A No-BS Podcast About the Single Life After 30 Welcome to You Single?—the podcast for those of us navigating singlehood in our 30s, 40s, and beyond. Hosted by your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka “E”), this show is for anyone who’s ever swiped left, been ghosted (or done the ghosting), and questioned whether dating apps are completely broken. We’re here to talk about the reality of single life as grown-ass adults. Dating? Sure. But ...
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Molly Higgins and Gary Steadman are Why Modern Dating Is Exhausting!
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54:56Send us a text In this episode of You Single? Let’s Mingle, Joel and E unpack the chaos of modern dating with a real-life story you won’t believe: a woman who ghosted Joel not once, but twice, suddenly resurfaces months later with a heartfelt—and wildly overthought—text asking for another chance… and dinner. From that emotional boomerang, the conve…
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How to Show Interest Without Looking Desperate (Or Creepy)
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46:50Send us a text In this episode, Joel and E keep it real and hilariously awkward as they unravel the mystery of how people show (or fail to show) romantic interest. From giggles over feet pics and Wisconsin dairy propaganda to dating psychology and the art of giving your number without looking like a weirdo, they touch on it all. The duo gets into: …
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The Hangover Edition: Were We Really Double Fisting High Noon's Last Night?
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33:43Send us a text Still reeling from a wild Two Birds Fit March Madness pub crawl, your favorite friendly Sasquatch and E dive into dating app disasters, Poppy meets another sasquatch in the wild, and the fine art of mingling. There’s wine. There’s wisdom. There’s a vending machine full of questionable choices. Buckle up for this hungover-but-hilariou…
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Floodlighting and How We Make Up "Conditions" to Avoid Dating Defeat, plus Cougar Confessions
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48:19Send us a text Buckle up, because this episode of You Single? is an absolute rollercoaster. Your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Poppy, and his fiery co-host E are back with a mix of hilarity, unfiltered opinions, and a whole lot of hot takes on modern dating. From volunteering at the Food Bank (where Poppy might have found his next crush, except she …
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New Name, Same Chaos: Welcome to You Single?
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49:09Send us a text We’ve rebranded… again. Welcome to You Single?, where your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel Poppert, and the fiery and fabulous Emanuela Messineo (aka E) navigate the wild world of single life after 30. In this first official episode, we talk about why we’re ditching The Love Laugh Lounge for a fresh start, how You Single? fits into…
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Another One Bites the Dust: The Dating Struggle Continues
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41:57Send us a text Dating in midlife is a trip, and in this episode of Midlife Uncensored, we’re unpacking yet another fresh dose of rejection. E shares her latest “I got dumped” moment—because nothing says modern dating like a sudden “let’s just be friends” call right before a planned date. Meanwhile, Joel and E dive into the bigger question: why does…
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Ditch the Apps & Break a Sweat: Dating IRL with Two Birds Fit's Karen Richards
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49:39Send us a text Forget awkward small talk and endless swiping—what if finding love was as easy as working out in the park or running into someone (literally) at the grocery store? This week, Poppy and E sit down with Karen Richards, the mastermind behind Two Birds Fit, a unique speed-dating-meets-fitness community in Denver. From speed-dating walks …
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The Conversations that Divide Us: Egos, Politics, Religion, Gender Roles
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1:11:49Send us a text Welcome to episode 49 of Midlife Uncensored! We’re nearly a year into this wild ride, and for this episode, we’re bringing back one of our favorite guests, Uche, for a no-filter conversation that started with the male ego… but went off the rails and way deeper than any of us expected. We dive into everything from the shifting dynamic…
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The Love Laugh Lounge Takes on Dating Apps (Again)
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57:26Send us a text Welcome back to The Love Laugh Lounge—the Festivus of Dating, where we air our grievances, roast our own love lives, and dish out completely unqualified advice. In this episode, Poppy and E dive deep into the world of online dating—again—because let’s face it, the apps are the gift that keeps on giving… headaches. From Hinge's hidden…
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From Italy to NyQuil Dreams: Banter and Big Changes
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39:27Send us a text In this lively and raw episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E dive into the chaos of midlife reflections, recent adventures, and hilarious tangents. From recapping their year in podcasting to tales of E's Italian escapades (including a stolen phone and a fabulous fur coat), this episode is equal parts heart and humor. They explor…
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Goals, Giggles, and Casa Bonita: Planning for 2025
