Best Intimacy Coach For Christian Couples Podcasts (2025)

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Q & A: How to Do Separation the Right Way 8:29

1d ago8:29

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Have you considered a separation in your marriage? A listener wrote asking about the right way to do a separation. How long should it be? What are the "rules of engagement"? We're discussing reasons for separation, establishing clear rules, and knowing the realities of the situation, including the need for a timeline and the significance of having …

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Episode 371 - Why Do They Want To Try That? 13:02

1d ago13:02

13:02

When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, “Where did that come from?” and your second is, “Do I have to say yes to this to make them happy?” These moments can stir up all kinds of questions: Is this who they really are? Is som…

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242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles 33:45

1d ago33:45

33:45

Are there lessons we can learn from those that have gone through marital infidelity and use those lessons to improve our marriages today? I personally haven't dealt with this, but I know of many people that have just experienced the great heartache and the trouble that's come through infidelity in their marriage. So today I sat down with a longtime…

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32 | How Do You Get Your Husband To Lead Spiritually? What to Do If Your Husband Won’t Lead Spiritually: A Biblical Wife’s Response 19:05

3d ago19:05

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Are you a Christian wife longing for your husband to step into spiritual leadership—but feeling discouraged, disconnected, or even resentful that he won’t? What directions does scripture give to wives of husbands who don't lead spiritually? Looking for Bible Scriptures as a Wife? Wondering what the husband's spiritual leader's verses say? In this e…

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EP 158 \\ How Your Phone Is Quietly Competing With Your Spouse—And How to Reconnect in Marriage 14:10

3d ago14:10

14:10

Hi friend! It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse? In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We…

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Are You Helping or Enabling? 27:01

5d ago27:01

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I know you have good intentions, but want to know if you are helping or enabling? This episode will help you to discover if you are indeed an enabler: what it really means, the signs you might be an enabler, and the dangers of mistaking enabling for grace (especially within Christian circles and families). I share about my strength in setting bound…

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How Your Senses Are Key to Better Communication with Your Spouse with Nicole Villegas 46:06

5d ago46:06

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Dr. Nicole Villegas, occupational therapist and founder of the Sensory Conscious Institute, explores how understanding nervous systems and sensory patterns helps build relationships rooted in safety, connection, and clarity. • Beyond the five senses: interoception (internal feelings), vestibular (movement through space), and proprioception (body po…

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Wife Doesn't Want To Pray With You? What To Do 13:46

4d ago13:46

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It can be scary and frustrating if your wife doesn’t want to pray with you. Or maybe it’s that she doesn’t want to go to church or read scriptures with you. You can worry that your marriage won’t make it. That your kids won’t grow up with God. That your wife and kids are on the fast track to eternal damnation. Unfortunately, this fear usually makes…

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31 | Three Signs Pride Is Killing Your Marriage (+ A Prayer To Defeat It) 18:16

6d ago18:16

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Is Pride Quietly Sabotaging Your Christian Marriage? Have you been wondering what the Bible says about marriage problems? Ever find yourself stuck in frustration, negativity, or even resentment, and not sure why? You’re not alone. These moments can quietly chip away at connection, and often, pride is at the root. In this episode, we’re getting real…

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Secret Announcement | Have You Been Praying For A Marriage Breakthrough? If You’re Longing For A Deeply Connected Marriage: This Is For You! 6:42

7d ago6:42

6:42

Are you looking to improve your marriage? Do you have unhealed pain or trauma? Do you struggle to trust, to connect, and to build connection with your spouse? Are you hurting right now, or just not where you want to be? Then this is your chance to get personalized support, real teaching on how to imporve things for the better, and a group of Christ…

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Q & A: How to Help a Friend in an Abusive Relationship 10:20

9d ago10:20

10:20

We're addressing a listener's question about how to support a loved one experiencing domestic abuse. It's essential to understand the victim's perspective, maintain open communication, and take proactive steps to ensure safety. This episode offers practical guidance on how to approach the situation with empathy, while also encouraging the victim to…

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Episode 370 - When It Feels Like It’s Never Enough 14:09

