Meet Mr. and Mrs. Mocha, the dynamic duo behind the Ofacez podcast! A married interracial couple offers a refreshing perspective on consensual non- monogamy. They speak on all things Lifestyle. Swingers, Cuckolding, Hotwife, Bulls, Unicorns, Manicorns, and Lifestyle turn content creators! With a focus on Sexual Mental , Physical, and emotional Health! If you've ever wondered about the Lifestyle ecosystem, you've come to the right place! Expect an unedited and Unfiltered Look into the sexual ...
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“Mrs. Mocha’s Splash Mocha Afterglow: Dirty Details & Wild Nights”
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1:16:06March 2025’s Splash Mocha was filthy, fabulous, and full of unforgettable nights—and now it’s time for the debrief you’ve been dying for. In this long-overdue episode, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha finally sit down to relive all the steamy, sweaty, and downright scandalous moments from their time at the nation’s hottest interracial swinger event. From late-ni…
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In this no-holds-barred episode of O-Facez, Mr. and Mrs. Mocha answer the steamiest, most vulnerable, and most asked questions from listeners deep in—or just getting curious about—the swinger lifestyle. From managing emotions and setting boundaries to the wild stories. What’s it really like to open your bedroom—and your relationship—to others?Expec…
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🔥 Lifestyle Debate: Who Really Runs the Play—The Couple or the Bull? 🔥
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2:40:52In this explosive episode of Ofacez, Mr. Mocha hosts a no-filter, no-apologies debate that dives straight into one of the most talked-about questions in the lifestyle world: 👉 Who truly holds the power in cuckolding and hotwifing—the couple or the bull? Joining the table: 🎙 Michael C., one of the most recognizable and respected voices in the cuckol…
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“Why do Black Men Keep Their Socks On: Lifestyle, Sex Talk & Savage Truths”
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1:13:19Mr. Mocha and Manicorn Q are day drinking and saying whatever the hell they want in this unfiltered, boys-only edition of Ofacez: The Cutting Board. They rope in Stag Rizza, who kicks things off with a wild question: Why do so many Black men leave their socks on during sex? From there, it spirals—in the best way possible. This episode dives into th…
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Role Reversal: The Mocha’s Love Story Uncovered by “The Sigma Male”
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1:30:48In a seductive twist, the mics are turned on Mr. and Mrs. Mocha as Brian Morgan, better known as The Sigma Male, takes over hosting duties on the Ofacez podcast. A long-time admirer of their dynamic, Brian is on a mission to pull back the curtain and uncover the roots of the relationship that so many in the lifestyle look up to. What follows is a d…
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🔥 Day 2 Recap: Live from Splash Mocha – Even Wilder, Even Hotter 🔥
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1:02:14Day 2 of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha live podcast at Splash Mocha was pure fire from start to finish. If Day 1 warmed things up, Day 2 turned up the heat and let it burn. With a packed studio audience and a panel that was ready to get raw, this episode dove even deeper into the realities, fantasies, and downright sexy chaos of the lifestyle. From the mo…
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Mr. and Mrs. Mocha Live from ATL Splash Mocha 2025
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59:42Step into the electrifying energy of a live studio audience as Mr. and Mrs. Mocha take the stage at Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention! This episode delivers raw, unscripted, and unfiltered conversations with a dynamic panel and audience participation that takes the discussion to the next level. While the sound quality may be…
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Trigger Warning: Provocative Content Ahead! This week on Ofacez, Mr. Mocha sits down with the outspoken Manicorn Q, who kicks off the conversation with a fiery statement: "Your wife is not as hot as you think she is." Dive into an unfiltered discussion that touches on dynamics within swinging, hotwifing, Cuckolding, and ethical non-monogamy. Manico…
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Sultry Anticipation: A Pre-Splash Mocha Tease with Mr. & Mrs. Mocha
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57:41As the countdown to Splash Mocha begins, Mrs. Mocha is practically buzzing with anticipation. In this steamy pre-event episode, she shares her excitement about rekindling old connections and embracing the thrill of new, pulse-quickening experiences. With Mr. Mocha’s expert touch guiding her into the perfect, uninhibited mindset, she’s ready to unle…
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“From Vanilla to Wild" Sex, Freedom & The Power of Pleasure!
