Hey millennial women! Meet Kayla (new mom navigating the chaos) and Kailey (living that DINKWAD life—dual income, no kids yet), your unfiltered guides on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast! We dive headfirst into the messy, hilarious, and oh-so-real moments of our 30s—think awkward social fails, epic rage rants, and those questions you’ve been too shy to Google. From diaper disasters to career pivots, we’re spilling the tea on adulting while keeping it 100% honest (even when we don’t see eye to ...
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Your Art Doesn't Have to Be so Serious- Persist in Fun | Ep 126
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22:28Send Us a Message.. please be nice Hey, it’s Kailey and Kayla from Nonsexual Soulmates, diving back into Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic with the "Persistence" chapter! This week we review how we push through creative ruts, why done is better than perfect, and how staying playful unlocks our inspiration. From our hilarious college photography project…
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From Podcast Dreams to Reality: Giving Yourself Permission to Create | Ep 125
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25:58Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join us on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast as we dive into the "Permission" chapter of Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic! In this lively episode, we explore Gilbert's idea of giving yourself the green light to create without waiting for external validation, degrees, or perfect timing. From debunking the starving artis…
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Empowering Women Through a Lens- Candice Spears' Photography Magic | Ep 124
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40:31Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join Kailey on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast for a vibrant chat with Candice Spears, the empowering boudoir photographer behind Serendipity Studios! In this special interview episode, Candice shares how she stumbled into photography to pay for college books, eventually building a thriving business capturing wome…
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Creative Sparks & Divine Whispers: Is Creativity a Spiritual Endeavor? | Ep 123
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21:46Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join hosts Kailey and Kayla in this vibrant episode as they explore the enchanting world of creativity, inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert's "Big Magic." Dive into the "woo-woo" side of creativity with discussions on divine inspiration, the genius gremlin, and idea orbs floating through the universe. In this episode, w…
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Creativity, Kids, & Chaos: Be Inspired by Amanda Booth's Journey (Part 2) | Ep 122
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30:05Send Us a Message.. please be nice In Part 2 of our Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast interview, Kailey dives deeper with Amanda Booth, the artist behind Trinkets by Amanda Booth, to explore the realities of running a creative business. Amanda opens up about her biggest business mistakes, learning to embrace chaos as a single mom of three, and finding ba…
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More than "Jizzy Jewelry": Amanda Booth's Creative Journey (pt 1) | Ep 121
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21:50Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join Kailey on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast for Part 1 of an inspiring and hilarious interview with Amanda Booth, the creative genius behind Trinkets by Amanda Booth! Discover how Amanda turned her therapeutic clay experiments into a thriving TikTok-famous business, crafting everything from memorial jewelry wit…
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Say Yes to Creativity, No to Fear: Just Get Started | Ep 120
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25:26Send Us a Message.. please be nice In this week's episode of the Nonsexual Soulmates podcast, we dive into the theme of creativity and courage, inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic. How can we push past fear to embrace whatever creative pursuit we enjoy? How do we take fear out of the driver's seat but recognize it will probably always be a pa…
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Big Magic Vibes: Finding Inspiration in Everyday Chaos | Ep 119
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22:34Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join Kailey and Kayla in this vibrant episode of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast as they dive into the magic of creativity, inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic! Feeling stuck in the mud of life? The soulmates explore how to spark inspiration, break free from rigid routines, and embrace creativity in unexpect…
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Porta-Potty Trauma & Coffee Cup Urinals: Life from the Road | Ep 118
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27:54Send Us a Message.. please be nice Buckle up for a wild ride with Kailey and Kayla on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast! In this hilarious episode, Kailey shares her unforgettable "Stories from the Road" as a probation officer, navigating the chaos of bathroom emergencies in the middle of nowhere. From peeing in the woods on a Mennonite farm to survi…
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The Friendship Breakup Boom- Is Ghosting the Right Choice? | Ep 117
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25:23Send Us a Message.. please be nice Kailey and Kayla tackle the friendship breakup epidemic sweeping our 30s. From Kayla’s mom-life drift to Kailey’s DINKwad dodging of group chats, we’re spilling on the rage of unmet expectations, the awkward slow fades, and why it’s hitting harder now. Join your Nonsexual Soulmates for laughs, raw honesty, and tha…
