Join Chelsea and Layton as they discuss pornography’s hard truths through the lens of stories, science, and Scripture. Liberator Podcast was created to remove the barriers of shame and embarrassment that stifle conversations and community around the effects of pornography. We look forward to earning your trust.
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This podcast is dedicated to restoring marriages and relationships to wholeness in Christ after being affected by pornography and sexual brokenness. Every episode is filled with rawness and transparency as Clinton and Charity intertwine their story while interviewing professionals and others about what it takes to rebuild connection after betrayal takes place. They focus on restoring safety and trust, rebuilding connection and intimacy, and ultimately reflecting God's ability to heal and red ...
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Need help with sexual addiction, pornography, or sexual purity issues? You are not alone. We are walking the road of recovery, and this podcast is a casual approach to finding help, hope, and healing.
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Chris and Lisa Archinal (Our Relentless Pursuit)
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56:31Chris and Lisa Archinal join the show to discuss their marriage's journey through betrayal and recovery. Chris shares how he came to strive for a relentless pursuit of sexual integrity, while Lisa reflects on her path to receiving a new heart after experiencing deep emotional pain. Together, they emphasize the significance of community support and …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Episode-120_-The-Transformational-Recovery-Matrix.mp3 In this episode of The Purity Podcast, Chris introduces the Transformational Recovery Matrix. Chris created this powerful tool to help men identify where they are in their recovery journey and how to move toward true, Christ-centered transformati…
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Part 2 Raising a Porn-Free Generation: What It Means to Be Parents Who Fight with Sarah Siegand
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43:25What do you say to your second grader when they ask for a phone? How do you set boundaries without shaming other families—or losing connection with your own? And if you’ve already said “yes” to tech decisions you now regret, is it too late to turn back? In Part 2 of our conversation with Sarah Siegand, co-founder of Parents Who Fight, we pick up wh…
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Chelsea and Layton discuss the complex relationship between pornography, moral absolutes, and the pursuit of happiness. They explore the societal shift towards individualism and the implications of defining personal truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline and accountability in achieving true freedom and joy, contrasting it …
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Raising a Porn-Free Generation: What It Means to Be Parents Who Fight with Sarah Siegand
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34:18Is protecting our kids from online dangers actually possible—or are we already too late? What if the solution is simpler, and more powerful, than we think? In this eye-opening episode, we sit down with Sarah Siegand, co-founder of Parents Who Fight, to talk about the urgent need for families and churches to fight to protect our kids in a hyper-digi…
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Why Are They Still Checking Out Other People? with L&C
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31:02Chelsea and Layton explore the complexities of temptation, particularly in the context of lust and pornography addiction. They discuss the nature of beauty, the struggles individuals face, and the influences of the World, Flesh, and Devil on these temptations.
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"The Sex Talk You Never Got - But Desperately Need" with Kristen Miele
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45:43In this episode, we’re talking with Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed and a passionate voice for healthy, faith-filled conversations around sexuality. Kristen shares her journey into sexual health education and why she believes parents are the best people to teach their kids about sex and relationships. We dive into the fears many of us fa…
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Chelsea and Layton explore the themes of condemnation, forgiveness, and identity in Christ. They discuss the lack of condemnation for those in Christ, the journey of forgiveness, and the importance of understanding one's true identity as a child of God. The conversation emphasizes the freedom that comes from recognizing that one's past does not def…
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Friendship or Fallout? The Risks of Radical Honesty While In Recovery
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37:45Have you struggled to find safe people to confide in? Has it been challenging to share your personal story of brokenness with friends and family? Have you lost a friendship due to your honesty and authenticity? If so, you’re not alone. In this episode, Charity and Clint invite you into their journey of recovery, sharing how they navigated (poorly a…
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Mark Sanders joins the show! The episode explores the false comfort that pornography provides, the generational shifts in attitudes towards sex and relationships, and the importance of community and healing in recovery. The discussion emphasizes the need for a redefined understanding of intimacy and the role of selflessness in healthy relationships…
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Is this Husband-Bashing... or the First Step to Healing?
