook & loop closure style & the inner lining has a "pearl embossed core" for max absorption. Sunflower also wets her first ever diaper…

We've got our first couple on the show & Sunflower (and her Daddy) are going to explain how she converted him from being TOTALLY VANILLA (didn't know what BDSM meant) to living this dynamic as an authentic 24/7 Daddy/BB Girl couple. Some great advice ahead so tune in! Also, a beautiful announcement & Livewire also cries a little bit. I hope this gi…

This is one of my "hot mess" videos where I had no new ideas but I wanted to keep the streak of weekly Youtube uploads going (this is Week 11). I actually taught a class on convention dropping at Capcon 2020 but I totally go off script & just jump around today. If you don't know what it is, it's the psychological let down (sadness, lethargy) after …

I forgot to upload this last week, whoops. It's my husbands 3rd?? time on my Youtube channel & this is 100% leading this interview. I honestly had NO clue what questions my husband was going to ask me (he wouldn't let me see) so all answers are authentic but not well thought out, if that makes sense. I reveal some heartfelt things I've never said o…

Happy New Years!! Let's start off with some silly adult, consentual ABDL diaper games for your next gathering, convention, party! Baby Donny & I literally came up with these on the fly. Do you have any game ideas involving adult diapers? Let's hear em in the comments!Diaperpervs links are here!

The fact that we can come up with 10 iconic moments in history that changed the AB/DL (Adult Baby/ Diaper Lover) trajectory of how you lived, discovered & interacted as one... means we've come a long way! Join me & Baby Donny as we discuss these life changing events! Not in any order:1. The first DPF printed newsletter!2. You'll just have to watch!…

The fact that we can come up with 10 iconic moments in history that changed the AB/DL (Adult Baby/ Diaper Lover) trajectory of how you lived, discovered & interacted as one... means we've come a long way! Join me & Baby Donny as we discuss these life changing events! Not in any order:1. The first DPF printed newsletter!2. You'll just have to watch!…

What does community service look like in the AB/DL lifestyle? I share the ways I've given back to the community (yikes, if I sound preachy or like I'm bragging, I really don't mean to). I also share ways that you can get involved with community participation (lots of different ways for your comfort levels).Why do it? It just feels good to pitch in …

Just checking out my friends new ABDL Nursery (where we live, Las Vegas, NV) and I'm seeing a lot of this stuff for the first time myself! Open the drawers with me. Half the video we just talk about diapers, lol. I discover some new (to me) Japanese diapers from Amazon. Friend is Mister_EEEE on FetLife if you'd like to add him!All my links at http:…

You're going to your 1st ABDL Con & have Q's? I've answered some of these questions before on other ABDL convention Q&A videos but here are some of the most common questions that I keep seeing asked time and time again over many social media platforms. Most of these are also diaper specific related questions that I know you're all wondering about. …

It's my first solo video in months & I am NERVOUS! LOL. I see a lot of you asking on social media "What is a play partner (to me)?" and I'm sure you're wondering how does one become my play partner. I've had a good number over the years and I answer all these questions now!My definition of "Play Partner."Am I polyamorous?What I look for in a play p…

There's a brand new AB/DL convention on Nov 12-16th, 2025 called Littles Jamboree & we're sitting down with the creator, Mommy Belle (aka. Tianas Nursery) to talk about ALL the details. SORRY ABOUT THE AUDIO VOLUME FOR MY VOICELittles Jamboree will be held in Milwaulkee, WI. Nov 12-16, 2025. Tickets go on sale Nov 28th, 2024 & will have Black Frida…

There's a brand new AB/DL convention on Nov 12-16th, 2025 called Littles Jamboree & we're sitting down with the creator, Mommy Belle (aka. Tianas Nursery) to talk about ALL the details. Littles Jamboree will be held in Milwaulkee, WI. Nov 12-16, 2025. Tickets go on sale Nov 28th, 2024 & will have Black Friday deals. We go over the programming sched…

We talk about curating your realistic fantasies to come to life. How to plan it? I also talk about a very incredible diaper day I had with a former play partner (story time!!) and some of you guys wanted this spicier types of conversation so here you go!! What would your "BEST Diaper Day" look like and let's make it a reality! Follow me at http://w…

Happy ABDL Diaper Day (National Diaper day was Oct 24th). JayBDL and I have a very casual chat about diapers, the advancement of abdl & adult diapers over the years and what you can do to celebrate. In all seriousness, every day should be diaper appreciation day so let's all wear one & wet it together in collaborative solidarity & give diaper butt …

Donny and I talk about 7 common mistakes we see people making in AB/DL. And you may be missing out because of these. 1. Thinking that women don't go to events. 2. Not going to event at all.3. Not paying attention to red flags!4. Pushing AB/DL onto others without consent. 5. Confusing fantasy with reality.6. Pigeonholing yourself to one thing. 7. Fi…

