Best The Visual Crave Podcasts (2025)

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202: The Only Plan You Need to Quit Pornography By the End of 2025 19:52

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7d ago19:52

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: [email protected] Episode Description: In this episode, Sam Tielemans, licensed marria…

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Boomer Fashion: Who decides what's appropriate? 39:49

13d ago39:49

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In this episode of The Real Nitty Gritty Podcast, we're getting into the nitty gritty of Baby Boomer fashion and dress etiquette. From church to concerts and mumus to crop tops — what defines Boomer style today? Who decides what’s considered "appropriate" or stylish in this generation? Is it tradition, trend, or personal expression? Join us as we d…

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201: "Why Did You Do It?" How to Navigate the Hardest Question After Pornography Use 20:45

14d ago20:45

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: [email protected] Episode Description: After porn addiction is discovered in a relatio…

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200: The Real Reason You Keep Struggling with Porn — And Why More Rules Won’t Help 19:44

21d ago19:44

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: [email protected] Get access to my trust building workshop: Rebuild Trust Workshop – h…

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Meet & Greet the Real Nitty Gritty Host | Real Nitty Gritty Ep. 2 23:48

21d ago23:48

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Welcome to Episode 2 of The Real Nitty Gritty Podcast--it's time to meet the voice behind the mic, Elle McLeod! Join us for an open, candid introduction to the host: her background, motivations, and what drives the "real" storytelling you've come to love.By Elle McLeod

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199: You Don’t Need to Do Everything to Quit Pornography — Just This One Thing 18:10

28d ago18:10

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Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: [email protected] Get access to my trust building workshop: Rebuild Trust Workshop – http://trust.stopporn.info Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners? Go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find…

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188: How to Create a Loyal, Engaged Entrepreneur Community with Inbal Claudio 46:40

28d ago46:40

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What if the secret to scaling your business wasn’t more strategy… but more connection? In this powerful episode of At Home with Founders, I sit down with Inbal Claudio, 3x founder, mom of three, and the visionary behind Like-Minded Collective - a free, global social networking platform built just for women entrepreneurs. We get real about the messy…

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Unlocking Alpha Intuition: Podcasting Tips & Childhood Music Memories | Real Nitty Gritty Ep. 1 17:15

28d ago17:15

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Welcome to the premiere episode of the Real Nitty Gritty podcast! Host Elle McLeod sits down with Keisha L. Blair, the creator and host of the Alpha Tuition podcast, to delve into the concept of "alpha intuition" and its significance in personal and professional growth. In this engaging conversation, Keisha shares invaluable advice for new and aspi…

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198: If You Want Your Urges for Pornography to Go Away, Do This 22:43

1M ago22:43

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free clarity call with Sam – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: [email protected] Get access to my trust building workshop: Rebuild Trust Workshop – h…

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197: You’re Not Codependent — You’re Craving Connection (Here’s the Difference) 18:16

1M ago18:16

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Is it really codependency… or are you just craving safety after betrayal? In this episode, Sam Tielemans, licensed marriage therapist and host of the Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction Podcast, unpacks one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships impacted by pornography: codependency. If you've ever felt “too needy” for reassurance…

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196: Summertime: Visual Temptation Is Everywhere — Here’s How He Can Stay Grounded and Help Her Feel Safe 20:24

2M ago20:24

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Summertime can be one of the hardest seasons for men working to overcome porn addiction, stay sexually grounded, and rebuild trust in their marriage. With more revealing clothing and constant visual stimulation, many husbands feel guilt and frustration — while their wives feel fear, insecurity, and anxiety. In this powerful episode, Sam Tielemans, …

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195: Why Stress Triggers Porn Addiction — And How to Break the Pattern 19:21

2M ago19:21

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Why Stress Triggers Porn Addiction — And How to Break the Pattern If you struggle with porn addiction and find yourself relapsing whenever life gets stressful or overwhelming, this episode is for you. Sam Tielemans, licensed therapist and expert in porn addiction recovery, reveals the hidden link between stress and pornography use — and how to brea…

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194: A Simple Way to Make Big Progress—In Solving Problems & Building Skills (pt. 3) 23:12

2M ago23:12

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Welcome back! This is part three of a three-part series to help you make real progress on your healing journey. In the first episode, we talked about five key skills every man needs to stop using porn. In the second episode, we looked at five relationship skills that help couples rebuild trust and feel close again. Today, I want to share a simple f…

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193: 5 Relationship Skills You Need to Repair the Damage and Find Closure (pt. 2) 31:33