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1:23:10Ever wondered what really happens at sex parties? Or how stepping outside the "norm" can reignite the passion in your relationship? Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are bringing the heat in this episode as they sit down with Tammy, who took a leap into the world of ethical non-monogamy after a chance encounter at a bar introduced her to the lifestyle. From nervo…
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Join Mr and Mrs Mocha in this juicy and unfiltered episode as they dish out advice on breaking free from lifestyle peer pressure and embracing your authentic, sexy self . Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned Explorer they encourage you to break out of cliques , explore different lifestyle communities, and unlock the full potential of your…
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From Across the Pond: Secret Vixen Brings Her Sexy Back
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1:21:55Dive into the steamy world of the swinger lifestyle in this sizzling episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha podcast! Joining us all the way from the UK are none other than Secret Vixen and her husband, Secret Stag, for a no-holds-barred conversation that’s as hot as it is revealing. Discover how this power couple first dipped their toes into the lifesty…
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"Men of Ofacez" New Years Eve Live from Splash Mocha
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1:38:00In our latest live episode, "The Men of Ofacez," recorded at the Splash Mocha Interracial Hot Wife convention in Orlando during the New Year’s Eve event, a powerhouse panel featuring Mr. Mocha, Demetri VC, Chris Minx, Misdaeastcoast, Andre, and Pussy Licka shared their insights. They spoke about the importance of the Lifestyle community—a space tha…
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"In this episode, recorded live at Splash Mocha in Orlando, Florida, an interracial hotwife event, Mr. Mocha and Mrs. Mocha explored the dynamics of sexual freedom for women within the lifestyle community. They engaged with the audience, including a discussion initiated by an experienced bull about the authenticity of Queen of Spades, and explored …
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Mr. Mocha and DD Vixen face off infront of a live audience at Splash Mocha Houston. DD Vixen challenges Mr. Mocha about saying " it's your husband's fault ". Her husband Smooth J joined the conversation and was the perfect compliment to her and the show. DD Vixen was fun ,sassy and full of fire. Mrs.Mocha and DD Vixen even joined forces against Mr.…
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Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are joined by party goers live from Splash Mocha Houston 2024. Off the rails from the start but fun and unfiltered! So no subject is off limits. Let's talk sex!
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Mr. Mocha chats with Brian Morgan "The Sigma Male"
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54:27Brian define what it means to be a Sigma Male in the Lifestyle. How he was introduced to the LS . And how he it has changed his life. Sex as a single male and the way he brings sexual excitement to lives of couples. He introduces the topic of the " Quality Bull". Join Mr. Mocha and Brian and enjoy the show!…
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Mrs. Mocha is finally back to her old ways and loving life. She is back on the D! She is catching out for lost sex and moving full steam ahead!
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Drew Marston Open and Honest about being a Bi black bull.
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1:15:43Come along on this mind opening discussion as Drew shares his journey and navigation of being a Bi-Sexual Bull. He starts by talking about the struggles of being bi-sexual in a a close minded family and the discouragement he faced early on and how it hindered him from exploring this side of himself. Mr. Mocha shares his own journey from homophobia …
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Cuck Corner with Craig Mc Kinney (Splash Mocha recording)
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40:15Mr. Mocha interviews The Creator of "Cuck Corner" Craig McKinney live from Splash Mocha. Enjoy the chat and interaction from the live audience. Mike from Keys and Anklets joins the show to help us wrap. Just set back and enjoy the random chats .
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Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!! Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever!
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The Dirty Girls Corner Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024
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1:08:32Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!!
