Best Dr. Kay and Dr. Ray Podcasts (2025)

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Toxic Relationship, Allyship, & a Feminist Leadership Style | Awards Show | April & 1/2 of May | ::} 093 39:37

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Dr.s Kay and Ray dole out their 8 awards to any reality television shows they watched in the months of April & (half of) May, 2025: The Valley, Summer House, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, Southern Charm, Below Deck Sailing Yacht, and, on Netflix, Battle Camp and Million Dollar Secret. If you haven’t heard of Netflix’s shows, Battle Camp & Milli…

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Toegate, Anxiety, & Fetishization in The Hamptons! | VIDEO EXCERPT | Summer House Season 9 ::} 092 19:33

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This is the video excerpt of episode 92. Find the full video at Patreon.com/RealityTest & the full audio wherever you get your pods. Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the themes from the latest season of Summer House! From the Jesse Solomon & Toegate of it all to the Imrul & Houseguests of it all, and everywhere in between, Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss their re…

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Toegate, Anxiety, & Fetishization in The Hamptons! | Summer House | Season 9 ::} 092 47:01

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the themes from the latest season of Summer House! From the Jesse Solomon & Toegate of it all to the Imrul & Houseguests of it all, and everywhere in between, Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss their reactions, what society is learning, and how they would change the treatment of the castmates of color. -------------------------------…

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Self-Confident Garcelle & Self-Concerned Sutton! | VIDEO EXCERPT | RHOBH Reunion Part 3 | Season 14 ::} 091 22:59

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the third part of the reunion of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, season 14. Garcelle’s self-confidence to quit the show is well-founded and impressive, whereas Sutton’s lack of true concern for Garcelle or for being an ally is tough to watch. ------------------------------------------------------------------- Listener…

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Episode 106. Annie Korzen: Unapologetic Chutzpah from Seinfeld to 86 year old TikTok Star 38:51

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ANNIE KORZEN is an octogenarian TikTok sensation with close to half a million followers. She is the author of "THE BOOK OF ANNIE: Humor, Heart and Chutzpah from an Accidental Influencer." Annie was the recurring Doris Klompus on Seinfeld, and she has written humorous essays for The NY Times, LA Times, and many more. Annie has performed her solo sho…

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Episode 105. Artemis Marah: From Darkness to the Light & Art as the Path 42:49

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Artemis Marah is the Founder and Artist of a Heavenly Art Brand, dedicated to bringing a touch of Heaven into homes and hearts through her paintings. But it hasn’t always been that way… Once on a completely different path, Artemis was pursuing a career in international relations, becoming an environmental lawyer. Despite her professional success, A…

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Self-Confident Garcelle & Self-Concerned Sutton! | RHOBH Reunion Part 3 | Season 14 ::} 091 1:22:29

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the third part of the reunion of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, season 14. Garcelle’s self-confidence to quit the show is well-founded and impressive, whereas Sutton’s lack of true concern for Garcelle or for being an ally is tough to watch. ------------------------------------------------------------------- Listener…

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Episode 104. Kay A. Oliver: The Flow of Writing from Hollywood to Self & Female-Centric Stories 41:57

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Kay A. Oliver, a dynamic storyteller holding degrees in Radio/TV/Film from California State University, Fullerton, and an MBA in Business. With over 3 decades in entertainment, spanning studios and TV stations, she produce, wrote and directed films. Defying gender biases and the notion that female-centric stories lack marketability in Hollywood, Ol…

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Garcelle is Right! | RHOBH Reunion Parts 1&2 | Season 14 ::} 090 1:19:54

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the first two parts of the reunion of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, season 14. Dr. Kay starts her theory for why Garcelle was so upset, on top of the historical racist mistreatment of her on the show. From the Kyle & Dorit to the Sutton & Dorit to the Garcelle & Dorit of it all, here she comes! Here she comes. -----…

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Episode 103. Ray Martin: Fourteen Years of Backpacking to Greater Human Consciousness 45:17

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Ray Martin, aka The Daily Explorer, is an entrepreneur and award-winning business leader. As a coach, mentor, facilitator, speaker, writer, and mindfulness teacher, he is a torchbearer for greater human consciousness. Ray is also a marathon runner and fundraiser. He’s on a mission to empower people to live authentically and to bring more joy and ha…

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Episode 102. Katharine Giovanni: A Lesson on Forgiveness & the Unforgivable 49:18

