Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast ...
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A Date With Darkness podcast discusses the impact of narcissistic abuse and other relationship wounds on your well-being. This podcast provides tips for breaking free from relationships with narcissists and other unhealthy relationship patterns so that you can begin your healing journey, reclaim your independence and sanity, feel confident and know your worth, break toxic cycles, and create the healthy loving relationships that you deserve.
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EP 549: I Didn’t Trust Love… Until I Healed My Disorganized Attachment
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43:42🥳 Episode Links: Apply to the E.S.L. Program Here Get Access to the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In this episode, I dive deep into the complexities of disorganized attachment—how it develops from inconsistent caregiving and relational trauma, and how it can make intimacy both desired and …
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EP 548: Healing Childhood Trauma to Finally Feel Safe in Love
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36:42🥳 EPISODE LINKS: Join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program Founding Members Discounted Rate: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Relationship Program Check out today’s episode on YouTube: Dr. Morgan TV In this solo episode, I explore how unhealed childhood trauma shapes our adult relationships, often showing up as fear of abandonment, ove…
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EP 547: From Pain to Empowerment: Zoë's Healing Journey
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1:02:31🥳 EPISODE LINKS: Join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program Founding Members Discounted Rate: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Relationship Program Check out today’s episode on YouTube: Dr. Morgan TV In this episode, I sit down with ESL Relationship Program graduate, Zoë , to talk about her powerful transformation. From navigating child…
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BONUS EPISODE: Interview with Kathrine From Almost Bride to a Happy Mama: Katherine’s Story of Rebuilding Self-Trust
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49:44🥳 EPISODE LINKS: Join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program Founding Members Discounted Rate: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Relationship Program Check out today’s episode on YouTube: Dr. Morgan TV This episode is a deeply personal one. I’m interviewing Katherine Rose Woller, author of the best-selling book, Calling it Off: Memoir of …
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EP 546: Why Successful Women Struggle with Anxious Attachment (and What You Can Do About It)
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38:41🥳 EPISODE LINKS: Join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program Founding Members Discounted Rate: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Relationship Program Check out today’s episode on YouTube: Dr. Morgan TV I’ve coached hundreds of high-achieving women, and I see the same pattern over and over again: career success, and chaos in love. In this …
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EP 545: 10 Things You Quit Doing When You Become Securely Attached
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23:16🥳 EPISODE LINKS: Founding Members Discounted Rate: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Relationship Program When you are becoming securely attached you may realize that you don’t know what secure attachment looks like in practice. In today’s episode, we discuss the journey of moving from insecure attachment styles to secure attachment in relationship…
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EP 544: Unlocking the Real You: How Human Design Can Transform Your Relationships with Erin Claire Jones
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45:43🥳 Episode Links: Apply to E.S.L. Group Program Here Get Access to the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In today’s powerful episode of the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast, I’m joined by the amazing Erin Claire Jones—a Human Design expert, author, and guide who's on a mission to help you understan…
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EP 543: Is it a Trauma Bond or real Compatibility? : 5 Key Questions
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32:18🥳 Episode Links: Apply to E.S.L. Group Program Here Get Access to the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast Are you in a relationship that truly supports your growth—or are you stuck in a cycle that feels familiar but leaves you emotionally depleted? In this episode, I’m walking you through the es…
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EP 542: 5 Surprising Truths About Why Smart Women Stay Single
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32:52🥳 Episode Links: Apply to E.S.L. Group Program Here Get Access to the Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why so many high-achieving, successful women still feel stuck when it comes to love. If you’ve ever thought, “What am I doing wrong?”—this…
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EP 541: Should I Stay or Go: How to Trust Your Self in Love
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28:01In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast, I’m diving deep into one of the most difficult and important questions we face in love: Should I stay or should I leave? I walk you through five essential considerations to help you evaluate your relationship from a place of clarity and secure attachment. I break down how to navigate conflict in …
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EP 540: Understanding Attachment Styles: A Roadmap to Secure Love
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35:21✨ Start your journey to secure attachment here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In this episode, I break down the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and how they show up in our relationships. I walk you through the core wounds and behaviors of each style, and share what it takes to move toward sec…
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EP 539: Healing Parent Wounds for Healthier Relationships
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24:26✨ Start your journey to secure attachment here: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In this episode of Let’s Get Vulnerable, I’m diving deep into how our early relationships with parents shape the way we show up in love and life. I share why it's so important to recognize and heal our parent wounds — even if we didn’t experience “obvious…
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EP 538: Understanding Avoidant Attachment: Myths, Origins, and Healing
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26:03✨ For a deeper dive on attachment styles: . https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV In this episode of Let’s Get Vulnerable, we explore avoidant attachment style — breaking down where it comes from, common myths, and how it shows up in relationships. Inside today’s episode: Why avoidantly attached i…
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Rediscovering Self After Trauma; Featuring Lyvonne Briggs
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49:19Welcome to the eighth and last episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this episode, Lyvonne Briggs and I dive into the complexities of trauma, healing, and liberation. From confronting family secrets to decolonizing spirituality and reclaiming sexuality, this conversation offers insights on breaking free from generational cycles and finding …
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EP 537: Are You “Crazy” in Love, or is it Your Protest Behaviors?
