https://anchor.fm/coachlara/subscribe A Spiritual Coach, Counsellor and Inspirational Speaker, COACHLARA speaks on Parenting, Servant-Leadership, and Spiritual Wellbeing. Lara supports her clients young and old, through the Difficult Journeys of Life. She helps them Discover God in their journeys and through the Pursuit of Divine Purpose. ------ COACHLARA's Mantra: LIFE HAS NO MEANING WITHOUT PURPOSE.....the Strength to Live and Thrive is hidden in God's Divine Purpose for your life. Find it ...
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What's The Friendship With Your Child About?
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30:34Don't put the cart before the horse.... You can' t be friends with your child until you have first become their parent. What will that friendship be about? What would be the point of reference? ------- If you parent right when they are young, however unpopular that makes you in their eyes, then you have something to be friends about when they becom…
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Where Has Common Sense Gone? ----- Have "Human Rights" replaced Common Sense or have parents become derelict in their duty to "train up" their children? Parents, are we neglecting our duty to "train up" or is this generation of children becoming difficult to raise?
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"THEY'VE LOST THE PLOT!" - Kofo Adewunmi Watch this clip of my interview with The Sage - a Wise Woman, Pastor and seasoned parent of 3 young adults. I've had the privilege of knowing and working with Kofo (Sis K, I call her), for over 20 years. Now, I am ready to share her rare gift of knowledge and wisdom with my world. Full interview coming next …
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Multitasking doesn't mean they are clever; it means they are DISTRACTED!
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Do you suspect anything? ------- If you did, would you cover it up and pray that your child gets over it, or would you get professional help?
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Memories That Don't Go Away ------------ I can't help wonder what would have happened if I'd told my sister what her boyfriend did to me. I also now play back in my head what my dad would have done if I told him about the "Man of God" he brought into our house. Would they both have given me a good lashing or would they have thrown those men out of …
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Why Don't They Come Forward When It Happens? ------- Listen to what others had to say: Why children don't report abuse; Why women keep quiet for years.....even forever about harassment. Let me know what you think, and feel free to share your own stories.💖 Blessings! CL
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Abuse at home is a most destructive experience on a child's mind. But for God, some children, adults never make it back. Listen on and do please drop your comments. Happy Parenting, CL
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Sexual Harassment_Lessons From the Natasha/Akpabio Story
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12:40The Natasha/Apkabio story brought out experiences I had buried for years. But now it's time to tell it all. It's going to be impromptu and it's going to be raw. Follow on! CL
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Sexual Harassment_Lessons From the Natasha/Akpabio Story
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10:44The story is everywhere, even at the UN. But like every trending story, are we soon going to get tired of it and move on to the next big story or will we use this story to open up the biggest issue plaquing women in Nigeria and all around the world? Could we as Mothers learn from this story and use it to retool ourselves? If we can't change or infl…
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LET US PRAY: Prayer For Nigeria - By Kofo Adewunmi (MRL)
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4:23The Nigeria elections are just a couple of weeks away, there is economic and social crises. Join us in praying for the Mercy of God upon Nigeria. May God have mercy on our "leaders". May evil abate and may righteousness prevail in the land.
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"Is it really a New Year"? That's the question I find myself asking every 31st day of December when I see people "loose their heads" over what we deem a "New Year". Look around you and try to answer the question: "Is it really a New Year"? The obvious answer now and at every turn of the calendar is, "NO!!" The Year only becomes "New" for you if and…
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Now this is my Son - my first son, playing the "Parental Coach". Listen in to hear what he had to say and why this is important for you as a Parent in this century. ----- We can only raise leaders by empowering followers! Happy Parenting, CL
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Let's do it different this year. Listen and learn how to welcome the New Year - differently. Happy New Year! CL
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RAISING LEADERS - Spirituality and Your Children
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12:45It's Halloween Season! What are you telling your children about this season? How do you make a distinction between the Holy Spirit of God and the spirit behind this celebration? Listen to this podcast to learn how to keep it real and how shield your children from the spirit of witchcraft and divination.…
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How To Handle Sibling Rivalry (3) This episode is like "muddy water" splashing on every parent! Sorry, but there just was no way out of it. These children came to us as empty canvasses, we must take responsibility for what draw on them and what happens to them "on our watch!" ---- So here are a few questions as you listen: -What part of this "War" …
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How To Handle Sibling Rivalry---- Are the children to blame or could parents learn to do a better job of loving each child "equally"? Are you communicating with your children to create competition - intentionally or inadvertently. Could you be the cause of rivalry amongst your children? Listen to learn how you could begin to communicate with to ass…
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How To Handle Sibling Rivalry Amongst Your Children ----- It sometimes feels like "war" when siblings pull at each other and fight over their parents' love and attention. We often think they are fighting over stuff, but really what they’re fighting over is Mom and Dad's love and attention. They're trying to answer the question: "Who do they love th…
