Dallin and Ashley of The Dashleys take sides and answer your questions on relationships, life, marriage, family, kids, and more. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/takingsides/support
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The Dashleys Podcasts
The show where Dallin and Ashley Seely (AKA The Dashleys) take things too far with each other and special guests.
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Fragraphilia is the passion project of Jeff and Jane Dashley where they explore, express, and extrapolate as much as they can from the often mysterious and always magical world of perfume and fragrance. Focusing more on luxury and niche fragrances, Jeff and Jane discuss what they've been wearing each week, news and trending topics that has caught their attention, as well as any impending new release that has them excited to try. In the final segment, they will each pull three fragrances from ...
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Ellie and Jared have vlogged their lives on YouTube for years, but now they're diving deeper into the things that matter most to them in their lives. Welcome to the Ellie + Jared podcast.
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The Sensation of My Nervous System Being On Guard
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1:12:15This is an episode about a girl who has been on a quest to find her next full bottle purchase. This is also an episode about the paralysis of choice. Luckily, we have a little time, some microphones, and a few people out there willing to hear her story. Also, The Game this week doesn't help shorten the list, that's for sure, but I think we make it …
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It Smells LIke the Scariest Night of Your Life
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1:17:30We speak a bit more about brands and perfumes in general rather than specific releases this episode but we wanted to discuss design, bottles, and what piques our interest when we are shopping new houses and fragrances. Preferences that go beyond just the note list. We also discuss dabbers and our best approach at maximizing their wear in response t…
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Haters That Are Formed And Haters That Are Born
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1:11:06In this episode we discuss a few new to us perfumes from the houses of Aedes de Venustas and Reservation, the latter being a new brand that keeps popping up on our social feeds, and we are very impressed by both. A couple even rocketed up our respective want lists. Also, Jeff is looking for some magnolia perfumes and Jane discusses a new favorite f…
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Fragra-Files 003: Régime des Fleurs
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1:19:00We are so excited to feature one of our most favorite houses in our third edition of Fragra-Files, Régime des Fleurs. After launching in 2014, the line has expanded and evolved year over year into one of the most consistently high level luxury perfume brands on the market today. With watery roses, dewy green white florals, and sharp earthy woods, R…
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This Is A Black Pepper and Warm Meat Fragrance
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1:05:55We're a little bit late this week despite recording earlier than usual, but hey, we're here and ready to talk want list dreams fulfilled, the new perfume from Orto Parisi, and round of The Game that goes from ice cream to peppery meat. Cocktail Recipe - Jasmine & Cherry (00:00) - - Intro and Le Galion (05:21) - - Quick Want List Thoughts (09:00) - …
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I'm not going to sugarcoat it, this episode takes a bit of a somber turn again, this time around the 30 minute mark but we do manage to spend most of it talking about the fragrances we've tested, worn, and even a few we regret. The highlight, though, is a fun grab-bag version of The Game thanks to a couple of our dear friends and fellow perfume ent…
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An episode recorded with a heavy heart as we had to say goodbye to Jane's chihuahua, Jimmy Wilkins, who lived life with gusto for 17 years, most of which were in Jane's lap, arms, or bedside. We are absolutely heartbroken but extremely grateful for the years he blessed us with his giant personality and even bigger smile. Rest in power, Jimmy (2008 …
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After a week off battling colds, allergies, and then a round of colds again, we are back going through the usual run-down of new releases, new critiques, and new disappointments featuring perfumes from Marlou, DS & Durga, MFK, and Strangelove NYC. We also spend time declaring our love for Le Galion's skanky Jasmin, VioVerde by Xinu, and the Collect…
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Let Me Get That Before The Tariffs Hit
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1:30:01We haven't been testing a lot of new perfumes or releases lately but the ones we can't keep our noses off of are from Trey Taylor's newly launched Serviette line of perfumes. There are four in total and we can't be happier for our friend of the pod which you will clearly hear as we discuss each fragrance. We also talk a little about the Fumes subst…
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They're All Extraits, Red Flag Number One
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1:23:55Hey, look at us, showing a little consistency with another episode at our regular interval. We've been smelling away, adding a few top-level wants and sentimental favorites to our collection, and lots to say about our first swap experience. We also discuss a few new releases, some exciting news from Italy, and a couple of trips down memory, sensory…
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Well, It’s A Good Time To Be Hysterical
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1:10:58Back for another round of scents we've tried, perfumes we want, and releases that were just meh. C'est la vie as they say (but we would probably butcher in a very Texas way). Join us as we run down the fragrances we've been wearing and a very successful round of The Game. ------ Join us in Dallas at the Be Our Valentine event at the Dallas Contempo…
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Welcome to Fragraphilia, 2025. Let's talk "less is more" which is what we're hoping for this year. How about we sit back, slow down a bit, and talk longer about the perfumes we really love? We're all getting tired out here jumping from new to newer thing. Save your top 10 of this and that and give us what you're wearing today and why. Churn and bur…
