Best Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education Podcasts (2025)

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EP437 - Tell Me What You Want: Tips for Talking About Sex 43:47

3h ago43:47

43:47

Welcome to Episode 437 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Brittany Steffen, LMFT, who speaks to me about how couples can navigate and deepen their sexual communication. In this episode, Brittany and I discuss the kinds of conversations couples should be having but often aren’t, especially when it comes to sex. We talk about …

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Women Are Spaghetti, Men Are Waffles, and Therapists Who Smoke Pot 59:12

5h ago59:12

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Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.c…

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Firing Clients and Taking Too Much Care of Yourself 1:07:20

20h ago1:07:20

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Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How do you navigate a client that makes you feel unsafe? 23:22 Why do people under express how they feel? 32:37 Do I take care of myself too much? 43:28 Are you meeting your …

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Psychology Myths (2016 Rerun) 6:05

2d ago6:05

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Paulette Perhach talk about psychology myths. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https:/…

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Groomers, Turmeric, and Bigots 1:02:44

3d ago1:02:44

1:02:44

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Teaching sex-ed and weaponizing language 13:11 Is it appropriate to teach minors about complex sexual behaviors? 21:55 Where do I find a sex therapist? 27:00 Gifts fo…

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Lack of Self (2019 Rerun) 4:29

4d ago4:29

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Dr. Kirk Honda talks about lack of self. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/con…

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EP436 - How to Have a Sex Party 33:34

4d ago33:34

33:34

Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative whe…

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Hot Craps, Oral Fixation, and Erotic Transference 1:04:41

5d ago1:04:41

1:04:41

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Fan gifts & Bob's bathroom update 11:49 Why are oral fixations so common? 23:04 Is it common to experience erotic transference from a client? 39:34 What does success look lik…

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Politically Incorrect Psychology Terms 1:36:37

8d ago1:36:37

1:36:37

Dr Kirk Honda explores a few psychology terms that are considered problematic. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Why do words change? 08:00 Renaming institutions & the language of populations 17:47 The change of language in LGBTQ+ 26:54 How has "histrioni…

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Borderline Personality Disorder (Deep Dive) (2015 Rerun) 8:15

9d ago8:15

8:15

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on borderline personality disorder. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://ww…

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Female Pedophile Interview 1:03:03

13d ago1:03:03

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Dr Kirk Honda interviews “Kay” about being a female non-offending pedophile and about being a child abuse survivor. For more info on Virped: https://virped.org/ This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Kay 01:30 When did Kay realize she was attracted…

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Adoption (2016 Rerun) 7:54

14d ago7:54

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Dr. Kirk Honda talks about adoption. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact…

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EP435 - Successful Threesomes: How to Have and Get One 31:55

11d ago31:55

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Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn, a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care. In our conversation, we explore the di…

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Sleep Training and Attachment 1:38:13

15d ago1:38:13

1:38:13

Dr Kirk Honda explains the fundamentals of sleep training and parenting in general. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introduction to sleep training 5:10 Cry-it-out method 09:01 Ferber method 12:34 Fading method 19:38 Am I harming my child? 27:24 Overly p…

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Gripes, Cybertrucks, and Pseudoscience 57:00

18d ago57:00

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Dr Kirk and Humberto rant about their Gripes of Wrath! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Cybertruck gripes 12:34 Terrible screenwriting 24:15 Favorite animated movies 36:31 Is blue light pseudoscience? 49:44 Renewing prescriptions 53:38 Gifts from Layla f…

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Unethical Diagnosing (2016 Rerun) 17:31

19d ago17:31

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Dr. Kirk Honda talks about unethical diagnosing This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.…

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Theoretical Orientation and the Relationship 1:16:32

20d ago1:16:32

1:16:32

Dr Kirk Honda lectures about therapists’ theory of change and the crucial components of an effective therapeutic relationship. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's theoretical approach? 15:45 How do I determine my theoretical orientation? …

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The Psychology of Elliot Rodger (2014 Rerun) 2:44:09

21d ago2:44:09

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[Rerun] Kirk provides an analysis of the psychology of Elliot Rodger, the UCSB mass killer. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSea…

