Dads face unique issues during and after divorce. We identify and address the issues relevant to divorced/divorcing dads and create an action plan to survive and thrive! *Become a community member and access full episodes and additional MEMBERS ONLY content: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/* DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to inform not influence. It is not a substitute for professional care or advice by a qualified professional. The host as well as guests who sp ...
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257 - "Stay Strong" - What That Really Means for Divorced and Divorcing Dads
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24:22When I tell a dad going through divorce to stay strong, I’m not throwing him a vague motivational cliché. I’m giving him a call to arms—a reminder of what strength looks like when your world is cracking open, when your identity as a father is getting reshaped by custody schedules, courtrooms, and the quiet ache of an empty house. Strength during di…
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256 - Money Matters: Rebuilding Financial Stability After Divorce
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27:30Divorce isn't just emotionally draining—it's a complete financial reset. From supporting two households on the same income to rebuilding credit, the challenges are real. Check out the latest episode on navigating financial strain during divorce for practical solutions. Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb Join The Divorce Dadvocate Me…
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255 - REPLAY: Why Every Dad Needs a Coach
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39:06Feeling overwhelmed by divorce? You're not alone. The journey through divorce as a dad presents unique challenges that can leave even the most confident men feeling lost and uncertain about the future. Divorce coaching has emerged as a crucial resource for fathers navigating this difficult transition. While attorneys focus solely on legal matters, …
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254 - The Hidden Battle: How Feminism Undermines Co-Parenting
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29:58Modern feminism has moved far beyond equality. Today, it’s about control — and nowhere is that more obvious than in the aftermath of divorce. In custody courts, in legal systems, and in the culture itself, divorced fathers are being systematically pushed aside, not because they’ve failed their children, but because they don’t fit the feminist-appro…
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253 - Should You Welcome a Parental Coordinator or Decision Maker (PC/DM)?
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22:47If you're a divorced or divorcing dad, the idea of a "parental coordinator" (PC) or "decision maker" (DM) might feel like another loss of control. Courts sometimes assign one when parents are high-conflict or consistently stuck on big issues. It's normal to feel suspicious or defensive. But like everything in divorce, there's a mix of positives and…
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252 - REPLAY: Love Hacks: Building Life-Giving Relationships
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36:07Jude is joined by the author of Love Hacks: Ten Skills For Making Your Relationships More Life Giving and pastor of Restoration Church in Denver, CO, Ron Johnson. They discuss how divorced dads can have a healthier relationship after divorce by learning what they want in a woman and relationship as well as how to create a deeper attachment the seco…
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Divorce can feel like your life is spinning out of control—and in many ways, it is. You’re not just splitting up a relationship. You’re restructuring your family, finances, home life, and daily routines. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, trying to manage everything, fix everything, and control the uncontrollable. But here’s the truth: master…
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250 - How Divorced Dads Can Communicate More Effectively With Their Attorney
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22:58If you're a divorced dad navigating custody or support issues, your attorney is one of your most important allies. But they’re not a mind reader. To get the best possible results, you need to communicate clearly, efficiently, and with purpose. Here’s how to make that happen—and why it matters. Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTb Join…
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249 - Dating as a Divorced Dad: Finding the Right Woman
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29:44Dating after divorce is a different game, especially when you're a father. You have more at stake than just your personal happiness—you need to think about how a new relationship will impact your children, your stability, and your future. The woman you choose to date should not only align with your personal goals but also integrate well into your f…
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248 - Dear Divorced Dad: You Don't Have To Be Perfect
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25:42Divorce is tough. There’s no sugarcoating it. It’s a process that shakes the very foundation of your life, leaving you to navigate a storm of emotions, legal complexities, financial strains, and, most importantly, your relationship with your children. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re failing, you’re not alone. And here’s the…
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247 - Dad’s Law School: A Father’s Guide To Legal Survival
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53:41David Pissarro, attorney and founder of Union of Dads, shares powerful insights on navigating custody battles, challenging family court biases, and fighting for father's rights. Through his 26 years of legal experience and personal advocacy, David provides essential strategies for dads facing the often unfair family court system. • Family courts of…
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246 - Divorced Dad Décor: How Environment Affects Healing After Divorce
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46:47Creating a stable, welcoming environment after divorce isn't just about interior design—it's about healing, comfort, and establishing a foundation for your family's new chapter. When children shuttle between homes, the spaces they inhabit profoundly affect their ability to process and adjust to their new reality. Interior designer Molly Anderson di…
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245 - The Unique Role of Fathers in Parenting: 6 Key Differences
