Misogyny, $800 first dates, simps, and high-value women: Social media has been busy cooking up and feeding us an addictive but toxic slurry of trends over the past few years. Here at The Toxic Cooking Show we're two friends dedicated to breaking down these trends, terms, and taunts into their simplest ingredients to understand where they came from and how they affect our lives. Join us each week as we ponder and discuss charged topics like personal responsibility and "not all men" before pla ...
…
continue reading

1
Better Help: What Happens When Mental Health Becomes Just Another Business?
1:02:13
1:02:13
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
1:02:13Send us a text What happens when therapy becomes just another tech startup looking to maximize profits? In our deep dive into BetterHelp, we uncover the troubling reality behind the polished marketing of America's largest online therapy platform. Behind those ubiquitous podcast advertisements lies a business model that's crushing therapists while p…
…
continue reading

1
Swipe Left on BetterHelp: The Therapy App That's Worse Than Your Ex
45:55
45:55
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
45:55Send us a text We've all seen the ads - BetterHelp promises convenient therapy at your fingertips. But behind the slick marketing lies a company with deeply troubling business practices that every therapy-seeker should know about. When Christopher Patchet, a licensed therapist, along with Lindsay McClane, looks on how BetterHelp operates. From sell…
…
continue reading
Send us a text The modern manosphere has created a pantheon of male archetypes, but none quite as supposedly elusive and mysterious as the "Sigma Male." Emerging around 2017-2018, this concept markets itself as the rarest, coolest type of masculinity—the lone wolf operating outside traditional hierarchies while maintaining alpha-level respect. But …
…
continue reading

1
How Conspiracy Theories Poison Our Society and Why We Still Fall For Them
58:38
58:38
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
58:38Send us a text Conspiracy theories have evolved from reasonable skepticism about government deception to dangerous delusions with real-world consequences, tracing their development from Cold War distrust to internet-fueled paranoia. • American trust in government began eroding in the 1940s with the Roswell incident and changing official explanation…
…
continue reading
Send us a text We've all felt that gut-punch moment. You discover that celebrity you've adored for years—whose work shaped your identity or brought you comfort—has revealed themselves to be deeply problematic. Your social media feed floods with damning evidence, your friends debate whether to throw away their merchandise, and you're left wondering:…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Empathy seems like a universally positive trait - until it's weaponized against you. In this eye-opening exploration of emotional boundaries, hosts Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW unpack the surprising dangers of being "too nice" in a world that's quick to exploit kindness. Drawing from psychological research and person…
…
continue reading

1
Cult Dynamics: Breaking Down the Dangerous Ingredients
55:55
55:55
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
55:55Send us a text A seemingly innocent church invitation from a workplace crush led Christopher into the unsettling world of cult recruitment—complete with love bombing, isolation tactics, and a baptism offer on day two. This jarring personal story opens our deep exploration into the psychology of cults and why they're far more prevalent in society th…
…
continue reading

1
Ghosting: The Haunting Reality of Dating Disappearing Acts
46:25
46:25
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
46:25Send us a text In a world where digital connections often come with emotional detachment, ghosting has become a prevalent topic. Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW dive deep into the reasons behind ghosting, exploring personal anecdotes that range from humorous to heart-wrenching. With statistics revealing that a staggering percentage of…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Is life coaching a scam, or does it really hold the key to personal transformation? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we unravel this intricate tapestry of guidance, dissecting the realms of life coaching and therapy with precision and humor. We promise an enlightening exploration into when you might benefit from the pep talks of …
…
continue reading

1
The Fabulous Fabrications of Fitfluencers
49:24
49:24
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
49:24Send us a text Ever wondered if your favorite fitness influencer is more interested in your wallet than your well-being? Join us as we humorously dissect the world of "fitfluencers" with your hosts, Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW. Our mission? To help you sift through the glossy promises and algorithm-driven content that bombard our …
…
continue reading

1
The Dangers of DIY Mental Health Diagnoses in the Digital Age
45:31
45:31
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
45:31Send us a text Discover the surprising truth behind commonly misused mental health terms and unlock a new level of understanding. On this episode of the Toxic Cookie Show, we unravel the confusion surrounding words like "trauma," "OCD," and "PTSD" that have slipped into everyday chatter. These terms carry weighty clinical definitions from the DSM-5…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Ever wonder why words like "trauma" and "triggering" seem to pop up everywhere online, often in ways that don't quite make sense? On the Toxic Cooking Show, we unravel the digital misuse of therapeutic language Lindsay McClain and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW. Together, promise to clarify these buzzwords, exploring how their mea…
…
continue reading

