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We invite you to join Reiki Masters Elaine Riley and Beth Blair on a journey to explore how to become your own, real life sage by utilizing tools like astrology, human design, Feng shui, crystals and so much more. All while calling in the power and support of Reiki. Helping you to connect deeper into your own inner authority and wisdom for a more balanced and fulfilling life.
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Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends. If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you. You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
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Episode 310: Covert Narcissism and Family Court with Kelli Avallone
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In this episode, Brook sits down with family law attorney Kelli Avallone to unpack the tricky dynamics of covert narcissism in custody battles and high-conflict divorces. They explore why labeling a co-parent as a narcissist can backfire, how courts really view psychological evaluations, and why focusing on evidence-based behavior is more effective…
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Words Matter: Navigating Self-Talk and Intentionality
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This podcast episode discusses the profound impact of words and self-talk on personal well-being and energy. Beth and Elaine reflect on the tendency for people to engage in negative self-talk and gossip, which can lower one's vibration and create unfavorable internal energy. They emphasize the importance of being mindful of one's language and offer…
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Feng Shui for Real Life: Balancing Energy with Crystals
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Feng Shui for Real Life: Balancing Energy with Crystals Unlocking the Power of Feng Shui with Crystals for Real Life Balance In this episode, Beth and Elaine delve into the fascinating world of Feng Shui, discussing how to apply its principles to enhance the energy in your living and working spaces. They explore the historical roots of Feng Shui, i…
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A New Era: Astrology's Impact on the Reiki Evolution
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In this engaging podcast episode, hosts Elaine and Beth delve into the fascinating connections between astrology and the evolution of Holy Fire® Reiki. They examine the timing of Neptune moving into Aries and its implications for the growth and transformation in the realm of spirituality. The conversation spans topics such as the significance of Ne…
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Episode 309: Mindsets for Surviving Divorce with Kate Anthony
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In this episode, Brook sits down with divorce coach Kate Anthony to unpack the mindsets that truly help during divorce, especially in high-conflict co-parenting situations. They discuss why emotional reactions can backfire, how to shift from wanting “fairness” to focusing on what’s legal and strategic, and the importance of boundaries and radical a…
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Harnessing the Power of Venus and Reiki: Self-Worth, Astrology, and Spiritual Healing
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In this episode, we dive deep into the current astrological energies with a focus on Venus and its connection to self-worth, love, and values. We explore how Venus's influence aligns perfectly with Reiki practices, emphasizing the importance of self-care and internal work during Venus retrograde. We also discuss the upcoming astrological events, in…
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Beyond Sessions: How to Integrate Reiki Into Your Daily Life
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In this episode, Beth and Elaine explore the important role of Reiki in their daily lives. They discuss integrating Reiki into morning routines, using different Reiki types, and combining it with art and astrology to tailor it to their own unique, individual practices each day. The conversation highlights the importance of personal Reiki sessions a…
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Reiki Conversations: Tradition, Transition, and Holy Fire® Reiki
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Join Elaine and Beth as they discuss the nuances between traditional Usui Reiki and Holy Fire® Reiki. They share personal experiences on how the different styles of Reiki emerged at the right times, the transitions between them, and the differing methodologies in attunements. The conversation delves into the evolution of Holy Fire® Reiki, exploring…
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Episode 308: Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD) and It's Expressions
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In this episode, Brook welcomes back Ross Rosenberg, author of The Human Magnet Syndrome and The Codependency Revolution, to dive deeper into the concept of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD)—a groundbreaking reframing of codependency. Together, they unpack how early attachment trauma shapes relationship dynamics, leading many into repeated cycles o…
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Reiki and Energy talk with Reiki 4 Real Life
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Exploring Reiki, Astrology, and Energy Healing Join us as we delve into the fascinating world of Reiki, astrology, and energy healing. In this video, we explore the integration of Reiki and astrology, the significance of the New Moon in Aries solar eclipse, and how these energies influence our daily lives and teaching styles. We discuss the evolvin…
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Episode 307: Body Language and Conflict with John Riley
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In this episode, Brook speaks with John Riley from Gentle Response about the impact of body language in high-conflict co-parenting. They explore the ACE method—Appearance, Communication, and Engagement—and how small adjustments in posture, tone, and presence can de-escalate tense situations, whether in court, mediation, or daily interactions. Brook…
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Episode 306: Growing Through Conflict with author Dana Caspersen
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In this episode, Brook Olsen welcomes conflict engagement specialist and bestselling author Dana Caspersen to discuss how conflict can be an opportunity for growth rather than a problem to avoid. Dana shares insights from her book Conflict Is an Opportunity and explores how our mindset and belief systems shape the way we handle difficult situations…
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Episode 305: Creating Better Outcomes: The Power of Initial Conditions with Karen McNenny
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In this episode, Brook welcomes Karen McEnany, The Good Divorce Coach, to discuss how setting the right foundation in divorce can significantly impact long-term outcomes. Divorce inherently carries conflict, but the way we navigate the early stages—our initial conditions—can determine whether the process will be calm, moderately contentious, or hig…
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Episode 302 Conflict Detox Reducing Emotional Reactivity with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from Been There Got Out