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28:12In today's parenting landscape, we often hear about the importance of involved parents. But did you know that fathers bring a unique set of parenting skills to the table? In his book "The Boy Crisis," Dr. Warren Farrell explores how dads parent differently from moms, and why these differences are crucial for child development, especially for boys. …
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244 - REPLAY: 10 Effects of Divorce on Children
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36:02In this episode, we share valuable strategies to support children through the turbulent waters of divorce. Discover how consistency and openness can anchor a child’s world, from recognizing emotional and behavioral changes to fostering a stable environment. We introduce the engaging "Rose Thorn Bud" dinner-time game as a tool to nurture open commun…
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243 - Protecting Your Children From The New Boyfriend
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53:05This episode addresses the pressing concerns of divorced fathers regarding their children's safety in the wake of a mother’s new romantic partner. It explores the psychological and biological underpinnings that explain why women often move on quickly after divorce and the increased risks associated with introducing a non-biological male figure into…
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242 - REPLAY: Take Control of Your Divorce
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50:40What if you could become the CEO of your own divorce, steering your life towards a future that truly aligns with your values and desires? Join us for a compelling conversation with Bill Miles co-founder of Best Self Magazine and the Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching program, as he shares his transformative journey through difficult divorces. Lea…
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241 - How Divorced Dads Can Combat Negative Stereotypes
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25:08Divorced dads often face an uphill battle—not just in the courtroom, but in the court of public opinion. The narrative surrounding fathers post-divorce is frequently negative, portraying them as absent, irresponsible, or unfit parents. Society, fueled by media, Hollywood, advertising, sitcoms, and corporate policies, often reinforces the notion tha…
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Navigating divorce can be overwhelming, but with clear priorities and manageable steps, it's possible to regain clarity and purpose. In this episode, we explore practical strategies to handle the emotional storms and daunting tasks that accompany divorce, emphasizing the importance of support systems and self-care. • Understanding the multi-faceted…
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239 - REPLAY: Practical Advice: Divorced Dads Meal Planning
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34:23Dads navigating back-to-school chaos find valuable insights on meal planning and preparation in this episode. We discuss practical strategies, involve kids in cooking, and offer tips to make grocery shopping easier and more enjoyable. • Importance of meal planning for divorced dads • Overcoming challenges in meal preparation • Tips for effective me…
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238 - Setting Boundaries as a Divorced Dad
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34:49Divorce can feel like navigating uncharted waters, especially when you're a father striving to maintain a healthy relationship with your children while managing interactions with your ex. Setting clear boundaries is essential—not only for your well-being but also for fostering healthy relationships. Boundaries ensure that you remain a consistent an…
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237 - Considering Divorce? A Guide for Dads
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33:33Divorce is one of the most challenging decisions a dad can face. It’s not just a legal process; it’s an emotional, financial, and logistical shift that will impact every aspect of your life. Before you move forward, it’s essential to approach this situation with careful planning and a strong support system. One of the best ways to navigate this jou…
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236 - 10 New Year’s Resolutions for Divorced or Divorcing Dads
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24:57The start of a new year brings a chance for a fresh start—an opportunity to refocus on your priorities, heal from past challenges, and build a positive future. For divorced or divorcing dads, this time of renewal is especially powerful. It’s a chance to reassess your role as a father, prioritize self-care, and create a solid foundation for the year…
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235 - REPLAY: Navigating The Holidays When Co-Parenting After Divorce
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27:16For most divorced or divorcing dads navigating the holidays can be challenging especially if all you ever dreamed of was that idyllic holiday season with your family. Listen in as I share specific tips for co-parenting after divorce during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops…
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234 - Top Challenges for Divorced Dads During the Holidays
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20:34The holiday season, often a time for joy and togetherness, can feel vastly different for divorced dads. Balancing the desire to create meaningful moments with their children while managing emotional and logistical hurdles can make Christmas and New Year’s uniquely challenging. However, with thoughtful planning and intentional strategies, divorced d…
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233 - Creating New Holiday Traditions as a Divorced Dad
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18:41Divorce can reshape many aspects of life, and for dads, one of the most emotionally charged changes often involves navigating the holiday season. It can be tough adjusting to a new reality, especially when you’re used to spending holidays a certain way with your kids. But this is also an opportunity - a chance to create new traditions that are mean…
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232 - REPLAY: Tips For Managing Holiday Stress
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24:54The holiday season is upon us and the change in our circumstances as a divorced/divorcing dad can cause significant stress. Listen in as Jude shares ways in which you can manage this stress and create a healthy and happy holiday season. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Priv…