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Katharine Giovanni is a three-time award-winning best-selling author, speaker, and one of the original founders of the independent concierge industry. Katharine has authored over twelve books, including her latest release, The Ultimate Path to Forgiveness: Unlocking Your Power. Katharine’s journey is one of remarkable resilience—surviving stage 3 b…

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White Lotus TOP 5 Moments | FULL VIDEO | White Lotus Season 3 23:40

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Dr.s Kay and Ray share their separate top 5 moments from season 3 of White Lotus, without having previously discussed–while there was some overlapping concepts, the 10 moments ended up being (almost entirely) unique! What were your top 5 (or top 10!) moments of this season? Any overlaps with Dr. Kay’s & Dr. Ray’s? ----------------------------------…

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Episode One Hundred & One. Pericles Rellas: Money Mindset & Frequency in the Flow of Prosperity 1:03:55

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For over 25 years Pericles Rellas has helped tens of thousands of people create a new relationship with money and themselves, allowing them to have prosperity and freedom to live lives of joy and fulfillment. Understanding money’s place in our lives is not just freeing, it's transformational. Access to this new relationship happens by understanding…

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White Lotus TOP 5 Moments | White Lotus Season 3 ::} 089 24:37

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Dr.s Kay and Ray share their separate top 5 moments from the whole season 3 of White Lotus, without having previously discussed. While there were some overlapping concepts, the top 10 moments ended up being (almost entirely) unique! What were your top 5 (or top 10!) moments of this season? Any overlaps with Dr. Kay’s & Dr. Ray’s? ------------------…

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White Lotus Water, Rebirth, & Endings | VIDEO EXCERPT | White Lotus Finale Part II ::} 088 36:10

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This is a video excerpt of episode 88. The full video is on patreon.com/RealityTest! And the full audio is wherever you get your podcasts! Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the second half of The White Lotus season 3 finale! They finish discussing the resolutions reached by the end of the finale, including around the murders that the season started with. Va…

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Episode One Hundred. Whitney Ann Jenkins: Reflections & Honoring 100 Guests 17:48

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I grew up in West Virginia, where I first fell in love with nature, acting, music, and the performing arts. Though my wanderlust had me yearning for worldly exposure, travel, exploring bigger cities and greener pastures, (which I eagerly did), the arts culture in my hometown was incredibly rich, and the experiences I had during my formative years w…

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White Lotus Water, Rebirth, & Endings | White Lotus Finale Part II ::} 088 44:01

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the second half of The White Lotus season 3 finale! They finish discussing the resolutions reached by the end of the finale, including around the murders that the season started with. Various metaphors and spiritual references are discussed, as well as various uses of water imagery. What was your favorite metaphor or refere…

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White Lotus Spirituality, Resolution, & Parker? Piper? | VIDEO EXCERPT | White Lotus Finale Part I ::} 087 30:58

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This is a video excerpt of episode 87, also found on YouTube. The full video is on ⁠Patreon⁠ FULL AUDIO on Apple & Spotify Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the first half of The White Lotus season 3 finale! They explore Mike White's stated theme of spirituality, psychological concepts that came up, and where resolution was found. Dr. Ray points out a poten…

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Episode Ninety-Nine. Kristin Reitter: Platonic Sound, Musical Gifts & The Soul's Journey 1:20:31

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I AM here to assist you with your ascension process. I have travelled the world professionally as a musical theatre performer. That seems like eons ago in this ascension process! This year I birthed my Platonic Sound Program and it is next level! We gather 1/11/25 for our next session. Every Friday at 12:30 PM EST I do a LIVE Pop Up Tarot with Yo…

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White Lotus Spirituality, Resolution, & Parker? Piper? | White Lotus Finale Part I ::} 087 1:14:44

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Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss the first half of The White Lotus season 3 finale! They explore Mike White's stated theme of spirituality, psychological concepts that came up, and where resolution was found. Dr. Ray points out a potential moment of implicit racism in the direction (or production/editing?), and both hosts discuss the connection between spi…

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Do this, but not that, when in the Pods | VIDEO EXCERPT | Love is Blind Pod Life: Do’s & Don’t’s ::} 086 32:09

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This is an excerpt of the video version of episode 86! Video Excerpt also found on YouTube: https://youtu.be/w3kPr7hZNoU And on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/do-this-but-dont-126422016 For the full video, visit our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-86-126423642 For the full audio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0hQ2S…

