Ep16 | The American Dream Was Never Yours Queen—Time To Build Your Own The Selfish Snob

Burned Out by the American Dream? Reclaim Your Purpose & Redefine Success on Your Terms

Ever checked every box — the job, the degree, the salary — and still felt burned out, disconnected, and lowkey miserable?

In this raw and unapologetic episode of The Selfish Snob Podcast, Latina life coach and identity liberation mentor Dr. Onaysia Martinez calls out the toxic blueprint of the so-called “American Dream” and how it keeps high-achieving first-gen women trapped in cycles of self-doubt, overachievement, and emotional burnout.

This is the episode for the woman who looks “successful” on paper, but secretly feels like she’s suffocating.

You’ll walk away with:

The truth about why the “safe and stable” path is not the same as purpose
What high-functioning burnout actually looks like in women of color (spoiler: it’s not always exhaustion)
How to shift your mindset from survival mode to self-actualization
What it really takes to build a life and business rooted in alignment, freedom, and personal development
Why choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s revolutionary

If you’ve been searching podcasts for:
🔎 “How to find my purpose”
🔎 “Latina life coach podcast”
🔎 “Burnout recovery for high achievers”
🔎 “How to leave a job that no longer aligns”
🔎 “Mindset shifts for first-gen women”
…this is the episode you didn’t know you needed.

You were never meant to just survive. You were born to lead — in your life, your legacy, and your liberation.

Ready to take aligned action?
Join the waitlist for The Rebel Reunion (formerly known as Path to Purpose) — a transformational experience for first-gen women ready to rewrite the rules and step into a life that actually excites them. Doors close May 21st. Price goes up for the next round. Learn more at www.luvugurl.com/programs.

Your Next Steps:

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Let’s Stay Connected:

🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com
📲 TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez
💼 LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez — for speaker requests + business collabs