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In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with Cassandra Robertson as she shares her journey through grief following the loss of her husband Carl after 33 years of marriage. With raw honesty, Cassandra opens up about the multi-layered nature of grief and how she's learning to navigate her new reality - from the first night alone in their home to finding strength in her community and faith.

Cassandra's story isn't just about loss - it's about the beautiful love empire she and Carl built together, one founded on respect, honor and complete devotion. She shares how Carl emptied himself of every ounce of love he had for her, and how she did the same for him until his final breath. Her testimony serves as a powerful reminder of what true covenant love looks like, especially through the "for worse" parts of marriage.

## Timestamps and Key Takeaways:
- 5:30 - The multi-layered nature of grief and the importance of community
- 12:45 - Returning home alone for the first time and facing grief head-on
- 19:20 - Building a "love empire" and protecting what matters in marriage
- 27:15 - Finding gratitude even in life's waiting periods
- 35:40 - The beauty of emptying yourself completely for someone you love
- 42:30 - Advice for those supporting someone through grief

This conversation is essential listening for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone through grief, or wanting to build a relationship that stands the test of time. Cassandra's wisdom about "proper love" and her courage to face her new reality will leave you reflecting on how you approach your own relationships and life's inevitable transitions.

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Chapters

1. Intro (00:00:00)

2. Welcome to Dear Future Wifey (00:00:12)

3. Grief's Multifaceted Nature (00:00:26)

4. Student of Love Book Promotion (00:02:13)

5. Navigating the Aftermath of Loss (00:05:24)

6. The Power of Community in Grief (00:06:38)

7. Facing the Reality of Being Alone (00:24:45)

8. Embracing God's Presence in Grief (00:34:07)

9. Trusting God's Plan for the Future (00:46:35)

10. Navigating Grief and New Beginnings (00:47:53)

11. Embracing the Present Moment (00:50:51)

12. The Value of Reminiscing and Gratitude (00:52:07)

13. The Importance of True Love and Commitment (00:52:45)

14. The Future and Family (01:02:55)

15. Closing Thoughts and Gratitude (01:08:34)

16. Kingdom Royal - A Home for Foster Boys (01:14:58)

17. Letter to Future Wife and Closing Remarks (01:19:22)

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