No woman wants to face the horror of her husband’s betrayal. Or have to recover from the emotional, physical & financial trauma and never-ending consequences. But these courageous women DID. And we’ll walk with you, so YOU can too. If you’re experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to your husband’s lying, anger, gaslighting, manipulation, infidelity, and/or emotional abuse… If he’s undermined you and condemned you as an angry, codependent, controlling gold-digger… If you think your husba ...
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What To Do When your Husband Betrays Your Trust – Samantha’s Story
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13:32If you’ve just discovered your husband’s dark secrets, most women don’t know where to turn for help. If you’re wondering what to do when husband betrays your trust, here are 3 things to consider. 1. Check To See If His Betrayal Included Emotional Abuse Most men who betray their wives use emotional abuse tactics long before their lies are discovered…
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7 Things To Know When You’re Mad at Your Husband
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20:28So many women struggle with the question: “What to do when you are mad at your husband?”. If you’re angry because your husband has harmed you, your anger makes sense. Did you know that legitimate anger is not bad, and in fact, it’s helpful? Anger is a natural response to harmful treatment, and it helps you know that something is wrong. It’s like a …
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Why Is My Husband Yelling at Me? – Cat’s story
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39:08If you’re wondering, “Why is my husband yelling at me?” the answer might surprise you. Here are 7 key questions to help uncover the real reasons behind his constant anger. 1. Maybe He’s Yelling Because He Has A Secret? When your husband has something he wants to do that he doesn’t want you to know about. He will be very irritated when you ask norma…
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What Are The 4 Stages Of Betrayal Trauma?
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16:55A husband’s lying, infidelity, gaslighting, and emotional abuse causes betrayal trauma. The effects can leave women feeling lost, confused, and unsafe. Understanding the 4 stages of betrayal trauma can help you process what’s happening and take meaningful steps toward healing. Most men who betray their wives are emotionally abusive. Before moving o…
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Is Online Infidelity Cheating? – 7 Things The Research Confirmed
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55:15Did you recently discover you husband flirting with women online or using pornography? Are you confused, hurt, devastated, and afraid? If your wondering “Is online infidelity cheating?”, here are 7 things you need to know based on the research. Did you know that online cheating is a form of emotional abuse? To see if you’re experiencing any one of …
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Psychological Abuse vs Emotional Abuse – What You Need To Know
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35:19If you’re wondering about psychological abuse vs emotional abuse, here’s what to know. Emotional abuse is when someone manipulates your emotions to exploit you. He can use psychological abuse or emotional abuse to toy with your emotions to get what he wants. To find out if you’re experiencing emotional abuse, take this free emotional abuse quiz. Ps…
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Is It Wrong To Check Your Husband’s Phone? – Jenna’s Experience
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16:00If you suspect your husband is having an affair, is it wrong to check your husband’s phone? Does access to your husband’s phone ensure he’ll stay faithful? Jenn shares 3 reasons why checking his devices didn’t stop her husband from cheating. If you relate and need support, attend a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Session TODAY. Transcript: Is It Wro…
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Stages of Anger After Infidelity – How Anger Protects You
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22:53I went through so many stages of anger after infidelity. Here’s what I learned over the years. I realized I wasn’t just healing from his infidelity—I was also recovering from years of emotional hurt. If this sounds like you, take this free emotional abuse quiz to see if you’ve been through emotional abuse too. The 5 Stages of Anger After Infidelity…
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What Is Post Separation Abuse? – Marcie’s Story
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34:02Navigating life after separation can be challenging, especially if you’re dealing with post-separation abuse. What is post separation abuse? Unfortunately, this is a reality for many women, particularly mothers, who continue to suffer abuse from their ex-husbands. Are you emotionally abused? Take this free emotional abuse quiz to find out. What Is …
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The Long-Term Effects Of A Bad Marriage – Florence’s Story
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12:41If you’ve endured repeated betrayal from your husband, you’re not alone. Many women in our community have faced the long-term effects of emotional abuse in their marriage. Florence, a member of the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Community, a victim of her husband’s emotional abuse for over 40 years, shares her story. If you relate, consider attending on …
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Patterns To Look Out for In Your Relationship with Dave Cawley
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33:12Anne and Dave talk about the patterns he discovered while hosting 3 Seasons of The Cold Podcast.
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Warning Signs Your Husband Is Dangerous – Susan’s Story With Dave Cawley
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35:24Are you wondering if your husband might be dangerous? Learn more now.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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How To Protect Yourself Financially If Your Marriage Is Struggling
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37:38Financial abuse in divorce is shockingly common, here are the best ways to protect yourself.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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What Is A Therapeutic Disclosure? What You Need To Know If Your Husband Is An Addict
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36:10If a therapist has suggested a therapeutic disclosure, this is what you need to know.
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Healing Trauma From Hidden Abuse – What Gets In Our Way? Penny’s Take
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31:18If you're healing trauma from hidden abuse, here's how to move forward.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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How To Start To Heal From Emotional Abuse – Penny’s Story
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34:58It's possible to heal from your husband's emotional abuse. See if you relate.
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Making The Decision To Divorce – Caroline’s Story
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22:40Maybe your struggling with the idea of divorce, but it seems like the safest thing. Here's what to consider.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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How To Protect Children From Online Abuse with Kristen Jenson
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15:19Here's how to protect your child from online dangers.
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How To Deal With An Addict Husband – Evangeline’s Story
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51:06If you're struggling to deal with your husband's addiction, here's what you need to know.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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Betrayal Trauma In Relationships: What You Need To Know
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21:18Have you been dismissed, minimized, and vilified by those who should have helped you? Here's the support you've needed.
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What If I Can Never Trust My Husband Again? – Shelly’s Story
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36:33If your husband's actions make him untrustworthy, here's what that means.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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Betrayal Trauma In Marriage, When It’s Not Getting Better – Nikki’s Story
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25:08Many women have a difficult time finding the right support for betrayal trauma and emotional & psychological abuse.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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Where Can Someone Who Is Being Abused Get Help? with Nicole Bedera
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44:42Victims of abuse often experience trauma when we try to get help.By Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
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When Your Ex Uses The Kids To Hurt You – How To Deal With His Chaos
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29:12There is no fear or pain equivalent to the trauma when your ex uses the kids to hurt you.
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I Think My Husband Is Lying To Me – Stacey’s Story
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44:10Things aren't adding up. Here's what that blank stare might mean.
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