“The Modern Man” is a series focused on discussing the challenges and obstacles men face in today’s society. It is an open forum of discussion where thoughts, strategies and ideas of men living a happy and fulfilled life are explored. The Modern Man aims to create a community of men not only sharing and connecting on a deeper level, but also exploring how to thrive and live a happy and fulfilled life. This is done through intentional conversations strategically aimed at issues that men face ...
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"Modern Masculinity" is a podcast that explores the real-life challenges that men face today. Whether it's balancing work and family, figuring out how to be a good husband or father, or just trying to make sense of the world - this show is for guys looking for practical, down-to-earth advice and guidance. The podcast discusses the struggles and triumphs of modern manhood and features interviews with men (and women) who can share their methods and mindsets to maneuver the world as a modern man.
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Will Kunkel sits down with athletes and other public figures to discuss their life journey and growth with God.
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157: Sustainable Strength: Mastering Nutrition Without Dieting Like a Maniac with Andres Ayesta
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53:30In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with nutrition and performance coach Andres Ayesta. They discuss Andres's journey from aspiring doctor to nutrition expert, emphasizing the importance of preventing disease through nutrition. The conversation highlights the significance of sustainable nutrition over temporary diets,…
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Being Vulnerable Doesn’t Make You Weak with Shaun Emerson
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41:25Hector sits down with Shaun Emerson, Development Lead at MenLiving, to explore the raw, unfiltered truths about modern manhood. Together, they dig into the emotional weight men silently carry—loneliness, anxiety, and the societal pressure to “suck it up.” Shaun shares how his transition from tech executive to nonprofit leader reshaped his understan…
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156: Lessons from Losing a Million Dollars with Joshua Wilson
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49:25In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted speaks with Joshua Wilson, a serial entrepreneur and business acquisition strategist. They discuss Joshua's journey from being a real estate addict to successfully acquiring and transforming businesses Takeaways Joshua Wilson transitioned from real estate to mergers and acquisitions. Being equity-…
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You Don’t Need to Be Loud to Be a Real Man with Dal Houston
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44:08Hector sits down with Dal Houston — attorney, rancher, motivational speaker, and self-proclaimed “eccentric cowboy” — to challenge the worn-out scripts of modern masculinity. Together, they unpack the deep emotional power of personal style, the importance of expressing your individuality (even if it means rocking British riding boots to a UFC fight…
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155: Redefining Relationships: Alcohol and Emotional Healing with Nicole Prentice
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36:58In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted speaks with Nicole Prentice, an alcohol-free life coach and emotional freedom techniques practitioner. They explore the journey of emotional healing, the importance of feeling good in one's body, and the techniques to navigate difficult emotions. Nicole shares her personal story of overcoming alco…
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154: Assets Not Liabilities: Becoming "THE" Man Your Family Needs with Greg Denning
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53:32In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton engages with high-performance coach Greg Denning, who shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a successful family man and leader. Denning discusses the importance of self-improvement, creating a 'do not do' list for success, and the challenges he faced while leaving home…
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153: Breaking Barriers: Men's Mental Health and Performance with Adam Smith
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48:22In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with high-performance coach Adam Smith, who shares insights on personal development, the pursuit of potential, and the internal blocks that high achievers face. They discuss the importance of progress over perfection, the role of beliefs and standards in achieving success, and the necessit…
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Is Jesus the Perfect Role Model for Modern Masculinity with Todd Miechiels
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51:54Todd Miechiels joins Hector Santiesteban to explore the transformational journey from defining manhood by titles and income to redefining it through faith, humility, and service. Todd shares his call from the business world into the mission field, revealing how surrendering traditional measures of success led to a life of deeper intimacy with God a…
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152: Transformational Leadership: Navigating Authenticity and Innovation with Dan Tocchini
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57:19In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with Dan Tocchini, a transformational leader and executive coach, who shares his journey of personal growth and the importance of authenticity in leadership. Dan discusses the concept of catalysts in life, how trauma can serve as a catalyst for change, and the significance of facing one's …
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The Illusion of Having It All: When Ego Masks Emptiness
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1:05:23Hector sits down with award-winning podcaster and fellow storyteller Matt Gilhooly to explore the unraveling of Hector’s past relationship and the identity crisis that followed his greatest professional success. Together, they peel back the layers of ego, childhood conditioning, and the craving for external validation that many men silently carry. …
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151: Reigniting Marital Connection: Becoming the Man Your Wife Deserves with Mitchell Osmond
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Beyond Stoicism: The Rise of Interdependent Men with Ed Frauenheim