Get to know Baby Donny! You've seen him on my youtube videos, maybe seen him or hung with him at one of the many national events he attends... get to know Baby Donnys (Aka. famous pornstar Draven Navarro) ongoing ABDL journey & the secret to his diaper confidence. All my links at Diaperperv.com Baby Donny at Draven Navarro Twitter…

A very LONG WINDED conversation about how to find a good pro-diaper fantasy facilitator and mitigate your risks of getting ripped off. In short (really, this convo could have been a total of 6 minutes long) 1. Remove your emotions during the search process. 2. Vet them! Remember, they're working for you! 3. Communicate what you want out of the expe…

I was highly amused while editing this because I was SO TRIGGERED just talking about it that I could not properly communicate and articulate myself, LOL. All I can do is laugh about it now. Ever since I got online at 19 and found out I was not alone in my interests... I've been scrutinized, been suspicious of, questioned about whether I'm "real" or…

I know it can get boring having ABDL kinks/interests by yourself but Donny, Livewire and JayBDL all chime in with ways they try to keep it entertaining and fun for themselves. Hope you get some new ideas or scenarios to try out & keep it light & fun everyone!Comment below with your favorite solo play ideas!Find me at http://www.diaperperv.comSome o…

For many, diapers + "punishment" go hand in hand. For some, just having someone put the diaper on is punishment enough, but what else is there? I've had SO many requests for AB/DL's whose partners need help for "diaper punishment" ideas & they don't really know what to do. We all pitch in with ideas; Donny & Livewire have some great ones! We also d…

That's right! JayBDL actually told his mom about his diaper fetish & ABDL interests. So how did she react? Listen & find out. Diaperperv & JayDBL discuss who we've all told in our lives & what their reactions were. Why would you even want anyone in your life to know about it?? We discuss that too! NOTE: We were driving as we recorded this (on my ph…

We cover this sex topic AGAIN but in much more detail. It really helps when JayBDL moderates us as we talk about all the different ways to incorporate our diaper fetish with penetrative adult fun! We also cut a hole into the ABU Tiny Tails to make a DSD (diaper s3x diaper!) for some wholesome crafting. Baby Donny can be found on twitter as @draven_…

Earlier this week, @ZaciRoo shared his 2024 ABDL wishlist so now it's my turn to share mine!! I don't think most of these will happen but let's but it out into the ABUniverse anyways. These are not my personal wishes, just general wishes that I think would benefit the community! What's on your AB/DL wishlist this year?? The current AB/DL worldwide …

Why are there so many scammers (successfully) trying to take advantage of AB's and DL's in the scene? What is considered a scam & what is not? @ZaciRoo & I talk about the different ways scammers try to fleece you & the warning signs to look for!More people are probably scammed than we know because it is embarrassing to admit it if you were. Please …

There's been a lot more eyes on the terms AB/DL, ageplayer, diaper lovers & adult babies in the media lately! With that comes a LOT of misconceptions and stereotypes, mainly due to the media & those that aren't great representatives of the lifestyle that talk to the media. Adult babies are not... well you'll just have to watch it! Adult babies are:…

Just in time for Capcon 2024! Baby Donny, my non-ABDL friend Ashley and I (Diaperperv) talk about ways to overcome shyness, get out there and engage with people! There's lot of tips and our own stories. I think almost all of us has been there and events can be quite intimidating when you're new, or not new. It's normal to feel nervous but what if y…

Thanks AB Universe for sending the new Tiny Tails positional printed, plastic backed adult diapers for us to try out! Ok, Donny and I have NEVER done an official product review and I can guarantee it is NOT professional or serious like the other channels that do diaper reviews... ours is a hot mess! But it does include the very important crinkle te…

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones finished in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSl…

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator for 6 years, from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones cum in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si…

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber ⁠@howtowearadultdiapers⁠ comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch ⁠ @howtowea…

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult cl…

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult cl…

There's been a number of different books on the topic of AB/DL, ageplay and infantilism (whatever words is being used in that era.) So are they good or bad overall? I "try" to stay unbiased but I think you can tell by my facial expressions how I feel about certain authors I am holding. @howtowearadultdiapers does a fantastic job of staying neutral …

Diaperperv has never been to any of the AB/DL smaller house party/weekend gatherings & she's only been to either conventions or munches. Her friend Greejay has ONLY been to the smaller scale weekend house parties. So let's walk through how to go to one of these events & what happens. If you're new to my podcast, I also have 3 years worth of AB/DL e…

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber @howtowearadultdiapers comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch @howtowearadu…

There's a lot of DL's (Diaper Lovers) that personally don't feel like events labelled as ABDL & ageplay don't pertain to them. So JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) chat about it! There are indeed DLs that go to ABDL events & sometimes they do some of the ageplay things to fit in. There are a lot of ageplayers that started as DLs first. If you're a DL, what…

JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) talk about when your interests in diapers wane/cycle off/don't interest you. We deep dive into why it might happen. How often it happens for us & if we get concerned when it does (I certainly do!) I question what we are & aren't in control of & how it worries me. Have you ever been not interested in diapers? NOT a purge, b…