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I Was Feeling Insane So I Put On Ma Bête
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1:09:07Happy holidays, everyone! We are finally back after a long hiatus, and with no dilly-dallying around, we get right to it in this episode. We discuss the latest release from Maison d'ETTO, our experience testing out some newer brands and releases her in Dallas at the Scent Room, and finally the usual rundown of our recent wears. Oh, yeah, and The Ga…
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A Peacock Spreading Its Feathers for the Female to Attract Them
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1:17:20We’re a day late, and in the perfume collectors game, always a dollar short but here nonetheless. In this episode, we’re talking some of the latest new releases from Liis, Arquiste, Byredo, and Guerlain. We have some great listener emails where we try to give our thoughts on licked arms, first date perfumes, and the gray markets. Also, our featured…
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Smells like Staying at a Haunted Beach House at Christmas
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1:06:05There are a lot of new releases launching right now and we're excited to discuss a few starting with a new one from Maison d'Etto as well as a tea inspired release from Aesop. We also answer a couple of listener messages and break down what we've been wearing lately. All that and The Game where Jeff finds a new favorite perfume while ruining Jane's…
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This Perfume Has A Threatening Aura
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1:20:32We’re back again with our regular format. Listen along as we talk new releases, aquatics, thoughts on future releases, and some bonus French lessons from Jane. Jeff goes through a fruity oud phase while Jane brings back an old favorite for the scents we’ve been wearing lately. All that and The Game… (00:00) - - Intro and COVID talk (03:15) - - Thou…
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The long overdue second installment of Fragra-Files featuring the perfumes of Hedi Slimane's Celine. An incredible collection of extremely thoughtful and luxurious scents that are both as gorgeous as they are incredibly consistent with their through-line of orris, musk and soft woody notes. But who is the perfumer behind these compositions and why …
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Warming Up Maple Syrup and Smoking A Cigarette
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58:23Lots of talk about tea, narcissus, and two brands we really like weaving in and out of this episode. The latter being St Rose, which continues to impress us, and a new-to-us brand, Pekji out of Turkey. We also share some thoughts on a handful of samples we tested out this past week including both Odile and Odette from Gumamina. (00:00) - - Intro & …
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Smells Like Old Pennies Found Under A Vintage Sofa in a Thrift Store
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1:04:12Through moving, shoddy HVAC systems that needed to be replaced, hurricane wind storms and power outages, we are back, baby! We're in our new home and so excited to finally have a moment to record again. Thank you all for your patience and the messages you have sent. We've missed you and we're happy to share our thoughts and perfume experiences with…
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Are We Leaving? Do we like our job? Should we move??
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They Do Something To Your Brain Like Drugs
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1:22:23We're back again to talk about Acne Studio's new perfume announcement, how much we really like Régime des Fleurs latest Fait Main release, Green Vanille, and then we stumble down the rabbit hole of Matiere Premiere in an almost Fragra-Files episode style rundown of each scent. Why? Because we've been noticing some mixed feelings on the brand both o…
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Ellie and Jared tackle the most common myths and misconceptions about marriage with humor and honesty. From challenging the notion that couples must do everything together, to discussing the impacts of having children on a relationship, and the hard work required to sustain a happy marriage, they share personal insights and stories from their 14-ye…
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This Is Who Trad Wife Really Wants to Be
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1:11:29We're back to business in 2024 (again) after a bit of downtime thanks to the daycare plague. Voices and senses all restored, or at least that's how we start, but Jeff inadvertently destroys Jane's olfactive abilities in round two of the game. Live and learn! In this episode we discuss new release news from Dusita, DS & Durga, Maison Crivelli, and F…
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I Never Knew This About My Husband + Exciting News For Our New Drink Company!
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We're back, baby! It's so good to finally have time to sit down and share a few thoughts on what we've been wearing, sampling, and receiving lately. It's also time we shared some pointless asides like a brief journey down the butt rock bands rabbit hole of the mid 2000s, how a bank robber stumbled through our backyard, and the ups and downs of plac…
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This Scent Smells Like Bjork’s Speaking Voice Sounds
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1:28:29We start this one a bit off the rails with talk on why you make an Old Fashioned with sugar cubes, a mysterious scent wafting about in our home, and an experience with a haunted dog. Now that's what we call perfume podcasting! Once we settle into the actual program, we discuss Hiram Green's new fragrance announcement, baby perfumes, and what we're …
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Getting In A Car With A Pink Mustache
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1:20:17We're entering the new year in a somewhat easy-breezy and tired mood, but hey, no less chatty when it comes to fragrance. For the first episode of 2024, we discuss the attars from Amouage, a deeper dive into our recent wears, and continue our discussion on minimizing consumption and making each purchase counts. Movie Reference of the Week - The And…
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Do I Want To Smell Like Crotch, A Troll, and Dinner?