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38:16Send us a text In this candid and humorous episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E dive into their personal goals for 2025—ranging from serious entrepreneurial pursuits to quirky bucket-list items (hello, Casa Bonita!). From formal goal-setting techniques and masterclasses to the chaotic beauty of juggling a million ideas at once, this episode i…
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Dog Tongues and First Date Sushi : Another Midlife Dating Download on The Love Laugh Lounge
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41:56Send us a text Welcome back to the Love Laugh Lounge, where dating disasters and midlife musings collide! In this episode, Joel and E dive into the chaos of dating apps, their strategies (and frustrations), and the evolving world of meeting people IRL. From dissecting cringe-worthy dating profiles to recounting hilariously bad first dates, they ser…
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What Men and Women Need to Know About Each Other (But Never Learned) ft. Relationship Coach Justine Baruch
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1:09:06Send us a text In Episode 44 of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E welcome back relationship coach and therapist Justine Baruch for an unfiltered and insightful discussion on relationships, dating, and personal growth. With nearly 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of love, communication, and emotional wel…
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Trust Issues Unpacked: Navigating Betrayal and Healing in our Relationships ft. Blake Roberts, LPC, MA.
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57:06Send us a text Discover how to rebuild trust and foster healthier relationships, especially during midlife, with insights from our esteemed guest, licensed therapist Blake Roberts, LPC, MA. When trust is compromised, it can feel like the foundation of your relationship is crumbling. Together with Blake, we confront the complex interplay between tru…
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Thankful for Life, Love, and Giving Less F*cks
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53:56Send us a text Join Poppy and E on this special pre-Thanksgiving episode of Midlife Uncensored! This week, we’re serving up a heaping plate of middle-aged wisdom with a side of laughs as we reflect on the art of not giving a f*ck and the many blessings we’re grateful for. From Friendsgiving antics and awkward first dates to hilarious dive bar revie…
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Swipe Again? A Discussion About the Reality of Dating Do-Overs
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35:38Send us a text In this laugh-out-loud episode of Midlife Uncensored, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Poppy, and the ever-sassy E dive into the chaotic world of second chances in dating. Are they worth it, or should you leave the past in the past? Hear Poppy and E share awkward stories of failed re-dates, Tinder déjà vu, and unexpected run-ins wit…
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Love, Trauma, and Ghosting: Real Talk on Modern Romance in the Love Laugh Lounge ft. Uche
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1:37:13Send us a text Welcome back to The Love Laugh Lounge, where Poppy and E are joined by special guest Uche for a candid, laughter-filled, and sometimes sobering dive into the ups and downs of midlife dating. In this episode, they discuss everything from red flags on dating apps to real-life ghosting nightmares, unpacking how these experiences can sha…
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What is Midlife and Why so Many People Avoid the Topic all Together
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43:24Send us a text Ever wondered what truly defines being "over the hill"? Is it just another number or something more profound? In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Joel Poppert and Emanuela Messineo, also known as "Amalfi Pie," tackle this provocative question with humor and candor. From dining escapades at new local hotspots to volunteering with a…
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From Cuffing Season Kick-off to Surviving Family Politics during the Holidays
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1:01:49Send us a text In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E are back with a lively chat about everything fall— from cuffing season dates and Halloween parties to the ever-dreaded family holiday politics. Joel recaps his adventures at the latest Two Birds Fit mixer, where he networked (and maybe flirted) his way through the crowd. The duo dive…
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Midlife Gripes: Road Rage, Gluten, and Waxing Woes
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53:36Send us a text In this laugh-out-loud episode of Midlife Uncensored, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel (aka Poppy), and the unapologetically funny Emanuela (aka E, the self-proclaimed Sausage Queen), dive into the messy, ridiculous, and hilarious realities of midlife. From waxing nostrils gone wrong to navigating the minefield of online dating…
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Send us a text In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E (aka "the Sausage Queen) dive headfirst into the evolving world of relationships and challenge the idea that love has to follow a predefined path. From navigating cuffing season to questioning the norms around marriage, monogamy, and cohabitation, this episode asks the bold question:…
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Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?
