Best Staci Bartley Podcasts (2025)

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#234: Why Do I Keep Pretending Everything’s Fine in My Relationship? 47:27

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4d ago47:27

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Send us a text You love them. You want it to work. But no matter how hard you try, something keeps getting in the way of that deep connection you crave. This episode is for anyone standing at the edge of love, wondering why it feels so lonely even when you’re not alone. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for people at a relationship crossroads…

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#233: The #1 Mistake People Make After Their Partner Asks for Space 53:34

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Send us a text When your partner asks for space, what are they really stepping away from, and how long should you wait before reaching out? If you’ve been stuck in limbo, quietly wondering if silence means it’s really over… this one’s for you. In this deeply-requested rebroadcast, we’re breaking down one of the most agonizing questions in modern re…

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#232: How to Feel Seen and Heard in Your Relationship Again 59:51

25d ago59:51

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Send us a text Why are we doing all the “right” things, but still feel so alone? You plan the dinners, agree to keep the peace, perform the role of the supportive partner, and try not to rock the boat. And yet, something still feels off. The spark is gone. The intimacy is missing. The disconnection is unbearable. In this episode of Love Shack Live,…

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#231: The Silent Destroyer: Why Swallowing Your Truth Is Eroding Your Relationship 40:18

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Send us a text Ever find yourself biting your tongue just to keep the peace, only to feel more alone than ever? Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone standing at a relationship crossroads, navigating daily conflict, emotional distance, and the longing to rebuild a bond that feels real again. We’re here for the ones who want more than j…

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#230: Why Most Advice Fails When Your Partner Pulls Away (and What Actually Works) 51:28

2M ago51:28

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Send us a text Have you ever been told to “just give them space” but all it did was leave you with more questions, more pain, and zero real answers? If you’re at a relationship crossroads, wrestling with daily conflict, growing emotional gaps, or the panic that comes with feeling your partner drift away, you’re not alone. Love Shack Live is the pod…

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#229: Why Do Boundaries Make Me Feel Worse? How to Set Limits Without Losing Love 56:55

2M ago56:55

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Send us a text Ever set a boundary in your relationship, only to feel more misunderstood, guilty, or disconnected than before? You’re not alone. In fact, so many of us try to draw healthy lines, only to end up in new arguments, feeling shut out, or wondering if we’re doing something wrong. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone standing…

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#228: We’re Not Fighting, But We’re Not Okay: The Truth About Emotional Burnout In Relationships 53:42

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Send us a text You’re not angry. You’re not yelling. You’re just… tired. The kind of tired that sinks in so deep, you’re not even fighting anymore, you’re just holding it together in silence, hoping things will somehow fix themselves. If love feels like a burden lately, if you find yourself walking on eggshells or wondering why it’s so quiet at hom…

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#227: You Can’t Keep Going Like This: What to Do When You’re Emotionally Flatlining 48:48

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Send us a text Have you ever had that quiet, sinking feeling… the one in your gut that whispers something’s off? Nothing’s exploded. Nothing’s “wrong.” But deep down, you know, this version of your relationship, your life, even yourself? It doesn’t quite fit anymore. And you’re just dancing through the motions, hoping no one notices the smoke. You’…

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#226: Your Emotional Survival Mode Is Sabotaging Your Relationship (Here’s How to Stop It) 37:19

2M ago37:19

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Send us a text Ever find yourself saying things you don’t mean… or going completely silent because it feels like nothing will help? You’re not alone. When emotions run high, we don’t default to communication, we default to survival. In this episode of Love Shack Live, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most important (and overlooked) rela…

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#225: The Hidden Curriculum of Relationships: What Every Fight Is Trying to Teach You 55:26

3M ago55:26

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Send us a text You say you want deep connection, but your walls won’t let anyone all the way in. You crave peace, but find yourself pulled back into conflict. You long to be loved, but still feel alone, even when someone’s lying right beside you. Here’s the truth: You’re not broken. You’re becoming. And your relationship isn’t just happening to you…