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28:04🥳 EPISODE LINKS: LAST CHANCE TO JOIN THE E.S.L. PROGRAM: Click Here to Apply GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV ✨ For a deeper dive on attachment styles: . https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast Inside today’s episode we are talking about the sneaky behaviors that sabotage your love life: protest behaviors. Episode Takeaways: Ever s…
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EP 536: How to Rebuild Your Self-Worth (No Matter What Relational Trauma You’ve Experienced in the Past)
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23:37🥳 EPISODE LINKS: LAST CHANCE TO JOIN THE E.S.L. PROGRAM: Click Here to Apply GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV ✨ For a deeper dive on attachment styles: . https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast In this episode, we’re exploring the foundation of every healthy relationship: self-worth. From childhood wounds to emotional abuse, so man…
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EP 535: The Five Signs of Chronic Relational Trauma
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21:59Start your healing journey: https://www.drmorgancoaching.co/privatepodcast Chronic relational trauma can affect anyone—yes, even the high-achieving, successful woman who “has it all together.” In this episode, we’re unpacking what that trauma can look like, how it shows up in your daily life, and how to begin healing. Here’s what we cover: How emot…
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The Hidden Costs of Codependency and How to Heal; Featuring Shaketa Robinson-Bruce, LPC
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28:38Welcome to the seventh episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this episode, Shakita Robinson Bruce, a licensed professional counselor, delves into the complexities of codependency and how childhood trauma, boundary injuries, and cultural expectations shape our relationships as adults. She shares insights on recognizing codependency, its impa…
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EP 534: The Three Hidden Blocks Sabotaging Your Love Life
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22:45🥳 EPISODE LINKS: LAST CHANCE TO JOIN THE E.S.L. PROGRAM: Click Here to Apply GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV Inside of today’s episode: Why simply understanding your patterns isn’t enough—and how subconscious beliefs and nervous system dysregulation may still be running the show How your energy and personal standards directly shape who y…
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EP 533: A Guide to Better Sex with Special Guest, Shaun Galanos
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46:11EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz I’m so excited to welcome Shaun Galanos, love coach and sex ed…
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Attachment in Relationships; featuring Simone Sanders, MSW, RSW
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41:29Welcome to the sixth episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this heartfelt episode, Simone shares her journey into therapy, driven by the need for more representation. She expertly discusses emotional regulation, the roots of attachment starting with our caregivers, and the complexities of cutting people off. A calm and insightful conversati…
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EP 532: Why Affairs Happen (According to Your Attachment Style)
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29:54🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Today’s episode is incredibly important for understanding WH…
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EP 531: Why Am I Still Lonely? Understanding Loneliness Through the Attachment Style Lens
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26:37🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAhttps://amzn.to/4eRFkUGB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Let’s get honest—loneliness is someth…
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Is Racism a Form of Narcissistic Abuse; Featuring Robyn Mourning
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45:12Welcome to the fifth episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this powerful episode, we unpack the everyday realities of racial microaggressions and macroaggressions. Join us as we explore the psychological toll, the complexities of code-switching, and the broader societal impacts. A must-listen conversation on empathy, awareness, and resilien…
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EP 530: Healing Body Image, Embracing Authenticity, and Rewriting Our Inner Narrative with Jamie Sea
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1:09:48🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAhttps://amzn.to/4eRFkUGB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz In this episode, I’m joined by the in…
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EP 529: Love, Lost and Found: Nikki and Randy’s Journey to Secure Attachment
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1:05:50🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz On today’s episode of the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast, I am…
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Breaking Free from Situationships; featuring Ibbie Aromolaran
