Welcome to the 3rd Person Perspective! This is the worldview that built the modern world and (depending on the study) where most of us reside, often quietly exhausting ourselves with an endless to-do list and the voice that says, "when I reach that goal, then I'll feel better".

We explore the shift to a self-authored identity, where who you are is more about your own beliefs and achievements, rather than group roles and expectations. To "see" this change, we introduce you to Harvard psychologist Robert Kegan's subject-object shift. At 3rd PP, one of the huge shifts we make turns unconscious judgments into objects of awareness we can work with for the first time. We also share a significant announcement about a free online "human skills gym" called The Circle. Sign up today at https://rememberingyou.life/circle

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome: Gathering the parts of yourself

01:29 Announcement: Introducing The Circle, a free online skill gym

05:08 Entering the Third Person Perspective (The Modern World)

08:28 What is Third Person Perspective? (The Dream Director)

09:49 The Shift to a Self-Authored Identity

11:09 Development Is Not Wholeness: Complexity vs. Wisdom

14:42 The Subject-Object Shift: Making the Invisible Visible

27:56 Exploring the Expert Stage: The Power of Right Answers

35:46 Exploring the Achiever Stage: Managing for Results

37:16 The Achiever's Shadow: Trying to Fix What Can't Be Fixed

45:26 Third Person vs. Fourth Person: The Painful Impasse

49:33 Reflection: Finding Worth Beyond Achievement

53:17 Conclusion and The Next Stage Preview

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