9d ago14:09

14:09

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you grow or how open you are to trying new things, it still doesn’t feel like enough for your partner? Maybe they’re asking for more - more intimacy, more variety, more connection, more emotional depth - and despite your efforts, you feel like you're always falling short. In this thought provoking episode,…

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241: Higher Desire Wives Aren't Alone, with J. Parker 42:20

9d ago42:20

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One thing I've noticed about higher desire wives: they feel so lonely. They think they're the only wife on the plane that has the higher desire for sex. They often talk about how they hear about their other lady friends complain about how their husbands are always pursuing them and wanting to have sex with them and how they're tired of that. And th…

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Bonus | Feeling Stuck in Fight or Flight? Biblical Healing for Trauma, Triggers & Nervous System Restoration (With Special Guest: Melanie Chavez, Christian Woman Healing Trauma Host) 37:05

9d ago37:05

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Have you ever thought, “Why am I so reactive when life feels safe?” Maybe you’ve asked, “Why do I still feel stuck in fight or flight—even though I’m praying, reading my Bible, and doing all the ‘right’ things?” If you’ve ever felt like your body is stuck in fight or flight—even when nothing around you feels dangerous—this episode will meet you rig…

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EP 157 \\ Struggling In Your Marriage? H.O.P.E Is Still Possible 13:33

10d ago13:33

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Hi friend! Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be. If you’re feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you’re not alone. Today’s episode is for the couples holding on by a thread… The ones still showing up even when it’s hard…an…

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What Happens When Everything Else Comes First? 27:51

11d ago27:51

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Send us a text Brad and Kate explore how couples can maintain connection during inevitable busy seasons when marriage can't be the top priority. They share personal examples from their May celebrations of their children's graduations and how they've learned to navigate similar challenging periods. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instag…

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How to Stay Calm and Connected in the Chaos of Family Life 19:55

12d ago19:55

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When life gets chaotic, maintaining your sanity and your marriage requires intentional practices and clear communication. This episode shares my five-step approach to handling busy seasons with grace while keeping my relationship strong and cooperative. • Start each day with focused prayer to identify what truly matters that day • Ask for help conf…

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Unpacking Triggers, Strongholds, & Inner Healing - with Frank Meadows 35:28

12d ago35:28

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Have you gone through a season of brokenness in your life, or are you being triggered by a painful event in your past? Today's guest, Frank Meadows, is here to help shed light on triggers, the brokenhearted, and inner healing. Along with this powerful conversation, we discuss strongholds and how they manifest as addictive behavior in people's lives…

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Your Wife As A Plant 15:33

11d ago15:33

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What’s your goal for your marriage? A wife who is excited to see you? A wife who hugs, kisses and has sex with you? A wife who appreciates you? And that should happen all the time, right? And if not, something is wrong. Right? Well, this mindset of having an “endpoint” to marriage usually leads to frustration. God helped me see that it’s much bette…

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30 | Godly Marriage Advice For Newly-Weds: 3 Things You Need To Know For A Healthy Christian Marriage 33:33

12d ago33:33

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Are you newly married and wondering why it already feels harder than you expected? Is the spark still there—but your communication feels...off? Does something feel “off” spiritually, emotionally, or even physically in your marriage—and you don’t know why? Then this episode was recorded just for you. In today’s power-packed episode, I’m sharing thre…

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Q & A: Should We Tell Our Kids Our Marriage Is In Trouble? 5:03

16d ago5:03

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Guest host Shaun is stepping in for his wife and regular host, Dana Che, who is under the weather helping a husband to know if he and his wife should tell their kids their marriage is in trouble and that they're considering a possible separation. Shaun delivers Dana’s thoughtful response, providing practical advice on how parents can approach diffi…

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Episode 369 - Are You Initiating Too Much? 12:22

16d ago12:22

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Are you the one who always initiates sex in your relationship, and you’re starting to feel burnt out by it? In this episode, we explore a common dynamic I see in coaching: the higher desire partner feeling like they’re carrying the full weight of initiation, facing repeated rejection, and wondering if they’re the only one who still wants intimacy. …