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47:45Welcome to the fourth episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. Join Ibby (@sickofsituationship), a dating coach and therapist, as she unpacks attachment styles, "situationships," and how to break free from toxic relationship patterns. Discover how to develop secure connections and navigate the impact of social media on your love life. Watch the v…
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EP 528: Molly Unfiltered: What Really Went Down on Love Is Blind Season 8
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1:00:23🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz You are in for a TREAT! Molly Rose Mullaney from Netflix’s S…
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EP 527: The Secret to Secure Slow-Burn Love: How to Take it Slow for Lasting Connection
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21:21🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz This is one of my most asked questions: how do I slow myself…
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Unmasking Abuse Understanding Domestic Violence and Control; Featuring Krista Verrastro, MA, RDT/BCT
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36:54Welcome to the third episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this episode, we dive into the nuances of identifying abuse and understanding the dynamics of domestic violence. Learn about Johnson’s typology and the Power and Control Wheel, crucial tools for recognizing patterns of manipulation and control. Whether you're a survivor or supportin…
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EP 526: From Hopeless to Empowered: The 5 Mindset Shifts That Will Transform Your Dating Life
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44:52🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Inside today’s episode: Tired of dating disappointments? Lea…
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EP 525: Love is Blind Season 8 Recap: Unveiling Rumors, Scandals & Attachment Styles
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42:26🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Inside today’s episode: Values, compatibility, and heart cen…
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Trauma and Attachment; featuring Dr. Diane Poole Heller
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57:24Welcome to the second episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. Join us for an enlightening episode featuring the wonderful Dr. Diane Poole Heller. With her warm and positive energy, Dr. Heller delves into trauma resolution and attachment theories, shedding light on how early family dynamics shape our attachment styles. Learn about the importance …
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EP 524: How to Be Dateable: Unlocking Big Dateable Energy with Julie & Yue
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47:55🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz You are in for a treat with today’s episode! I’m joined by d…
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EP 523: Securely Attached Conflict: Your Easy to Follow Framework
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36:19🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Todays’ episode is brought to you by popular demand! You ask…
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Repeating cycles in relationships; Featuring Beverly Engel, LMFT
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1:11:21Beverly Engel, LMFT and I discuss her upcoming book "Put Your Past in the Past". We discuss why you repeat cycles and behaviors in your relationship, dissociation, triggers, themes around sexual abuse, and how to stop repeating patterns. To purchase Beverly Engel's book, visit here Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email ques…
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The Absent Father Effect On Daughters, featuring Susan Schwartz, PhD
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53:34Welcome to the first episode of the series “The Lost Episodes”. In this insightful episode, we explore the profound impact of absent fathers on daughters, touching on both conscious and unconscious effects. Susan Schwartz, PhD eloquently unpacks how absence manifests in various aspects of life. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkne…
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EP 522: Dating Red Flags: Floodlighting, Future Faking & More Toxic Patterns You Need to Know
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54:40🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Inside today’s episode: The six toxic dating trends you need…
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🥳 EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program GO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TV LOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Today we are diving into the overlap between ADHD and a dysr…
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In this solocast, I discuss ways that narcissists act out during funerals and times of grief. From hiding wills, attempting to take power of attorney, to keeping you out of the loop when a loved one passes, you should expect the unexpected. It's also not out of character for narcissists to make a scene at the funeral. Watch the video podcast on You…
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