1
Living the Perfect Life on Instagram. Or so it Seems
55:04
55:04
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
55:04Send us a text What if the perfect lives you see on Instagram are just a facade? On this eye-opening episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we promise to help you uncover the truth behind social media's glamour and the unrealistic standards it sets. Join us, Christopher Patchet LCSW and Lindsay McClane, as we dissect how social media, particularly plat…
…
continue reading

1
Behind the Lens: The Realities of Child Influencers
52:58
52:58
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
52:58Send us a text Can sharing your child's life online do more harm than good? In this thought-provoking episode, we tackle the world of momfluencers and child influencers, diving into the concept of "sharenting" and its ripple effects on children's lives. Sharing family moments on social media may seem harmless, but we explore real-life cases where i…
…
continue reading

1
GRWM to Go to Jail: When Family Vlogger Lose Control
49:40
49:40
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
49:40Send us a text How far would you go for online fame? In our latest episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, LICSW, expose the shocking ethical breaches of momfluencers and family vloggers. Tune in as we dissect the unsettling practices of these online personalities who prioritize content creation over their …
…
continue reading

1
Hey There Mama Bears! Welcome to the Mamasphere
43:12
43:12
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
43:12Send us a text What if the digital age has reshaped motherhood in ways we never imagined? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, navigate the intricacies of the "mama sphere"—an online universe where mothers share the joys and challenges of parenting. Trace the evolution from the humble beginnings of mom…
…
continue reading

1
Are We Dating the Same Guy: A Toxic Report
43:50
43:50
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
43:50Send us a text What if your latest online match is someone else's worst nightmare? The Toxic Cooking Show takes a deep dive into the uncharted waters of digital romance, starting with the controversial Facebook group "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" We tackle the delicate balance of sharing personal experiences against the backdrop of privacy concerns…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Unlock the secrets to identifying and navigating love bombing, a manipulative tactic prevalent in modern relationships, with Lindsay McClain and licensed clinical social worker Christopher Patchet, LCSW. Gain insights into how excessive attention and affection can mask an attempt to control, and learn to spot the red flags like prema…
…
continue reading

1
The Art of Friendzone and Honest Dating Conversations
37:41
37:41
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
37:41Send us a text What if being 'just friends' could lead to hilariously awkward situations and surprising insights about modern dating? Join me, Lindsay McClain, along with the insightful Christopher Patchet, LCSW, as we unravel the tangled web of the 'Friend Zone.' We share our own laugh-out-loud tales and explore how men and women often misundersta…
…
continue reading
Send us a text What if the labels "boy mom" and "girl dad" are doing more harm than good? On the latest episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McClain and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, peel back the layers of these seemingly innocent titles to reveal unsettling truths. We question the impact of parental favoritism and societal expectations…
…
continue reading

1
Explosive Expectations: Unpacking the Gender Reveal Phenomenon
53:43
53:43
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
53:43Send us a text What if the grand spectacle of gender reveal parties is more than just a harmless celebration? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we dissect this modern phenomenon, born in the late 2000s and fueled by the social media frenzy. From quaint cake and balloon reveals to hazardous explosions and wrestling matches, we scrutinize the biza…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Is your online life taking over your real-world connections? Join Lindsay McClane and me, Christopher Patchet LCSW, as we tackle the complex dynamics of digital interactions, spotlighting platforms like OnlyFans and the nuanced responsibilities they entail. We share personal reflections on our own screen time habits and offer strateg…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Can you imagine a world where a single platform can redefine personal finance and online presence while navigating the tumultuous waters of digital relationships? Our latest episode promises to unravel the complex tapestry of OnlyFans, tracing its rapid ascent during the pandemic and the financial reality for its creators. Through th…
…
continue reading

1
Unmasking the Tactics of Negging: Navigating Manipulation in Relationships
35:10
35:10
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
35:10Send us a text Discover the insidious tactics of negging and how they can quietly poison social interactions, as Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, unpacks this sneaky form of manipulation. We promise you'll walk away with a sharper understanding of how backhanded compliments are used to undermine confidence, masquerading as playful ban…
…
continue reading