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37:06"I thought I was protecting you by staying silent. In reality, I was protecting your sin and preventing myself from healing." In this powerful and personal episode, Clint and Charity open up about the hidden pain that secrecy created early in their marriage, and the life-changing difference a safe community made in their recovery journey. They tack…
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Chelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the …
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Healing Together: Chelsea and Layton's Story from Liberator Podcast
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38:50In this inspiring episode, we interview Layton and Chelsea, the visionary couple behind The Liberator Podcast. They share their transformative journey of overcoming pornography and betrayal, illustrating how their healing has deepened and strengthened their relationships and faith. They share how their story of brokenness has transformed into a mis…
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Chelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well…
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Digital Dangers: The Hidden Threats in Kids' Apps and Games with Titania Jordan from Bark
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45:56-Do we, as parents, know about the potential dangers of apps like Roblox, Minecraft, Snapchat, TikTok, and Instagram? -Is it true that platforms like Roblox are enabling sexual predators to target children as young as five years old? -How can these tech giants disregard the importance of parental controls and safety features despite the thousands o…
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Chelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emph…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Episode-119_-Relentless-Pursuit_-What-Could-Stop-You.mp3 What could stop you from becoming the man God has called you to be? In this personal episode, Chris explores the potential obstacles on the path to purity and integrity, driven by his commitment to recovery from past unfaithfulness and sexual …
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Masturbation, Art Vs Porn and Objectification with Greta Eskridge
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45:00How does masturbation distort God’s design for intimacy? How can we inspire our kids to avoid objectifying people and recognize it in television, advertisements, movies, and songs? How can we differentiate between art that depicts nudity and pornography? Many couples, like us, who have faced the pain of betrayal due to sexual brokenness, are driven…
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Chelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography. Seeing and Seeking Embodied Beauty by Craig A. Marshall
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Is Sex a Need? How a Sexual Fast Can Transform Your Relationship
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46:07Ever wondered what a sexual fast is? How do you successfully do one, and why would anyone willingly embark on this journey? Welcome to the Restored 2 More podcast, where today, we dive into our transformative journey of sexual fasting and the benefits of following God's design for sex!Join us as we tackle burning questions like: Can you go 30 days …
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Chelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing.
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Protect Young Eyes: Stewarding Tech Well with Chris McKenna
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50:34Have you been at a loss to find the best way to make your home tech-safe? Has creating healthy tech boundaries with your kids or spouse been a battle? Have you struggled to understand healthy tech practices, much less model them for your family? We most certainly have. Today's guest, Chris Mckenna, has fought long and hard to become a respected voi…
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Layton shares his journey of overcoming pornography consumption and the transformative power of Christ. He emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and the role of God in his healing and redemption. The talk also touches on the impact of sin on his relationships, his call to ministry, and the significance of sharing personal stories …
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Why do most accountability circles seem ineffective? How is it that Clint had accountability partners since high school but still struggled with his addiction? In this episode, Charity interviews Clint about his understanding and experience with accountability and why it fell short. Is the purpose of accountability merely to publicly confess and ho…
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Chelsea and Layton explore the complex journey of finding joy amidst suffering, grief, and addiction. They discuss the difference between joy and happiness, the importance of intentionality in our low points, and the necessity of community support during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the significance of taking breaks from grieving, r…
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The Art of Embracing Anger and Processing it in Healthy Ways with Erin Stretar CSAT, CPTT
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38:13In this episode, hosts Clint and Charity engage in an insightful conversation with Erin Stretar, a skilled therapist from Ohio who holds both CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and CPTT (Certified Partner Trauma Therapist) credentials. This discussion dives deep into the often-ignored feelings of anger that betrayed spouses experience during …
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Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith join the show. They share their personal journey from friendship to marriage, the challenges they faced due to addiction, and the transformative power of vulnerability and honesty in healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive framework for couples navigating difficult conversations and th…
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Do you find it challenging to find joy in church on Sunday mornings while in the midst of your recovery journey? Clint and Charity often do. In this episode, they share their heartfelt struggles with serving, enjoying, and experiencing church life, even after visiting many congregations, serving in a few, and being on staff full-time. It's vital to…
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Chelsea and Layton explore the concepts of generational sin and redemption, discussing how these themes impact personal growth and family dynamics. They delve into the science of addiction, particularly focusing on epigenetics, and how our choices can affect not only ourselves but also future generations.…
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The heart of the issue is the issue of the heart. Removing harmful behaviors may be the starting point, but heart change is when Charity started to have true hope that restoration is possible. Sobriety can’t be the ultimate focus. It’s about what we get free from AND what we get free to. Listen now to hear Charity share how Clint changed and why th…
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Jacob Valk from Into the Light Ministries returns to the show to discuss pornography, sexuality, and parenting. Jacob shares insights from his ministry's journey, including the creation of a masterclass developed to empower parents to address porn with their children confidently. The discussion highlights the significance of personal stories and th…
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Dating and The Porn Conversation with L&C
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28:41Chelsea and Layton Boeve delve into the complexities of dating and the often-taboo subject of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to be honest about their feelings and experiences with pornography, and how it can impact their relationship dynamics. They also explore the significance of personal healing and the necess…
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Chelsea and Layton share the best advice they each personally received during the healing journey. The conversation hits on the importance of confronting personal and familial secrets as a means of growth and recovery, as well as the centrality of grace, honesty, and courage in addressing our sin.
