Send us a text Growing up broken isn’t noticeable when you’re the child that’s being directly affected. But as an adult who has complete understanding of the different traumas that took place. How then do we change the narrative for our kids which will ultimately break the cycle for generations? Support the show…

Send us a text Cheaters never prosper! Does it matter who the cheater is? Men and women cheat but when a woman cheat it’s sacrilegious. When a woman cheat it’s said that she’s emotionally involved and invested with that man. When a man cheats, it’s said he’s doing it strictly for pleasure. Question remains, does it matter who cheats? Support the sh…

Send us a text We can all agree money is important. When it comes to matters of the heart, how much does “love” cost? Relationships today seem to be fairly transactional. If you do this, I’ll do that. Some people are more interested in one’s financial abilities than they are by love and connection. Who do we hold accountable for this? Is it the men…

Send us a text Living your purpose is doing what you love. As kids some of us were guided towards high paying careers instead of our dreams or passion. The midlife crisis formed as a result to so many people living unhappy lives. As parents it’s our responsibility to guide our kids to find purpose and forge a euphoria. Every purpose is different an…

Send us a text In this Episode we discuss are women today too masculine? Based on evidence and opinions from each one of us the answer is yes! Why? Why do women feel the need to be overly masculine and/or less feminine? Could it be that the system has manipulated some of them into thinking they are more than their male counterparts? Or could it be …

Send us a text The history of men dating younger women dates back to ancient times. Evidence across many cultures shows a consistent pattern of males preferring females younger than themselves. The "half your age plus seven" rule is a more recent concept, originating from a book published in 1901 by Max O'Rell, which popularized the idea. Join us a…

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Send us a text The dynamics of dating and romance have changed considerably, with many feeling that the courtship rituals and gestures that were common in previous generations are now less frequent. This shift can create the impression that sincere romantic gestures are uncommon. Support the showBy Vic, Ralph, and AJ

Send us a text Too often black women are talked about in a negative connotation by the very men who are supposed to be their protectors. Leadership stems from strong men and strong men understand the inner workings of women. Some of today’s expectations that men desire from women may never be; however, we the men must think in terms of longevity. H…

Send us a text Dating is an art and so is choosing the right person to share your life with. As adults we deal with difficulties in our day to day lives and because of human nature, we try to find a way out by finding advantages through other people. We settle for people we normally wouldn’t give the time of day because of money and opportunity. If…

Send us a text In this episode, we’re discussing some of the unrealistic expectations people have during the dating stage. It’s not a man nor a woman’s job to make your life easier by taking responsibility for you and your children. We are all adults with our own adult responsibilities. Until you and that person have decided to become one in union,…

Send us a text In this episode we’re discussing the downfall of yet another black man. Conveniently, we’re always the scapegoat for everything that is negative and the consequences are always a lot more severe than those of our counterparts. The discussion is, are we our own worse enemy? We take everything for a joke and even applaud when we see on…

Send us a text In this week’s episode we dive into a rather controversial topic, should girls wait until marriage to be sexually active? While opinions may vary we recognize that in today’s society, especially with the presence of social media, young girls who have had multiple sexual encounters are treated rather harshly. To the masses a girl who …

Send us a text What are the components of a healthy relationship? Generally speaking the answer depends on the individuals in that relationship. A common staple in most successful relationships is loyalty. Some would say having a trustworthy partner, someone you feel comfortable talking about anything with, and someone you can joke around and be pl…

Send us a text The difference between nationality and race is as simple as being able to identify oil and water. Yet for so many it appears to be an impossible task. For many, many, years people of color from different countries have been using their nationality as a replacement for their actual race; as if being Black were a terrible thing. Societ…

Send us a text Why do we hate, dislike, belittle and bash each other? Why is it people of our caliber and depth can’t seem to understand each other? We have so much grace and understanding for everyone else except our own. Respect doesn’t cost a thing! The ability to agree to disagree doesn’t cost a thing! More importantly, if we want our children …

Send us a text Freedom of speech should not be reserved for some while others have to watch what they say. Especially if we’re going by the standard all men are created equal. As people we have the right to our opinions. In today’s society we have reached a point where only certain people can verbalize their opinions and all others have to remain s…

Send us a text In part 2 of our conversation with Eunice we learned about her plans as well as her reason for being involved in politics. Not for self gain or monetary benefit or even status but to help reshape NMB to what it once was, should and could be. The great city of NMB may seem small but its beauty and family oriented mindset was once powe…

Send us a text Often times we get caught up in the past and are unable to focus on the future. Because our fears keep us paralyzed we fail to acknowledge change is necessary. There comes a time in every phase of life when our seniors need to relinquish power and allow the next generation to take over without a power struggle. What Eunice Flowers is…

Send us a text Kids tend to mimic their parents it’s something most children growing up doing. Before there was the internet children would often do live skits portraying their parents screaming at them or disciplining them in some form or fashion. Today’s society has become judgmental and overly soft. We’ve lost humor but somehow managed to gain r…

Send us a text An alpha by definition is a leader. Now the question remains are women leaders? Our response to this question should not be driven by emotion but purely common sense. In every pack there’s an appointed leader. Women can be Alpha's considering they too can be leaders. As men we need to recognize the women of today are not the women of…

Send us a text Character is a very important trait in a person. You’re either someone who possess integrity or you don’t. This isn’t something you cannot fake nor purchase. Your words along with your actions will always shine a light on who they are behind close doors. In our community we tend to place more importance on money, material possessions…

Send us a text Our community is far from a unified front. We criticize and hate each other while down talking one another. Why do we hate each other? Could it be it’s because we lack self love or is it because we were never taught to view others as we see ourselves? Our level of understanding and our lack of willingness to communicate is baffling. …

