Queen and J. are two funny womanist race nerds from the Bronx talking liberation, politics and pop culture over tea! Dismantling systems of domination one episode at a time.
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A Jem of a Secret Podcast is a fun artistic look at drag and drag culture while talking about current events. Hear what Donatella Mysecrets and Coco Jem Holiday have to say about the world around them on their journey through Portland, Oregon.
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The Politics of Black Style: Gender, Resistance, Black Dandyism & why the Met gala was kinda slavey
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1:22:27If you wear clothes this is a Black ass history conversation that you need. Let's discuss. Fashion & style friend's Channél Jordan & Diamond Stylz join us for history, theory & context. While we use the Met Gala as a launching point for a larger conversation on Black style, YOU DO NOT NEED TO CARE ABOUT OR TO HAVE SEEN MET GALA COVERAGE to enjoy th…
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Before my solo Sinners review, I sat with actor/comedian Chris Lamberth on The Mundane Festival podcast for a fresh-out-the-theater spoiler filled review, and got to cover a few additional themes that were on my mind. We get into the Black British actor debate, church-y-ness and a fear of spirit (we're seeing a lot of that fear in some Christian's …
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Let's review Ryan Coogler's original film "Sinners" 4:58 The Great Migration 10:33 Sammie's Salvation 12:27 Why Twins? 15:11 IMAX baby!!!! 17:14 Why do we sleep on Michael B. Jordan? 21:22 What does "Good" vs "Evil" mean to you? 27:15 Music and Spirit 33:24 "The best day" of their lives 37:39 Oral s*x in 1932 38:43 Vampires, cults and persuasion 44…
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Over the past five years, after a lifetime of struggling and a lot of research, I’ve come to the conclusion that I probably have ADHD = Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. I’m self-diagnosed, so I invited my medically diagnosed friend Diamond Stylz to discuss all things ADHD and how it impacts our lives. 1:55 Growing up undiagnosed 12:21 What…
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Lipstick & Lane Changes: A Drag Queen’s Commute
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23:04Hop in and buckle up for The Drive Home, where drag meets drive! In this episode, we ride shotgun with a fierce and fabulous queen as she spills the tea on life behind the scenes, the magic of drag, and the wild adventures that come with the gig. From makeup mishaps to unforgettable performances, this is the ultimate ride-along for anyone who loves…
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Navigating Politics & Identity: Insights from a Drag Queen's Perspective
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25:53Join us in this captivating episode as we dive into the transformative power of drag and the vibrant experiences at Misfits Bar & Lounge. Host Coco Jem Holiday shares touching stories, including a heartfelt moment at a queer-affirming event and a powerful message of inclusion and safety for the Black LGBTQ+ community. Explore the intersection of po…
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Not to bring up old shxt, but I don't like how "the media" glazed over Kendrick Lamar calling out ShxtsNGigs specifically, on 'wacced out murals'. Kendrick is just as sick of the podcast industrial complex as the rest of us and I think that's hilarious. In this episode we talk about Kendrick (because I must) but more importantly we use the men-with…
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Let's talk about HOW we're talking about Diddy. Though Sean "Diddy" Combs is in jail on a variety of SA allegations, a lot of social media content has reduced his alleged behavior to "being freaky" - raising a larger conversation about society's understanding of SA, consent and it's complicated relationship with consensual sex. Our resident kink en…
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Not the Post-Election Shoulda Woulda Coulda!
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1:24:23Your womanist race-nerd recap of all them post-election vibes, is here! In this lawd halmurphy of an episode we recap the delusion of the Mike Tyson vs. J*ke Paul fight, what we're gonna do about these yt people, the racism of deflecting to non-white voters, performing voter disappointment on social media, how the ego is might be ruining activism, …
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The Election Episode: Is NOT voting a strategy towards liberation?
