Unconformed is a 30(ish) minute podcast created to celebrate and showcase diversity in Black male thought.
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In a world full of normality, I dare you to be abnormal, to be irregular and to be better at living. What's there to lose again ???
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Toby decides to give her journal a break and talk about her life and experiences to every amazing person that's listening. I'll love to hear your unique experiences, thoughts and opinions. Please leave me a voice message or comments after listening. I'm on Twitter and Instagram as Toby Ude-Akpeh. Also contact me via email at [email protected] You can support me by tipping me @ Useshukran https://useshukran.com/cr/my%20name%20is%20toby Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MyNameIsToby
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God abeg ooo, may it not happen to us. But if you were in a situation where you had to save either your child or your partner, who will you save? Listen to me try and navigate the answer to this question in this episode.
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Twitter NG is a very strange place and every day a hot new topic is trending, with someone being dragged by some people. Early this year, it was about a woman who get's up at 4am to cook for her husband so some over zealous female colleague doesn't snatch him. What do I think? Well, listen to this episode to find out.…
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Please tell me why the year just started and someone thought to call me an angry feminist? Lol... I'm not even angry but here's the story of what really happened.
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The first step to achieving the year's theme of "softer life" is moving from Lagos Mainland to the Island... And boy! did I get the culture shock of my life. Listen to all the juicy detail in this episode
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Following the success of last year's vision boarding and achieving almost everything I set out to achieve, I this episode I share my goals for 2024 and my strategies to towards achieving them.
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What happens when a liar decides to give up lies for lent? Well, listen to this episode to find out
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Emiefele 101: How To Buy Money with Money
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13:19With every passing day and every new stunt by the leaders, I believe more and more that Nigeria is one big movie and we're all fictional characters. This year's stunt? Emefiele, the estranged former CBN governer woke up one day and thought, "What if we made Nigerians buy money with money?" And then he went ahead to redesign the naira notes, causing…
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How difficult can it be to spell and pronounce Toby? With variations like Tobe, Tobi, Tobey, Tobie, Too-too e.t.c., I've decided I'm tired of fighting and correcting people on what my name is. Anything you call me, I'll answer
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When does content creation become an evasion of privacy? How do you share personal experiences without including other people who you may have shared these experiences with? What do you do when your good intentions yield not-so-good results? These were the difficult questions I had to answer when my mom made me take down a podcast episode because I…
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After what seems like forever, Toby resumes her podcast with PODMAS- a challenge to put out episodes for 25 days in December. Listen now to the first episode and anticipate others.
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101. Tyre Nichols: We Still Processing w/ Bartholomew Jones, Dr. Justin Dodson, Dr. Charles McKinney, and Brennan Steele
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1:04:32For this bonus episode Darius is joined by a panel of Black men who currently live in Memphis to openly process Tyre Nichols's murder. Darius is joined by: Cxffee Black's Bartholomew Jones, Navigating Courage's Dr. Dodson, Rhodes College's Africana Studies Chair Dr. Charles McKinney, and Breathe Brotha's Brennan Steele. Dr. McKinney's Recommendatio…
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100. Contentment in Singleness w/ Jada Bates
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34:39Darius and Ryon open the episode celebrating and reflecting on 100 podcast episodes! They are then joined by Jada Bates to have an intentional conversation on being content in singleness and ways that language towards single people could potentially be presumptuous. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlv... For All Things Uncon…
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99. Memphis Kulture w/ Le Marquee La Flora
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43:30Memphis Kulture founder, Le Marquee La Flora, joins the pod to talk about his clothing line as well as his nonprofit. He also talks about music, adoption, his life and so much more. Buy Memphis Kulture merch here: https://memphiskulture.myshopify.com/ SUBSCRIBE TO THE POD ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All …
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Darius & Ryon discuss if it’s harmful to not attend church. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast
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Deconstruct Everything Feature: When I Deconstructed From White Evangelistic Culture
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58:02Darius converses with Deconstruct Everythinghost, Carlos Fernandez, about his deconstruction journey. Carlos is someone who’s deconstruction journey led him outside of the faith which makes for an intriguing convo. Song at the end of the episode: Deconstruction by Lecrae To listen to the Unconformed Podcast episode on deconstruction: https://anchor…
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97. Gaslighting, Elon's Twitter, Kyrie, Brittney Griner, and Lecrae: EOY Reflections
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49:56As we head into a new year Darius and Ryon discuss their annual top observations of the year. They discuss the word gaslighting, Elon and Twitter, Kyrie Irving, Brittany Griner, the Black vote, Lecrae, and MORE. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rgFor All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/Un…
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Christmas Morning Chit-chat | How My Birthday Really Went | Trust, Work & Friendships
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2:06:04Merry Christmas fam! Let's talk, laugh and play music 😁
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96: Is Deion Sanders A Sellout?: Entitled or Justified
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43:57Darius and Ryon discuss the topic of Deion Sanders leaving Jackson State University for Colorado. They discuss the question of whether the anger/validation is justified or a sense of entitlement.SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rgFor All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast…
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Have you ever imagined what a perfect birthday would be like? Well, Toby has, and in this episode she takes us on a ride through her perfect Tobyversary 2.4 fantasy... Listen and laugh as much as you want 😁
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E Don Cast... Last Last, Na Everybody Go Chop Breakfast 😩
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24:13Life is an entire school and relationship is its own department. Everyday I learn new things from this adventure. In this episode, I share the ultimate lesson I've learned from my relationship.