2M ago31:33

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into five essential skills that will help you and your partner heal and grow after being impacted by pornography use. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure where to begin in the recovery process—or if you’re willing to do the work but just need direction—this episode is for you. You’ll learn about practi…

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192: 5 Core Skills You Need to Overcome Pornography For Good (pt. 1) 29:37

3M ago29:37

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Struggling with porn use isn't about who you are—it's about the approach you've been using. Fighting urges after they appear is too late. The key is learning skills to prevent the first domino from falling. When you handle what causes porn use before urges start, freedom becomes possible. In this 3-part series, I'll cover skills to overcome porn us…

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191: When His Sexual Desire Goes Down as He Becomes Free From Pornography (and tools to rebuild your sexual relationship) 22:46

3M ago22:46

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Today we're talking about something couples rarely discuss: when a husband's interest in sex drops after he stops using porn. For wives, this can feel very confusing and hurtful. After working hard to heal the relationship, it's painful when intimacy doesn't return as expected. She might wonder, "Doesn't he find me attractive? Is he really getting …

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190: My Simple 3 Step Framework to Resolving Triggers and Ending Relapse Cycles For Good 24:54

3M ago24:54

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In this episode, I'll show you my easy three-step plan to help you stop watching porn for good. Many people think they just need to try harder to resist urges or avoid things that trigger them. But fighting these urges all the time is exhausting, and you're always worried about slipping up again. I want to teach you a better way. Instead of just fi…

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189: We Rewired John's Subconscious Mind to No Longer Desire Porn (in 44 minutes) 43:49

3M ago43:49

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I'm excited to share something special with you today - a real-life deep dive session with John where we uncover the root cause of his pornography struggle and work through it together in a single call. Most men focus on surface-level solutions - having someone to call when triggered, avoiding certain situations, or just trying to resist temptation…

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187: The Hidden Bottlenecks That Will Keep You at 6 Figures Forever (And How to Fix Them for Good) 38:42

3M ago38:42

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If you’ve built the team, implemented the systems, and done everything you thought would make scaling easier—but you’re still overwhelmed and stretched thin—this episode is for you. Because here’s the truth: Your business is keeping you stuck. 👉 You hired a team, but they’re still relying on you for every decision. 👉 You built systems, but they sti…

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188: Jacob Success Story – From Daily Struggles to Not Thinking About or Battle Urges at All Anymore 33:00

3M ago33:00

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Jacob used to struggled daily with pornography and fantasy, but now he's completely free and feels good about himself again. In the episode, we talk about the two-part approach most men miss - they focus on only one part, which is why they struggle for so long. He shares the simple tools that helped him handle emotions in healthy ways, rebuild his …

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187: How to Overcome Pornography Use When You're Overwhelmed and Don't Have a Lot of Time 15:59

4M ago15:59

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Feel like you're fighting an impossible battle - trying to overcome pornography while juggling an already overwhelming life? After thousands of therapy sessions, I've discovered something surprising: success doesn't always mean adding more to your plate. Think of someone running up a downward-moving escalator. They're putting in enormous effort, le…

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186: What Your Client Journey Says About Your Business (And How to Improve It) 38:15

4M ago38:15

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Your client journey is happening every single day, whether you’re thinking about it or not. It’s shaping how clients see your business, trust your expertise, and talk about you when you’re not in the room. And yet—so many business owners focus on getting clients but don’t put enough intention into keeping them engaged, excited, and coming back for …

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186: Will Sad and Painful Days in Our Marriage Get Better? Yes, If You Follow This Blueprint 19:50

4M ago19:50

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When pornography appears in a relationship, it hurts both people deeply. For wives, the pain and betrayal can feel like being trapped in an endless storm - each bad day stretches out forever, making even good moments feel temporary. Husbands often feel stuck too, wondering if their efforts to change matter when they see their partner still hurting …

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185: She Thinks If She Was Enough, He Wouldn’t Have Watched Pornography (you need to hear this) 20:34

4M ago20:34

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Not Being "Enough": Healing After Sexual Betrayal When a wife discovers her husband's porn use or infidelity, one thought cuts deeper than all others: "I wasn't enough." The pain of betrayal is devastating on its own, but believing it happened because of personal inadequacy makes healing feel impossible. This mistaken belief - that his actions prov…

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185: The 5 CEO Habits That Will Transform How You Run Your Business 38:03

4M ago38:03

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Welcome to the very first episode of At Home with Founders! After a much-needed break and deep reflection, I’m back with a fresh new vision—and I’m so excited to bring you along for the journey. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a challenge I see all the time: brilliant, driven entrepreneurs stuck in the cycle of doing instead of leading. You d…

