Manage episode 510077130 series 3680771
Heidi, Jane, and Etienne unpack what “friends with benefits” really means, where lines blur, and how rules and honesty can protect both the friendship and the fun. We share personal wins, cringes, and recoveries—plus what happens when chemistry, expectations, and silence collide.
• defining friends with benefits
• study insight on college FWB
• rules that work—safer sex, monogamy agreements, overnights, exit plans
• when a relationship slides into FWB without consent
• why communication prevents one-sided feelings and ghosting
• kissing chemistry, technique, and the unglamorous realities
• adult cross-gender friendships, boundaries, and hidden crushes
• age gaps, power dynamics, and consent clarity
• threesomes versus fantasy—performance pressure and logistics
• how to end kindly and salvage real friendships
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Chapters
1. Opening Banter & Fun/Interesting FActs (00:00:00)
2. Jane's Experience with a Friend with Benefit (00:05:31)
3. When Etienne Learned About Friends with Benefits (00:08:53)
4. Heidi's High School Experience with FWBs (00:12:40)
5. Keeping FWBs while Dating & Why It Might Be A Good Idea (00:14:53)
6. Jane's Flirty Friend (00:16:05)
7. Heidi's Wild Spin the Bottle Experiences (00:18:44)
8. Etienne's Worst Kisser Ever (00:19:56)
9. Jane's Worst Kisser (00:22:16)
10. Losing a Friend After Having Sex (00:28:32)
11. Making Male Friends As Adult Women (00:30:11)
12. Etienne's Favorite Friend with Benefit (00:36:49)
13. Jane's Reverse FWBs (00:46:08)
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