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59:24Send us a text In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Joel "Poppy" Poppert and his co-host, Emanuela "E" Messineo, dive headfirst into the age-old debate: Can men and women really just be friends? Sharing their own personal stories—including how their friendship blossomed after meeting on a dating app—they tackle the complexities of platonic friend…
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Bermuda Blessings, Wisconsin Weddings, and More Dating Discussions
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42:53Send us a text In this episode of Midlife Uncensored, Poppy and E face the classic "Can you hear me now?" tech struggle while recording remotely. They dive into recent travels, from Bermuda work trips to nostalgic family gatherings in Wisconsin, offering some hilarious and heartfelt reflections on midlife and reconnections. The duo also tackles the…
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Welcome to Midlife Uncensored: Real Life Discussions from Over the Hill
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1:05:18Send us a text Ever wondered what it feels like to navigate midlife with fewer inhibitions? We’re kicking off the newly rebranded "Midlife Uncensored" with a fresh approach to real-life discussions that blend humor, honest emotions, and genuine connections. From the unavoidable midlife crises to the perplexing reality of slowing metabolisms, we’re …
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Insecurities Part III: Moving Forward by Living with our Insecurities or Overcoming Them
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1:08:19Send us a text In this episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and co-host Emanuela dive into a pivotal shift as they announce a rebrand of the podcast. After some laughs about Joel’s wardrobe malfunction and reflections on personal quirks, the duo shares the exciting direction of their new podcast name and visi…
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Insecurities Part II: Facing Insecurities through Awareness and Emotional EQ
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1:07:38Send us a text In this engaging episode of The Owning Alone Podcast, your favorite Denver Sasquatch, Poppy, and co-host Emanuela Messineo, E, dive into part two of their Insecurities Trio. Picking up from where they left off, they focus on understanding insecurities with an emphasis on gaining awareness. The duo shares personal stories, explores th…
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Sharts, Sass, and Single Dads: Tales from Love Laugh Lounge
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1:13:24Send us a text Join your favorite friendly Sasquatch, Joel, and his lively co-host Emanuela in this hilarious and unfiltered episode of the "Love Laugh Lounge." In true Festivus fashion, they dive headfirst into the dumpster fire that is modern dating, sharing their own grievances, war stories, and more. In this episode, Joel and Emanuela dissect h…
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Insecurities Part I: How They Impact and Play a Role in our Lives and Relationships
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43:27Send us a text Can insecurities really shape our lives to the extent that they determine our mental health, relationships, and even career paths? Join us as we confront this provocative question head-on in our three-episode series on insecurities and their profound effects. We kick things off by acknowledging that everyone, from the seemingly confi…
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Keeping Friendships Alive Across the Miles, Plus Buttless Chaps and Slinging Hot Dogs
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49:00Send us a text Brace yourself for laughs and unexpected twists in episode 28 of The Owing Alone Podcast! We kick things off with Emanuela, or E, who regales us with her latest escapades and a hilarious gig slinging hot dogs at Home Depot and Poppy's sidesplitting stories about a quirky hypothetical of meeting potential dates while shopping at Targe…
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The Dating Game, Appropriate First Date Conversations and Silly Saturday Shenanigans
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56:26Send us a text Ever wondered if playing hard to get really works in the dating world? Join us on this lighthearted "Silly Saturday" episode as Poppy and E, share their latest escapades—from Game of Thrones marathons to making new friends at Pilates class. Laugh along with us as we explore the quirky social perks of fitness classes and debate whethe…
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The Art of Owning Alone: From Mid-Life Crisis to Self Awareness and Discovery
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52:16Send us a text Life’s challenges often lead us to profound self-awareness and growth. In this episode, Joel and Emanuela check back in on the history "owning alone," and what it truly means. We open up about our personal journeys, discussing how Joel's midlife crisis and the solitude that follows major life changes can lead to deeper self-understan…
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The Art of Lettings Things Go, Letting Be and Living Free!