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37:58Hector Santiesteban welcomes back Ed Frauenheim, co-author of Reinventing Masculinity and co-founder of The Teal Team, for a timely and timeless discussion on evolving manhood. Ed takes us deep into his current work challenging the "Tough Guy Show" culture—especially in traditionally masculine spaces like the ski industry—and sheds light on how tha…
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150: Biohacking, Peptides, and Optimized Living: A Health Revolution with Jay Campbell
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48:44In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with Jay Campbell, a five-time international bestselling author and expert in men's health. They discuss the importance of understanding biomarkers, the role of hormones in health, and the impact of modern lifestyle on men's well-being. Jay emphasizes the necessity of proactive health meas…
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149: Embracing Bold Leadership: A Conversation with Adrian Koehler
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48:02In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, Ted and leadership engagement expert Adrian Koehler discuss the importance of integrating personal and professional lives, the necessity of facing difficult conversations, and the role of responsibility in leadership. Koehler shares insights from his diverse background, including nursing, philanthropy, and…
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Screen Time & Silent Threats: Why You Must Pay Attention with Kevin Cronister
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48:27Hector is joined by Kevin Cronister—father of five, cybercrimes detective, and CEO of Guardian Training Solutions—to explore one of the most urgent and uncomfortable threats facing modern families: the growing epidemic of online child exploitation. Kevin pulls back the curtain on the grooming process, shares how predators infiltrate games like Robl…
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148: From Aviation to Fintech: Jason Schappert's Journey to Empowering Financial Freedom
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54:47In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, Jason Schappert shares his journey from a childhood in an entrepreneurial family to becoming a successful serial entrepreneur and financial technology innovator. He discusses the importance of resilience, mindset, and the ability to pivot in the face of adversity. Jason emphasizes the power of positive rei…
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147: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Glover
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55:54In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host and guest Dr. Robert Glover delve into the complexities of male identity, the challenges of Nice Guy Syndrome, and the importance of community in personal growth. Dr. Glover shares his journey from being a 'nice guy' to understanding the deeper issues that men face in relationships and personal develo…
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Navigating Divorce, Co-Parenting, and Raising Resilient Kids with Tom Bresnahan
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43:52Fatherhood today comes with unique challenges—especially in a world dominated by screens, shifting gender roles, and the increasing struggles of young men. In this episode, Tom Bresnahan, a former Hollywood actor turned mentor and therapist, shares his journey from entertainment to empowering teenage boys. He discusses the impact of technology on y…
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146: Turning Pain into Purpose: A Journey of Resilience with Juan Espinoza
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35:43In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host and guest Juan Espinosa delve into the importance of addressing pain directly and how it can lead to personal growth and resilience. Juan shares his journey from combat veteran to author and motivational speaker, emphasizing the lessons learned from pain and vulnerability. The conversation explores th…
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Raising Emotionally Strong Kids While Healing Yourself with Jeff Hittner
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43:56Hector sits down with Jeff Hittner—executive coach, educator, and founder of Ambitious Dads—to unpack the evolving landscape of fatherhood and modern masculinity. From emotional regulation during your child’s tantrums to building a fatherhood philosophy that aligns with your values, Jeff explores the daily challenges and triumphs of being a present…
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145: Transforming Health and Wellness: Insights from Clovis Founder Justin Nault
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50:10In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host and guest Justin Nault delves into the journey of self-discovery, nutrition, and the importance of authenticity in life. Justin shares his transformation from a body-conscious musician to a nutritional therapist and founder of Clovis, emphasizing the need for individuals to break free from societal pr…
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Meditation, Muay Thai, and Manhood: The Unlikely Trio That Will Change Your Life with Ted Phaeton
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42:29In this episode, Hector has a great talk with his longtime friend and Modern Man Podcast host, Ted Phaeton, about the weight men carry—fatherhood, marriage, business, and the relentless pursuit of being that guy in every arena. Ted shares how he’s juggling the chaos of raising a newborn while running his podcast and coaching business, all while sta…
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144: Beyond the Battlefield: Veteran Trauma, Addiction Recovery, and Finding Purpose with Garret Biss
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54:59E.J.’s Links Website: garretbiss.com LinkedIn: gbbiss Instagram: garretbiss Facebook: GarretBissFan Youtube: thrivingrecovery Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: If you need emotional support, reach out to the national mental health hotline: Call, Text, or Chat 988 Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand…
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Becoming the Man You Needed When You Were Younger with Will Knecht
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30:30Hector sits down with Will Knecht, a man who’s been in the trenches of fatherhood, marriage, and masculinity long enough to know that the work never really ends. They get into the realities of being a dad, a stepdad, and now a grandpa, all while navigating what it means to be a man in a world that’s constantly shifting the goalposts. Will opens up …
