Ever feel like all you see are red flags?

Everywhere you look, it’s lists, memes, “never date someone who…” and warnings that keep us stuck in defense mode. When you’re always watching for danger, you miss opportunities for real connection. In this podcast, we’ll explore how to re-train your instincts to spot both red flags and green flags, the difference between fear-based dating and healthy, emotionally intelligent relationships.

This episode breaks down how our obsession with red flags can sabotage genuine love and how to shift your mindset toward green flags, emotional safety, and authentic connection.

💬 In this episode:
– Why red flag culture keeps you in defense mode
– How to identify real green flags that signal emotional maturity and relationship readiness
– The psychology of confirmation bias in dating
– Why chemistry ≠ compatibility
– How to re-train your instincts to look for consistency, accountability, and vulnerability instead of chaos

Whether you’re single, dating, or trying to rebuild after heartbreak, this video is about learning to choose better — not from fear, but from awareness. Because when you only train your mind to see danger, you’ll miss the signs of someone amazing standing right in front of you.

If you’ve ever said things like:
👉 “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?”
👉 “I see the red flags but can’t walk away.”
This episode is for you.

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