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Finishing Strong: One Mom's Race to Conquer a Half Marathon | Ep 116
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25:38Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back for the second half of our special guest's inspiring story into running. This week, we hear more from Krista about what it has been like to challenge herself in this new way and what mental tricks she has employed to keep the habit of running in her life. If you think you can't run or are afraid to st…
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Scared to Start? One Mom's Bold Step into the World of Running | Ep 115
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29:37Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to a special edition of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. Hold onto your joggers, you are about to get inspired. This week's episode has a special guest interview- Krista joins us to share her health journey and the ways she has found to motivate herself to try something new. This is a two-part episode so b…
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Boo, Who? Unpacking Demons, Aliens & Haunted Hotspots! | Ep 114
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36:14Send Us a Message.. please be nice Where does evil come from? Are demons real? Are aliens demons? What are your thoughts on ghosts and haunted locations? This week we dive into to the dark side of the universe and wonder what causes tragedy, scary stories, and creepy encounters. And once you've listened, rate yourself in the comments on the scale f…
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Cosmic Conundrums: Aliens, Angels, and the Multiverse Mystery | Ep 113
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31:02Send Us a Message.. please be nice It's another week of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. Come get weird with us. We are here to discuss spirituality, explore our beliefs, and stretch a little into the unknown -- nothing is off limits this week as we dive into the convergence of religion, conspiracy theories, and all things "woo". Are aliens and ang…
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Soulmate Spotlight: Women Explore the Heart of Friendship | Ep 112
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22:19Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another week of self-reflection with the Nonsexual Soulmates. In this episode we review what we value in a friendship and what we find to be most important in the people we choose to trust. Once we get that sorted out, we flip the script on ourselves and evaluate our own performance. Are we being t…
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Unraveling Leaderships: Are We Desk Tyrants or Team Trailblazers? | Ep 111
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29:48Send Us a Message.. please be nice What makes a good leader? When does a supervisor transform from merely a manager to a leader who fosters growth in their employees? This week we ponder over our own growth and Kayla discusses what it's been like to transition into a management role while Kailey questions her own motives in workplace productivity. …
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Mid-30s Crossroads: Setting Goals Without Losing Yourself | Ep 110
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28:18Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another episode of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. We have decided to stay in the same vein of big life topics and to have an open discussion about setting goals now that we are in our mid-thirties. Every stage in life has its big decisions to make. We have hit some major milestones with graduatio…
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33 and Torn: Motherhood, Marriage, and the What-Ifs | Ep 109
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33:10Send Us a Message.. please be nice Join us this week for a common millennial dilemma: to parent, or not to parent? Kayla shares some of the highs and lows of motherhood so far and highlights the NUMEROUS ways in which becoming a mother was absolutely nothing like she expected- in the most rewarding and challenging ways. Kailey wrestles with continu…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to another week of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast! We recently realized we have been at this project for two whole years, and we wanted to take brief moment to give ourselves a lil pat on the back. In honor of our own commitment and to ensure we are staying the course, we decided to spend this episode rev…
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What Really Matters in Life? (ps it's not purses) | Ep 108
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28:08Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another Tuesday with the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. There's a lot of yap yap right now about the new administration in the United States and we are not here to add to the noise. We can all acknowledge that any change can cause anxiety and fear- so what do we do when times are tough? Join us as we…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another week of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. We are wrapping up our deep dive into Jordan Peterson's book "The Twelve Rules for Life" by completing the personality assessment on his Understand Myself Website. For the sake of fun, we used the comparison tool to compare/contrast our scores and to…
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The Tail- A Final Look at The 12 Rules | Ep 106
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33:10Send Us a Message.. please be nice The last 12 weeks we have read and reviewed our thoughts regarding Dr. Jordan Peterson's book "12 Rules for Life." In this final chapter (the coda aka the tail), the rules are reviewed and wrapped up with a series of questions. Kailey and Kayla review their own personal growth over the last 12 weeks and the lesson…
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Keep Your Sense of Whimsy, Ch 12 | Ep 105
