The Light Inside is a knowledge-driven peer-to-peer educational community for change-leaders, featuring intellectually curious academics and trauma-informed therapists dedicated to transforming unresolved psychological data into actionable wisdom. We believe that deep psychological insight unlocks personal transformation—helping you reintegrate unconscious patterns and step into a life of clarity, purpose, and emotional agility. Through our content, we uncover how hidden primary and secondar ...
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Creative Thinking: How Embracing Dumb Ideas Empowers Adaptive Problem-Solving
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1:12:22What if the key to innovation lies in embracing the absurd? In this episode, we sit down with David Carson, creator of Dumbify, to explore how “thinking dumber” can unlock powerful creative breakthroughs. Challenging conventional notions of identity and intelligence, we examine how embracing the fear of looking foolish fosters curiosity, adaptabili…
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Reframing Pathology: Navigating the Journey of Healing Unresolved Psychological Material
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1:03:36In this episode of The Light Inside, I, Jeffrey Besecker, delve into the intricate relationship between our behaviors, emotional patterns, and the unresolved traumas that shape our lives. We explore the concept of pathology—not as a label of dysfunction, but as a way to better understand how our past experiences influence our present actions and em…
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Reclaiming Menopause: Breaking Free from Stigma and Embracing Transformation
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1:07:38In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the often-stigmatized topic of menopause, exploring how cultural narratives have historically framed it as a decline rather than a natural and empowering transition. Guest, Amita Sharma discusses the importance of breaking free from limiting belief systems and societal scripts t…
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Navigating Nice Guy Syndrome: Overcoming Emotional Dependency and Avoidance
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1:11:07In this episode of The LightInside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the concept of conditional self-worth and its impact on our relationships. He examines the subconscious and unconscious patterns that contribute to the "nice guy syndrome," exploring how early attachment wounds and covert social contracts shape our behaviors. The discussion highl…
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Rewiring Pain Perception: Emotional and Somatic Strategies for Relief
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41:11In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Biesecker delves into the complex relationship between chronic pain and emotional regulation with guest Butch Phelps. They discuss how subconscious and unconscious behavioral patterns, such as avoidance and emotional suppression, can reinforce pain cycles and affect the nervous system. The conversat…
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Progress Over Perfection: Kinesthetic Mastery and Emotional Regulation
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1:12:34Podcast Episode Summary: The Light Inside Host: Jeffrey Besecker Guest: Patrick Boylan, Actor, Musician, and Musical Educator In this episode of The Light Inside, we explore the concept of mastery through the lens of learning to play an instrument, specifically the piano. Our guest, Patrick Boylan, shares his journey from a traditional piano studen…
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Riding into the Golden Sunset: Embracing Life Beyond Career Identity
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1:04:19In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey engages in a thought-provoking discussion with transformative wellness coach Lori Beth Martin. Together, they delve into the complexities of identity and anticipatory anxiety as individuals approach pre and early retirement. Lori Beth, a passionate advocate for women over 50, shares her insights on …
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Arousal Misattribution: How Emotions Shape Our Intuitive Decisions
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1:23:42In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the complexities of intuition with Intuitive Transformation Coach, Denise Miceli. The discussion focuses on the distinction between genuine intuition and the distortions caused by subconscious biases and emotional misattributions. Listeners will learn how primary and secondary b…
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From Trauma to Transformation: Rewriting Our Subconscious Stories
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1:04:36In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the complexities of our inner truths and the stories we tell ourselves and others. He discusses how our mental snapshots may not accurately reflect our true selves and how these distorted narratives can obscure our essence. The episode explores the transformative journey of unea…
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Navigating the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Compulsion and Recovery
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1:17:23In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the tumultuous journey of sexual awakening that many experience during their tweens and early teens. Delving into the complex emotions and sensations that arise during puberty, the episode highlights how these feelings can sometimes lead to the darker paths of sexual addiction. Jef…
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Navigating Emotional Trauma: Unraveling the Mere Exposure Effect
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16:26Exploring the impact of emotional trauma on our decision-making, The Light Inside delves into how buried emotions can lead us astray in life. The mere exposure effect and subconscious biases play a significant role in shaping our perceptions and emotional responses. As discussed in the podcast episode, the mere exposure effect describes our tendenc…
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From Fight or Flight to Inner Peace: Mastering Emotional Responses
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1:01:39In this episode of The Light Inside, we delve into the intricate world of emotional triggers and self-regulation. We all experience moments when a seemingly innocuous comment or situation sends us spiraling into an emotional storm. Whether it's a partner's remark or a social media comment, our emotions can distort reality, leading to unnecessary co…