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Episode Ninety-Eight. Reena Friedman Watts: The Multi-Passionate, Collecting Stories & Tuning In 39:40

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Reena Friedman Watts is a former producer of The Jerry Springer Show, a radio personality, and a top 1% globally ranked podcast host. Reena’s show Better Call Daddy, is the culmination of her over 2 decades of media and networking expertise, her curiosity as a story junkie, and her unique dynamic with her dad that she showcases on the podcast. www.…

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Do this, but not that, when in the Pods | Love is Blind Pod Life: Do’s & Don’t’s ::} 086 58:11

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Check out the video version of this episode... there's a free excerpt on Spotify, YouTube, & Patreon! For the full video, become a Patreon member for $5/month or buy one video episode for $5 when paying on computer (to avoid Apple Store's fees of $2.50 extra!)! Dr.s Kay and Ray discuss their top 5 “do’s” (behaviors to aspire to) and top 5 “don’t’s”…

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Sex Shaming, First Heartbreak, & The Only Country with a Woman Namesake | Video Excerpt | Awards Show | March, 2025 31:46

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This is an excerpt of the video version of episode 85! Also found on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Rmgd9f5ctDc For the full video, visit our Patreon at patreon.com/RealityTest For the full audio: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/doRl22FVaSb Dr.s Kay and Ray bring us back to their 8 awards for the month of March! Shows included range from Southern…

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Episode Ninety-Seven. Dr Sharnael Wolverton Sehon: Quantum Wholeness, The Science of Miracles, Biofeedback & the Supernatural 48:17

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Dr. Sharnael Wolverton Sehon is a captivating multidisciplinary expert who seamlessly blends naturopathic medicine, spirituality, and quantum science to empower individuals on their journey to wholeness. As the founder of Dr. Sharnael True TV and author of five groundbreaking books, including "The Science of Miracles: RE-Membering the Frequency of …

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Sex Shaming, First Heartbreak, & The Only Country with a Woman Namesake | Awards Show | March, 2025 ::} 085 1:06:59

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Dr.s Kay and Ray bring back their 8 awards in the awards show for the month of March! Shows included range from Southern Charm & Summer House to The Bachelor and Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, as Dr.s Kay and Ray award castmates & moments from all of the realiTV they watched over the reality tv-rich month of March, 2025! Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss t…

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Relationally-Rich Reuniting at Love is Blind Reunion! | Video Excerpt | LiB 8 Reunion 40:22

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This is an excerpt of the video version of episode 84! Also found on our YouTube: https://youtu.be/0MW_tAxZhLQ For the full video, visit our Patreon at patreon.com/RealityTest For the full audio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1UMUKUDteelJLYqW4lcFGR?si=L0zh7wZRQ8-sgx1_rWukJA Dr.s Kay and Ray continue the discussion they started last week, reviewi…

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Relationally-Rich Reuniting at Love is Blind Reunion! | LiB 8 Reunion Recap ::} 084 1:15:30

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Dr.s Kay and Ray continue the discussion they started last week, reviewing the four couples who made it to the altar on Love is Blind, season 8, as well as a number of the singles who came out of any stage of the show, including the pods. For example, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss Lauren, Dave, Madison, Alex, Mason, & Megs, who joined in the reuniting, th…

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Episode Ninety-Six. Dr. Lynn Banis: Changing, Shifting & Authenticity in Grief 37:41

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With over 30 years of experience in business consulting, coaching, and training, Dr. Lynn Banis has been passionate about helping professionals and organizations achieve unprecedented levels of success. Processing and coming through the other side of her own grief she now helps widows transform loneliness into connection and reclaim joy so they can…

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OCD, Bi+ Myths, & Marrying “Across the Aisle” in LiB Couples’ Recap! | VIDEO excerpt | Love is Blind | ssn8 ep.s 1-10 ::} 083 35:37

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This is an excerpt of the video version of episode 83; the full version is on our Patreon! The full audio is also available on Spotify and wherever you get your podcasts, for free! Dr.s Kay and Ray review the four couples who make it to the altar on Love is Blind, season 8, with a bonus discussion about Dave & Lauren. This episode is in preparation…

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OCD, Bi+ Myths, & Marrying “Across the Aisle” in LiB Couples’ Recap! | Love is Blind | ssn8 ep.s 1-10 ::} 083 1:02:52