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231 - 10 Reasons To Be Thankful For Your Divorce
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21:25Divorce is an emotional upheaval, but for many dads, it becomes a transformative journey filled with opportunities for growth, connection, and newfound purpose. Let’s delve deeper into each reason with examples that resonate with divorced or divorcing dads. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Works…
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230 - What a Dad Should Prepare for When Contemplating Filing for Divorce
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28:00Divorce can be one of the most challenging and life-changing decisions a father may face. Beyond the emotional toll, it requires thoughtful planning and preparation to ensure a smooth transition for yourself and your children. In this episode, we’ll explore the critical steps a dad should take when considering divorce, offering practical advice and…
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229 - Practical Advice: Navigating the Holidays as a Divorced Dad
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19:28The holiday season can be a bittersweet time for many divorced dads. On one hand, it’s a chance to share special moments with your children, filled with joy and wonder. On the other, it might bring up reminders of the traditions you once shared as a family, now forever changed. Your first holiday season after a divorce is bound to be a time of mixe…
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Intimacy, style and makeover expert Karina Solomon (https://successappeal.com) joins Jude to discuss why it is important to cultivate your own style and how remaking your image during divorce is beneficial. Grab her free tips here: https://successappeal.com/style-tips-for-men Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Me…
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227 - REPLAY: Where Have All Of My Friends Gone?
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15:14In this episode Jude discusses the reality that many friends will struggle with navigating your divorce and how you can skillfully address the issue with them. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-t…
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227 - Healthy Signs Divorced Dads Should Look for Before Reentering the Dating World
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21:24Divorce is a life-altering event that can leave you emotionally and mentally drained. For dads, balancing parenthood and personal recovery is often even more challenging. However, there may come a time when you feel ready to dip your toes back into the dating pool. But how do you know if it’s the right time? The decision to date again after divorce…
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226 - Why Dads Need a Spiritual Practice During Divorce: Finding Strength in a Time of Chaos
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20:47Divorce is often one of the most emotionally and mentally taxing experiences a person can go through. For dads, it brings unique challenges—navigating custody, finances, personal healing, and maintaining a sense of normalcy for their children. Amidst this uncertainty, developing and maintaining a spiritual practice can be a powerful way to stay gro…
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225 - Practical Advice: Discussing Divorce With Your Children
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33:32In this episode, we’re diving into a sensitive but crucial conversation: discussing divorce with your children. We all know that divorce is challenging for everyone involved, but how you approach it with your kids can make a significant difference in their emotional well-being. Children process divorce differently at each developmental stage—from t…
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224 - Why It’s Crucial for Dads to Fight for Parenting Time with Their Children
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23:26Fatherhood has long been recognized as a crucial component in a child’s development, but society often still assumes that mothers are the primary caregivers. This assumption can leave many fathers marginalized in custody battles and parenting time arrangements. However, fathers bring unique and irreplaceable qualities to their children’s lives that…
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223 - Dividing the Marital Home in Divorce: Your Options
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31:00When going through a divorce, one of the most significant assets to address is often the marital home. This process can be emotionally and financially challenging, but understanding your options can help you make informed decisions. Here are the main ways couples typically handle dividing the family home during divorce: Join The Divorce Dadvocate M…
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222 - REPLAY - Practical Advice: Attorneys And The Legal System
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50:42In this episode of Practical Advice, Jude addresses the process of choosing an attorney and gives tips and advice on how to mitigate the legal process in order to garner a beneficial outcome for you and your children. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Grou…
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221 - Practical Advice: Maintaining A Balanced Diet And Exercise Routine
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34:36Maintaining a balanced diet and exercise routine with a busy schedule can be challenging, but it's certainly achievable with some planning and commitment. Here are some practical strategies to help you stay healthy despite a hectic lifestyle. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses …
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As a divorced or divorcing father, you're facing one of life's most challenging transitions. During this difficult time, it's crucial to remember that your children are looking to you for guidance and stability. In this episode Jude shares a biblical reference that offers valuable wisdom on how to conduct yourself in a healthy manner, even amidst t…
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219 - Dads’ Guide To Divorce Step 5: Master Your Psychology
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24:13When working with fathers entering into a divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing this specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilize it in order to achie…
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218 - The Mad Men of Masculinity Are Back!
