The term 'Narcissism' has been used increasingly to describe someone who is 'difficult' or 'unpleasant' - who treats other people badly. Narcissism is however a very real condition. Those who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder are very low in empathy and therefore particularly bad at maintaining long term personal relationships. As a consequence, those who work with couples who are separating are much more likely to encounter this particular pattern of behaviour during the work th ...
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Awaken. Empower. Thrive. Welcome to The Wild Sage Society Podcast, where we explore the intersection of holistic health, conscious living, and personal transformation. Hosted by Marcie Walker, Holistic Living Coach and Women's Wellness Expert, this podcast is a sanctuary for midlife women seeking to reclaim their vitality, power, and purpose. Each episode features insightful conversations with visionary healers, wellness experts, and conscious entrepreneurs who share practical tools and time ...
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This is a small show about the big things God does in the lives of ordinary people. Each month Katie and Amy of Warhorn Media interview a different woman about a turning point in her life, something she will always remember as God's work. Some of the stories are inspiring, some are heartbreaking, some are joyful, but all are Monumental. Everyone has a story. What's yours?
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You’ve probably heard of the Japanese concept of “Ikigai” but are wondering how you can successfully apply it to your life. How do you start living a life of purpose, jumping out of bed, excited to face the day? Join the Tokyo based, British born facilitator and coach, Jennifer Shinkai and her guests to hear real-life stories of how regular people found and integrated their ikigai. Be inspired by how they took their first steps and how their lives have changed. Still don’t know what you want ...
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S2E21: Empowering Young Women Entrepreneurs with Alli Villines
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47:45Episode Summary: In this inspiring episode of The Wild Sage Society podcast, Marcie Walker sits down with Alli Villines, a young entrepreneur and founder of the nonprofit She Means Business. Alli shares her journey from being a competitive athlete to launching a mission-driven organization that supports young women in entrepreneurship. Their conver…
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How to spot a Narcissist - back to basics
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29:44Send us a text In this episode Karin Walker goes right back to basics and explores the behaviour patterns which are likely to be demonstrated by someone who suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Narcissists and very charming and charismatic. They are expert at luring someone into a relationship with them - often very quickly. They will ma…
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Narcissism, Autism and Family Law - a discussion with Kelly Pougher
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32:21Send us a text Kelly Pougher is the Founder and Director of Pougher-Round Solicitors, a bespoke law firm specialising in Family Law and Autism. With over 20 years' experience in Family Law, Kelly is dedicated to helping neurodivergent families navigate the Family Justice system in a way which is tailored to meet the individual needs of each family.…
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S2E20: Conflict Revolution: Barbara With’s Guide to Personal Transformation
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43:17Episode Summary: In this enlightening conversation, Marcie Walker speaks with Barbara With, an intuitive channeler, musician, and peace advocate. Barbara shares her profound journey of channeling Albert Einstein and how it led to the creation of Conflict Revolution—a framework for understanding and transforming inner conflict. Together, they explor…
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S2E19: Mastering the Art of Sales with Glenn Poulos
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51:06Episode Summary: In this engaging episode, Glenn Poulos shares wisdom from decades of experience in sales and entrepreneurship. From co-founding Gap Wireless to coaching entrepreneurs, Glenn emphasizes the value of personal engagement, face-to-face selling, and reframing negative perceptions of sales. He dives into the nuances of business growth, s…
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The impact of domestic abuse - a discussion with Elaine Richardson
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28:46Send us a text If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist it is highly likely that you will be subjected to some form of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse does not only refer to physical abuse but also emotional and financial abuse. The abuser will often seek to present themselves as the 'victim' - attempting to suggest that in fact they have been…
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S2E18: Pause, Reflect, Move Forward: Holly Oldham’s Journey from Survival to Empowerment
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45:38Episode Summary: In this heartfelt episode of The Wild Sage Society Podcast, Marcie Walker sits down with Holly Oldham, founder of a thriving luxury cleaning business and a powerful advocate for domestic violence survivors. Holly shares her courageous path from surviving toxic relationships to reclaiming her voice, her business, and her purpose. Sh…
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S2E17: Mindful Healing: Merging Science, Spirituality, and Self-Acceptance with Jesseca Banchy
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41:57Episode Summary: In this episode of The Wild Sage Society Podcast, Marcie Walker sits down with holistic healer, educator, and entrepreneur Jesseca Banchy. From her early career as an ER nurse to becoming a passionate advocate for holistic wellness, Jesseca shares how trauma, spirituality, and eco-conscious living shaped her healing journey. Togeth…
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How to provide support to your child/relative/friend if they are in a relationship with a Narcissist