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#224: The Silent Wedge: How Defensiveness Destroys Emotional Safety 52:34

3M ago52:34

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Send us a text You say one thing. They hear another. And somehow, the more you try to explain, the worse it gets. Sound familiar? This is what defensiveness does. It scrambles your message, distorts your intentions, and quietly chips away at emotional safety, until even love starts to feel like a battleground. According to renowned relationship res…

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#223: How to Let Go of the Past in a Relationship (Even When It Still Hurts) 1:03:59

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Send us a text Have you ever had that moment in the kitchen? You’re just standing there, maybe making dinner, maybe scrolling your phone, and the weight of everything unsaid between you and your partner fills the room like smoke. You want to say something. You really do. But the words feel like landmines. “I’m still hurt.” “I don’t know how to forg…

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#222: The Real Reason You Can’t Change Your Relationship Patterns (And How to Fix It) 50:46

3M ago50:46

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Send us a text Are you tired of knowing what to do, but still finding yourself stuck in old patterns? You’re not alone. If you’ve ever felt the frustration of knowing exactly what could help your relationship but still falling back into old habits, this episode is for you. We’re diving into a common struggle: why knowing what to do isn’t the same a…

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#221: The 3 Communication Patterns That Are Making Space Worse (And What to Do Instead) 37:17

4M ago37:17

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Send us a text You’re giving them space… but it’s starting to feel like emotional quicksand. You don’t know what to say, so you say nothing. Or maybe you say everything and still feel unheard. You reread old texts. Obsess over their social media. Wonder if reaching out will push them away, or if staying silent makes it seem like you’ve stopped cari…

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#220: They Cheated. Now What? A Step-by-Step Guide to Surviving the First Days 56:24

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Send us a text Infidelity cracks everything open. The trust you relied on? Shattered. The future you imagined? Uncertain. And now, you’re left asking the question no one ever wants to face: Can we actually survive this? In this week’s episode of Love Shack Live, we’re stepping into one of the most painful, and misunderstood, relationship challenges…

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#219: Bridging the Divide: How to Reconnect When It Feels Like You’re Worlds Apart (with Topaz Adizes) 1:05:20

4M ago1:05:20

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Send us a text Right now, it feels like the world, and maybe even your own home, is pulling apart at the seams. Conversations that once felt effortless now feel loaded. The people we love can start to feel like strangers. And sometimes, shutting down or avoiding the tough talks just seems easier. But at what cost? Welcome to Love Shack Live, the po…

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#218: Want to Save Your Relationship? Change the Questions You’re Asking (with Topaz Adizes) 51:19

5M ago51:19

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Send us a text Do you feel like you and your partner are growing apart? Like no matter how much you try, the connection you once had is slipping through your fingers? Maybe conversations feel repetitive, like you’re stuck in the same arguments, or worse, like you’re just roommates, living parallel lives under the same roof. If you’ve ever wondered:…

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#217: How Long Should You Wait? The Truth About Waiting for Your Partner to Come Back 41:48

5M ago41:48

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Send us a text Are you stuck in the endless loop of waiting for your partner to return, hoping things will magically go back to normal? Waiting isn’t the solution, and it’s costing you more than you realize. In this episode, we explore the high price of holding on too tightly while standing still, and why it’s time to stop waiting and start living …

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#216: The Valentine’s Day Survival Plan for Anyone in Relationship Limbo 43:21

5M ago43:21

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Send us a text Valentine’s Day is here, but instead of feeling loved and cherished, you’re dreading it. Maybe there’s a pit in your stomach because this year is different. Your partner has asked for space. They’ve pulled away emotionally, or maybe they’re physically gone. Now, a day that’s supposed to be about love feels like a cruel reminder of wh…

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#215: The #1 Mistake People Make When Their Partner Asks for Space 1:00:54

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Send us a text What if the hardest part about your partner asking for space isn’t the space itself—but what it does to you? The sleepless nights, the overthinking, the way every conversation replays in your head like a broken record. You tell yourself to be patient, but inside, you feel like you’re unraveling. No one teaches us how to handle this m…