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Darius and Ryon reflect on, rate, and talk about themes in Black Panther II: Wakanda Forver. This episode was recorded November 17, 2022. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast
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94. Justin Giboney: Law & Order vs Criminal Justice Reform & Midterm Elections
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32:52AND Campaign founder and Church Politics Cohost, Justin Giboney, joins the podcast on how Christians should respond to the idea of law & order vs criminal justice reform as well as sharing his thoughts on the midterm elections. To find out more about the and campaign, visit https://andcampaign.org SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/chann…
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Ryon is joined on the pod by all around superstar, Laura Kebede, to discuss Woman King. They give a review of the movie as well as their reflections and themes that they saw in the movie. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast…
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You've never seen a person's life so chaotic in a week as you'll hear in this story. After listening reach out, ask for my account number and send me dollarzzzzzz because I'm really going through it.
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92. Money & Morals: How Much A Dolla Cost
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39:15Darius and Ryon have a conversation about money and morals using LIV Golf as the example. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast
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I guess I'm late to the COVID party but hey, better late than never. In this episode, I talk about my near-death experience with the coronavirus in 2022.
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91. Talking About Human Trafficking w/ Whitney Trotter
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48:24Whitney joins the podcast to talk about human trafficking, signs of identifying trafficking, the why behind the church’s negligence, and practical things you can do to help fight trafficking. For more info about Whitney Trotter: https://whitneytrotter.com/ Upcoming FREE 5K (11/12/22): https://raceroster.com/events/2022/63... Websites Mentioned: htt…
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This Life Dey Carry Me Go Where I No Know
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30:05Ever wondered what will happen if you created a Google Form, asking questions about yourself and send to your friends to answer? Well I tried it and their opinions of me where surprising and hilarious... Listen to this episode for the chaotic responses. P.S: you should try it with your friends too
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90. Cross Gender Relationships: Matt Chandler & The Billy Graham Rule in 2022
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35:36Darius and Ryon have a conversation about the "Billy Graham Rule" and the practicality (or lack thereof) of following that rule in 2022. They use Matt Chandler's alleged reason for his forced sabbatical as an example of the application of the rule. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rgFor All Things Unconfor…
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89. Traveling Tips & Hacks w/ the DeVaugns
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45:01Darius and Ryon are joined by Avery & Tabitha DeVaughn to talk about traveling tips, hacks, best experiences, worst experiences, and their experiences being Black and traveling. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast…
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To Birth or Not to Birth? 🔞 (My Experience With Hormonal Implants)
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28:19Being a young adult in Nigeria is tough enough, and the last thing Toby wants is to bring a child into this world, at this stage of her life, therefore as she enters the dating scene, contraceptives are inevitable but it's doesn't come without it's own wahala and side effects.
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88. Celebrity Pastors, Megachurches, and NDAs #HonkforJesus
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47:00Darius and Ryon used the movie "Honk for Jesus: Save Your Soul" as a guide to discuss if it's problematic to have celebrity pastors, megachurches, and nondisclosure agreements in a church. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast…
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Remote Work Is Not The Flex You Think It Is| 100th episode 🥳
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18:33In this episode, Toby talks about all she's been up to since the ASUU strike. From ghosting on her internship to getting a remote job. Sharing her thoughts on the scam of remote jobs and salary negotiations.
