Best Damien Irons Podcasts (2025)

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Iron John & the Wild Man Within: What Modern Men Are Missing 15:02

25d ago15:02

15:02

In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful and misunderstood books ever written about masculinity — Iron John by Robert Bly. Whether you're struggling with confidence, feeling lost in your purpose, or just tired of being the “nice guy” who finishes last — this book has something to say to you. I break down Bly’s core ideas — from the Wi…

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A Female Dating Coach's Perspective - How To Approach Women? 1:00:22

1M ago1:00:22

1:00:22

In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding men back in modern dating. From why confidence without authenticity turns women off, to how practicing with zero-pressure conversations can transform your social life, this episode is packed with gold.…

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How To Approach A Woman In A Bar - All Scenarios Covered 16:51

1M ago16:51

16:51

Learn how to approach women at night in a bar in a variety of situations. What do you say when you first approach a woman? What's the difference between approaching a group of 2 women or a group of 3 women? What's the easiest group of women to approach and get good results? Dating And Relationship Coach https://www.schoolofattraction.com/?utm_sourc…

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CONFIDENCE FAIL! 5 Myths You Need to Stop Believing 15:28

2M ago15:28

15:28

Are common myths about self-confidence holding you back? I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder to build genuine self-assurance. Discover the truth behind these confidence myths, understand what self-confidence really is (and isn’t), and learn practical tips to break free from these limiting beliefs.…

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Self-Perception vs Reality: What Holds Men Back 13:55

2M ago13:55

13:55

In this video, we dive deep into the hidden ways self-perception shapes your dating life and how it impacts your success with women. Many men unknowingly hold themselves back due to negative beliefs and false narratives about "what women want." Drawing from a groundbreaking experiment in sports coaching, we reveal how changing your mindset can dras…

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Why Men Rage Quit Dating: The 3 Barriers Holding You Back 16:22

2M ago16:22

16:22

Why do so many men rage quit the dating game? In this video, we dive into the 3 biggest psychological and emotional barriers that hold men back from finding success with women. Whether it’s fear of rejection, frustration with the process, or feeling stuck in your head, these roadblocks can sabotage your dating confidence and keep you single. Watch …

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How To Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women 17:16

2M ago17:16

17:16

Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial interactions in bars and clubs. But here’s the kicker: my students don’t face this issue as much as you'd think! In this video, I’ll reveal why most men experience cold responses and how my clients are ab…

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The Ultimate Tinder Strategy for 2025: 3 Steps to Win Big 12:28

2M ago12:28

12:28

3 steps to getting more matches on Tinder even in 2025 when competition is stronger than ever before. I'll show you the exact steps I take to get matches and dates for my own clients. This Online Dating advice may seem controversial, but it works. So stop getting lost in the crowd and start getting more matches. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Dami…

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The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men 26:56

2M ago26:56

26:56

🔥 Welcome to a no-holds-barred exploration of dating and attraction! This video, "The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men," dives deep into the often unspoken realities of the dating world. 🤔 Tired of hearing the same old advice from dating coaches? We're here to shake things up. In this eye-opening video, we uncover the truths that most coa…

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Should Men Avoid Marriage? The Statistical Evidence 17:24

2M ago17:24

17:24

Is it adviseable that men get married? Or has marriage become a lot more trouble than it's worth? How do men and women fair in divorce? How do we go financially, emotionally, healthwise? I'm going to look at the statistics of marriage and long term relationships, to work out how bad men really have it in committed relationsihps. 1:1 Zoom Coaching S…

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How To Sexually Flirt With Women (With Examples) 12:55

2M ago12:55

12:55

Most men really struggle to bring sexuality into their flirting, they end up being too nice and too sweet, but that just isn't sexy for women. I'm going to give you multiple strategies for making your conversations girls more flirtatious. Whether you are in a club, on a date, or at a house party, you should be using these strategies EVERY SINGLE TI…

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How I Beat Panic And Anxiety When Nothing Else Worked 21:05

2M ago21:05

21:05

Dive deep into a personal tale of transformation, resilience, and unexpected solutions that led me from the depths of daily panic attacks to a life of peace and fulfillment. This episode isn't just my story—it's a beacon of hope for anyone feeling lost in their battle with anxiety. From traditional therapies that missed the mark to groundbreaking n…

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5 Steps To Build Confidence As An Introvert 21:20

3M ago21:20

21:20

Designed specifically for introverts looking to boost their social confidence and navigate social settings with ease. Whether you're struggling with social anxiety, looking to improve your communication skills, or simply want to feel more at ease at parties and gatherings, this video is for you. We dive deep into practical tips and strategies that …