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#214: Obligation Is Killing Your Relationship—Here’s How to Stop It 56:42

6M ago56:42

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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re the only one holding your relationship together? You keep showing up, biting your tongue, doing what needs to be done—not out of love, but out of obligation. And yet, the more you give, the more exhausted, disconnected, and unseen you feel. The hard truth? Obligation isn’t just draining you, it’s destroying the …

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#213: Why Your Partner’s Request for Space Isn’t the End: Listener Q&A 48:55

6M ago48:55

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Send us a text Have you ever felt blindsided by your partner asking for space? Maybe you’re stuck replaying every conversation, wondering how it got to this point. Or perhaps you’re grappling with resentment, thinking, Why didn’t they say something sooner? Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those standing at a relationship crossroads. If y…

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#212: How Much Space Is Too Much? How to Avoid Losing Yourself (and Each Other) 59:59

6M ago59:59

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Send us a text Have you found yourself in the unsettling quiet of giving your partner the space they asked for, wondering if you’re doing the right thing, or if you’re losing them altogether? The silence can be deafening, filled with questions: Am I helping or hurting? Is this space tearing us apart, or could it actually bring us closer? Welcome to…

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#211: Can You Save Your Relationship When Your Partner Wants Out? 1:02:07

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Send us a text Feeling stuck in the space between staying and leaving? That painful limbo, where your relationship isn’t thriving, but it’s not over either, can feel like a roller coaster of hope, despair, and confusion. Whether your partner has asked for space, filed for divorce, or you’re simply feeling emotionally disconnected, you might be aski…

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#210: When Your Avoidant Partner Needs Space: A Story of Coming Back to Life 1:09:07

7M ago1:09:07

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Send us a text Have you ever watched someone you love slowly fade into emotional darkness, desperately wanting to help but feeling powerless as they pull away? Or perhaps you're the one who feels the overwhelming need to withdraw, even as your heart aches for connection? Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we guide couples standing at the crossroads …

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#209: Space in Your Relationship: Do’s, Don’ts, and the Answers You Need Most 57:22

7M ago57:22

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Send us a text It’s one of the most gut-wrenching moments in a relationship: your partner asks for space. You’re left reeling, questioning everything. Why does this hurt so much? Why can’t they just stay and work through it with me? What am I supposed to do now? In this special episode of Love Shack Live, we’re diving deep into what it really means…

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#208: When They Say 'I Can't Do This Anymore': A Survival Guide for Your Breaking Heart 55:09

7M ago55:09

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Send us a text “I Can’t Do This Anymore” Few words can hit harder. In an instant, your world tilts. Your mind races, your heart pounds, and suddenly, you’re questioning everything. When your partner says they need space, it’s natural to spiral. But what if this isn’t the end? What if it’s a chance to rewrite your story? Welcome to Love Shack Live, …

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#207: The Antidote to Overthinking: What to Do When Your Partner Needs Space 56:49

7M ago56:49

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Send us a text When your partner asks for space, your thoughts can spiral into overdrive. You replay every conversation, overanalyze their actions, and question everything. It’s exhausting, and the more you think, the deeper you sink. To make it worse, you isolate yourself, convinced no one can understand your pain. But here’s the truth: isolation …

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#206: Your Partner Needs Space—Here’s How to Handle It Without Falling Apart 48:17

8M ago48:17

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Send us a text You felt the divide long before it was spoken. The missed glances. The quiet tension. Then the words you dreaded: “I think I need space.” Your stomach drops. Panic sets in. You’ve tried everything—giving more, doing more, being more. And now, it feels like the end. But what if it’s not? What if this moment, as painful as it feels, is…

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#205: Holiday Chaos? Here’s How to Protect Your Peace (and Your Relationship) 1:00:31

8M ago1:00:31

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Send us a text The holidays are supposed to be a time of love and togetherness, but for many couples, they’re anything but. Maybe you’re dreading that family dinner, knowing the cracks in your relationship will feel like they’re under a microscope. Or perhaps you’re bracing for the political debates, old family patterns, or conversations that could…