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The Hidden Influence of the Authority Bias: Navigating the Maze of Expert Influence
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27:32Welcome to another enlightening episode of The Light Inside. I'm your host, Jeffrey Besecker. Today, we delve into the intriguing concept of authority bias—our tendency to place undue trust in authority figures and experts, often at the expense of critical thinking and personal judgment. The Light Inside is a journalistic podcast exploring the jour…
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Mastering Feedback: How to Overcome Biases and Embrace Constructive Criticism
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1:00:17Explore the complexities of receiving feedback in this episode of The Light Inside. Discover how embracing criticism can lead to personal growth and wisdom, navigating through ego filters and emotional vulnerability. Dive into the importance of intellectual humility as a key to success, nurturing the seeds of correction for a flourishing garden of …
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Parataxic Distortion, Compartmentalization, and Special Pleading- The Mental Gymnastics We All Perform
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10:20In this episode of The Light Inside, we introduced a new feature called the Mind Warp, where we take a playful yet insightful look at the subconscious traps that hijack our health and happiness. Our brains are hardwired to protect us from uncomfortable truths, often employing creative cognitive biases and distortions to do so. Explore the intricate…
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Breaking Down Barriers: Addressing Mental Health Stigmas with Alexandra Miles
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1:09:38Today on The Light Inside, we delve into the intricate world of social stigmas and their impact on mental health. Join us as we uncover how these stigmas can shape societal norms and influence our collective behaviors. We discuss the dual nature of social stigmas, both supporting high standards and promoting values while also perpetuating discrimin…
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The Backfire Effect: Why We Selectively Reinforce Beliefs, Despite Contradictory Evidence
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58:48This episode of The Light Inside delves into the fascinating world of beliefs and how they impact our perceptions, decisions, interactions, and emotional well-being. Exploring the concept of psychological safety and ego development, the episode discusses how creating a safe space can help challenge limiting beliefs and foster personal growth. Join …
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Embracing Our Ego Processes and Development with a Wink and a Smile
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4:02Today's episode explores the intricate world of our psyche and ego processes, shedding light on how they can sometimes lead to confusion. Drawing parallels to a bustling city, the psyche is likened to the city's infrastructure, with the ego as the mayor trying to maintain order. However, when the ego becomes overly ambitious, chaos ensues. The epis…
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Mindful Tech: Reframing Our Digital Lives and Creating Healthier Digital Habits
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49:54In this episode of The Light Inside, we delve into the pervasive issue of distractions in our modern world, particularly focusing on how our tech habits can dominate our lives. I, Jeffrey Besecker, explore the concept of mindfulness as a powerful tool to disrupt impulsive tech use and foster intentional awareness and emotional regulation. We are jo…
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Brianstorming a Better Way : Cognitive Reframing and Adaptive Modes of Cognitive Reappraisal
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1:10:44In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores how our mental constructs shape our perception of life, delving into the benefits and adverse effects they bring. He discusses the importance of reframing beliefs and perspectives to foster growth, drawing insights from guest Khalid Weidauer’s story of overcoming family abandonment…
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Breaking the Glass Ceiling on Belief Perseverance Pt. 2 with Mark Fournier
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1:06:04In this episode of The Light Inside, we delve into the intricate world of belief perseverance and its impact on our adaptability, emotional regulation, and overall well-being. Belief perseverance can be likened to painting ourselves into a box, creating a glass barrier that confines our potential and stifles our growth. We revisit our ongoing serie…
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Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Adaptive Thinking for Personal Growth
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54:28In this episode of The Light Inside, we dive into the profound influence of belief systems on our self-concept, relationships, and perception of the world. Our beliefs shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, creating a framework through which we interpret our experiences and interactions. We explore how subconscious and unconscious patterns im…
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Active Listening and Emotional Intelligence: Keys to Deeper Relationships
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48:24In this illuminating episode of The Light Inside, we delve into the intricacies of effective communication and the unseen barriers that often hinder our ability to connect meaningfully with others. Our focus is on understanding and overcoming parataxic distortion—a cognitive bias where we replace the intended meaning of someone's words with our own…
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Decoding Narcissism: Healing from Toxic Relationship Patterns
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1:23:36Explore the often misunderstood world of narcissism with guest therapist Shannon Petrovich on The Light Inside. Discover the signs of narcissistic abuse, the impact of toxic relationship patterns, and strategies for healing. Gain insights on navigating the fine line between love and manipulation in narcissistic relationships. Key Topics of Discussi…
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Heroes.Are they born - or made? They touch our hearts, fill us with admiration, and make us reconsider our world view. As we look at the plethora of superhero movies these days and you can see how much our society values and loves its heroes.-Just what makes certain people take heroic actions in the face of great danger?According to the Heroic Imag…