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1:03:37Send us a text Do you find it challenging to "let go" and allow things to unfold naturally without trying to control every situation? Join us for this post-4th of July episode, where Joel and Emanuela (E) delve into the lessons from Mel Robbins' "Let Them" philosophy and Mark Manson's "Let It Go" approach. We'll discuss how these philosophies can h…
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Love or Loneliness: Navigating the Pressure to Partner Up
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1:03:26Send us a text How do you navigate the complex landscape of love and loneliness in a world full of societal pressures? In this heartfelt episode of Owning Alone, we ask ourselves, why is it so challenging to balance the desire for connection with the need for independence? We discuss the internal and external influences that create psychological pr…
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Candid Discussions about Denver's Mile-High Dating Situation ft. Hana Brownsell
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58:31Send us a text Is Denver's dating scene really as wild as it seems? In today’s episode, we sit down with Hana Brownsell, a vibrant and accomplished real estate agent who has been navigating the Denver dating landscape for the past seven years. Hailing from St. Petersburg, Florida, Hana brings her spirited approach to life in Denver, where she balan…
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Beyond Dads: Honoring Mentors and the Child-Free Path on Father’s Day
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53:52Send us a text Join us for a deeply moving and insightful episode recorded live from Denver, CO, where we broaden the traditional Father’s Day celebration to honor not just dads, but all father figures and mentors. We celebrate the invaluable contributions of traditional dads as well as those who have become role models in unconventional ways—coach…
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Unlocking Personal Freedom through Authenticity and Self-Awareness
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44:54Send us a text Ever wondered how being true to yourself can transform your life? Discover the powerful connection between authenticity and self-awareness as Emanuela and Joel engage in an enlightening discussion about what it means to be authentic and how it impacts our lives. Drawing from definitions—including the Urban Dictionary—and personal ane…
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Is Single and Dating Really that Much Fun? And Suggestions for Solo Summer Activities!
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1:01:10Send us a text Are you ready to reclaim your personal freedom this summer? Join us on Owning Alone as we explore the joys and challenges of single life and dating. Emanuela kicks things off by sharing her laid-back Memorial Day weekend filled with barbecues, home improvement projects, and a fun trip to Topgolf. Meanwhile, Joel recounts his adrenali…
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Conditioning Yourself to Identify and Process Emotions in Real-time
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57:32Send us a text In our 19th episode, we not only share a laugh about confusing Memorial Day with Veterans Day, but also take a moment to honor the profound significance of these dates. Huddled within the enchanting walls of Emanuela's unicorn cave, we're thrilled to bring you a conversation that's as heartfelt as it is hilarious. Join us as we navig…
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Swapping the White Picket Fence for Personal Freedom
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53:34Send us a text Ever find yourself chuckling at the thought of life's expected milestones, like having kids or finding that 'perfect' partner, only to think, "Nope, not for me"? Well, you're in good company. Emanuella and I, peel back the curtain on our own journeys, sharing the realities and revelations we've found in forging paths less traveled. F…
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First Date Planning, Dos and Don'ts and Jitter-Tits!