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Send us a text Raising kids is a difficult job. Raising kids alone as a single parent is challenging. Today’s kids have so many negative influences aside from friends and connotations deriving from direct peer pressure. As parents our job is more important than ever as well as tedious. Our kids need our guidance to be exemplified physically not jus…

Send us a text How do we change tomorrow today? We start by investing in our youth. Our children are the future but only if we the adults do our share. We have to speak life into our children, raise them to be better people, even better than we are. Motivate them with our words and encourage them with action. By displaying acts of kindness, love, u…

Send us a text We have a lot of work to get done. So much work, we don’t have the luxury to play the “blame game”. We are direly needed in our homes, our women’s lives, our children’s lives and in our communities. We’ve been absent far too long and have allowed too many undesirable ideas to fester and grow. Our women, our children, even our mothers…

Send us a text Change Tomorrow Today’s focus is building a bridge within our community to help bring enlightenment, understanding, love and most importantly togetherness. As we discuss difficult and sensitive topics, most of which has caused a rift between us, it’s our wish that we can come together and find solutions. Rather than bashing one anoth…

Send us a text What has become of our humanity? Have we evolved into emotionless animals? Have we entered into a place of no return? Our lack of empathy and love for one another is sickening. The most sacred thing on the planet should be our women and children yet we’ve managed to turn our backs on them. Men and women are feuding with the one anoth…

Send us a text Growing up in the community where we’re from every day there is some form of peer pressure. There’s no grace or peace. The expectations are ridiculous and everything good is mostly frowned upon. If you’re smart and articulate you’re viewed as uncool, unpopular and sometimes a sellout. Running the streets seems like a mandatory task a…

Send us a text Dear Black Women, this is an Omen to convey a special message to you all. We love and appreciate you. As black men our existence wouldn’t be without you. Time has torn us apart. Over and over we blame each other and stare at each other with such evil hearts. We’ve turned our backs on you and in return you’ve evolved into us but more …

Send us a text Life isn’t always fair. A lot of times our wounds are self inflicted. Choosing the right person isn’t always easy. And neither is surviving in today’s economy alone without working together with your significant other. To make provisions and provide is to be a man just as speaking life into and motivating your spouse is to be woman. …

Send us a text As adults, seldom do we say the new generation has it better than we did growing up. We often compare the two based on music, clothing, hairstyles, and even the ways in which we communicate. Truth is, having social media in the 70s, 80s, and early 90s, would have been interesting to say the least. We were already out going but to hav…

Send us a text Changing for our children as parents is the most important thing we can do. Being present and consciously aware of traumas, bad behavior and interactions with our children is dire because our children need us functioning at full capacity. Love is an action word. You can’t love someone and not invest time into them. As parents it is o…

Send us a text Our community is plagued with a series of detrimental behaviors and ideologies but our lack of accountability is one of the worse traits. Men and women have become competitors, bashing and point fingers at one another. If we are to grow and evolve into who we really are meant to be we need to learn how to display sympathy, empathy an…

Send us a text Marriage is meant to benefit both individuals equally. Now as far as impact on each person it’s subjective. However we’ve been programmed to only think about ourselves, which marriage is the total opposite. The matrimony between man and woman is meant to be joyful while experiencing life together as one and also while balancing our d…

Send us a text So many times we hear people say “I want the right person” when referring to having a significant other. No one ever really dissects what makes an individual the “right person” to be with in a relationship. That person may not come to you fully developed; lacking in some areas, yet still fitting most of the characteristics in which y…

Send us a text What’s life without purpose and what’s purpose without life. Often times people are afraid to admit they aren’t happy mentally and aren’t satisfied spiritually living their day to day lives. So many of us ignore our intuition our calling to be better to be greater than a hamster on a wheel. Before you can fly you must first soar but …

Send us a text A change we can believe in or at least hope for. Our communities lack so much especially leadership and hope. Mr. Brown is inspired to become a beacon of light, inspiration, and opportunity to help restore our neighborhoods. Though many of our people have turned their backs on the hood, Mr. Brown believes he can restore it to become …

Send us a text In many instances life can be difficult filled with challenges and obstacles. So many times those things can weigh on you so much affecting our ability to make decisions and choices that are positive. Brother Josh is stepping up and declaring change. Change to the broken system, change to our neighborhoods and most importantly change…

Send us a text Words are powerful and a disagreement is an opportunity to establish clarity. Awareness is futile and our people are in need of leadership. Some think the way to evoke change is through politics which entails voting and trusting candidates to do what is right for the people. While others are more radical and think we need to do for o…

Send us a text The promises of life are as follows, you born and you die. Nothing else is promised other than the work you put in to persevere. Born to an Immigrant mother and an absent father due to exceptional reasons, Ellis managed to overcome and positioned himself as a key player in life. His story is an inspiring example we can all achieve ou…

Send us a text The term “Gentle Parenting” has become increasingly popular over the last few years. It is described as a parenting style focusing on empathy, respect, understanding and boundaries. If you’ve never seen gentle parenting in action we suggest you take a look at the various content related videos circulating the internet. We’d like to k…

Send us a text Black culture provides a framework for black individuals to connect with their history, customs, beliefs, traditions, language, and heritage. It serves as a source of affirmation, self-expression, and pride and allows individuals to celebrate their unique cultural experiences. Support the show…

Send us a text The month of February should be a time for remembrance and reflection. The mistakes that were made that lead our ancestors into captivity but also the strength, courage, and determination displayed by them moving the needle forward so we could experience freedom. We must never forget we were more than slaves but we must never forget …