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The Dark Side of Seeking Empowerment: Men, Red Pill, and Mental Health 17:56

3M ago17:56

17:56

Delve deep into the world where many men, feeling victimized and disenfranchised, turn to the Red Pill and Manosphere. We examine how these movements, often associated with Incels and certain dating coaches, promise empowerment but can lead to harmful mental health outcomes and societal issues. 🌍 Discover how the quest for strength and control in t…

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The Surprising Reason Smart Men Struggle With Women 16:13

3M ago16:13

16:13

Are you a smart, intellectual man who finds the dating scene baffling? Today we delve into the unexpected challenges that intelligent men face in their dating lives. As a seasoned dating coach, I've encountered numerous men who excel in their careers and academics yet find themselves at a loss when it comes to forming romantic connections. This epi…

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Style Hacks from a Nobel Laureate: Heuristic Attraction 🔥 14:50

3M ago14:50

14:50

Welcome to a unique exploration of style, psychology, and attraction! In this enlightening episode, we dive into the groundbreaking work of Nobel Prize-winning psychologist Daniel Kahneman, unraveling how human heuristics influence our perception of others. Discover how you can harness the power of clothing and style to make a lasting impression. D…

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What 100,000+ Personality Test Results Taught Me About My Clients 16:56

3M ago16:56

16:56

After analyzing over 100,000 personality test results, including the Big 5 and the 16 Personality Factor (16PF), I've uncovered intriguing patterns and traits that are common among those seeking dating advice. This video is not just a collection of statistics; it's a journey into understanding human behaviour and preferences in the complex world of…

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The Quiet Charm: How To Be Introverted and Successful with Women 15:58

3M ago15:58

15:58

Are you an introvert looking for effective dating advice? In "The Quiet Charm," I explain why I love being an introvert on the dating scene. As a seasoned dating coach, I share my insights on how introverted traits can be your biggest asset in finding romantic success. Discover tailor-made strategies and thoughtful advice that cater specifically to…

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Women’s Sexual Liberation - Empowerment Or Social Erosion? 15:32

3M ago15:32

15:32

In this candid discussion, I navigate the complexities surrounding women's sexual liberation and its impact on society and dating life. Join me as I delve into diverse perspectives, expert insights, and real-life stories that challenge conventional notions. My aim is to foster an open dialogue about the evolving dynamics of women's autonomy, sheddi…

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6 Red Flags When Meeting Women In Bars/Clubs 15:33

3M ago15:33

15:33

Trying to pick up women in bars and clubs is always difficult, but there are 6 very specific red flags you should be looking out for, and if girls do this, you should instantly walk away. Dating is hard, and especially if you're only looking for something casual, but if you stop wasting time on women who aren't looking for the same things you are, …

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Flake-Proofing Your Profile: Client's Tinder Hack Revealed 11:05

4M ago11:05

11:05

In this groundbreaking episode, discover the ultimate solution to flakey Tinder dates! I'll share the secrets of a client who made a simple tweak to his Tinder profile, resulting in a remarkable reduction in flake rates. Guided by our expert dating coach, this video breaks down the specifics of the Tinder hack that transformed his online dating exp…

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11 Signs A Girl Likes You 12:50

4M ago12:50

12:50

Are you struggling to figure out whether a girl you're interested in actually likes you? In this episode, we're going to unveil 11 unmistakable signs that she's into you. From subtle hints to more obvious indicators, these dating tips will help you decipher her true feelings and give you the confidence to make a move. Whether it's through body lang…

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Reframe Your Mindset: How to Be More Attractive to Women 11:05

4M ago11:05

11:05

In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the world of self-perception and dating success. Discover the transformative power of reframing your mindset to become more attractive to women. Learn practical tips, techniques, and mindset shifts that will boost your confidence and charisma. If you're ready to unlock your true dating potential, join …

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Passport Bros: A Valid Solution To A Real Problem? 14:45

4M ago14:45

14:45

Passport bros has become a popular idea on YouTube and tiktok with men electing to travel overseas to meet women who are more traditional and accepting to start families with. Is this the future of dating? Or is this just a sign of men who can't 'hack' it in the real world. Feminists would argue these men are just travelling to take advantage of wo…

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Why 90% Of Men Struggle To Build Attraction 13:05

4M ago13:05

13:05

Let's delve into a fascinating truth about modern masculinity. Discover why most men unknowingly shy away from embracing their true power, resulting in women only seeing them as friends. It's time for men to confront their fears and become comfortable with the darker, more primal aspects of their sexuality. Your shadow is powerful, you need to lear…

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Tinder VS ChatGPT: Testing AI-Powered Openers 18:38