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The Transformative Power of Gratitude in Challenging Times
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40:20This episode of The Light Inside reflects on the power of gratitude in the face of challenges, such as surviving a devastating tornado. The host, Jeffrey Besecker, expresses deep appreciation for the safety of their community and the support received during the aftermath. The Light Inside revisits a conversation with author Steven Crane about how g…
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Embracing Imperfection- A Holistic Approach to Overcoming Perfectionism
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1:36:38Explore the origin of the word "OK" and embrace imperfection in this episode of The Light Inside. Join holistic coach Cristina Bonnet as she delves into the factors behind chronic perfectionism and offers insights on embracing a more free-flowing and healthy perspective of excellence.In this enlightening episode of The Light Inside we had the pleas…
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Building Confidence and Balance: Innovative Martial Arts Techniques for Neurodivergent Children
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1:27:50In today’s enlightening episode, we had the pleasure of speaking with Josh George, a sixth-degree black belt martial arts instructor who has dedicated over 30 years to teaching martial arts. Josh has innovatively applied his expertise to assist neurodivergent individuals, particularly children, by developing a martial arts curriculum that focuses o…
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Building a Solid Sleep Routine for Health and Longevity: ABC’s of Healthy Sleep Pt. 2
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30:45In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the crucial topic of sleep and its impact on our health with neuroscientist and sleep research expert Chelsie Rohrscheib. They explore the staggering statistics of sleep disorders globally and the significant long-term effects of sleep deprivation on overall well-being and longe…
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A Good Night’s Rest: The ABC’s of Healthy Sleep
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1:05:20Explore the importance of sleep and its impact on our physical and mental health in this episode of The Light Inside. Join neuroscientist and sleep expert Chelsea Rohrscheib as she delves into the ABCs of a solid sleep routine. Discover how healthy sleep habits can help us wake up feeling rejuvenated and ready to take on the day. Tune in to learn m…
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Synesthesia and Self-Perception: A Colorful Insight
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1:31:18n this thought-provoking episode of The Light Inside, we dive deep into the fascinating world of human psychology, ego processes, and synesthesia with our guest, Heather Eck. We begin by drawing parallels between the traits of ravens and the human psyche, discussing how these birds reflect our own intelligence, wisdom, and duality. As we navigate t…
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Friday Shorts No. 1 - Reflecting on Self and Others: Overcoming Inner Narratives and Misjudgments
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3:40Exploring the intricacies of human perception and judgment, this episode of The Light Inside unravels how we often form opinions about others based on limited information and personal biases. Through introspective narration, the host challenges listeners to look beyond surface impressions and preconceived notions, emphasizing the complexity and uni…
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Reframing Emotional Triggers: A Journey to Healing and Empowerment
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58:33Explore the impact of psychological triggers on our perceptions with trauma recovery coach Joe Ryan in this episode of The Light Inside. Learn how to reframe emotional triggers in a more empowering way to navigate life's challenges. In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker revisits a conversation with trauma recovery coach Joe Rya…
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The Future of Well-Being: AI Chatbots and Accessible Mental Health Care
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44:20Tune in to The Light Inside to explore the impact of artificial intelligence on mental health with Karen Stevens, co-founder of the AI chatbot app EarKick. Discover how EarKick is revolutionizing mental health support by offering compassionate guidance and wisdom in a user-friendly way. Join us as we delve into the future of well-being and the pote…
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From Comfort Food to Comfort Emotions: A Culinary Approach to Feelings
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1:20:10Explore the intriguing relationship between emotions, perceptions, and memories on The Light Inside. Our guest, Kim Korte, author of "Yucky, Yummy, Savory, Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions," joined us to discuss her innovative approach to emotional awareness through the lens of food and cooking. Kim shared insights on how we're not born…
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Unveiling the Subconscious: How Past Lives Shape Our Current Reality
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1:13:25Explore the hidden layers of existence in this episode of The Light Inside with host Jeffrey Besecker. We unravel the impact of past lives and parallel experiences on our present reality, challenging the notion of life as linear. Join guest Alara Sage, a shaman, as she uncovers the subconscious belief structures inherited from our past lives and fa…
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In this episode of The Light Inside, we extol the profound significance of the word 'kahu' within Hawaiian culture and its relevance to our modern lives. Kahu, a term that transcends its literal meaning, represents the roles of guardian, caretaker, and honored attendant, embodying a sacred duty to honor and nurture all that exists. As your host, Je…
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Forging a New Narrative: Healing from Unprocessed Trauma and Sexual Abuse
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52:44Unprocessed Trauma. In the aftermath of the unspeakable, our stories unfold—marked by the haunting echoes of anguish and distress. In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the profound impact of unprocessed trauma, specifically focusing on the pain and torment of sexual abuse. He speaks with author and inspirational speak…