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Dr.s Kay and Ray review the four couples who make it to the altar on Love is Blind, season 8, with a bonus discussion about Dave & Lauren. This episode is in preparation for next week’s in-depth recap of the relational-rich reunion episode. Dr.s Kay and Ray use their segments to explore the season by relationship, starting with Joey & Monica. For e…

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Traitors Finale & Reunion Double Stuf Recap with a Sociopolitical Frenzy! | Video Excerpt | The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.s 11-12 ::} 082 44:56

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This is a video excerpt of episode 82; the full audio episode is available wherever you get your podcasts, including here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6ZWzWY55hMHlKLYtTjNxxd?si=IE47lRBdRAO4YL-ScI3boA And the full video episode is available on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RealityTest This Double Stuf FINAL recap episode of season 3 of The T…

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Traitors Finale & Reunion Double Stuf Recap with a Sociopolitical Frenzy! |The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.s 11-12 ::} 082 1:46:11

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This Double Stuf FINAL recap episode of season 3 of The Traitors is more like Mega Stuf, as Dr.s Kay and Ray recap the strategy-packed FINALE & action-packed REUNION! A variety of psych-related topics from gaming reality tv shows show up, such as “your psyche is showing”, where Dr.s Kay and Ray pick a moment or interaction that revealed something a…

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Episode Ninety-Five. Craig Meriwether: Hypnotherapy & Healing Roots of Pain to Access the Optimal Self 51:12

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Craig Meriwether is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Medical Hypnosis Specialist, Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) specialist, and Founder of Arizona Integrative Hypnotherapy helping people eliminate the negative emotions and limiting beliefs that may be keeping them from reaching their full potential. For over 12 years, Craig has been helpin…

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Episode Ninety-Four. Indra Rinsler: Vedic Astrology, Enneagram Personalities & Transcending the Mind to What Is 1:35:22

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For 50 years Indra Rinzler has been involved in Spirituality and Vedic Astrology. He has been studying and sharing Enneagram of Personality since 1999. He uses these modalities in Life Readings designed to help clients wake up to who they really are. Indra is an enthusiastic genuinely interestingly man who has been a world traveler for over 20 year…

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New Strategic Players & New Sloppy Players on The Traitors | Recap | ssn3 ep.9-10 ::} 081 1:00:15

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In this recap episode of The Traitors, while summarizing episode 9 & 10, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss a variety of psych-related topics from gaming reality tv shows, such as psychological concepts that could improve strategic moves, or those that are present in strategic successes. And, in this episode, Dr.s Kay & Ray have named new “sloppiest players” a…

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Episode Ninety-Three. Barb Nangle: The Freedom of Boundaries & Claiming Integrity through Recovery 57:40

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Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker and the Founder and CEO of Higher Power Coaching and Consulting, LLC and host of the podcast, "Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery." In 2015 at the age of 52, after decades of therapy and tons of self-help work in a variety of areas, Barb found herself in 12-step recovery. She’s been in…

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Dr. Kay has an EQ crush! | Video Excerpt | Jan & Feb Awards ::} 080 28:06

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This is the first half of our video version of this episode. The full audio is found on Apple, Spotify & wherever you get your podcasts, and the full video version is found at patreon.com/RealityTest, where you can become a member for $5/month and get video episodes among many other benefits! Aaaand we’re baaaaack!! We’ve decided to make our award …

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Dr. Kay has an EQ Crush! | Award Show | Jan & Feb 2025 ::} 080 1:32:16

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Aaaand we’re baaaaack!! We’ve decided to make our award shows monthly, so we’re catching up with an award show on BOTH January & February reality television! From Southern Charm & Southern Hospitality, to The Traitors & The Real Housewives franchises! Even Deal or No Deal Island makes an appearance! On whom do you think Dr. Kay has an emotional int…

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Sexist & Racist Traitors' Roundtable? | Video Excerpt | The Traitors ssn3 ep.8 ::} 079 28:56

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This is the video episode excerpt. The full video is on patreon.com/RealityTest! In this recap episode of The Traitors, Dr.s Kay & Ray are summarizing and discussing the 8th episode of season 3! Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss a variety of psych-related topics within the context of gaming reality tv shows, such as psychological concepts that could improve s…

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Episode Ninety-Two. Susan Hensley: Art for Your Sanity & Facing Fear to Find Your Fuel 40:20