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1:33:13Welp, we can check off 2023 in the books. We've delivered our last episode of the year and now we can take a beat and look back over the past 12 months fondly. In the spirit of such things, we discuss our favorite releases from this year, a few disappointments, and continued thoughts on Matiere Premiere's Vanilla Powder. Do you want trend predictio…
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WE FINALLY WATCHED THE BARBIE MOVIE HERE'S OUR THOUGHTS
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44:10That got patriarchal fast. email us: [email protected]
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Maybe What You Wear On A 3rd Or 4th Date
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1:13:33In the episode, we share a few gift ideas for discovery kits and candles, Jane talks Tragedy by Marissa Zappas, and we both gush over Les Abstraits’ amazing collection of perfumes. All that and the usual round-up of scents we've been wearing, our house being divided with Vanilla Powder, and an edition of The Game where we had to remove one selectio…
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Ashley's Taylor Swift Obsession + 2 Kids Under 2 Advice
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40:49And our new business is beginning!
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My Dystopian Future Still Involves Perfume
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1:25:32We cover it all in this Black Friday episode (that doesn't really include anything for BF). We talk Dusita, Trudon, and whether or not Future Society is the Theranos of fragrance. We also deal with a crying baby, annoying smoke detectors, and share a couple of delicious dirty martinis. Finally, we try to answer a great listener question but mostly …
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14 Years Of Marriage. Questions, Advice, and More
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33:30On their anniversary, Ellie and Jared sit down and reminesce about the last 14 years of their marriage. The good times, the difficult times, the advice they've recieved, and things they're working on in their relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Ellie and Jared
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Ellie and Jared Podcast - Season 2 Episode 1
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27:54Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy Ellie and Jared
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I Need My Crayons, My Binders, and My Serge Lutens
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1:24:37Halloween may be over but those spooky sensations have followed us well into November as we throw up the devil horns and discuss a few perfumes inspired by the darker sides of life including De Profundis by Serge Lutens and Hexensalbe by Stora Skuggan. We also marvel over the big time bold move of Melanie Martinez's follow up to the wildly successf…
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Back with a regular episode of random perfume thoughts and ramblings, a quick run-down on travel scents, and a handful of wishes for our holiday wishlists. Oh, and Jane tries to go lighter with her morning fragrances choices as opposed to her usual routine of bombing out the house with Amber Kiso and Oud Palao. All that and a lighter, friendly vers…
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DRAMA IN PODCAST LAND + More Burning Questions
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33:53You asked so we answered! PSA this was recorded before we went to Disneyworld, we are not doing another Florida trip soon hahaha
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Fragra-Files 001: The Fragrances of Aesop
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53:08Welcome to our first installment of Fragra-Files, a new series in which we dedicate a full episode to focus on a specific house, note, guide, or anything else fragrance related that requires a bit more time, research, and discussion than available in our typical episodes. Our first subject is the house of Aesop and their wonderful collection of fra…
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If It Wasn’t So Sticky I Would Wear It
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1:35:04We are back with another episode and you better believe, true form, that we faced some sort of obstacle in the lead up. This time a rickety old air conditioner unit that forced us out of our home for several days. Thank goodness that have perfumes, will travel. We made great use of our time at Jane's parents testing out samples for you all. This we…
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The Good and Bad of Our Trip with Kids to Disney World
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45:23expectations are resentments in the making LET THAT SINK IN we still had a blast on our trip... also some lessons learned!!
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It Gives Me Early 2010s Burlesque Vibes, D’Ya Know What I Mean?
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1:20:41Fresh from our visit to New York, we discuss our experiences shopping for fragrances, the scents we encountered on the street, and the dank clouds of cannabis smoke that seem to be everywhere. Even the rats were stoned! Join us as we talk about the favorites we sampled, the few we brought home, and a couple perfumes we wish we would've purchased as…
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No, No... It's Not Junk, It's Creative.
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1:31:21Did we ramble on way too long in this episode? Absolutely! Is it jam-packed, filled minute to minute with informative and gripping content? Debatable... but we had fun recording it. One thing's for sure, and you know it's always a safe bet, is that we bring up fragrances from DS & Durga, Byredo, Arquiste, and of course, Ex Nihilo but in between tal…
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Should Dallin handle our money lol + First time parent tips
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41:56Dallin is... Investing? Plus we get political, Disneyworld, and first time parent tips plus more emails
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Is That A Fragrance or Have You Been Making Soup?
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1:18:21It's our longest episode yet, for better or worse, but things go deep when you start talking about disappointing new releases, the intoxicating and transformative sensations of testing Strangelove NYC all week, and how we benefit from each other's fondness of certain perfumes and scents. All that and a round of The Game featuring scents that conjur…
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I Guess That Depends On Your Dentist
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1:10:06We start this episode on a big high from the capital 'P' Perfume, El by Arquiste, and then share a real scent low after dealing with a dog that decided to square up to a rogue neighborhood skunk. Find out how those pair together with our other scents of the week including a quick run through some of our favorites from the Astrophil & Stella discove…
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