4M ago18:38

18:38

Join me on a fascinating experiment as I unleash the power of ChatGPT, an advanced AI language model, on the world of online dating. In this video, I dive into the realm of Tinder, armed with ChatGPT's AI-generated openers. Can artificial intelligence help me stand out from the crowd and spark interesting conversations? Or will it fall flat in the …

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Long Term Partner Green Flags - Choosing The Perfect Mate 13:14

4M ago13:14

13:14

What are the green flags you should seek out in a potential long-term relationship? A great partner can make your life amazing, but the wrong partner can make your life hell. When you're dating, do you know what kind of men or women you should be seeking out to give you the best chances of long-term success? School Of Attraction Dating And Relation…

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Should Men Care About Women's Body Count? - Let's Analyse The Data 17:41

4M ago17:41

17:41

I'm going on a deep analytical dive into female promiscuity and its effects on future pair bonding behaviours - most notably marital happiness and having affairs. It's a very popular Red Pill standpoint that women who are promiscuous become forever unable to have healthy monogamous relationships in the future. However just because people believe it…

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Is Dating Easier For Men Or Women? 18:45

5M ago18:45

18:45

Do women have it better than men when it comes to dating? We know that men struggle more to meet women in the first place, but women often struggle more when dating becomes more serious. But who has the worst time overall? Online dating is notoriously a minefield for guys hoping to find love, but they also tend to lie online a lot more, making it m…

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I Did A Tantra Workshop - Things Got Spicy 🌶 🌶 19:55

5M ago19:55

19:55

I've heard my friends talking about tantric sex and tantra workshops for a long time, and It wasn't until last weekend that I finally decided to give it a shot and see how it was. I'm going to explain why I think a lot of people - especially men - could benefit from the experience the same way I did - even if things can get a little heated at times…

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Do Age Gap Relationships Work? 28:07

5M ago28:07

28:07

We've all seen women try to shame men who date much younger females, but is this all just sour grapes? Or is there a valid reason women often see problems with men who prefer to date in a lower age bracket? How about older women with younger men? Can these age gap relationships work in the real world? Can a man date a much younger woman from anothe…

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4 Truths To Leading An Uncommon and Extraordinary Life - Terry Tucker 44:04

12M ago44:04

44:04

What does it mean to live an extraordinary life? How can we overcome the endless stream of massive obstacles that life can throw in our path? Motivational speaker and coach Terry Tucker talks about his experiences as a police officer, hostage negotiator, athlete and Cancer patient. 1.Control your mind or your mind will control you. 2.Embrace the pa…

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Taking Back Our Masculinity - Andre Paradis 1:03:46

1y ago1:03:46

1:03:46

What is masculinity in a world where men increasingly feel like they're under attack, and the "Boss B!tch" is an archetype women are striving towards? Our culture is teaching men to detach from themselves and live lives without purpose - If we want to have fulfilling, loving relationships with women then we owe it to ourselves to get reconnected, w…

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Man's Need For Intimate Connection For Mental Health - Simon Rinne 49:28

1y ago49:28

49:28

Australian men's mental health practitioner talks about the critical need men have for connection and open communication with each other. We discuss how to identify great men's work coaches, therapists, and mentors. We discuss in detail the powerful work you can do inside a men's group. www.mindful-men.com.au…

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A Female Dating Coach Perspective - Biggest Mistakes Men And Women Make - Laurie Gerber 53:30

1y ago53:30

53:30

What are the biggest mistakes men and women make when trying to meet and date each other? I speak with Laurie Gerber, a female dating coach who's been featured on the Dr Phil Show and the Today Show about how she perceives the problems with modern dating from a woman's perspective. Laurie is offering you a FREE GIFT with lots more expert dating adv…

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Attachment Styles And The Power Of Psychedelic Assisted Therapy - Thomas Westenholz 55:00

1y ago55:00

55:00

I talk with the host of "Exploring Humanity" Podcast who is a therapist that specialises in resolving attachment styles and psychedelic assisted therapy. How do attachment styles play such a powerful role in our dating lives? How can the professional use of psychedelics help us to rapidly move through previously intractable emotional traumas? psych…

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3 Steps For Men To Enter Their Masculine - GS Youngblood 55:13

1y ago55:13

55:13

Men's Work Coach and author of "The Masculine In Relationship" - GS Youngblood discusses with me the 3 phases men need to work on to step into their masculine - Both in relationships and when first meeting women. gsyoungblood.com IG @gsyoungbloodmirBy Damien Diecke

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The Importance of Deep Social Connections To Mental Health - Florance Ann Romano 41:12

1y ago41:12

41:12

Florence Ann Romano - the author of "Build Your Village" talks about the critical importance of having a healthy series of emotionally fulfilling relationships in our lives and not solely placing all the pressure to feed our emotional needs onto our romantic partners which is a common reason for relationships to fail. https://florenceann.com/…

