Ep. 4: Success on Your Terms: The Ultimate Middle Finger to Societal Pressure
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Are you tired of chasing someone else's definition of success? In this unfiltered episode of YOUR Best Damn Life, I'm (Jen Vertanen - your pink-haired, unapologetically sweary, no b.s. coachsultant with 30+years of experience helping folks do epic shit) breaking down why it's crucial to define success on YOUR own terms. We dive into:👀 Why societal pressure keeps us stuck in unfulfilling "success"🕵🏼 How to spot if you're living someone else's dream🪩 A step-by-step guide to crafting your unique success definition🤌🏼 Practical tips for owning your path, even when others don't get itWhether you're feeling stuck in a soul-sucking career, dreaming of a major life change, or just sensing there's more to life, this episode is your roadmap to creating a truly fulfilling Best Damn Life. Learn how to give societal expectations the middle finger and start living success on your own badass terms.You can now watch Your Best Damn Life on YouTube! Head on over, subscribe, and click the notification button so you get fancy ass alerts each time a new episode goes live.Snag my free "Get Out Of Your Own Damn Way" guide yourbestdamnlife.com/subscribeReady to go all-in? yourbestdamnlife.com/work-togetherDon't do it alone! Join fellow cycle breakers in our FREE facebook community facebook.com/groups/fyeahlifewithjenvertanen/Come say HI! on the socials...I LOVE having convos in my DMs!FacebookInstaThreads
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I'm Jen Vertanen. Speaker. Coach. No-B.S. Transformation Partner. I'm your kick-in-the-ass strategic partner who helps high-achieving overthinkers, perfectionists, and dreamers stop stalling, start taking bold action, and build a life & legacy that makes their 80-yo selves proud. No fluff. No waiting. Just real, unapologetic permission & momentum.
Chapters
1. Welcome back! (00:00:00)
2. Why YOUR own Definition of Success is SO IMPORTANT! (00:00:24)
3. No one wants a one-way ticket to Shitville (00:01:06)
4. It's YOUR life..no one else's (00:01:41)
5. Authenticity is sexy AF (00:01:54)
6. It's the ultimate middle finger to societal pressures (00:02:15)
7. It's your secret weapon against burnout and the actual key to happiness (00:02:38)
8. Why is it SO EASY to fall into the trap of living under others' expectations and pressures? I'll tell you why! (00:03:14)
9. How can you tell if you living by someone else's Definition of Success? Here are some red flags... (00:06:03)
10. Ask yourself..."What do I actually want?!" (00:08:26)
11. It's never to late to rewrite your Definition of Success (00:09:55)
12. And here's how you do it step-by-step (00:10:12)
13. My Definition of Success? Here it is and note...no where in there do I mention money even though I LOVE money (00:15:20)
14. Your Definition of Success SHOULD evolve over time! (00:17:31)
15. Now that you've defined it? Time to OWN that shit! (00:18:48)
16. Your homework & next steps to living YOUR best damn life (00:21:25)
17. Wrapping up... (00:22:37)
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