Are you ready to take the steps necessary to thrive? Join us every episode as host Adam Gragg discusses what is holding us back and how to move forward with purpose, along the way developing healthy relationships and navigating life transitions while overcoming fear, stress and anxiety. Adam is a family therapist, mental health professional and life coach, helping individuals and organizations find the transformational clarity that unleashes hope. Live the life you want, the legacy you decide.
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178. Finding Balance: Purpose, Surrender, and Structure for a Fulfilling Life
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33:46Ready to leave burnout and chaos behind? Tune in to Episode 178 of the DYL Podcast where host Adam Gragg teams up with Legacy Coaches Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson for a lively, honest, and practical dive into the secret sauce of living a well-balanced life. Discover how purpose adds fuel to your happiness, why surrender is your superpower, and …
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#177. Three Strategic Decision-Making Tips Every Leader Needs for Clarity and Impact
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30:13Unlock the secret to fearless decision-making with Episode 177 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they blast through the myths of perfection and hesitation, serving up three sizzling tips to help you make strategic decisions with confidence. Struggling with analysis paralysis? Haunted…
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#176. The Power of Journaling: Leadership, Reflection, and Growth with Nick Bertram
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36:29Unlock the secret superpower of self-reflection with Episode 176 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Nick Bertram, a seasoned leader and four-year journaling enthusiast, as they explore the transformative magic of journaling. Discover how putting pen to paper doesn’t just organize your thoughts, but…
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#175. Four Ways Leaders Can Stop Giving Away Their Power and Take Charge of Their Legacy
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31:53Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijac…
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#174. Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down
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34:02Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence! Uncover the…
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#173. Unlocking Your Listening Superpower: How Leaders Build Connection and Confidence
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32:45Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life! Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of rea…
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#172. Grow a Pair: Real Stories of Facing Irrational Fears in Leadership
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#171. Mastering Time Management: How Leaders Make Every Minute Count
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36:36Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—Time Management! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antid…
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#170. Proving Them Wrong: 3 Strategies for Young Leaders
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1:04:08Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, …
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Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between. Ready to kick fear…
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#168. The Benefits of Being Curious as a Leader
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27:13Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation. Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Di…
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#167. Every Leader is Afraid, Great Leaders Act Anyway
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43:44Welcome to episode 167 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insec…
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#166. Three Smart Ways to Handle Difficult People and Be Yourself at Work
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29:53Tired of tiptoeing around drama at work, or at home? Unleash your authentic self and turn those “difficult” people into your greatest allies with Episode 166 of the DYL Podcast: “Be Yourself at Work.” Join legacy coach Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they crack the code on handling challenging relationships with empathy, humor, and…
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#165. Why Your Team Resists Goals and How to Fix It
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33:29Unlock your team’s true potential and blast through roadblocks in Episode 165 of the DYL Podcast: “Get Focused on Goals.” Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he gets real about what’s holding you (and your team) back from big achievements—and how to smash through resistance like a pro. With the witty and insightful Kelsey Torkelson by his side…
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#164. Effective Delegation: 3 Steps Every Leader Should Know
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22:28Unlock freedom and supercharge your success with Episode 164 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he bares all about his lifelong struggle with control and reveals the surprisingly simple art of Effective Delegation. Are you ready to let go, trust your team, and watch them – and yourself – flourish? Adam doesn’t just talk about delegation; h…
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#163. Decide with Clarity: 3 Steps to Better, Faster Decisions
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25:05Ready to escape the drama of tough choices? In Episode 163 of the DYL Podcast, "Decide with Clarity," Adam Gragg takes you on a whirlwind journey to fearless, faster, and razor-sharp decision making! From hiring dilemmas to family vacation conundrums, Adam spills the secrets to overcoming indecision anxiety so you can move boldly toward your goals.…
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#162: Three Keys to Energizing Your Workplace Meetings for Better Results
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25:04In today’s episode, "Energizing Workplace Meetings," host Adam Gragg dives into a topic we all have strong feelings about—workplace meetings. While most people dread them, Adam believes meetings don’t have to sap your energy. In fact, with just a few simple tweaks, any meeting can become something your team actually looks forward to. Drawing on his…
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#161: Leadership Lessons: Influence, Trust, and Action for Everyday Leaders
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46:30Unlock your inner leader with Episode 161 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they dive deep into the messy, exhilarating, and downright human side of leadership. Ever felt like you weren't cut out to lead? Think again! From conquering self-doubt and trusting your team to turning failure into fuel, this ep…
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#160: Travel Your Way to Self Confidence: Overcoming Fear of the Unknown