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Chelsea and Layton explore the damaging effects of pornography on the brain, the rationalizations people make to cope with addiction, and the importance of self-honesty in recovery. They discuss the cost of following Christ, the influences of media on personal behavior, and the challenges of healing from betrayal and insecurity. The dialogue emphas…
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Chelsea and Layton are joined by Caitlin McCaffrey, the Director of Women's Ministry at Harvest USA. They explore the mission of Harvest USA, God’s heart towards those struggling with betrayal and sexual sin, and the significant need for support among women facing these challenges. Caitlin shares insights on betrayal trauma, the importance of ackno…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Episode-118_-Robert-Switala-Interview.mp3 Today on Episode 18, Chris has the privilege of interviewing Robert Switala. Robert is an engineer by trade turned Licensed Mental Health Counselor. He is the owner of Mindview Mental Health Counseling. Chris invited Robert to join the podcast today when he …
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The Church (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 4) with L&C
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26:26Chelsea and Layton wrap up Liberator’s Beyond the Porn Phenomenon series by diving into Barna’s research on pornography and the church. They discuss the importance of community support for both congregants and leaders, the generational perspectives on pornography, and the challenges faced by church leaders in addressing these issues. The conversati…
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Generations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 3) with L&C
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22:29Chelsea and Layton continue their Barna series, exploring the impact of pornography across different generations. The conversation compares differing attitudes around porn, while emphasizing the importance of communication and mentorship between different age groups.
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Rewind: Bob and Dannah Gresh (Pure Freedom)
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52:59We are rewinding back to one of our favorite episodes with some of our favorite people, the Greshes! Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. Resources …
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Merry Christmas from all of us at Liberator! We're taking a brief pause from our, "Beyond The Porn Phenomenon," series to do a special Christmas encouragement. You are not alone!
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Season-8-Episode-17_-Purity-Podcast-Holiday-Edition.mp3 The holidays can bring joy and celebration, but they can also amplify struggles—whether it’s stress, loneliness, or old habits trying to creep back in. But here’s the good news: Christmas isn’t about surviving; it’s about thriving through the r…
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Motivations (Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Part 2) with L&C
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20:54Chelsea and Layton delve into the motivations behind pornography consumption, exploring how factors like boredom, stress, and personal arousal influence individuals' choices. They discuss the differences in motivations between men and women, the impact of technology on access to pornography, and the need for the church to engage in discussions abou…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Season-8-Episode-16_-Deborah-Schiller-and-Erick.mp3 On today’s episode, Chris is joined by Deborah Schiller and Erick, where Erick will share his journey from an early childhood porn addiction that escalated into child sexual abuse images and his ultimate arrest. Deborah, has a Master of Science in …
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The Widening Gap (Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Part 1) with L&C
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27:22Chelsea and Layton introduce a new series based from Barna's research on pornography usage in the U.S., discussing the growth of consumers and frequency of use across the country. They also explore the themes of substance versus shadow in life, particularly in relation to pornography and its impact on society.…
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Chelsea and Layton speak with Jamie Gordon from Screen Sanity about the challenges parents face in managing technology use among children. Jamie shares the mission of Screen Sanity, and shares practical strategies for establishing boundaries, addressing difficult topics like pornography, and fostering open communication with kids. ScreenSanity.org …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Season-8-Episode-15_-Theology-as-Recovery.mp3 On the Purity Podcast today, Chris discusses theology as recovery with Mike. Mike is a regular recovery guy like you and me. He approached me with this topic as a result of his growth in recovery when he discovered that while books on recovery are fantas…
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From Good to Great & 100 BY 100, Who's With Us?!!
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37:15Sometimes, God has to hit the pause button on a ministry to transform it from merely good to truly great! Clint and Charity are ready to share the incredible journey behind the scenes as they unveil the reasons the podcast took a break, the social media platform quieted, and why course #2 never reached completion. But even more thrilling is how thi…
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Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of pain, suffering, and God's role in our lives during difficult times. They explore the biblical concept of the 'refiner's fire' and how it relates to personal growth and healing. Through the stories of Job, Peter, and Judas, they emphasize the importance of understanding God's character and the hope that can …
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Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of communication around pornography use, particularly focusing on the questions that can hinder healing after betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trust and avoiding assumptions, as well as the impact of genuine curiosity. The conversation also highlights the significance of constructive dialogue an…
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Chelsea and Layton explore the life of King Solomon, examining his rise to greatness and subsequent fall from grace. They discuss the importance of vigilance in leadership, the dangers of temptation, and the need for contentment and stewardship in relationships. The conversation serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of straying from on…
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