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184: Rob's Success Story: How He Went From Almost Divorced to No More Triggers and Urges 33:34

4M ago33:34

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Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle that seemed impossible to break? For Rob, porn became more than just a habit – it was an escape hatch from feelings of failure and not being good enough. Like many of us, he saw himself as a ticking time bomb, always counting down to the next slip. But this isn't a story about being stuck. It's about finding a …

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183: Fundamental Steps to Repairing Your Marriage After Discovering Pornography Use 20:20

5M ago20:20

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When Pornography Breaks Your Marriage: First Steps to Healing Finding out about a porn addiction feels like your world has shattered. One moment everything seems fine, the next your marriage hits a brick wall. Trust breaks, security vanishes, and many wives feel completely lost, wondering if healing is even possible. If you're in this dark place ri…

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182: Is Porn Addiction Just Part of Who I Am? Do This and It Won’t Be 23:22

5M ago23:22

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Breaking the "Try Harder" Trap: A New Approach to Quitting Porn Maybe you've said to yourself, "This time will be different." You delete the apps, block the websites, stay busy - maybe even make it a few weeks. Then the urges hit harder than ever, and you're back at square one. This cycle crushes both you and your partner. As a therapist who's help…

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181: When Repair Conversations Fail: He Gets Defensive, Sounds Robotic, and is Unemotional 21:05

5M ago21:05

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When Healing Conversations Go Wrong – When pornography damages a relationship, couples need to talk about the pain to heal. But these conversations often hit a wall: he gets defensive, sounds like a robot, or just shuts down. This leaves her feeling even more alone and wondering if she should have stayed quiet. The cycle is painful: she shares her …

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180 Success Story: Tyler's New Approach to Ending His Porn Use In Just A Few Months Without Anxiety and Self-Punishment 47:38

5M ago47:38

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A Story of Freedom: From 20-Year Struggle to Success Meet Tyler, a man who fought pornography addiction for over two decades. Like many, he worried this struggle would be permanent, especially after so many failed attempts to quit. But today, his story is different. What changed? Instead of just trying to avoid temptation, Tyler learned specific sk…

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179: Critical Advice For Men Who Aren't Free From Porn For 90 Days Yet 18:49

6M ago18:49

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The 90-Day Freedom Trap: A Critical Warning If you've been trying to quit pornography but can't stay free for more than 90 days, there's a crucial mistake you need to know about. As a therapist, I see this same issue holding back almost every man who comes to me for help. And wives, this matters for you too - it will help you understand whether you…

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178: 3 Safety Indicators When It’s Hard For Her to Believe He’s Telling the Truth 24:32

6M ago24:32

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Trust Once Broken: How She Can Know He's Really Changed? When pornography breaks trust in a relationship, it creates a painful pattern. He promises he's done, but then more truth comes out months later. After this happens multiple times, many wives ask the same haunting question: "How do I know he's not just getting better at hiding it?" This situa…

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177: 5 Mistakes to Avoid if You Want to Quit Pornography in 2025 27:39

6M ago27:39

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Think about what pornography takes from your life - it's like a heavy fog that clouds everything. It steals your focus, drains your confidence, fills you with shame, and keeps you from being truly present with the people you love. It affects your work, your relationships, and your spirit. Now imagine the opposite: complete peace of mind. No more gu…

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176: Why Quitting Pornography Has Felt Hard (and 3 practical strategies that make it much easier) 21:31

6M ago21:31

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Imagine being stuck in a cycle that seems impossible to break: trying to quit pornography, doing well for a while, slipping up, hurting your partner, and starting all over again. This pattern can go on for years, leaving both people feeling hopeless and exhausted. Many think this cycle is just part of recovery - like climbing a mountain over and ov…

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175: When He Doesn’t Talk About His Urges, She Thinks He’s Just Hiding Them 21:07

7M ago21:07

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Picture a relationship caught in a painful cycle: He struggles with pornography, she puts up walls to protect herself. Things get better for a while when he tries to change, but then life gets busy, old habits return, and trust breaks again. This pattern can repeat for years, leaving both people feeling hopeless. One of the biggest challenges? When…

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Mini Episode 3: A Proven Strategy to Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use 3:48

7M ago3:48

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Rebuilding trust after pornography use damages it can feel impossible. Many couples struggle to know where to start when their relationship feels broken. Today, I want to share a simple approach to help you heal your marriage. Many husbands try to prove they've changed by talking about their feelings. But here's the truth: your wife can't just take…

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174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use 26:49