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51:22Are you (or your team) stuck in a rut, resisting change, or afraid to step outside your comfort zone? In this inspiring episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with his sister, renowned travel expert Erica Gragg, to explore how travel can be the ultimate catalyst for self-confidence and personal growth. Erica, co-owner …
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#159: Building Lasting Friendships: Steps to Create Meaningful Connections as an Adult
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28:32Ready to revolutionize your friendships and supercharge your life? In Episode 159 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how making new friends as an adult is easier—and more powerful—than you think! Forget awkward small talk and the myth that relationships are “just soft skills”—these connections fuel your happiness, open doors, and even boos…
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#158: Three Practical Steps to Stop Getting Defensive and Improve Your Relationships
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28:32Ever find yourself getting defensive—at work, at home, or even just scrolling through your texts? You’re not alone! In Episode 158 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals why defensiveness is sabotaging your connections, fueling drama, and draining your energy. Ready to put a stop to those knee-jerk reactions that keep you stuck? Discover three…
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#157: Transform Your Day: Using the Daily Action Worksheet for Mental Health and Growth
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21:50Unlock unstoppable progress in your life with Episode 157 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the secret weapon for resilience and growth: the Daily Action Worksheet. Discover how this simple, life-changing habit can ground you in gratitude, fuel your focus, and empower you to overcome any setback—even eviction notices! Adam shar…
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#156: Turning Setbacks Into Success: How to Dream Seven Times Bigger in Life and Business
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19:48Ready to break free from the ordinary and go seven times bigger with your life? Tune in to Episode 156 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg transforms an unexpected eviction notice into an empowering lesson in resilience, daring visions, and unstoppable momentum! Discover how setbacks—no matter how embarrassing—can launch you toward your true …
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#155: The Only Way to Confidence is Through Fear: 3 Principles
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26:20Ready to kick fear to the curb and finally feel confident—like, for real? Check out Episode 155 of the DYL Podcast, where Adam Gragg gets real about why waiting to feel ready is a trap and why the only way to true confidence is straight through the stuff that scares you. With relatable stories (including awkward dating moments and golf misadventure…
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#154: Positive Relationships Are Retention Strategy #1
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20:50Uncover the ultimate retention hack in Episode 154 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals why positive workplace relationships aren’t just nice-to-have—they’re your #1 strategy for keeping your team happy, engaged, and around for the long haul. Adam shares eye-popping stats (think 63% more likely to stay!), real-world stories, and t…
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#153: Unlock Clarity: Create Your Own Top 10 Questions Today
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18:25Unlock the secret to unforgettable conversations with Episode 153 of the DYL Podcast! Adam Gragg reveals how to transform awkward small talk into energizing, life-changing interactions. In this episode, you’ll uncover the power of crafting your personal Top 10 Questions list: a simple yet profound tool to break through anxiety, banish awkward silen…
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#152: My Best 3 Pieces of Relationship Advice
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14:59Unlock the ultimate relationship upgrade with Episode 152 of the DYL Podcast! Join host and legacy coach Adam Gragg as he distills his top three powerhouse tips for building better, bolder connections—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Ready to transform your relationships in just 15 minutes? Adam reveals why liking yourself changes every…
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Step into a drama-free life with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In Episode 151, you will be challenged to cut the chaos and reclaim your power in how to stay out of the drama. Discover the hidden ways drama sneaks into your daily life—from subtle gossip at work to family triangulation—and learn Adam’s three powerful keys to breaking free. U…
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Unlock the secret to deeper relationships and true personal growth with Episode 150 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he shares three transformative lessons on how to stop making it about yourself—and make every interaction richer, calmer, and more meaningful. In this milestone episode, Adam reveals how shifting your focus to others isn’t…
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#149: Seven Ways to Encourage Others: Start Building A Legacy Today (pt. 2)
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24:20Unlock the secrets to truly helping others with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg in Episode 149 as he dives into seven powerful ways you can make a real difference in the lives of your friends, family, co-workers, and even strangers. From breaking old patterns and facing tough emotions to building meaningful connections a…
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#148: Seven Ways to Encourage Others: Start Building a Legacy Today (pt.1)
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31:21Unleash the power of encouragement on the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In this episode Adam Gragg reveals seven transformational ways to uplift those around you. Discover how simple actions, like recommending a life-changing book or offering a genuine compliment, can drastically impact and empower your friends, family, and colleagues. With th…
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#147: Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise
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25:16Silence the chaos within and take control of your life with Episode 147 of the DYL Podcast. In this episode we will discuss how to Mastering the Art of Blocking Out Negative Noise in Your Life. Join Adam Gragg as he delves into the damaging effects of internal noise and how it can lead us astray. Discover the powerful techniques to identify and sil…
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#146. Transform Your Relationships with the DISC: Understanding Personality Styles for Better Connection
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48:23Unlock the potential of your relationships with Episode 146 of the DYL Podcast. Join host Adam Gragg as he delves into the transformative power of the DISC Personality Assessment. Discover how understanding different personality styles can enhance your connections with family, co-workers, or friends. Gain the tools to communicate effectively, minim…