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The Illusion of Reality: How Art Shapes Our View of the World
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58:36In this episode of The Light Inside, we explore the complex nature of color perception and what it teaches us about our understanding of the world. Joining us is Master Atelier Artist, Mandy Theis, as we discuss how our perceptual filters shape our understanding of the world around us, highlighting the role of selective attention, cognitive biases,…
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Embracing Uncertainty: Overcoming the Subconscious Fear of New Experiences
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1:10:02In this thought-provoking episode of The Light Inside, we explore the complexities of neophobia—an unhealthy fear of the unknown—and how it can paralyze us from embracing new experiences and opportunities for growth. Change-leading catalyst Jamie Meyer joins the conversation to unravel the psychological mechanisms that underpin this irrational fear…
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From Inner Voice to Inner Peace: The Power of Psychological Distance in Emotional Regulation
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1:06:20In this enlightening episode of The Light Inside, we unravel the concept of emotional uncoupling and the importance of establishing a healthy psychological distance to better understand and process our emotions. Our guest, Veronica Rottman, founder of Waking Womb, shared her expertise on somatic-based healing and the role of the nervous system in e…
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Exploring Anhedonia: The Search for Joy and Connection
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1:00:54In this podcast episode, host Jeffrey Besecker reflects on the year 2023 and the deep exploration of the human experience that has taken place. The episode acknowledges that while the holiday season can be joyful for many, it can also be a time of challenge and loneliness. The top downloaded episode of the year is revisited, delving into the topic …
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Suggestibility: How Subconscious Scripts Control The Stories We Tell Ourselves About Life
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1:04:36In the podcast episode titled "The Light Inside," host Jeffrey Besecker explores the concept of subconscious scripts and their profound impact on our perspectives and narratives. He invites guest Gareth Gwynne, who specializes in self-realization techniques and societal reconciliation, to delve into the intricacies of these scripts and how they sha…
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Unmasking the Superiority Complex: The Effects of Anxious Insecurity
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1:07:13The podcast explores the concept of anxious insecurity and its various effects. The host, Jeffrey Besecker discusses how anxious insecurity leads to a constant battle between one's self-concept and true identity, resulting in a mask that hides one's true brilliance. The guest, J. Stamatelos provides insights into the search for love and belonging i…
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Neuroception: How the Autonomic Nervous System Keeps Us Regulated with John Eli Garay
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1:02:10In this episode, the host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the topic of pain and suffering and how they contribute to personal growth. It challenges the belief that growth can only occur through pain and discomfort, suggesting that growth can also happen in states free of suffering. The guest, John Eli Garay, shares insights on how to navigate the comp…
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Overcoming Overwhelm: Exploring the Fear of Intimacy and Vulnerability in Our Relationships with Kent Weishaus
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1:01:41In this episode, the podcast explores the role of subconscious scripts and self-sabotaging behaviors in intimate relationships. It discusses how deep-seated fears of vulnerability can influence our behavior and push us to protect ourselves from potential emotional pain. The episode features a conversation with psychotherapist Kent Weishaus, who pro…
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Subconscious Scripts: Exploring the Haunting Power of Our Stories with Dee Miceli
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1:17:10In this podcast, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the nature of subconscious scripts and how they shape our beliefs and behaviors. He explores the idea that our stories and experiences define us, often leading us to blindly follow their lead. He questions the existence of the self and examines the role of conscious and subconscious influences in o…
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Moving on from Narcissistic Abuse: Letting Go and Finding Healing with Shannon Petrovich
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50:55In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the concept of moving on from narcissistic abuse. He discusses the tendency to obsessively ruminate on the experience and seek revenge, rather than focusing on letting go and finding healing. Joining Jeffrey is clinical therapist Shannon Petrovich, author of "Out of the Fog and Int…
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The Power of Slowing Down: Taking Time for Careful Consideration with Kathy Hadizadeh
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56:34In this episode, Jeffrey Besecker and Kathy Hadizadeh delve into the concept of action bias, heuristics, and their effect on decision-making. They discuss the importance of ego development, moving away from binary thinking, and the value of "pause to rise." They also explore the role of unitive ego development in personal growth, how values and psy…
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Running in Circles: How Diffusing Subconscious Patterns Frees Us From Rumination and Negative Belief Systems with Erin Mac
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51:05In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker explores the complexities of circular thinking and rumination with Executive Coach Erin Mac. They discuss how these thought patterns can lead to heightened stress and anxiety levels, hinder decision-making, and disrupt mental and physical well-being. The episode highlights the limitations o…
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