At some point in our lives, we've all faced situations where things didn't go as planned or as we had hoped, and the resulting feelings can be overwhelming. But if we dive a little deeper, we find a range of complex emotions associated with these experiences.

In her book, "The Atlas of the Heart," Brené Brown delves into these emotions, which can include disappointment, regret, discouragement, resignation, and frustration. The specific emotion we feel often depends on our circumstances. For instance, we experience disappointment when we realize the outcome was beyond our control. Frustration sets in when something seems to be standing in the way of our goals. Regret emerges when we believe we could have taken a different path. After prolonged efforts, we might lose motivation, hope, and feel deeply discouraged. At times, we reach a point of surrender, where hope for the future fades, and we simply feel resigned.

While there is plenty of advice urging us to persevere and never give up, it's important to recognize that taking a break, surrendering temporarily, and recharging our batteries can be equally valuable. This validates our emotions and allows us to construct a narrative that helps us move forward.

Each of us has a unique story to tell, and this narrative shapes our reality. The stories we tell ourselves and share with others determine how we handle our current situation and chart our path ahead.

I explore this topic in greater detail in an episode, which I invite you to check out and share your thoughts.