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LET US PRAY: How Not To Mourn - Prayer For Those Who Mourn - Pt 2
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14:41Mourning or Grief is the expression of deep sadness and pain over the loss of a loved one. It is perhaps the heaviest sense of loss anyone could go through. It takes you over - spirit, soul and body. While losing a loved one to death is on the highest spectrum of grief, we also experience a deep sense of grief over the end of a marriage, job and ot…
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Communicating with your teenagers or young adults can be difficult, but it becomes easier when you as the Parent are ready to make the necessary adjustments in the way to HEAR them and SPEAK to them. Listen to this Podcast and find out where you need to make the SHIFT in the way you communicate with your teens. ---- Please note the start of the rec…
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Why is Your Child Angry? Do you have something to do with it or is the anger coming from elsewhere? Listen to this podcast and find out. CL
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Why is Your Child Angry? Do you have something to do with it or is the anger coming from elsewhere? Listen to this podcast and find out. CL
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RL: Communicating With Your Teenagers - Pt 2
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13:03TEENAGERS - are perhaps the most difficult people to communicate with; and the reason is because they see things differently than we do. They have the body of adults, but the minds of children. It's a confusing stage of life and as parents, we must patiently help them wade through this stage of life without hurting their self-esteem even further. L…
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Listen to this interview with a young lady I worked with, Seun, whom Jesus visited on her hospital bed and healed of COVID.19. JESUS is our Healer and He is still healing today. Let this lady's experience encourage you to believe for your own healing today. Be Well in Jesus name!
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RAISING LEADERS: Communicating With Your Teenagers Pt1
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10:24TEENAGERS - are perhaps the most difficult people to communicate with; and the reason is because they see things differently than we do. They have the body of adults, but the minds of children. It's a confusing stage of life and as parents, we must patiently help them wade through this stage of life without hurting their self-esteem even further. W…
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LET US PRAY: How Not To Mourn - Prayer For Those Who Mourn_Pt 1
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9:27Though He slay me, yet will I TRUST HIM! (Job 13:15) God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted. (Matt 5:4)
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RAISING LEADERS: The Elect Lady & Her Sons!
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10:08The Elect Lady & Her Sons! You Mom, are the "Elect Lady" and the answer to who your children become is in you! But first, you must know where your power lies and how to exercise it. Listen to this podcast and join our Raising Leaders Prayer Meeting to learn how to exercise your power in the lives of your children Be Well! CL…
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RAISING LEADERS: How to Raise Your Children As Problem Solvers - Part 3
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9:44----- You won't always be there for your children! This is a reality every mother needs to face and remember while they are children are young. Listen to this podcast and learn how to gradually "cut the apron strings" - before it is too late - and you end up with a "GROWN-UP BABY!"
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RAISING LEADERS: How to Raise Your Children As Problem Solvers - Part 2
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12:19No one becomes a problem-solver without solving a problem. How are you preparing your children to solve their own problems. Until they master themselves, they cannot "master" (LEAD) others.
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RAISING LEADERS: How to Raise Your Children As Problem Solvers - Part 1
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9:20----- No one becomes a problem-solver without solving a problem. How are you preparing your children to solve their own problems. Until they master themselves, they cannot "master" (LEAD) others.
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FEAR ROBS US OF THE GIFT OF FAITH! But faith is the currency with which we receive from God!! Faith is what we release in exchange for what we want from Heaven. Conversely, fear is what attracts the evil that we don't want. If the devil wants to take what God has given you, including your life, he fills you with the spirit of fear. 2 Timothy 1:7 te…
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LET US PRAY - Prayer For Healing From COVID.19
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3:50We pray today for all who have been diagnosed with COVID.19 - everyone lying in a hospital bed - fighting for their lives. I know it's scary and lonely, but I want you to know you're not alone! Pray this prayer with me and know that I am continuing to pray for you. Hold fast to the faith in the finished work of Christ for you - For "by His Stripes,…
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Many struggle around the world today to feed and care for their loved ones. Let us pray for God to make a way for all who may have lost their jobs and having a hard time making ends meet. These are difficult times - let us lift one another up in prayer. BE WELL coachlara
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LET US PRAY - Prayer for Health Workers/Fronliners
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2:54We are at war and health workers are our soldiers. Join in praying for them and their families. Be Well! CL
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The world is unsettled and many have lost their peace and in fear of tomorrow. I bring you a prayer of peace. Let your heart rest in the Prince of Peace. Be Well! COACHLARA
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