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EP434 - How to Give a Life-Changing Prostate Orgasm 40:37

18d ago40:37

40:37

Welcome to Episode 434 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Rain DeGrey, who speaks to me about the world of prostate massage and milking - what it is, how it works, and the deeper cultural and psychological barriers we often encounter around anal play, particularly for men. In our conversation, Rain breaks down the difference…

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Make Up Sex and Animal Ethics 1:17:03

22d ago1:17:03

1:17:03

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Why might someone engage in make up sex? 15:35 Why doesn't someone like hugging? 27:06 Postal shooting 34:15 Why aren't more people vegan? 46:07 What makes an effective vet? Beco…

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Political Doomscrolling 40:07

25d ago40:07

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Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about coping with the current political doom. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 The current political landscape 28:01 Does it help to talk about it aloud? 35:40 Living with abroad with a host family Become a member: https://www.y…

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Helicopter Parenting (2016 Rerun) 1:29:04

26d ago1:29:04

1:29:04

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Rebecca Bloom talk about helicopter parenting. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https:…

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Trauma Dumping (Deep Dive) 21:54

27d ago21:54

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Dr Kirk Honda provides a lecture and critique about the concept of trauma dumping. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 00:44 What do people think trauma dumping is? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join…

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A Therapist Has Sex With His Client (2016 Rerun) 48:53

28d ago48:53

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Rebecca Bloom about a listener who had sex with her therapist. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psychology…

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EP433 - Sexual Pleasure: Your Guide to Stronger Orgasms 40:03

27d ago40:03

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Welcome to Episode 433 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Anna Lee, the CEO and co-founder of Lioness, who speaks to me about the intersection of pleasure, science, and innovation - and how we can redefine the way we understand and experience orgasms. In this episode, Anna shares her fascinating journey from working in big t…

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Adolescence (Netflix 2025) - Therapist Reacts 1:40:31

29d ago1:40:31

1:40:31

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to Adolescence (Netflix 2025). This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 The beginning of Adolescence & the assessment 38:38 Toxic masculinity as the solution 1:02:12 Is the depiction of the clinical psychologist accurate? 1:32:22 Summarizing…

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Transference, Contraindication, and Sharing Art 56:43

1M ago56:43

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Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What does the end of a good therapeutic relationship look like? 04:44 Does there have to be conflict for progress in therapy? 15:22 Do I have to meet an ex-client to receive their fee…

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Narrative Therapy (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun) 1:58

1M ago1:58

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about narrative therapy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinse…

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Stop Having Sex With Clients 1:10:07

1M ago1:10:07

1:10:07

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca review ethical cases. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 01:37 Can clients be friends with their therapists? 18:06 My therapist is pseudo-family 38:50 Having an affair with my ex-therapist 1:06:47 Lady Gaga & self-car…

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Psychedelic Assisted Therapy (2020 Rerun) 1:41:16

1M ago1:41:16

1:41:16

[Rerun] Can psychedelics be used to help people? What’s the science? Expert and researcher, Elizabeth Nielson, explains the science and how we know what we know. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2…

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EP432 - The Dick Whisperer: Does Size Really Matter 50:33

1M ago50:33

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Welcome to Episode 432 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by William Moore, who speaks to me about his incredible journey from LGBTQ+ advocacy to pioneering innovations in male enhancement procedures. In this powerful episode, William shares his story of growing up in rural Alabama and eventually becoming a national LGBTQ+ righ…

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Oscars, Alien Franchise, and Robert Crumb 1:24:04

1M ago1:24:04

1:24:04

Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about movies. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 On Cinema at the Cinema journey 06:59 Oscar results & reactions 33:47 Why did Joker: Folie à Deux get bad reviews? 39:49 How do the Alien movies rank? 58:29 Crumb Become a member: h…

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Loli Porn and Star Wars Poly 1:07:15

1M ago1:07:15

1:07:15

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattl…

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Piaget and Child Development (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun) 1:47:34

1M ago1:47:34

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about Jean Piaget and his research on child development. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psycholog…