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24:57Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to the final chapter of Jordan Peterson's book "12 Rules for Life." Chapter 12/Rule 12 states "Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street." Don't be misled by the chapter heading- we are discussing more than cat people vs. dog people. Dr. Peterson uses this analogy to remind us to look for little momen…
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If You Prevent All Danger, You Inhibit All Growth, Ch 11 | Ep 104
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43:42Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to the Nonsexual Soulmates Book Club. We are breaking down chapter 11 from Dr. Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life. In this chapter we are challenged to look at the motivations behind "protective" policies. Are we diminishing daring and courage under the guise of safety and security? The chapter break…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another week of the Nonsexual Soulmates Book Club. We are approaching the end Dr. Peterson's book "12 Rules for Life" and this week we recap chapter 10. "Rule 10: Be Precise in Your Speech" Last week, we were presented with a better way to listen. This week, we are challenged to speak clearly. Dr. …
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Maybe You Aren't the Only One Who Knows Things Ch 9 | Ep 102
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33:56Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to the Nonsexual Soulmates Book Club! This week we recap chapter 9 of Dr. Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life. (If this is your first time tuning in, don't fret, you can pick up anywhere without feeling left out). Rule 9 "Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't". We …
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Lying Never Works in the Long Run, Ch 8 | Ep 101
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30:03Send Us a Message.. please be nice Here we are with another solid piece of insight from Dr. Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life. Chapter 8 / Rule 8: "Tell the truth- or, at least, don't lie." Telling the truth can be hard. Sometimes telling a "little lie" or a "half truth" seems an easier solution, but how many times have you found yourself in more…
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Chase more than the Next Moment, Chapter 7 | Ep 100!
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27:13Send Us a Message.. please be nice THIS IS THE 100TH EPISODE OF THE NONSEXUAL SOULMATES PODCAST!!! How appropriate then, that the rule of chapter 7 in Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life, says the following: "Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient)." The irony really slapped us in the face- the endeavors that matter may take time, but the…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Dearly Beloved, we are gathered here to witness the departing of a friend (or foe), the year 2024. We have watched her age, she has seen us grow, we now send her off to her heavenly home. Join us for another holiday special as we lay to rest the trends of 2024 and set our sights on new horizons. Are you making res…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Our regular Tuesday release falling on Christmas Eve felt like the sign we needed to pause our regular book club episodes and bring you all a little holiday spirit. We bring you Christmas traditions old and new- possible pagan origins? What is the deal with Christmas trees? What are our favorite festive activities…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back for chapter 6 of the 12 Rules for Life by Dr. Jordan Peterson. The rule this week reads: "Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world." And we are feeling a little too seen. Join us as we review this chapter, advice on how to start the process of "setting your house in order" and th…
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The Dichotomy of Disciplining Kids | Ep 96
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37:57Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back for chapter 5 of the 12 Rules for Life by Dr. Jordan Peterson. The rule this week reads: “Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them.” GET EXCLUSIVE ACCESS TO OUR CONTENT https://www.nonsexualsoulmatespodcast.com Just follow the link & enter your email. Do us all a favor and like…
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Quit Being Salty and Make a Change | Ep 95
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33:24Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back for chapter 4 of the 12 Rules for Life by Dr. Jordan Peterson. The rule this week reads: "Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today." If you're anything like us, that required some re-reading so it could really sink in. This chapter also challenges us to view the succes…
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Real Friends Celebrate Your Victories | Ep 94
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30:20Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another episode of the Nonsexual Soulmates Book Club. This week we discuss Rule #3 for a better life: "Make friends with people who want the best for you." Even if you're not reading along with us, this chapter in particular has some pretty heavy-hitting quotes. Our tip this week? Take a look at th…
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Chaos vs. Order, Mayhem vs. Discipline, Make a List! | Ep 93
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36:13Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to our book club breakdown of "The 12 Rules for Life" by Dr. Jordan Peterson. This week we review chapter 2 (Rule 2). Chapter 2/Rule 2 felt like a big one. Kayla felt a little lost in the middle of the chapter and Kailey found new meaning to some of the Biblical stories from childhood. Join us as we review…
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Quit Slouching and Brush your Hair | Ep 92