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#204: Are You Being Manipulated—or Are You the Manipulator? 59:05

8M ago59:05

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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells, second-guessing every word you say or action you take in your relationship? Or maybe you notice a quiet tension—like something unspoken is driving your connection further apart. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: manipulation often hides in plain sight. And it’s not just them—it’s us, too. Wel…

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#203: Surviving Stressful Times as a Couple—What to Do When the World Feels Divided 46:12

9M ago46:12

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Send us a text This week’s election brought about a surge of emotions across the country—some people are feeling relief and optimism, while others face a deep sense of concern and uncertainty. For many couples, these contrasting feelings coexist under the same roof, adding a new layer of tension to their relationship. When the world feels divided, …

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#202: The Hard Questions You’re Afraid to Ask in Your Relationship—Answered 1:01:47

9M ago1:01:47

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Send us a text Ever looked at your partner and felt a distance you can’t quite put into words? Once easy conversations now feel loaded, and you find yourself tiptoeing around topics that need addressing. It’s a crossroads, and you’re wondering: Is there a way back to real connection, or is it too late? In this episode of Love Shack Live, we’re divi…

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#201: The 3 Most Overlooked Conversations in Every Relationship 49:50

9M ago49:50

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Send us a text What if I told you there are three hidden conversations that most couples never have—until it’s too late? We’re not talking about the dramatic arguments. These are the quiet, everyday moments, full of small frustrations and unspoken expectations, building up layer by layer until they create real cracks in your relationship. In this e…

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#200: 200 Episodes, 200 Chances: Your Relationship Isn't Over – It's Just Beginning 57:25

9M ago57:25

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Send us a text Are you at the point where the silence between you and your partner is louder than the conversations? The same arguments, the same disappointments, the same distance, growing with every passing day. You’ve tried everything — from pleading to pretending everything’s fine — but the gap only seems to widen. You’re not alone. In fact, ov…

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#199: Neglect Is Destroying Your Relationship – Recognize the Signs Before It’s Too Late 56:47

9M ago56:47

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Send us a text Picture this: You’re sitting across from your partner. The house is finally quiet, no phones, no distractions. But instead of feeling close, there’s an empty space between you... a gap that feels impossible to bridge. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. 67% of couples report feeling emotionally disconnected, but here’s the real shocker…

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#198: Falling Out of Love or Just Disconnected? How to Tell and What to Do 57:18

10M ago57:18

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Send us a text Do you ever hear people say, “We just fell out of love”? Perhaps you’ve even said it yourself. It’s easy to believe that love simply fades when life gets busy or tough. But here’s the truth: it’s a myth. Love doesn’t just slip away; it evolves. And understanding that evolution is the key to rekindling your relationship. Welcome to Lo…

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#197: Five Warning Signs Your Marriage is Headed for Divorce—and How to Stop It 57:37

10M ago57:37

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Send us a text Ever felt like you’re living with a stranger, even though your partner is right beside you? It didn’t happen overnight, but here you are—facing a growing emotional gap and conflicts that seem to have no end. You’ve tried to talk, tried to fix things, but somehow, the distance just keeps building. And now, you’re left wondering: Is my…

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#196: How to Communicate Emotional Needs Before Resentment Takes Over 54:18

10M ago54:18

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Send us a text What if the toughest conversations in your relationship aren’t the ones you’re having—but the ones you’re avoiding? Resentment doesn’t build from the big arguments. It grows in the silence, in the moments when you keep your needs hidden, hoping your partner will just know. But here’s the reality: they won’t. And that unspoken tension…

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#195: Stuck in the ‘Gray Zone’? Here’s What to Do When You’re Unsure Whether to Stay or Go in Your Relationship 43:18

10M ago43:18

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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re living in relationship limbo? You’re stuck in the middle, unsure whether to stay or walk away, and every decision feels like the wrong one. You’re emotionally drained, and no matter how hard you try, the clarity you crave just won’t come. You’re not alone. In fact, 65% of people in struggling relationships feel …