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In this episode Brook and his guests Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from the podcast Been There Got Out discuss the notion of High Conflict Detox. This is where a person/parent is stuck deeply in the habitual cycle of conflict and the nervous system maintains a high level of chronic activation. In order to break the cycle one must endure the discomfo…
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Episode 301: The Science and Art of Engagement with Author Rich Carr
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In this episode Brook has guest Rich Carr author of Surprised: The Science and Art of Engagement. Rich brings a bright and engaging look at how we as humans respond or react to an outside stimulus and in understanding the workings of the various part of the brain dictate how you will engage in or disengage with that stimulus. In high conflict or fo…
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Episode 304 Polyvagal Theory and The Science of Feeling Safe with Dr. Stephen Porges
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In this episode Brook has esteemed guest, researcher, professor and author of the Polyvagal Theory, Dr. Steven Porges. Brook and Dr. Porges have a robust and educational conversation about how the vagus nerve influences the fear response, social connections and emotional regulations. It is important to understand the functional brain response in or…
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Episode 303 Supporting Families with Neurodiverse Children With Elaine Taylor
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In this episode Brook has guest Elaine Taylor-Klaus, Author and Co-Founder of Impact Parents. Brook and Elaine have a robust conversation about parenting a child that is neurodivergent and the challenges that go with the behaviors with being ADHD or on the spectrum of Autism. Deep in the discussion the conversation move in the direction of generati…
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Episode 302 Conflict Detox_ Reducing Emotional Reactivity with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from Been There Got Out
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In this episode Brook and his guests Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry from the podcast Been There Got Out discuss the notion of High Conflict Detox. This is where a person/parent is stuck deeply in the habitual cycle of conflict and the nervous system maintains a high level of chronic activation. In order to break the cycle one must endure the discomfo…
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Episode 300: Disasterous Divorce To Priceless Relationship With Your Kids with Derrick Chevalier
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In this episode Brook and his guest Derrick Chevalier discuss in depth the interconnection between negotiation in divorce and custody and first understanding what is on the playing field and who the players are first, before setting sail in the process. Getting yourself settled and using your unique knowledge of the situation in order to knit toget…
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Episode 299 Getting Ahead of The Holiday Chaos with Michelle Mitchell
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In this episode Brook and Michelle take another deeper dive into the subject of preparing for and dealing with the stresses of the holidays. When dealing with high conflict co-parentis it is important to have an open mindset of solving the problems out front and deep understanding of how you are stuck trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Cha…
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Episode 298 Projection, Transference and Countertransference, Making it Personal
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In this episode Brook has special guest Nicola Ranson L.C.S.W. Brook and Nicola discuss the concepts of Transference and Projection as pertain to working with a coach or therapist. These are always taking place in all relationships and unconsciously affect the interaction. When working with a coach or therapist it is important the coach or therapis…
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In this Episode Brook has as his special guest Attorney Kelli Avallone in to discuss the frustrations that clients have when dealing with their attorneys as well as those frustrations of the attorney with their clients, in high conflict custody cases. The discussion explores the topics that can cause the frustration and how using a qualified coach …
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Episode 296 Anxiety and How it Drives Conflict
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In this episode Brook and Tony delve into the notion of how anxiety is one of if not the main driver of conflict and at the base understanding this and learning how to navigate the terrain of ones own anxiety is the avenue toward a high threshold of tolerance can make the difference in disengaging. The basis in the defensive response even in those …
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Episode 295 Finding Refuge From The Email Carpet Bombing
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the narcissistic practice of email Carpet Bombing. This is the practice of incessantly sending repeated emails in order to hook you into an argument, to tell you are doing it wrong, to harass and demean you and to cause as much chaos as possible to get you to engage. This is an important concept to underst…
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Episode 294 Legal Abuse and Going it Pro Se With Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out
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In this episode Brook has special guest Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out to discuss how High Conflict Personalities can drive legal abuse in the family court system and how to organize yourself to be able to go it with out an attorney. Lisa brings some good information to a scary subject. You can contact Lisa through their website beentheregoto…
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Episode 292 The Tightrope Act of Keeping The Kids Out of the Middle
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the struggles that come with dealing with a ex that isn't on the same page and exhibits narcissist like behaviors and how to navigate keeping the kids out of the middle of ongoing conflict. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •fre…
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Episode 293 High Conflict Co-Parenting Combating Harassment and Abuse An Interview with Talking Parents
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In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in …
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In this episode of the High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Brook and Tony discuss the difference between Capacity and Competency and that building of the container ( Capacity) has to happen first and then from there Competency can build. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes …
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Episode 286 Where Did It All Go Forensics and Tracing Assets
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In this episode Brook speaks with Attorney Kelli Avallone about the in's and out's, Features and Down sides of teaching for "Hidden Assets". Finding Assets can be difficult and deciding to do so should be a "Return On Investment" inquiry. Enjoy!!!! You can reach Kelli at [email protected] Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access …
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