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1:12:24Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels, The Mad Men of Masculinity, join the show to preview their respective M.E.N. Summit talks Who Do You Thnk You Are, and How is That Working for You? and Sexual Sovereignty. Learn more about the M.E.N. Summit at menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE …
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217 - MENtoring: Creating a Legacy of H.O.P.E. for Future Generations
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42:55Chris Natzke, 8th Degree Black Belt and 1999 United States National Tae Kwon Do Champion, leadership coach and professional speaker joins Jude to discuss his upcoming talk at the M.E.N. Summit called MENtoring: Creating a Legacy of H.O.P.E. for Future Generations. For more info about the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate M…
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Brett "Zach" Zachman, founder of BeMen a non-profit organization focused on male wellness, joins Jude to share parts of his 5 Pillars of Male Wellness talk coming up at the M.E.N. Summit on August 24th in Parker, CO. For more info on the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings…
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215 - REPLAY - Dads' Guide To Divorce Step 4: Optimize Your Environment
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27:18When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve…
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214 - Fatherhood In The Age of Mediocrity
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45:58In this compelling episode of "Fatherhood In The Age of Mediocrity," we dive into the challenges of modern-day fatherhood. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of Solidman.com, Ken Curry, joins Jude and explores how societal changes and evolving cultural norms impact the role of fathers today. The discussion begins by addressing the c…
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213 - Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 3 - Upgrade Your Skills
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17:08Now that you have a clear vision and direction and you’ve done the work to strategize your actions, you should be in full swing of implementing the behaviors necessary to achieve your goal(s). However, what do you do if you don’t quite have the skills necessary to get to where you want to go? It’s time for Step 3: Upgrade Your Skills! Join The Divo…
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212 - Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 2 - Strategize Your Actions
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14:59Welcome back to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series. If you missed the first installment, “Dads’ Guide to Divorce: Step 1 — Clarify Your Vision,” make sure to check it out. In that article, I discussed how crucial it is to clarify your vision and direction when entering a divorce or navigating life post-divorce. Today, we're diving into Step 2: Strat…
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211 - Dads’ Guide To Divorce: Step 1 - Clarify Your Vision & Direction
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19:04Welcome to the Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, where I aim to support fathers navigating the often tumultuous waters of divorce or life after it. Over the next few podcasts, I'll share a 5-step process that I’ve developed to help you identify and implement a plan for your life, ensuring that you and your children can move forward toward a brighter f…
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Divorce is one of life's most challenging experiences, and for fathers, it can come with unique obstacles. Ensuring your attorney effectively advocates for your interests requires clear communication, strategic planning, and a keen understanding of the complex issues at play. Here’s how you can "train" your attorney to work diligently on your behal…
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209 - REPLAY: Avoidance Behaviors: What Are You Avoiding?
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29:14We all do it...we avoid that which we do not want to face or deal with. In this episode Jude describes some of the most common avoidance behaviors and shares solutions for dealing with them.. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedi…
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