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20:01Send us a text Watching someone you care about being subjected to emotional, financial or even physical abuse at the hands of their narcissistic partner/spouse can be heart-breaking and unbearable - particularly if the 'victim' is your child. It is so much easier to recognise the existence of narcissistic abuse when you are on the outside looking i…
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S2E16: Redefining Masculinity in Modern Society with Jesse Carstairs
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49:30Episode Summary: In this episode of The Wild Sage Society Podcast, Marcie Walker sits down with Jesse Carstairs to explore the deep connection between regenerative farming, fatherhood, and holistic living. Jesse shares his journey into farming, the impact of sustainable practices on soil and health, and how the principles of regenerative agricultur…
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S2E15: Reclaiming Pleasure, Confidence, and Connection: A Midlife Awakening with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
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49:53Episode Summary: In this powerful conversation, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a renowned sex therapist, dives deep into the impact of sexual shame—especially for those raised in conservative environments. She unpacks how silence and stigma around sexuality affect emotional well-being, relationships, and self-worth. Dr. Sellers also shares insights on …
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The Co-parent Way - and interview with Marcie Shaoul
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27:22Send us a text If you and your partner have separated, your preference may be never to have to see or speak to them again. This will particularly be the case where your former partner is a narcissist when 'no contact' will be the ideal position. If however, you have children together, at least while your children are in their minority, that is not …
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Episode Summary: In this guided meditative journey, listeners are invited to cultivate relaxation, grounding, and self-discovery. Through breath awareness and releasing past and future concerns, they will learn to visualize challenges as barriers to infinite possibilities. This transformative experience encourages deep self-reflection, awakening in…
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S2E13: From Hustle to Heart: Mastering Business with Brandi Anderson
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52:27Episode Summary: In this transformative episode of The Wild Sage Society Podcast, Marcie Walker sits down with Brandi Anderson, a powerhouse business strategist and marketing consultant. Brandi shares her entrepreneurial journey, as co-founder of PUSH Consulting, and the importance of authentic relationship-building. She expounds upon how vulnerabi…
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The Ikigai of The Sento Mindset: Embracing Vulnerability and Transformation with Katheryn Gronauer
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54:43Join Jennifer as she delves into an enriching conversation with Katheryn Gronauer, a dynamic coach and facilitator with expertise in leadership, cross-cultural transition, and wellness. There are fascinating parallels between business or life transitions and the traditional Japanese “sento” or public bath experience. Whether navigating a career shi…
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S2E12: The Power of Mindset in Personal Growth
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1:00:44Episode Summary: In this episode of The Wild Sage Society podcast, Marcie Walker welcomes Alexis Nelson, founder of Latitude Wellness, an intuitive life coach and Holy Fire 3 Reiki Master. Alexis specializes in guiding purpose-driven women through their midlife awakening, helping them release limiting beliefs, reconnect with their intuition, and cu…
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S2E11: Unlocking Your Potential: The Power of Clarity and Alignment
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56:49Episode Summary: In this episode of The Wild Sage Society podcast, Marcie Walker welcomes back Sharon Spann, a clarity and alignment coach and business strategist. Sharon helps high achievers bridge the gap between potential and impact through transformational tools like Human Design, Gallup Strengths, and Gene Keys. She shares her powerful D.A.I.S…
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S2E10: Balancing Ambition and Self-Care: Strategies for Sustainable Success
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16:25🎙️ Balancing Ambition and Self-Care: Strategies for Sustainable Success Ambition and self-care often feel like opposing forces—one pushing us forward, the other urging us to slow down. But they don’t have to be at odds. In this episode, I share my personal journey of navigating autoimmune challenges, a traumatic brain injury, and the demands of ent…
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S2E9: Holistic Living and Right Relation: Cultivating Harmony in Everyday Life
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39:40In this episode of The Wild Sage Society, I explore the concept of right relation—a principle rooted in balance, alignment, and intentional decision-making. I share how holistic living isn’t just about wellness routines, but about integrating intuition, strategy, and flow into every aspect of life and business. I reflect on my journey from finance …
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The Ikigai of Redefining Success and Work Life Balance with Cynthia Usui
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54:04In this engaging episode of 'Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai,' host Jennifer Shinkai speaks with the inspiring Cynthia Usui about career breaks, life after 60, redefining her concept of Ikigai, and finding new purpose. Cynthia shares her journey from being a stay-at-home mum to re-entering the workforce, taking on different career roles, and ultimatel…
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S2E8: Integrating Spiritual Practices in Business - Elevate Your Work with Mindful Strategies