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240: Faking Orgasms, Toys, Role of Porn, and Exploring More Intimacy In Marriage 1:02:13

16d ago1:02:13

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In this episode, I'm getting specific with actionable tactics while answering questions about the following: how to grow closer together emotionally overcoming body image concerns as it relates to sex. why women fake orgasms enhancing sexual intimacy with sex toys what the research says about pornography use and its impact on couples exploring rol…

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Bonus | Marriage Killers: The 3 Biggest Threats To Your Realtionship 23:41

17d ago23:41

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Are you unintentionally letting dysfunction creep into your marriage? Are you stuck in loops of asking yourself what's going wrong in your marriage? In today’s episode of the United Christian Marriage Podcast, we’re breaking down the top 3 threats to your relationship—the “marriage killers” that sabotage even strong couples. I’m sharing personal st…

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EP 156 \\ 4 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Would Stop Doing 20:32

17d ago20:32

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Hey friend! Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about. Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a…

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Unmasking Imitation Self-Care Part 2 39:13

18d ago39:13

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Send us a text Brad and Kate Aldrich explore how seemingly healthy self-care activities might actually be "imitation self-care" that creates distance rather than true rejuvenation in marriage relationships. • Imitation self-care activities mimic real self-care but leave us feeling worse afterward • Binge-watching shows and mindless scrolling often …

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The Truth about Soul Ties & How to Break Them 34:27

19d ago34:27

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Today's guest, Tweeny Randall, helps to shed light on the concept of soul ties. Maybe you’ve felt ‘stuck’ after a past relationship, or perhaps you’re curious how soul ties form—even outside of a romantic relationship. Tweeny and I share experience and research on how soul ties affect us in relationships. Episode Highlights What is a Soul Tie? Twee…

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What Monopoly Deal Has To Do With Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo 36:29

19d ago36:29

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Tony and Elisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage discuss how busy couples can rekindle intimacy and connection through intentional time together. They reveal the biggest roadblocks to intimacy are lack of meaningful conversation and diminished sexual connection, with practical solutions for couples who feel like roommates. • The "we'll make t…

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The Grateful Flow - Tools For A Better Marriage #4 14:01

18d ago14:01

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It can be easy to get into a downward spiral about our wife and marriage. The sex isn’t there. The connection isn’t there. We’re dealing with infidelity, separation or divorce. It can all seem pretty hopeless. And, when we feel hopeless, we don’t feel good, we’re not attractive, and we don’t solve our problems. Fortunately, there’s a way out of thi…

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29 | Marriage is a Covenant, Not a Contract: Why This Mindset Shift Changes Everything 17:55

19d ago17:55

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Are you thinking about marriage God's way, or are you thinking about it the world's way? Are you quietly stuck in a “lazy love” season of marriage? Not on the edge of divorce, but not thriving either? In this episode, we’re examining what the Bible says about the marriage covenant and uncovering three key reasons your relationship might feel blah, …

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[Sweet Repeat] Q & A: I’ve Lost Myself in My Marriage 13:10

23d ago13:10

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Have you let yourself go or perhaps lost yourself in your marriage? Today's episode will help you find yourself again. A listener struggles with finding the motivation to find herself again, having let herself go, and seeks advice on how to rediscover who she is in her marriage. This episode originally aired in Dec. 2024 and was one of our highest …

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Episode 368 - Are You Prioritizing “Your” Kind of Sex Over Connection? 14:57

23d ago14:57

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Do you ever feel frustrated when your spouse doesn’t want sex the same way, or as often, as you do? In this episode, we explore how rigid expectations around sex can lead to disconnection and resentment in marriage. You’ll hear why focusing too much on “your” version of sex can actually block the emotional intimacy you're craving. Whether it's abou…

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239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip 35:32

23d ago35:32

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This episode is all about priming your mind and relationship for great sex. Years ago, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who is my guest on this episode today, made her first appearance on my podcast, (and if you want to listen to it, it's episode number 50). What she taught me then about the mental load made a deep impression on me. The mental load as it's ofte…

