Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. Join Zan Perrion and Jordan Luke Collier and a growing number of men around the world who are binding themselves to the mast, raging against mediocrity in all its forms, and defining their lives, themselves, and most importantly their relationships, on their own terms. Subscribe and listen each week to hear: ~ inspiring tales of love, heartbreak, debauchery and seducti ...
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture
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1:11:05Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture ____________________________________________________ What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large. Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?
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59:23Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women? ____________________________________________________ Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and …
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 17 — How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep
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1:08:52Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep? ____________________________________________________ Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to? Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?" Or when …
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 16 — Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely
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56:11Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely ____________________________________________________ If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace. And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that sometimes, you …
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?
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1:02:34Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman? ____________________________________________________ One astute viewer of the podcast recently commented on a difference he noticed in Zan and Jordan’s overall styles when it comes to engaging with women. The crux of Zan’s approach lies in honouring the immediate connection he feels wit…
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The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: How to Let Go and Enjoy the Dance with Women
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1:06:22Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: how to let go and enjoy the dance with women ____________________________________________________ “How do I stop being so serious and become genuinely more playful?” I find it fascinating that it took 14 episodes of Abundance in the Land Of Women for this question to come up–but I’m not surprised. You see, while …
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The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women
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1:20:39Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women ___________________________________________________ The realization of ‘the power of now’ and truly ‘being in the present moment’ are incredibly useful tools that a man can use to get much more out of life, and access an entirely hidden realm of the Land of Women. Indeed, ‘getting present’ is…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women
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57:03Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women ____________________________________________________ The way in which your ‘state’ is affected by a woman you’re attracted to is the tell-tale sign, signifying your chances of having her be attracted back to you or not. Men who have abundance simply don’t get anxious, nervous or feel a…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women
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1:20:36Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women ____________________________________________________ In today’s episode, Zan unpacks a powerful distinction between two energies of masculinity: the ‘upper energy’ we’re all used to—conversation, empathy, charm—and the ‘lower energy’ that creates a truly transformative con…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability
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52:02Episode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability ____________________________________________________ Cultivating a quality of vulnerability is vital for men seeking fulfilling experiences with women. “But surely I can’t look weak in her eyes”, some men will say–“she won’t want to be around me”. They posture. Others, seeking a deep, heart-to-heart connectio…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction
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57:37Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction ____________________________________________________ In the movie Scarface, Al Pacino’s character famously lays out a ‘blueprint for getting women’: first you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman. It’s a paradigm that many men buy into. And to a degree, it’s true. However, if …
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 8 - Perspective and Choosing Curiosity
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1:00:46Episode 8 – Perspective and Choosing Curiosity ____________________________________________________ Any true seeker—and if you're reading this, then you probably are one—will go through life in a series of phases. Jordan is currently embarking on a new chapter himself. In today’s episode, he shares how he actually lost sight of the original intenti…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 7 - Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth
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1:01:29Episode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth ____________________________________________________ Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lose her. In toda…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols
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41:33Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols ____________________________________________________ Many of you have been asking… so here it is: Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit! It is well-known that Zan keeps himself up-to-date wi…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship
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1:02:51Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship ____________________________________________________ Last week, Zan and Jordan discussed how a relationship can be a powerful vehicle for growth, and looked at some of the ways that we might draw inspiration from tradition and the sacred to create relationships that ground us in what …
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’
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1:03:20Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’ _____________________________________________ A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take. On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way of framing inti…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past)
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1:32:07Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past) ____________________________________________________ At some point, every man on this journey has to ask himself: do I truly like women? Even the most ardent lover has a place in his heart where he’s been wounded and thus closes off. And if, on the whole, you don’t really like…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation
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1:13:04Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation (Or, how to always know what your lover will do next) ____________________________________________________ Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dynamic is going …
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave
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1:01:32Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave ____________________________________________________ You heard that right... Friend Zone Pro Just like the iPhone Pro: a bigger, more complex, and more expensive form of friend-zone, with extra applications to keep you locked in. As we get older, the nuances of the…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 50
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24:32A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 49
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27:50A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 48
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27:00A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 47
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22:30A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 46
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25:05A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 45
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30:08A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 44
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30:05A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 43
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30:29A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 42
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32:52A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 41
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31:02A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 40
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25:36A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 39
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31:14A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 38
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25:45A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 37
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28:29A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Six of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 36
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29:04A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 35
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27:43A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Four of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 34
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37:53A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 33
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22:03A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 32
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 31
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37:39A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 30
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34:17A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 29
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28:04A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Four of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 28
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29:56A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Three of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 27
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22:23A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 26
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24:15A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 25
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22:17A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Ten of the discussion on the chapter: The Way …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 24
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28:26A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 23
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 22
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44:01A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Seven of the discussion on the chapter: The Wa…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 21
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 20
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38:18A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Five of the discussion on the chapter: The Way…
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