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Susan Hensley is a transformational coach, speaker, and author dedicated to helping people navigate life’s transitions with joy, creativity, and resilience. With decades of experience as a corporate executive and leadership coach, Susan has a deep understanding of the challenges and opportunities that come with major life changes. Drawing on her ex…

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Sexist & Racist Traitors' Roundtable? | The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.8 ::} 079 57:48

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In this recap episode of The Traitors, Dr.s Kay & Ray are summarizing and discussing the 8th episode of season 3! Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss a variety of psych-related topics within the context of gaming reality tv shows, such as psychological concepts that could improve strategic moves, such as the process of elimination; or those that are present in …

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Episode Ninety-One. Bob Martin: From Mob Lawyer & Cocaine Cowboys to Retreat & the Flow of Meditation 53:54

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From a high-powered mob lawyer during Miami’s wild Cocaine Cowboy days to a Certified Meditation teacher with an MSW to go with his JD, Bob Martin has helped hundreds redesign their thinking for the life they dream of. Bob’s journey is anything but ordinary. Now a two-time published author and Professor of Wellness at Elon University, Bob blends Ta…

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Why is Boston Rob so successful with The Traitors’ (& most of us) women? | The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.s 6-7 ::} 078 57:25

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In this recap episode of The Traitors, Dr.s Kay & Ray are summarizing and discussing the 6th & 7th episodes of season 3! Dr.s Kay & Ray cover a variety of psych-related topics within the context of gaming reality tv shows! They discuss psychological concepts that could improve strategic moves, such as institutional scapegoating, or those that are p…

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The RHONY Reunion & The First Black Bachelor Breaks Up | RHONY ssn15 Reunion ::} 077 52:51

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In this special discussion, Dr.s Kay & Ray share their highlights from The Real Housewives of New York, season 15, reunion episodes, after discussing the big breakup in Bachelor Nation of Rachel Kirkconnell and Matt James. Matt, the first Black bachelor, and Rachel, his final rose winner (whom he did not propose to, but instead started dating), hav…

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[FULL AUDIO] A Resident Sloppy Player | The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.5 ::} 076 1:10:37

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**We're putting an extra episode out this week, due to needing to take next week off, while Dr. Ray travels for work. We'll be back a week from Monday!** In this recap episode of The Traitors, Dr.s Kay & Ray are summarizing and discussing the 5th episode of season 3! Dr.s Kay & Ray continue using the new psychology-focused segments for gaming show …

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Episode Ninety. Aaron French: From Botany to Spiritual Connection, Tantra, The Akashic Records & Karmic Ties 2:00:00

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Aaron is a Psychic Medium, Akashic Reader, and spiritual practitioner for over 30 years. With a deep nondual foundation rooted in the Daoist teachings, Aaron creates a grounded and heart centered container within which the Akashic Records and messages from our Guides and Angels are revealed. During a deep period of awakening in 2019, Aaron started …

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Episode Eighty-Nine. Chloe Jimenez Peters: Wounded to Wings, Hypnosis for Women & Overcoming Betrayal 41:02

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Chloe is a Transformational Hypnotherapist and Trauma Informed Coach. She works with women worldwide to rapidly identify and transform the subconscious blueprint of PMDD & Perimenopause symptoms so that you can expand into your full potential, thrive with purpose and have the fulfilling harmonious relationships you deserve. As a Narcissistic Abuse …

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Episode Eighty-Eight. Dr. Dolores Fazzino: Bridging Medical and Spiritual, Personal Empowerment & Waking Up to Yourself 50:41

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Dr. Dolores Fazzino, DNP, is a visionary healthcare expert known for integrating spirituality and wellness into conventional medicine. With over 40 years of experience as a Nurse Practitioner and Medical Intuitive, she has performed 18,500+ surgeries and collaborated with renowned specialists like Dr. Bernie Siegel. Dr. Fazzino's dynamic presence a…

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[VIDEO PREVIEW] A Resident Sloppy Player | The Traitors Recap | ssn3 ep.5 ::} 076 24:37

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**We're putting an extra episode out this week, due to needing to take next week off, while Dr. Ray travels for work. We'll be back a week from Monday!** In this recap episode of The Traitors, Dr.s Kay & Ray are summarizing and discussing the 5th episode of season 3! Dr.s Kay & Ray continue using the new psychology-focused segments for gaming show …

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