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87. The Top 5 Albums of 2022 w/ Geremy Davis
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18:18In part of our episode on faith and music, we continue our conversation with Geremy Davis in discussing the top 5 albums of 2022. Let us know what y'all think! Follow Geremy on all socials @gday85 SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodca…
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86. Faith & Mainstream Music? w/ Geremy Davis
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41:17Today we're joined by former NFL Player and current content creator Geremy Davis. We chop it up about the topic of Christians listening to music that isn't traditional "worship music". Follow Geremy on all socials @gday85 SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.l…
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I just met Zikora, and he has fast become one of my favourite persons. At 18, he is in his penultimate year in the university, a fast-rising model and living life on his own terms. Follow Zikora on Instagram @zikoranachukwudimma
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85. SEASON 6 PREMIERE: The Rise of Lonely Single Men
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46:35Darius and Ryon kick off Season 6(!) with a brief check in and they discuss an article titled "The Rise of Lonely Singe Men". They discuss if there's any validity to this claim and who party (or parties may deserve some blame). They wrap up this episode discussing how it may be comparable and relatable in Christian spaces. Lonely Single Men article…
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Life is full of disappointments, or like we say in Nigeria, "life is a big pot of beans". In this episode, Mezie recounts moments when life dealt her huge blows of disappointments. It's safe to say that Mezie's pot of beans was served as breakfast but somehow she has managed to remain hopeful. Follow Mezie on Facebook @Onyeka Chimezie…
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Mental Health issues are rarely talked about or completely misinterpreted. In this episode, Toby and Samuel share personal struggles with Anxiety Disorder and shed more light on the topic.
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In this episode, Toby and Oprah Dee dissect the true meaning of the term "igbotic" while sharing fond memories of eastern Nigeria. Follow Oprah Dee on social media at Be Open With Dee
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I met Dominic for the first time at a talk show I was invited to and the first thing that drew me to him?... His personality. He is popularly known as 'The Man Next Door' and in this episode, we'll find out the origin of the name plus other interesting things about him. Follow Dominic on Instagram @man.like.dominic…
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BONUS: NFL Favorites, Sleepers & Pretenders w/ Geremy Davis
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19:04For this bonus episode we talked with former NFL player and Obedience Over Religion founder, Geremy Davis. We talked about this upcoming season's favorites, sleepers, and pretenders. For more Geremy Davis Content: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7PFVm4J6D_lGhrwlRKT-Jw SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg …
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STUDENT LOAN FORGIVENESS: Is it fair/enough???
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45:51Darius and Ryon join for a bonus episode discussing student loan forgiveness and if it's fair or enough. They end the episode discussing what's they would do to make college more affordable and have students graduate without debt. SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For All Things Unconformed Podcast: http…
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For the season finale, Claude Atcho drops by to discuss his new book "Reading Black Books". He also talks about Kevin Durant, Steph Curry, Drake, and the reflection that he recently wrote on Kendrick Lamar's new album. Purchase Reading Black Books: https://www.amazon.com/Reading-Black-Books-American-Literature/dp/1587435292/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=read…
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81. Abortion, Poverty, Healthcare: Are Black Ppl Going Extinct w/ Cherilyn Holloway
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41:08In this episode we we talk with Cherilyn Holloway about abortion, poverty, and healthcare and how those things could consequentially lead to the extinction of Black people. NOTE: *This episode was recorded on April 19th so no questions about the potential overturning of Roe v Wade were asked in relation to abortion.* For all things Cherilyn Hollowa…
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80. Social Media & Marriage, Singleness, and More w/ Corban and Maisha Stone
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42:04Maisha and Corban Stone stops by to chop it up about their relationship, their podcast, and what dating and marriage looks like in 2022. They follow up by discussing what's on their playlist. For Sparks with the Stones Podcast: https://www.anchor.fm/maisha-stone SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rgFor All T…
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79. Talkin' Politics w/ & Campaign Founder Justin Giboney
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38:05Justin Giboney, founder of the & Campaign and Church Politics Podcast host, joins the podcast to talk about the current state of politics and how Christians should engage civically in politics as well as giving his NBA Finals predictions. If you enjoyed this episode, like, subscribe, and leave a review using the links below. For More Info About The…
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Easter Life Update: Toby Is Helplessly Hopelessly In Love
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21:20You never know how beautiful love is until you experience it yourself. It's this very powerful force that consumes your whole being. You neither explain or control it but you enjoy it anyway and you never wish it to disappear... It is pure bliss!I found sweet love and I excitingly tell the story in this episode... Enjoy!…
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78. Budget Me Black w/ Crystal & Derrick Oliver
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38:14Today we talk with Crystal & Derrick Oliver about their financial coaching business, "Budget Me Black". They discuss how it became about and the 6 steps to their financial coaching advice. Darius and Ryon end the episode discussing Bel-Air. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEW YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg For more infor…
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77. Can Black Hebrew Israelites Be & Christians w/ Nefer Nitty
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41:48Black Woke Christian Apologist, Nefer Nitty, joins Unconformed Podcast to discuss the topic if Black Hebrew Israelites can be Christians. For all things Nefer Nitty: https://www.nefernitty.com/ For all things Unconformed Podcast: https://www.linktr.ee/UnconformedPodcast Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrlvTVI85LFiU0XU_en26rg…
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