1
The Psychology Behind Mixed Signals and Romantic Boundaries
41:52
41:52
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
41:52Send us a text Ever wondered why the "nice guy" often finishes last in relationships? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we unravel the complex balance between safety and excitement that women seek from men. Through personal stories and professional insights, we take a closer look at the misunderstood concept of safety and how it can someti…
…
continue reading

1
Crap or No Cap: Spotting Fake News Online
59:17
59:17
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
59:17Send us a text Unlock the secrets to discerning fact from fiction in the chaotic realm of online information! Join us as we sit down with Very Special Guest Leslie McClane, LPC, alongside our host Lindsay McClane and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, for a compelling discussion on navigating the ethics of social media content. Leslie, with her vas…
…
continue reading

1
Burnstock Part II Cruising to a Better Festival
39:43
39:43
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
39:43Send us a text Ever wondered how two music events could offer such contrasting experiences? This episode takes you deep into the chaos and communal spirit of music festivals. We start by recounting the horrifying events of Woodstock 99, where chaos reigned and safety measures fell disastrously short. Then, we shift gears to the heartwarming communi…
…
continue reading

1
From Peace and Love to Chaos: Unveiling the Dark History of Woodstock 99
43:45
43:45
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
43:45Send us a text How did a celebration of peace and love turn into a chaotic disaster? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we uncover the turbulent history of Woodstock festivals, from the iconic Woodstock '69 that defined a generation with artists like Jimi Hendrix and Janis Joplin, to the unruly and rebellious Woodstock '94 featuring acts like Gre…
…
continue reading

1
Cultural Norms and the Paralysis of Inaction
49:05
49:05
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
49:05Send us a text What would you do if you witnessed someone in distress in public? This episode of the Toxic Cooking Show challenges you to rethink everything you know about the bystander effect and personal responsibility. This week Lindsay McClane with my co-host, Christopher Patchet, LCSW, we unravel the misconceptions surrounding the infamous Kit…
…
continue reading

1
Witnesses in Silence: The Dark Reality of the Bystander Effect
36:35
36:35
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
36:35Send us a text Why do people often stand by and do nothing during emergencies? Discover the unsettling truth behind the bystander effect, starting with the tragic and infamous Kitty Genovese case. We'll recount the chilling details of her 1964 murder and the media portrayal that claimed 38 witnesses did nothing to help. While later investigations r…
…
continue reading

1
Beyond the Jackpot: Gender, Money, and Marital Fates
56:18
56:18
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
56:18Send us a text Why do women double their chances of divorce after winning the lottery, while men are 30% more likely to tie the knot?" Join us as we dig into the surprising and often overlooked effects of financial windfalls on relationships. We explore the statistics and discuss the emotional disconnect that can arise when men focus on material fu…
…
continue reading

1
Unpacking the Financial Strain on Women in the Workforce
28:16
28:16
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
28:16Send us a text Why do female-dominated fields often require advanced degrees yet offer starting salaries comparable to jobs needing less formal education? In this episode, we promise to uncover the deep-rooted gender disparities in career salaries by examining the educational requirements and initial pay scales of male-dominated and female-dominate…
…
continue reading

1
Bang Maids: Here's Some Outdated Gender Stereotypes For You
45:40
45:40
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
45:40Send us a text Can traditional gender roles be the hidden root of toxic relationships?" On this thought-provoking episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McLean and Christopher Patchett, LCSW, wrap up their deep dive into toxic archetypes by shedding light on the often-overlooked concept of "bang maids." These women juggle domestic chores and se…
…
continue reading

1
Homemaking or Hatemaking: Unmasking the Trad Wife Agendas
57:18
57:18
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
57:18Send us a text Can the allure of a perfectly baked sourdough starter lead you into the clutches of far-right ideologies? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we navigate the seemingly wholesome world of the "trad wife" movement, a growing online trend that romanticizes a return to 1950s domesticity and traditional gender roles. Lindsay McClan…
…
continue reading

1
Dissecting the Cult of Controversial Influencers
59:00
59:00
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
59:00Send us a text This week we take a look at giving the spotlight to the "influencers" of social media that, despite having a message of toxic outlooks, continue to have a platform that only grows. We dive deep into Gypsy Rose, (no longer a doctor) Jordan Peterson, and Andrew (tater tot) Tate. We look at the messages they prove and talk about how the…
…
continue reading