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How To Make Her First Time In Bed With You Amazing - With Leah Piper 56:16

1y ago56:16

56:16

Tantra and Sex coach, and co-host of the "sex reimagined" podcast - Leah Piper talks to me about getting women aroused, creating an incredible first experience and the big mistakes guys make which ruin the experience. Last 10x Longer for Men & my free gift. https://www.sexreimagined.com/last-10x-longer…

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How To Increase Your Testosterone - Interview With Nick Soulias 36:16

2y ago36:16

36:16

I interview online men's fitness and health consultant Nick Soulias about how men can identify and increase low testosterone levels leading to more energy, better sex lives, more motivation and much much more. You'll also be able to book a FREE strategy session with me: https://nicholassoulias.typeform.com/to/RisPo3Ex…

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Do Women Hold All The Power When You Approach Them? 13:58

2y ago13:58

13:58

When you approach a cute girl in a bar, at a house party, or out during the day? You'd be forgiven for thinking women hold all the power in dating because they have the ability to accept or reject the guy, and he has to put in all the effort. But if you continue to feel powerless when approaching women, then you'll always be giving your power away.…

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7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension With A Woman 23:28

2y ago23:28

23:28

So you've been flirting with a girl at a bar or house party, but you want to know how to start creating some sexual tension and really get her craving to be intimate with you - where do you start? I'm going to share 7 of my favourite ways I share with all my clients to build sexual tension. 1:1 Zoom Coaching Sessions With Damien: https://schoolofat…

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Sexual Esclation Vs Sexual Tension - A Mistake Many Guys Make 11:32

2y ago11:32

11:32

Do you know what the difference is between sexual tension and sexual esclation? I get men contacting me every week asking me how to sexually escalate with a woman they've started dating, or a woman they'v ejust met in a bar. But this is the wrong question to ask, because more men should be focussing on building sexual tension with women instead. An…

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How Bad Are Racial Dating Preferences? - A Critique Of The ‘OK Cupid’ Statistics 14:34

2+ y ago14:34

14:34

How bad is racism when you're dating? OK Cupid released some shocking statistics a few years ago, which have led many men and women to presume dating for them could indeed be hopeless. But statistics can be misleading - and there is a lot more going on behind the scenes determining the sexual and romantic preferences of men and women both offline a…

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No Luck Online Dating? Here’s A Completely Novel Approach 11:14

2+ y ago11:14

11:14

Online dating can be really frustrating - it doesn't matter whether you use Tinder or Bumble or Hinge or any of the other competitors out there - most men are struggling to get matches. But the solution to your frustration could be hidden in the research done in the 1980s in the hunt for the perfect pasta sauce. Let's find out what changes you coul…

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Why One Night Stands Are A BAD Casual Sex Strategy 12:08

2+ y ago12:08

12:08

Whenever most guys think about getting casual sex, they often think about trying to get one-night stands - They picture going to a bar, finding a cute girl to talk to and trying to get her home that night. But this can be the worst strategy to have sex - it takes a long time, there are lots of ways to get rejected - and most women aren't looking to…

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Should You Be More Masculine To Attract Women? 10:20

2+ y ago10:20

10:20

I often hear guys wanting to learn how to be more masculine, or how to be more alpha, and the reason for this is to better attract women - because everyone knows that women lust after masculine men right? But what if our hunt for masculinity was a red herring causing us guys to chase our tails, while still having no more success with girls than we …

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My Funniest Dating Failures - Best Ways I've Crashed And Burned 15:04

2+ y ago15:04

15:04

It's easy to talk about our most successful dates ever, and share stories of success with beautiful women - But nobody ever wants to talk about the biggest failures where we did something stupid that ruined our chances. I want to share 4 true and funny dating stories about how I crashed and burned with beautiful women because of something stupid I …

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What's The Best Way To Meet Women These Days? 15:58

2+ y ago15:58

15:58

What is the best way to meet women in 2022? While so many of us spend time on online dating these days, this isn't necessarily the best way to find attractive girls to date. I'm going to explore a range of different ways of meeting women from cold approaching to social circle, introduction agencies, mail order brides, and travelling overseas. I'll …

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Feeling Stuck With Women - Use This Checklist To Get To The Next Level 20:03

2+ y ago20:03

20:03

Maybe you struggle to approach women because you have approach anxiety, or you keep getting told "let's just be friends" - Or maybe you keep finding men who aren't ready for a relationship yet. There 1000s of ways we can become stuck in a repeating pattern of failing to get the results we want when dating. Often, the solution lies in doing some dee…

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