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143: Transforming Relationships: How to Strengthen Connection and Overcome Defensiveness with E.J. Kerwin
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57:02In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, Ted discusses the complexities of relationships with licensed professional counselor EJ Kerwin. They explore the importance of communication, the challenges of defensiveness, and the necessity of mindfulness in maintaining healthy relationships. EJ shares insights from his own experiences and professional …
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Why Time Management Isn’t Enough | Master Your Energy for Peak Performance 🚀
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5:48Fellas, most guys focus on managing time. But let’s be honest—if you don’t have the energy to execute, it doesn’t matter how much time you have. The real key to high performance? Energy management. This week’s Modern Moment breaks down: ✔️ Why time management alone won’t save you 🕒 ✔️ The 3 key areas of energy mastery ⚡ ✔️ How to use the 90-minute …
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How Small Wins Create Massive Success | Build Unstoppable Momentum 📈
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5:10🚀 Success isn’t built overnight—it’s built through small, consistent wins. Last week, we talked about Daily Discipline and why your routine is the key to success. But here’s the real question: How do you stay disciplined when motivation fades? The answer? Momentum. ⚡ This week’s Monday Modern Moment will cover: ✔️ The science behind small wins and …
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142: Beyond the Surface: Exploring the Deeper Layers of Human Behavior with Jahmaal Marshall
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55:35In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, Ted sits down with Jahmaal Marshall, a counselor and podcaster, for a deep and honest conversation about personal growth, burnout, and the power of community. Jahmaal opens up about his journey into podcasting and the lessons he’s learned along the way, emphasizing the importance of stepping into discomfor…
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What Ancient Warriors Knew About Being a Man (That We Forgot) with Lawrence Dunning
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41:12Lawrence Dunning is back, and as always, he’s bringing the real. A top 1% real estate agent, investor, Jiu-Jitsu black belt, and host of Enter the Lionheart, he’s lived a life full of big wins and brutal lessons. This time, he opens up about business partnerships gone wrong, the stress of lawsuits, and the hard truths that come with getting older—l…
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Daily Discipline: Why Your Routine Determines Your Success 🚀
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5:12🚀Success doesn’t happen by accident—it’s built through daily discipline. 📖 Get Your Daily Discipline Planner: https://amzn.to/4grSAjj If you’re struggling to stay consistent, feel like time is slipping away, or want to level up your life, it all starts with your daily routine. In today’s Monday Modern Moment, we’re breaking down: ✔️ The psychology …
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141: Redefining the American Dream: Latino Masculinity and Mental Health with Dr. Paul Rivera
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58:07In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages in a profound conversation with Dr. Paul Rivera, co-founder of B Act Change. They explore themes of personal growth, the importance of recognizing one's superpower, and the impact of diversity on success. Dr. Rivera shares his journey from academia to international diplomacy, emphasizing t…
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Love, Lies & The Narcissist’s Game with Marshal Gillen
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49:49Marshal Gillen, an award-winning speaker, speaker trainer, and men’s coach opens up about the wreckage and rebirth that followed his last breakup—140 days since his life fell apart, but who’s counting? He and Hector discuss the struggles men face in toxic relationships, the mind games of narcissistic abuse, and the brutal realization that maybe sel…
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140: Healing Masculine Wounds: Unlock True Freedom and Intimacy with Melissa Le Gette
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49:11In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, Ted Phaeton speaks with intuitive guide Melissa Le Gette about the importance of inner transformation and understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energies. They explore how early life programming affects adult relationships, the significance of healing wounds, and the dynamics of control a…
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Ditch the Nice Guy Act and Become a Leader with Jake Isaacs
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39:11Hector and Jake Isaacs, the co-founder of Gathering the Kings, have a real heart-to-heart about what it means to be a man these days. Jake opens up about figuring himself out, ditching old ideas about being a guy, and how a tough challenge changed how he sees his purpose, leading others, and relationships. They get real about the stuff guys don't t…
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139: Transforming Health Through Sobriety with Clifford Stephan
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42:20In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Clifford Stephan, founder of Booze Vacation, about the impact of alcohol on men's health and performance. Clifford shares his journey with alcohol, the concept of a 'booze vacation', and the health benefits that come from taking a break from drinking. They discuss the competiti…
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Facing Myself Without Booze with Kristian Nylund
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46:03Kristian Nylund shares his journey of overcoming the hardships of alcohol dependency, how to handle societal pressures, and redefining himself as an authentic and present father. He talks about the deep insecurities that shaped his choices, his battle to align with his true identity, and the freedom that came with sobriety. Tune in to hear about th…
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138: The Art of Matchmaking for High-Profile Men with Gina Hendrix
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52:24In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton welcomes renowned matchmaker Gina Hendrix to discuss the complexities of modern dating, particularly for high-profile men. They explore the challenges men face in finding genuine love, the misconceptions surrounding matchmaking, and the importance of self-awareness and communication in rel…