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32:51Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to the pod, we are happy you are joining us. This week we breakdown chapter one/rule one from Jordan B. Peterson's 12 Guides to Life. Before you have a knee jerk reaction to his name and the public perception of him, please hang in with us and we review some really helpful insights into changing the w…
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Rules for Life, a Book Club Introduction | Ep 91
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28:18Send Us a Message.. please be nice As previously discussed, Halloween/All Hallows Eve/Samhain is the start of the new year on the old pagan calendar. We figured, why not try something new? So welcome to our first official book club in which we picked an author/book and break down a chapter each week. As a rule, we have always championed going to th…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to our official Happy Halloween episode. Kayla has been EAGERLY awaiting her opportunity to discuss Cryptids. Join us as Kailey is ushered into the world of weird creatures, creepy encounters, and skin walkers. Are these just scary stories or are there really things that go bump in the night? We want to he…
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Potions are Just Real Life Tinctures | Ep 89
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33:13Send Us a Message.. please be nice Have you ever wanted to dip your toe into the world of herbs and other natural supplements? As another aspect of Halloween/Witchy season, we are exploring some ways we can incorporate these real life potions into our everyday lives. Kailey also discusses the possible pitfalls of the unregulated supplement industry…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice We can think of NUMEROUS scenarios that are scarier than your average haunted house and are CERTAINLY more spooky than any haunted hayride. Join us this week on the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast as we review some of the most feared scenarios in our adult lives. Tip: Get yourself (or anyone with pierced ears that you…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Have you ever read your star chart? Not just the little horoscope sign based on the date of your birth, but the whole big daddy report? Well that's what we did this episode and it was so fun. Whether you live by the planets or you think it's all hogwash, it is fun to read and see what it says. Join us as we unpack…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to October! Witchy, spooky, and pumpkin season is officially here! To celebrate, we are doing some very elementary research about the origins of Halloween and some of our most beloved traditions. Did we make a few mistakes? Probably. But it was fun to try and learn a little bit. Thanks to Britannica for th…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another week of how to be an adult. Kayla has broken down the basics of how to purchase a home: where do I start? what do I do? who do I talk to? Sign up for our emails below and we will send you Kayla's quick reference guide: https://www.nonsexualsoulmatespodcast.com Thank you as always for listen…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice "What's for dinner tonight?" Arguably one of the worst questions and hardest decisions an adult has to make. But fear not! This week we discuss how we have simplified weeknight meals plus bonus insights on budget friendly ways to feed a toddler. Just the tip this week? It's a shameless plug for ourselves. Click on…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to the second week of our Adulting 101 Series. Tune in this week if you want to learn the basics of Advance Directives with two basics. We will cover an overview of the terms to know and where to start with your own planning. Just the Tip(s): To join the Numbering Your Days Network:https://numberingyo…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome to the Adulting 101 Series hosting by the Nonsexual Soulmates (who are allegedly adults). We continue to realize how many things we weren't taught in school and have had to educate ourselves about. We aren't experts, but if you want to hear about the basics from a couple of basics, come along for the ride.…
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Send Us a Message.. please be nice Have you ever been happily munching on a snack when suddenly it took a turn and now you are disgusted by the rest of your meal? Have you ever looked at a behavior and felt the second-hand cringes of embarrassment? Do the textures of certain objects make your skin crawl off? If you answered no to all of the above, …
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Conspiracy Theories, a Little Sprinkle | Ep 80
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44:11Send Us a Message.. please be nice Woah. Do things look a little different? That's because we did a rebrand! Thanks for noticing, we think we look better too. ANYWAY, this week we have another fun topic for you. Don't take us too seriously, we just think it's fun to wonder. So if you're into asking questions, you like random though exercises, or yo…
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You Can Still be a Kind Person and... | Ep 79
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36:21Send Us a Message.. please be nice Welcome back to another week of the Nonsexual Soulmates Podcast. This episode was inspired by a post that listed qualities that do not disqualify you as a kind person (despite making others uncomfortable). For example, you can be a kind person and still say no. Mind blowing, am I right? Join us as we break down th…
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Questions of Life and Death (Moths) | Ep 78
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36:39Send Us a Message.. please be nice This week we compile what could be considered a list of 3am thoughts. Questions about life- where we come from, how did we get here? To questions about tattoo choices- why a death moth, why on the neck? Buckle up ya turkeys, it's about to get weird. What questions swirl around your gray matter? Do you hold any of …
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