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1:37:50If you're a Black feminist, a womanist, a Black radical, a liberationist, a radical liberationist or a womanist race nerd, somebody you know, (somebody you may trust) been talking about not voting. We get to the bottom of what it means to vote or not vote during a genocide, how the desire to be liked manifests itself in liberation movements, and wh…
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The J stands for Joseph: A way to brand your drag and find your passion
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1:15:33The conversation covers a range of topics, including branding, drag names, identity, mental health, and the complexities of social and political issues. It delves into the nuances of personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges of navigating various aspects of life. The discussion also touches on the impact of mental health on re…
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Small Businesses and White Women Tears: Interview with my aunt Stacye
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36:32Coco Jem Holiday relives a moment that happened with her at her day job as well as talking about small businesses with her aunty.By A Jem of a Secret
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Maybe that information shouldn't be shared online
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17:57Coco Jem Holiday speaks about the recent Portland scandal around the HIV Awareness competition.By A Jem of a Secret
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Cowboy Carter: Are you still invited to the cook out?
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28:25Coco Jem Holiday takes a deep dive into Cowboy Carter. NOTE: There were microphone troubles for the second part of the episode. Apologies.By A Jem of a Secret
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ChakaThaiYow A Bit Hot Chocolate with your Coco: An Interview with Kourtni Capree Duv
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1:32:03Coco Jem Holiday sits down with Kourtni Capree Lady D.U.V. The Baddest ButchQUEENnDrag MC to talk about their Portland drag herstory as well as some of their upcoming projects. This episode touches on topics of sobriety and community advancement for da black kids, HENNY!By A Jem of a Secret
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A beginners guide on how to handle things privately: Portland Drag Edition
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39:33Coco Jem Holiday talks about the two year anniversary party at Triple Nickel Pub as well as her recent depression spiral over some events that happened in the Portland drag scene.By A Jem of a Secret
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Gay Portland Tea? Thank goodness that's over
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32:07Coco Jem Holiday recaps some of the Portland drag drama and provides advice that no one really asked for. haha.By A Jem of a Secret
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The Beef between Nicki Minaj and Megan Thee Stallion and the loss of friendships
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30:03Coco Jem Holiday add her two cents to the conversation about Nicki and Megan. She also welcomes you into black history monthBy A Jem of a Secret
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This episode is dedicated to Addam's birthday next week. It's a bit of a mushy episode so if you're not down, we'll see ya next week.By A Jem of a Secret
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Coco Jem Holiday talks about physical health and detaching yourself from abuse.By A Jem of a Secret
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Give us your thoughts on what’s happening in the Middle East: An interview with Poly Poptart
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1:01:51Coco Jem Holiday interviews Poly Poptart about several subjects including her thoughts and opinions about what's happening in the Middle East.By A Jem of a Secret
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We are skipping a week of the podcast as Coco is getting ready for the holidays.By A Jem of a Secret
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Coco Jem Holiday recounts her response to Poison Waters as well as communicates about the recent incident at her home where someone tried to create havoc at her house.By A Jem of a Secret
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Polyamory and Monogamy: An Interview with Carlee J. Phoenix
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1:04:51Coco Jem Holiday and Carlee J. Phoenix bounce into the deep conversations about polyamory. You will hear some positives and negatives.By A Jem of a Secret
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Walk down memory lane: A discussion with the mother of Coco Jem Holiday
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56:00Coco Jem Holiday went home for the holidays and interviewed her mamaBy A Jem of a Secret
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Happy Thanksgiving. Oh and lets talk about Matt Rife
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22:46Coco talks about some of her family moments and then runs off on a tangent about Matt RifeBy A Jem of a Secret
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Coco Jem Holiday talks about queer bars and collaboration within the Portland queer communityBy A Jem of a Secret
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Squeeze my bicep: An Interview with Carly Üninemclite
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1:06:09Coco Jem Holiday interview her Camp Wannakiki sister Carly. They talk about the show, fitness and growing with drag.By A Jem of a Secret
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Who was your favorite judge while you were on American Idol: An Interview with Ada Vox
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1:02:02Coco Jem Holiday gets the pleasure of interviewing Ada Vox who was on American Idol as well as Queen of the Universe. Ada will be performing in Portland on November 5th, 2023 at Misfits Bar + LoungeBy A Jem of a Secret
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What love is and what it definitely isn’t.