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Live from Atlanta Day before Splash Mocha 2024 Day 1
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1:01:23Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!!…
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Discussing Rejection with The Panel and Special guests Sir Walter Doyle and Socrates
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1:07:18On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates. The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit…
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Splash Mocha owner Wayne and Customer Service manager Tina
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1:12:15Mr. and Mrs. Mocha interview Wayne and Tina 3 days before Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Get it from the Owners mouth. What is Splash Mocha ? Where did it start? and How did it evolve? What makes Splash different from other events? And get personal and Learn about Splash Mocha's owner Wayne and his wife's intro into the Lifestyle. Customer service mana…
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SexXxual Health with Mrs. Mocha and Salacious Scarlet
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1:35:54Let's talk about it! Mrs. Mocha invites Salacious Scarlet from the Slut Sisters to share in a discussion about new advancements in sexual health. We are sharing our lived experience as sexually empowered women who take excellent care of our sexual health. Stigma surrounding STI's contributes to sex negativity in our culture. Topics discussed includ…
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BBC Bull Drew Marston ... Finding the right couples for me
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1:29:35Part 2 with Drew Marston. Mr. Mocha and Drew talk finding the right couples. What he looks for and what he avoids. Understanding bonds and boundaries. Responding to having personal boundaries push.... and so much more!
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Meet Spades Magazine's Publisher Drew Marston
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1:22:11Drew Marston is an experience Bull in the lifestyle as well as the founder and publisher of Spades Magazine. This is the first in a series of interviews with Drew. In this episode Mr. Mocha gets Drew's origin story. How he found the Ls, how long he's been in the LS, and his journey from rookie single guy to successful BBC Bull!…
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Don’t be that guy: the Single male etiquette
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1:07:47Dive into single male etiquette with Mr. Mocha and Q as they discuss the dynamics and roles for single men in the lifestyle. Mr. Mocha discusses the various roles, relationships and dynamics in the lifestyle and how the single male interacts with each one. They take you step by step from building a profile on lifestyle sites, approach, managing and…
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The Evolution of our Lifestyle Journey
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1:05:57Come along for the ride as Mr and Mrs Mocha take us on their journey through the lifestyle and the art of sport F*cking. Hear how they manage their challenges with juggling life's responsibilities, children and jobs to make time for play! They discuss the ins and outs, and ups and downs of growing through their lifestyle experiences from hosting pa…
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On this episode, Mr. Mocha and Michael C the host of the keys and anklets podcast invite us into their conversation on the subject of BBC. The conversation is sparked by a black female author who finds the term offensive and objectifying. They cover the history of the term BBC and how the term has been used throughout American history. Also discuss…
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How Religion Shapes our lifestyle experience
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1:10:22Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx Join Pagan, and guests as they discuss the affects of growing up in strict cultural and religious families. They tackle tough topics head on …follow their journeys on how they overcame the fear, guilt and judgements of organized religion with a focus on how religion affects our values, judgements and choices in the LS!#ReligionI…
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The Male Emotion (Emotional Intelligence Part 4)
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1:58:27Part 4 in this continued series on emotional intelligence for men, Mr. Mocha, Mr. Minx, Craig McKenny & guests, describe Pre-nut vs post nut brain. They also cover a wide range of male emotions and reactions including, your brain trying to resolve unresolved issues through dreams, Jealousy and envy amongst single men, Bad actions from single men, a…
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Emotional Intelligence for Men Part 3 (Know thyself)
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2:02:59Part 3. In this episode we continue to discuss emotional intelligence for men in the lifestyle (Cuckholds, Bulls, Married men and Manicorns)*Creating a “safe space" for men to talk about their feelings*What are the underline issues of what you are feeling *The importance of support groups, fellowships and / or mentoring to help men in the lifestyle…
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Emotional Intelligence for Men in the Lifestyle with Mr Mocha and Minx
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1:17:07In this continuation of “Men and their emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx discuss how men can navigate their emotions in the Ethical Non-Monogamous Lifestyle They discuss the “Active Seeking of the Knowledge” How do you deal with the feelings of watching your wife play or interact with another male. How do men manage their emot…
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Mr. Mocha and Mike C from the Keys and Anklets podcast finally record a random conversation. Mr. Mocha and Mike C spends hours in random conversation . After every chat they both say.... we should have recorded that. Half way thru a conversation they agreed to record and share!