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59:08Send us a text Ever wondered if your pre-date social media sleuthing borders on FBI-level intrusion, or if outfit repetition is a dating faux pas? Grab a seat in our digital den at Sasquatch Studios, where Emanuela and I dissect the frolics and facepalms of first dates with a generous helping of wit and a pinch of brutal honesty. We're divulging ou…
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A Discussion about the Noise in our Lives and How to Manage It
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44:18Send us a text In this episode, Emanuela and Joel peel back the layers of everyday existence to examine the intricate dance of personal growth, relationships and the "noise" that ensues. We swap tales of how the noise in life impacts our lives, and how to defend against it by understanding our principals and convictions and having the courage to tu…
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From Overseas to American Online Dating: Relationship Coach Justine Baruch tells all in the Love Laugh Lounge
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58:57Send us a text Ever had a laugh-out-loud moment while navigating the maze of modern dating? Justine Baruch, fresh from a twenty-year stint overseas, joins me to share just that—and so much more—in a heart-to-heart on love, rejection, and everything in-between. Crack open the complexities of re-entering the American dating scene, as she brings tales…
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A Discussion about Self-Confidence, Dating Yourself and Taylor Swift
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56:56Send us a text Ever found yourself chuckling at the absurdity of grilling in a blizzard or dancing unabashedly to Taylor Swift regardless of your age? Well, my fellow goofballs, you're in for a treat. Poppy here, your hirsute hermit of hilarity, joined by the witty and Owning Alone's new Co-Host, Emanuela Messineo, and together we're tearing down t…
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A Random Series of Wine Fueled Late-Night Reflections ft. Emanuela Messineo
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1:03:00Send us a text Settle into your favorite nook with a glass of wine and join me, Poppy, along with my Owning Alone's favorite regular, Emanuela Messineo, for an intimate late-night conversation that dances through the delights and dilemmas of the single, 40-something lifestyle. Think of us as two friends unraveling the rich tapestry that is solo liv…
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Raves, Rejection and Body Positivity ft. Allie McFarland
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57:30Send us a text Ever reminisce about the sweet, innocent days of teen romance and wonder where that simplicity went in the adult dating scene? Allie McFarland joins me in the Love Laugh Lounge to indulge in just that—plus, she brings her fun tales from the anime world, including a discussion about cosplay, fetishes and the quest for that special som…
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Adversity to Empowerment: Navigating Dyslexia, Narcissistic Abuse, and Personal Growth ft. Ellen Busch
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56:11Send us a text I once believed that certain academic challenges were insurmountable, but Ellen Busch's story, shared in her memoir "Disempowered: How I Turned an Academic Death Sentence into My Life's Greatest Adventure," taught me the power of transformation. Her tale is not just one of conquering dyslexia, but of embracing life's adversities to c…
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Situationships, Drunk Dates and Unsolicited Pics ft. Kayla King in the Lounge
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1:03:43Send us a text Ever stumbled upon a date that left you questioning the very fabric of reality? Kayla King joins us at the Love Laugh Lounge to swap such tales, leaving no stone unturned as we navigate the tempestuous seas of modern dating. From the outright comical to the downright sobering, we dissect the modern nuances of the dating scene. This e…
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A Candid Chat about the Evolving Journey of Successful Woman ft. Alyssa Samuel
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44:07Send us a text Embark on an enlightening journey with Alyssa Samuel, a seasoned corporate M&A attorney and all around boss of a woman! In our latest episode, Alyssa opens up about the triumphs and trials of a successful single woman navigating an evolving landscape. With a backdrop of her academic tenure at Denver University Sturm College of Law, s…
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What It Means to Embrace Solitude, ft. Blake Roberts, LPC, MA
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48:45Send us a text In this episode, I am joined by Blake Roberts, LPC, MA, a practicing psychotherapist of nearly 30 years, where we dive deep into the topic of solitude. We get into topics such the relationship between solitude, isolationism, and loneliness. We debate whether loneliness is an emotion, a state of being or both and how it relates to sol…
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Just Two Middle Aged Male Unicorns Discussing Modern Dating
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47:15Send us a text In this episode, Dallas’s very own Scott Fischer, host of The Single Dads Podcast joins me in the Lounge to share in Dating Festivus, airing of our dating grievances for the world to enjoy, all while dishing out a handful of biased dating advice for the benefit of y’all. Scott graciously shares some war stories from the Dallas dating…
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