1
Pick Me Girls, NLOGs, and Toxic Femineity
41:34
41:34
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
41:34Send us a text Have you ever caught yourself vying for attention in a way that makes you cringe in hindsight? Well, we've all been there, and this episode, Lindsay McLean, along with Christopher Patchet, are pulling back the curtain on the social labyrinth of the "pick me girl", right from its roots in the playground dynamics of early girlhood. We …
…
continue reading
Send us a text Have you ever witnessed the struggle many men face when it comes to sharing their deepest emotions, even with those they hold dear? This week we have a revelatory discussion that peels back the layers of why men often bottle up their feelings of sadness or depression. We take a look at factors that set up the stage to repressing men'…
…
continue reading

1
Alpha Widows and the Quest for High-Status Love
38:13
38:13
Play later
Play later
Lists
Like
Liked
38:13Send us a text Ever found yourself chuckling at the wisdom buried within Urban Dictionary? That's where we kick things off, unraveling the fabric of 'alpha widows' and 'hypergamy' with humor yet a keen eye on their serious repercussions on modern dating and self-worth. Our latest episode peels back the layers of these potent social dynamics, as we …
…
continue reading
Send us a text Last week we talked about pretty privilege. This week we look at the total other end of the spectrum, the forgotten fuglies. Why are we, your lovely hosts, coining the term "the forgotten fuglies"? Well, apparently, unlike the pretty people that have all the research on their mental health, social ranks, and acceptabilities in the wo…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Pretty privilege brings nothing but advantages to someone who has conventional attractiveness, right? There are the advantages of free drinks, easier to find a partner. But, with pretty privilege comes the unprivileges of unwanted attention, and over-looked mental health problems. This week we dive into the good, the bad, and the ugl…
…
continue reading
Send us a text A wonderful night at a father daughter dance. Dad gets dressed up to take his daughter out for dinner. Daughter puts on a nice dress to spend time with her father. How could we possibly add this as an ingredient to our toxic soup? Well, how about making the theme of the entire night on the daughter's virginity? That's right! Purity B…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Gaslighting, it has become one of those terms that is starting to lose meaning due to everyone calling out gaslighting one everything. If someone lies. People calls out that it is gaslighting. If someone is being manipulative. People calls out that it is gaslighting. However, actual gaslighting is much much more serious and we will e…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Looking at the friend zone. What is it? Where did the name come from? We look at this, and more importantly, can the friend zone be harmful? and if yes to whom can this be harmful for? The one who is zoned? The one who is zoning? both? Let's dive into the toxic meanings that is the friend zone.…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Moving away from the toxic Alpha male to the opposite end of the spectrum. We talk about "the simp". Are they just the nice guys? Where did the name come from? How do these Simps affect the people around them and how do they affect themselves?By Christopher D Patchet, LCSW Lindsay McClane
…
continue reading
Send us a text This week we discuss women trends that have been featured on tiktok including A4 challenge, and goldfish in the collarbone (yuck) challenge. We dive into body images over the years from the tube like body of the flapper girls in the 1920's to the present "thigh gap" and "hip dips".By Christopher D Patchet, LCSW Lindsay McClane
…
continue reading
Send us a text Last week we talked about three different cases that lead to murder. But where is the blame placed? Does it go to the me engaging in the toxic behaviors, or does the blame go to the women that are thriving off the toxic behaviors.By Christopher D Patchet, LCSW Lindsay McClane
…
continue reading
Send us a text Taking a look at three cases that ended in murders. A young woman who grew up poor finds a self-made millionaire. Started a sexual relationship, in order to give a crush from the past the illusion that she turned her life around.A struggling B-Instagram model meets a psychiatrist willing to give her the A celebrity lifestyle she alwa…
…
continue reading
Send us a text We all know the toxic male, but what about the toxic female? Who is she? While not as flamboyant or ever-present on social media as the toxic male, you've probably met her out in the wild. Our topic for this week breaks down the different ways in which woman can be labeled toxic and why.…
…
continue reading
Send us a text "Alpha male" - just uttering this gets people on every side of the issue up in arms, shouting their viewpoint. But where did this term come from, and what or who is it actually referring to? This week we take a quick dive into the history of the term as well as discuss what we really think these men should be called. For More Informa…
…
continue reading
Send us a text Hi and welcome to our podcast, the... uh... what are we called again? We're Chris and Lindsay a.k.a. Dad and the Best Daughter Ever, and while we've known each other for over a decade we're still new to podcasting. Get to know us as we stumble through our first ever show and talk about what we hope to achieve with this show.…
…
continue reading