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Bull Demetri Vc "When you invite me into your marital bed"
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1:34:11Mr. Mocha chat with Demetri Vc about what a Cuckold couple should expect from his as a Bull. He talks sexual boundaries and kinks. They also speak on his introduction to content and why prefers Lifestyle creator. They take a moment to answer questions from listeners on twitter spaces.
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Men and there Emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe
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1:33:42We all have emotions but how do we manage them ? Mr. Mocha and Lupe chat about the male emotional state when dealing with different thing men experience in the lifestyle. Lupe shares a moment of insecurity after watching his wife Micha's response to a guy that she was sexually attracted to. This episode was recorded live on twitter spaces with inte…
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Mr. Mocha shares with the listeners how he share the experience when Mrs. Mocha has a playdate. He talks about his feeling from and their interactions for the time she plans her date until the date is over.
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Mrs. Mocha's back in action... Kinda. After missing the friend, excitement, and sex of the party for a few events we are back. On this episode we talk about being back in the thick of it. The Mocha's share what they did and saw.
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Dirty Girls Corner Splash Mocha Houston
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1:02:32In this episode, we go live from Splash Mocha Houston with several very special guests , Tina from Splash Mocha, that gives us some insight on how Splash is run and some basic guidelines. We have Scarlet back on, and We had Angel Minx on to help Mrs. Mocha since not all of the dirty girls were able to attend Splash. We touched on so many subjects y…
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Men of the lifestyle cutting board With GoliathDFW… How to represent yourself and navigate on a lifestyle website When the husband wants me to “Pile drive” and “Jack hammer”his lady but she does not… “Splash mocha is god’s gift to black men…”. Pace yourself… How do single black men walk into a room and make a woman feel safe and comfortable? Are yo…
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On this episode we share some funny stories about our lifestyle journey! Good bad and ugly 🤣! We also have a few guests jump in from Mocha and tell sus some of their wildest experience! Buckle up and make sure you are ready to laugh 😃 🤣! Happy Listening 🎶
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Dirty Girls Corner Live from Splash Mocha Atlanta
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51:47Dirty Girls corner from Splash Mocha aka "The sea of c$cks" ! We did our first ever live audience podcast ! We talked about our past Mocha experiences and what the plan was for later in the evening for all the BBC we had waiting for us !
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On this episode MR. Mocha and I recap some of our past Splash Mocha experiences and share some of our hopes for the upcoming Mocha. If you are not familiar with Splash Mocha , It is a Hotwife/BBC party that travels the country doing events ! So if you want to know a little more this is an episode you do not want to miss!…
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Ofacez interviews Long time Guest to Friend Mike Tremor
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1:05:51On this episode of Ofacez we interview long time loyal guest Mike Tremor , we talk about how he was introduced to the Lifestyle . We discussed what his experiences were in the US compared to Europe , along with some other fun stories about his Lifestyle journey ! Happy Listening SF!
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On this Episode we talk about awkward moments that happen with single males or with couples , Are you sexually Awkward sometimes ? Well some of the Dirty girls elaborate on their experiences and how they either got out of it or just made it fun ! We throw in some rants about couples that get tested once a year but do not use protection ! We also di…
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Ofacez discuss Being Mutually Attracted and Etiquette on What to Expect
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1:25:02On this episode Mr Mocha and Mrs. Mocha discuss how you should approach other couples , single males, and single females when they do not post or share face pics or body pics but want you to share everything about yourself ! Please listen to this episode if you have ever ran into this issue , we still make jokes but MR. Mocha shows how "passionate"…
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On this episode we Celebrate Women's History Month and all the Sl$%s that share our stories! We discuss being a proud sl$t and the empowerment we want other ladies to have by telling our stories and making their own from listening to ours ! Being your best self!
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We start it off with our usual slut story recaps since last episode. One of us was approached with some new terminology that turns into a pretty wild discussion with lots of laughs. We talk about pressure to play at LS parties and degrees of “DTF” - Men coming out as bi in the lifestyle and how the LS should be a safe place to try new things and be…
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