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Therapist Unpopular Opinions 1:43:27

1M ago1:43:27

1:43:27

Dr Kirk and Bob discuss a Reddit thread regarding the unpopular opinions of therapists. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 "I hate DBT" 05:22 "CEUs are a scam" 20:52 "Only serious rest cures burnout" 33:56 "Not every kid needs a 'fix'" 1:01:33 Bob's bathro…

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Suing a counselor (2017 Rerun) 11:59

1M ago11:59

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Bob Goettle about a counselor who got sued successfully. (Intro) This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/Psycholo…

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EP431 - Sexual Biohacking: Enhance Your Performance 45:16

1M ago45:16

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Welcome to Episode 431 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Susan Bratton as we explore the fascinating world of sexual biohacking—how we can extend our sexual vitality and pleasure throughout our lives. Susan is an expert in sexual wellness and longevity, and she shares valuable insights on how we can enhance our "sex span" …

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Politically Problematic Friends, Toxic Masculinity, and Love Frugality 1:07:54

1M ago1:07:54

1:07:54

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Humberto's thoughts on Emilia Perez 03:54 Deep dive relevancy 09:25 Can I be friends with different beliefs? 23:43 Dating and approaching with empathy 30:44 How has our so…

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Adam Nimoy's Life with a Vulcan Father 47:48

2M ago47:48

47:48

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Adam Nimoy about his new book about growing up with a distant, alcoholic father: Leonard Nimoy. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Adam Nimoy & "The Most Human: Reconciling with My Father"16:07 Taking inventory & choosi…

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Malpractice and Incompetence (2016 Rerun) 1:38

2M ago1:38

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[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda presents a case of malpractice. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinse…

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Therapy Termination, ACOA, and Couple Therapy 46:14

2M ago46:14

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Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How important are goodbyes? 12:35 ACOA & butler syndrome fallibility 29:34 How do you know if a family is ready for couples therapy? Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/…

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Stanford Prison Experiment (2016 Rerun) 1:15:33

2M ago1:15:33

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[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the famous Stanford prison experiment of 1971. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:…

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EP430 - Pain and Pleasure: Exploring Needle Play 27:40

2M ago27:40

27:40

Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lynn Lohide, a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it. In our conversation, L…

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My License Complaint and Other Legal Matters 2:00:29

2M ago2:00:29

2:00:29

Dr Kirk Honda talks with Frances Schopick, JD, MSW about his license complaint and other legal matters. Disclaimers: This information in this presentation is for educational and informational purposes only. This presentation does not form an attorney/client relationship, or provide, constitute, or substitute for legal or clinical advice, advocacy, …

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Loving Therapists, Narcissistic Clients, and God Transference 1:01:47

2M ago1:01:47

1:01:47

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Can therapists tell their clients they love them? 21:36 Why isn't my therapist challenging me in therapy? 28:49 Treating narcissistic clients 45:31 What is transference in th…

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Grief Theory (Deep Dive) #2 (Your Emails) (2020 Rerun) 1:24:38

2M ago1:24:38

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: htt…

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Reviewing Movies of 2024 2:32:45

2M ago2:32:45

2:32:45

Dr Kirk and Collin Miller review movies from 2024. 00:00 Calling in with Collin Miller 00:35 Second place films 24:11 Most controversial rankings 59:14 Movies at the bottom of the list 1:21:44 5 stars 1:27:11 6 stars 1:28:50 AI in films 1:42:21 7 stars 1:51:57 8 stars 2:04:24 Dr. Kirk's Number 1 2:07:25 Collin's Top 15 2:21:44 Collin's Number 1 2:2…

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Grief Theory (Deep Dive) #1 (2020 Rerun) 1:28

2M ago1:28

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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: htt…

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EP429 - Asking For It: BDSM Bound 36:02

2M ago36:02

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Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen, who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, commun…

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Bad Therapists and Eye Contact 1:01:25

2M ago1:01:25

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Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Eagles Super Bowl win 02:35 Can clients question their therapist? 33:08 Dr. Kirk's pet peeve of discernment counseling 40:02 Is eye contact in therapy important? 43:44 Am I a…

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