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#145 Crush Anxiety For Good: Overcoming Challenges for a Fearless Life
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36:47Welcome to episode 145 of the DYL Podcast, where we're diving deep into one of life's biggest challenges: crushing anxiety for good. In this episode, Adam Gragg shares personal stories and insights into how anxiety can hold us back from experiencing life's full potential. He talks about how our brains often paint worst-case scenarios, leading us to…
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#144: The Courage to be Yourself: 3 Truths You want to Remember
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37:27In this episode #144: The Courage to be Yourself: Three Truths You want to Remember, Adam shares a personal story about a skiing trip that leads into a deeper exploration of self-awareness and insecurities, particularly regarding interactions with others. He talks about the importance of living courageously and being true to oneself without succumb…
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#143: Turning Fear into Courage: The Power of Brave Dialogues
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33:09In this episode, Adam dives into the art of having courageous conversations. Drawing from his experience as a Legacy coach and family therapist, Adam starts by sharing a personal story about a dating situation that reminded him of the importance of addressing tough topics head-on. Throughout the episode, he aims to provide listeners with three esse…
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Today we're wrapping up our 'Decide on 2025' series. I'm all about helping you find clarity and live your legacy this year. This time we are going to lean into being aware of your current mindset and emotions and how that impacts your day-to-day life. Expect a lot of real talk and actionable tips to set you up for success. Don't forget to reflect o…
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Today we're kicking off 2025 with purpose and direction. It's the time of the year for setting goals and making impactful changes. In this episode, I share more critical decisions that will help you shape a successful and growth-oriented year. We'll discuss connecting with others and focusing on helping others. Join me as we explore actionable step…
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As we transition into a new year, I know many of you are thinking about your future and what you want to change.. On this first part of our series we are going to cover some crucial steps to help you achieve personal and professional growth in the coming year. I'll delve into my own battles with fear and anxiety as I navigate significant life chang…
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#139: Making New Friends with Nick Bertram
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52:28Today we're exploring a topic that's especially relevant during the holiday season: Making New Friends. In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Nick. We'll talk about the challenges and rewards of building new friendships, the importance of vulnerability, and how investing in relationships can enrich your life. Along the way, you'll hear personal …
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Today I'm excited to dive into the topic of making new friends and rekindling old ones. Drawing from my 25 years as a coach, family therapist, and mental health professional, I'll share my personal experiences and offer actionable steps to strengthen your social connections. We'll discuss the importance of being vulnerable, letting go of control, a…
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Today we are going to get excited about your future. Over the years, I've faced my own fears and realized how vital it is to confront what holds us back if we want to live our legacy. In this episode, we explore how to overcome self-sabotage and addictive behaviors, and why having a clear vision for your future can transform your mental health and …
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Welcome to the Decide Your Legacy podcast! Today we're doing something a bit special. I’m diving into a live coaching session with Bryan, who’s facing some common but tough parenting challenges. Bryan’s got a 12-year-old son, and like many of us, he’s worried about how to prepare him for the real world. We'll talk about everything from overcoming f…
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Today we are going back to one of my favorite topics: overcoming fears. You’ll hear my personal experiences and struggles with fear, including a recent skydiving adventure. We discuss common social fears such as fear of failure, judgment, and rejection, and offer actionable steps to face and conquer these fears. We will also consider the damaging e…
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How much do you like yourself? On today’s episode, I’m sharing essential strategies for building self-esteem and self-respect. We'll discuss the importance of facing fears, taking 100% ownership of your life, and maintaining consistent self-care. Discover actionable steps to align your actions with your values, enhance your relationships, and live …
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Today we're examining why you want to change your mindset to foster personal growth and freedom. I've faced my own battles with fear and anxiety and learned the power of shifting one's mindset. In this episode, I'll share three compelling reasons to focus on changing your mindset, especially when you're stuck in negativity. We'll explore practical …
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Today we get into the transformative power of asking great questions. As someone who's battled a lifelong fear of rejection and anxiety, we’ll discuss how curiosity and meaningful inquiries have shaped my journey as a coach and therapist. There is great value in stepping outside your comfort zone, engaging with others, and building connections thro…
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Today we are going to cover the importance of making every 15 minutes count in our lives. We will discuss struggles with distraction and explore how small increments of time can lead to significant transformations. I explain how using 15-minute blocks productively can help in various life areas such as mental health, relationships, career, and pers…
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In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m going to tell you exactly why I don't like 'old people.' Now, I'm not talking about age; I'm talking about a mindset that refuses to grow, challenge itself, and embrace new experiences. I'll share my personal journey, including a recent skiing trip that tested my fears, and explain how the DCG …
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#129: Turning Life's Obstacles Into Opportunities
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23:57In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, I’m opening up about some tough times I've been through. My business fell apart, I went through a divorce, and had to rebuild from scratch. I share how I turned these big challenges into opportunities to grow and find success again. I'll also talk about the experiences of some of my clients who hav…
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