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Bonus | This Surprising Habit Brought Her and Her Husband Closer Than Ever: Building Confidence & Connection Through Fitness (w/ Special Guest Rachel DeSonier, Host of Effective Weight Loss For Moms) 36:25

24d ago36:25

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What if lifting weights could restore connection in your marriage? 💪 In this unexpected conversation, I sit down with Christian fitness and nutrition coach and mom of many, Rachel DeSonier, to talk about how strength training can reshape more than just your body. Getting stronger requires understanding both exercise and nutrition. We dive into iden…

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EP 155 \\ 4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing 20:47

24d ago20:47

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Hi friend! Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most. That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples: “4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.…

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Unmasking Imitation Self-Care 42:16

25d ago42:16

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Send us a text What happens when the very strategies we develop to care for ourselves actually pull us away from our partners? In this eye-opening exploration of "imitation self-care," we dive into the complex ways our coping mechanisms can disguise themselves as healthy practices while undermining our relationships. Imitation self-care is challeng…

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When My Son Got Married on Our 23rd Anniversary 18:40

26d ago18:40

18:40

We celebrate a double milestone as my son gets married on our 23rd wedding anniversary. This emotional weekend brings together two generations of love stories while I reflect on what makes a marriage work for over two decades. • Cooking for 125 wedding guests from a small Airbnb with crockpots scattered throughout every room • The importance of mor…

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Your Blueprint for Healing & a New Beginning (Healing After Infidelity) 29:52

26d ago29:52

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Infidelity is one of the most heart-shattering experiences anyone can endure in a marriage. It shakes the bedrock of trust and can leave spouses grappling with pain, betrayal, confusion, and fear for the future. If you’re reading this, you may be right in the middle of this storm—or you know someone who is. Take heart: your story is not over, and h…

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What To Do When Your Wife Seems Distant 14:09

25d ago14:09

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Does your wife feel distant? Does she seem to not really care about you? Does she seem to care more about the kids than you? Do you tell her that she should be paying more attention to you, hoping to get more from her? Well, maybe it’s not actually about you at all! And maybe asking her to do more will create MORE distance instead of connection. Le…

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28 | Sick Of Fighting? Here's How To Stop Any Argument In It's Track 14:05

27d ago14:05

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Do You Struggle With Snapping, Fighting, or Overreacting in Your Marriage? Here's a Script You Can Use When You're Triggered Are you ever surprised by how fast you go from calm to reactive? 😤 Maybe you feel blindsided by your own emotions, or you're wondering, "Why did I snap like that?" In today’s episode, I’m walking you through a simple but powe…

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Q & A: What If I'm the Only One Working on My Marriage? 9:06

30d ago9:06

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Have you ever felt like you are the only one putting in the work, or maybe you're putting in a significantly more amount of work than your spouse is? That can feel very unjust. It can feel unfair, and most of us get tired of doing that. We have a question that I think all of us can probably relate to at some point: What if I'm doing more work on my…

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Episode 367 - Making Sex Cleanup Simple & Stress-Free 10:29

30d ago10:29

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Ever found yourself pulled out of a beautiful, intimate moment by the thought, “Ugh, now I have to clean up”? You’re definitely not alone. For many women, post-sex cleanup can feel like an annoying chore that disrupts connection and intimacy. In this episode, we’re getting real about why this moment matters—and how to simplify the cleanup process s…

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238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life 53:06

30d ago53:06

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I read an excellent book a few years ago. It's for parents talking to their kids about sex. There was a chapter towards the end of the book titled Honeymoon Horror Stories, which really caught my eye and changed the way I think about the importance of getting and teaching our next generation a solid sex education as part of their research for the …

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EP 154 \\ Unfiltered Honesty In Marriage: Its Effects—And What To Do Instead 15:47

1M ago15:47

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Hi friend! There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.” But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered? In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage. Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the …

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When Is It Time to Walk Away? I Married the Wrong Person part 2 34:43

1M ago34:43

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Send us a text We examine the complexities of troubled marriages, challenging the idea that couples should "stick it out no matter what" while offering guidance on when to fight for your relationship and when boundaries might be necessary. • Understanding the difference between pursuing happiness versus finding fulfillment and contentment in marria…

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