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18:34Coco Jem Holiday gives you an unedited rant on love.By A Jem of a Secret
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What’s it like to own a queer bar: An interview with Sophie, one of the owners from Misfits Bar + Lounge
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44:19Coco interviews Sophie, one of the owners of one of Portland's newest queer+ spaces.By A Jem of a Secret
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I started drag 6 weeks ago and I’m already planning my retirement: An Interview with Khng Fu Fight Her
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53:06Coco Jem Holiday speaks with one of Portland's newest drag artists, Khng Fu Fight Her. We clean up all the spilled tea.By A Jem of a Secret
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I call her Camilla, that SOB: An interview with Savannah O Bennington
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1:14:12Coco Jem Holiday and Savannah O Bennington talk about drag producing and the drag economy. Of course, they do spill some of that inside tea!By A Jem of a Secret
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Halloween is almost here. It’s time to be accountable
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42:39Coco Jem Holiday and Autumn Rainz talk about their upcoming shows, but also talk about some recent issues happening within the Portland drag community. Promo Code: JemofasecretBy A Jem of a Secret
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Stop using queer spaces as Judge, Jury, and Executioner
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30:03Coco Jem Holiday details out why she parted ways with Back 2 Earth.By A Jem of a Secret
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I was Empress while you were Miss Sweetheart: An Interview with Shima B. Foxx
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1:22:28Coco Jem Holiday interviews Rose Empress LXII Shima B. Foxx about her experiences with the Imperial Sovereign Rose court as well as continuing the conversational about mental health.By A Jem of a Secret
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Did she really photoshop herself into a pink dump truck?
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29:14Coco Jem Holiday uses this week's online Portland drag scene to talk about how we as an audience may perceive situations on the internet when we don't have all the information.By A Jem of a Secret
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Spilling all that HOT tea with the creator of DEMAND DRAG: An interview Kimber K. Shade
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1:07:05Coco Jem Holiday and Kimber K. Shade talk about the business of drag, gatekeeping, and opportunities for the community.By A Jem of a Secret
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Lets ruffle your feathers here a bit: A controversial interview with Feather Dusted
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47:42Coco Jem Holiday brings on the lippy bird herself to finally peel back the layers of the one and only Feather Dusted.By A Jem of a Secret
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People care about you a lot more than you think: A discussion on mental health with Craven Horrors
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1:08:22Coco Jem Holiday had an amazing friend reach out because they wanted to talk about mental health in the drag community. Craven Horrors helps guide the conversation into self-care, mental health, therapy, online drama and more. NOTE: If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis, consider calling the national suicide prevention h…
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This will be a little controversial: An Interview with Carlee J. Phoenix.
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1:18:33Coco Jem Holiday interviews Carlee J. Phoenix about SA and abuse. We understand this subject matter can be triggering for some, and we hope that we did a great job in speaking about these topics for you.By A Jem of a Secret
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In this household we do not cancel black women: The Lizzo debate
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22:22Coco Jem Holiday weighs in on the conversation about LizzoBy A Jem of a Secret
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Coco Jem Holiday takes some time to reflect on her own gender identity while providing advice about handling bigotry.By A Jem of a Secret
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Listen to Coco Jem Holiday almost cry on the podcast after recounting her Portland Pride WeekendBy A Jem of a Secret
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Pansexual is like ”spicy bi”: An Interview with Trans Boy Drag (TBD) and Kherry O’Kay Holiday
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49:59It's Portland's Pride Week. Autumn Rainz and Coco Jem Holiday interview Coco's drag children. Her newest baby is unnamed so they call him TBD. Then they interview Kherry O'Kay. NOTE: This was interviewed with one microphone so the audio quality isn't the best.By A Jem of a Secret
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I just want to troll conservatives: An interview with Aziza Holiday (Dahlia Belle)
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55:10Coco Jem Holiday interviews Dahilia Belle. This episode revolves around stand-up comedy and breaking into drag.By A Jem of a Secret
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They have a magnetic personality: Interview with Crucifix Magnetic
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45:32Coco Jem Holiday interviews one of her drag babies. It's none other than the talented Crucifix Magnetic.By A Jem of a Secret
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RIP: Titanic submersible passengers and crew
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27:39Coco Jem Holiday talks a lot about money in this episode as she recounts the story of those who died on the titanic submersible.By A Jem of a Secret
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Coco Jem Holiday explores Juneteenth and blackness as we approach the holiday.By A Jem of a Secret
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PRIDE aka Pat Robertson Is Dead, Everyone
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26:15Pat Robertson Is Dead Everyone On this episode of a Jem of A Secret Podcast, Coco talks about religious trauma.By A Jem of a Secret
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