7M ago26:49

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Have you ever felt trapped by urges that seem impossible to control? Many people struggling with pornography feel like these moments are scary and overwhelming. Most advice tells you to fight these urges by staying busy or calling a friend. But that doesn't really solve the problem. What if, instead of fighting urges, you could understand them? Wha…

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Mini Episode 2: Understanding Emotions Can Shortcut the Healing Process 4:59

7M ago4:59

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One of the most important steps in this process for husbands and wives is to better understand their emotions. Many people ignore or suppress them, but this actually slows down your progress. Emotions contain important messages. They send information that reveals an underlying need or something that needs attention. The sooner you can decode what y…

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173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use 37:18

7M ago37:18

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Sexual intimacy is one of the biggest things that is damaged when their wife discovers her husband pornography use. It can be scary for her to be intimate because of the insecurities and fears that this situation creates – "Is he comparing me to other people he's seen?" "Is he just using me as a part of his addiction?" "I want to be intimate but I …

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Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated Setbacks, Do This 3:45

7M ago3:45

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Welcome to today's first mini episode! I'm testing something new and am going to do a podcast that's less than 5 minutes long that gives you a specific tool to implement or a thought to consider. These will be designed to give you something actionable that you can implement quickly to see changes fast. In today's episode, I share with you a specifi…

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172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back 21:15

7M ago21:15

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Sometimes when a husband is making good progress personally and in the relationship, his wife has fears and doubts: “How can I know that he’s telling the truth?” “What if he’s just gotten better at hiding it?” “it's scary to bring down my wall because I don't wanna get hurt again…” This can be discouraging for both people, especially if a husband r…

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171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage 22:22

7M ago22:22

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In this episode, I reflect on a powerful moment from a couples counseling session where a wife expressed feeling overwhelmed by the journey ahead. I shared a mindset shift with them: it’s not about 100 steps—it’s one step done 100 times. Inspired by Bruce Lee’s quote about doing 10,000 kicks, rather it's practicing 1 kick 10,000 times, we’ll explor…

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170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography 19:24

8M ago19:24

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A lot of couples feel stagnant on this journey and don’t make the progress that they hope and it’s slow and discouraging. And what I’ve come to recognize as one of the most important aspects of this work is clarity. If you don’t have perfect clarity about what the unresolved issues are, what’s causing them, and how to address them, then progress is…

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169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust) 24:08

8M ago24:08

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When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again. There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, which caused a lot of damage to the trust. So can it actually be rebuilt again? The answer is yes. But it requires a very specific approach and that's…

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168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations 23:31

8M ago23:31

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Are you and your spouse tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again? Are you feeling stuck not knowing how to find closure and repair the damage of pornography use in your marriage? Most couples get stuck when discussing the pain and hurt they feel and conversations end in fights or distance. In today's episode, I want to share with y…

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167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them 16:59

8M ago16:59

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When a man struggles with porn pornography use, it can cause a lot discouragement and fear for both him and his wife. So many women live in constant anxiety that the other shoes going to drop and they're gonna get hurt again. Husbands often feel an underlying sense of inadequacy because they haven't been able to quit despite their best efforts to s…

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166: Success Story: Mike Finds Freedom after 30 Years of Struggling to Quit Porn 44:06

9M ago44:06

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Mike struggle with pornography for 30 long years. The feelings of hopelessness and anxiety debilitated him at times because no matter what he did to quit, it just didn’t bring him the freedom he was so desperately seeking. He found this podcast and discovered that there was a new way to approach things after listening to some episodes. He decided t…

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165: Why He Turned To Porn or Someone Else and Not His Wife - Explained 19:35

9M ago19:35

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When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, it obviously has such a huge impact on a wife. Understandably, she takes it very personal. It makes her question everything about the relationship, him and herself. She'll often and wonder if she good enough for him? Does he actually love her? If so, how could he have done this? What does all of…

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164: Live Call: Overcoming Inadequacy, Shame, and Procrastination 46:45

9M ago46:45

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Have you ever struggled with feelings of an adequacy or not being accepted? And has that been a trigger for you in the past that has led you down the path towards pornography use? If so, you’re not alone. In fact this is a really common trigger for a lot of guys because feelings of rejection or failure or not being enough create heavy negative emot…

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163: How to Soften The Pain of Betrayal Due to Pornography Use 20:03

9M ago20:03

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I once worked with a woman who was completely overwhelmed because her husband continued to struggle with pornography use. She was at her wits end. She felt like a ball of anxiety always waiting for the other shoe to drop and could never really feel comfortable in her skin and safe in the relationship. The moment she started to let her guard down it…