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#194: The Effortless Love Myth: Why Every Couple Needs Skills 59:57

11M ago59:57

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Send us a text Why does it feel like love isn’t enough to fix your relationship? You’ve tried everything—communicating more, planning date nights, giving space, and even avoiding conflict altogether. Yet, the same problems keep resurfacing, and you’re left wondering if love alone can really sustain a lasting relationship. The frustration, the exhau…

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#193: When Your Self-Improvement Journey Triggers Your Partner's Insecurities (Part 3) 51:56

11M ago51:56

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Send us a text Are you tired of waiting for your partner to change? Frustrated that your efforts to improve yourself seem to be driving a wedge between you instead of bringing you closer? You're not alone. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those standing at a relationship crossroads. If you're grappling with daily conflicts, feeling an em…

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#192: The Heartbreak of Waiting: How to Move Forward When Your Partner Stays Stuck (Part Two) 51:11

11M ago51:11

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Send us a text You’ve taken the brave step to focus on self-growth, believing it would inspire positive change in your relationship. But despite your efforts, your partner remains unchanged, and you’re left feeling frustrated, as though you’re stuck in a holding pattern, waiting for them to catch up. This situation can feel like you’re standing in …

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#191: Stuck Waiting for Your Partner to Change? The Self-Focus Solution You Need Now (Part 1) 1:02:02

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Send us a text Love Shack Live is taking a short Back To School break. We will be back with a new episode on 8/24/24. Tired of feeling like your relationship's success hinges solely on your partner's willingness to change? You're not alone. Many of us find ourselves stuck in this frustrating cycle, feeling powerless and unfulfilled. Welcome to Love…

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#190: From 'You Never Listen' to 'I Feel Heard': Transform Your Relationship Today 1:05:27

12M ago1:05:27

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Send us a text Are you tired of feeling like your partner never listens to you? Do you find yourself constantly repeating the same things, only to be met with blank stares or distracted nods? You're not alone. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for couples at a relationship crossroads. If you're facing daily conflicts and a growing emotional g…

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#189: When Words Wound: The Silent Killer of Relationships and How to Fight Back 1:03:45

12M ago1:03:45

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Send us a text Struggling with constant arguments and feeling like every disagreement is a personal attack? You're not alone. Many couples face daily conflicts and an emotional gap that seems impossible to bridge. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those at a relationship crossroads, seeking to rebuild a bond that feels genuine and lasting…

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#188: Why Your Partner Doesn’t Just ‘Know’ What You Need – And What to Do About It 50:30

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Send us a text Do you feel like your partner should just know how to love you without you having to spell it out? Ever been frustrated because your partner doesn’t instinctively know what you need? This common belief can lead to deep resentment and a pile of unmet expectations. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those at a relationship cro…

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#187: Is Blame Destroying Your Relationship? Here’s What to Do Instead 45:51

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Send us a text Are you and your partner stuck in a cycle of blame, constantly pointing fingers, and feeling the emotional strain it puts on your relationship? The blame game can create emotional gaps, turn disagreements into battles over who's right, and chip away at trust. This ongoing tension builds resentment, leaves both partners feeling distan…

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#186: Why Do We Always End Up Fighting? Fix Your Communication Struggles 58:55

1y ago58:55

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Send us a text Do you ever feel like your words fall on deaf ears when you’re trying to communicate with your partner? It’s incredibly disheartening to pour your heart out, only to feel misunderstood and disconnected. Imagine if there was a way to bridge that emotional gap and turn frustrating conversations into meaningful connections. Welcome to L…

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#185: Reconnecting After Separation: Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust 1:04:25

1y ago1:04:25

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Send us a text Have you ever wondered if you can truly trust your partner again, especially after betrayal or separation? The pain of past betrayals and the fear of opening up again can be paralyzing, but what if there's a way to rebuild trust step by step? Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for listeners who find themselves at a relationship …