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137: Breaking Free: A Former Addict's Journey to Leading Youth with Purpose
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47:27In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Thomas J. LaGrave Jr., a licensed clinical social worker and former Navy SEAL, about his journey from addiction to recovery and his dedication to empowering youth. LaGrave shares his experiences working with adolescents, their challenges, and the importance of humility and conn…
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Acceptance, Awareness, and Intention with Will Latif Little
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42:26Hector welcomes Will Latif Little, keynote speaker, coach, author and film subject, for a conversation about acceptance, awareness, and intentional living. Will shares his journey from childhood trauma and street life to personal transformation and purpose-driven growth. He talks about pivotal moments, the weight of unprocessed pain, and how vulner…
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136: From Marine to Mental Health Advocate: Vulnerability, Connection & Compassion with Joe Smarro
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1:00:11In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Joe Smarro, a decorated Marine Corps veteran and mental health advocate. Joe shares his troubled upbringing, including experiences of childhood abuse and the challenges he faced as a young father. He discusses his journey through military service and law enforcement, ultimately…
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Breaking Patterns: Love, Loss, and Emotional Liberation with Amarii Usher
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40:30Hector sits down with filmmaker and storyteller Amarii Usher for a raw and honest conversation about the emotional tightrope men walk in today’s world. They talk about vulnerability, ego, healing, and struggles of masculinity in today’s world. From the impact of social media on relationships to the weight of independence and the complex patterns of…
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135: The Power of Content Creation with Myles Youngblood
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53:43In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton welcomes digital marketing entrepreneur Miles Youngblood. They discuss the importance of embracing discomfort, the journey into digital marketing, the significance of networking, and the power of short-form content. Miles shares his experiences in building his podcast, Beyond Ordinary, and…
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Fathers, Sons, and the Fight for Tomorrow with Tom Bresnahan
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47:27Hector sits down with Tom Bresnahan to explore the growing challenges of being a dad, the role of men in today’s society, and how shifting cultural norms impact boys and families. They discuss the influence of technology, addiction, and societal expectations on youth while talking about the decline of rites of passage and the misconceptions surroun…
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134: Creating Lasting Memories with Our Children with Russell Rodgers
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42:08In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Russell Rogers, founder of the MoveToday 365 movement. They discuss the importance of investing in children, the impact of COVID-19 on personal and professional lives, and the inspiration behind Russell's children's book series. The conversation emphasizes the need for outdoor …
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Breathwork as the Gateway to Emotional Liberation with Jeffrey Williams
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52:28Hector has a powerful conversation with Jeffrey Williams, founder of Lifestyles of Light and Vitalist Institute, exploring the vital connection between breathwork, balance, and the pressures of modern life. Jeffrey shares how embracing both support and challenge can transform the way men approach their roles, relationships, and personal growth. The…
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133: From Trauma to Triumph: How to Embrace Worthiness and Abundance with Preston Smiles
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50:49In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton engages with Preston Smiles, an abundance and personal freedom coach, who shares his transformative journey from a heart condition at 25 to becoming a spiritual millionaire. They discuss the importance of understanding money as a tool, the significance of nervous system healing, and the ne…
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Parenthood, Layers of Rage, and Self-Love with Matthew Sloane
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45:34Hector and Matthew Sloane, an author, coach, facilitator and an ally to all dads, explore the complexities of being a man in today’s world. They dive into the struggles of balancing sensitivity, anger, and the responsibilities of fatherhood, while unpacking the unspoken challenges many men face. They discuss the emotional impact of boundaries, soci…
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132: Finding Purpose in Life and Business with Teddy Giard
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1:05:12In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, hosts TTed Phaeton and Teddy Giard explore the significance of purpose in life and business. They discuss the importance of building a community around mental health, the role of marketing in promoting meaningful lifestyles, and the transformative power of sobriety. The conversation emphasizes the need for…
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When Success Leaves You Questioning with Nik Hulewsky
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40:34Nik opens up about his journey after exiting multiple businesses, confronting an identity crisis in the process. Together with Hector, they explore the shifting roles of men in a rapidly changing world, discussing the weight of societal expectations, the challenges of staying true to personal values, and the importance of building unshakable relati…
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131: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome with Coach Raph
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58:07In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton and men's relationship coach Coach Raph delve into the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on the challenges men face in dating and maintaining healthy partnerships. They discuss the importance of personal responsibility, the impact of past experiences on current relationships, …
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