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6:59In this episode of The Wild Sage Society podcast, I explore how integrating spiritual practices into business can transform your entrepreneurial journey. Learn how to turn everyday business tasks into mindful rituals, align your goals with astrology, and connect with energetic allies to create a more intentional and sustainable approach to success.…
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S2E7: Energy Leaks in Business - How to Identify and Seal Them for Sustainable Growth
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9:44In this episode of The Wild Sage Society, I explore the concept of energy leaks in business and how they can drain your resources, focus, and momentum. Drawing from personal experiences and client case studies, I break down what energy leaks are, how to identify them, and actionable steps to seal them for sustainable growth. This episode is packed …
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S2E6: Embodying Feminine Leadership - Achieving Balance and Success in Business
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12:51In this episode of The Wild Sage Society, I dives into the concept of feminine leadership and how it transcends gender. We’ll explore the qualities of both masculine and feminine energies in business as I share my personal experiences navigating leadership roles in male-dominated industries. This episode provides actionable insights on how to achie…
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S2E5: Sacred Money - Healing your Financial Relationship
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9:01In this solo episode, I confront a topic that once felt uncomfortable: money. I explore why financial chaos often ties back to deeper emotional pain and share my personal struggles with debt, overspending, and shame. By redefining money as a sacred energy, we can begin releasing old patterns and crafting a healthier, more abundant relationship with…
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The Ikigai of Reflective Coaching & Supervision, with Elizabeth Okada
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45:41Welcome back to the Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai podcast! We hope you all had a fabulous holiday season. In this first episode of 2025 I am thrilled to be talking with Elizabeth Okada, renowned coach in her own right, as well as being a sought after coaching supervisor and trainer. Elizabeth joins us to help demystify coaching, supervision and to d…
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S2E4: The Power of Shadow Work in Entrepreneurship
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4:47Shadow work isn’t just an emotional exercise—it’s a powerful key to unlocking deeper authenticity in business. In this solo episode, I explore how the “disowned” parts of ourselves affect our roles as entrepreneurs. By looking at the unspoken truths we hide from ourselves, we can address the blind spots that show up in our team dynamics, finances, …
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The female closet narcissist - what to look out for and how deal with them
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33:17Send us a text It is generally assumed that most Narcissists are male - which of course is wrong. Narcissistic Personality disorder is a condition which is not gender specific and can apply in the same way to both men and women. This podcast is intended for those who believe themselves to have become the 'victim' of the female closet narcissist. Th…
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S2E3: Alignment for 2025 – Setting Intention & Manifestation Growth Goals
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24:16As I step into 2025, I’m reflecting on what it truly means to set goals that resonate with my soul. In this solo episode, I share a guided visualization to help you connect with your body’s intuitive wisdom, create an ignited vision, and magnetize what you truly desire. If you’re seeking alignment—whether in business or personal life—this episode o…
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S2E2: A Year in Review – 2024’s Lessons & Insights
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12:392024 was a year of profound growth—a time when old patterns, unresolved traumas, and ingrained beliefs surfaced, asking to be healed. In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on the transformative lessons I’ve learned, from embracing sacred pauses to realigning with integrity and surrendering to the process of finding clarity and purpose. This ep…
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S2E1: Welcome Back! The Evolution of The Wild Sage Society
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12:23In this solo episode, I return to The Wild Sage Society Podcast after a much-needed and deeply transformative pause. Over the past year, I’ve encountered challenges that led me to realign my business and personal life. I’m sharing why I stepped away, what guided me back to holistic healing and spiritual support, and how I’m redefining what success …
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How to navigate your way through the Christmas break
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25:36Send us a text Despite the 'tinsel' and celebrations, Christmas can be a difficult time. When you are separating and have children, particularly if you are separating from a narcissist, the festive season can be fraught with complications. Narcissists hate special occasions - and are keen to cause havoc and chaos for everyone around them unless, as…
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Arbitration - a better way to achieve adjudication - a discussion with Tristan Harvey
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32:29Send us a text In a high conflict dispute it is highly likely that one of the couple will drive the proceeding to Court - insisting that a decision is required by a Judge - thereby increasing delay and cost. Since 2012 in financial remedy proceedings and 2016 in Children Act proceedings those decisions can be made by an Arbitrator. Narcissists thri…
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How to prepare yourself for Court as a Litigant in Person (LIP) - a discussion with Richard Uridge
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31:01Send us a text As we know, Narcissists thrive on the drama of the courtroom - especially post separation. When they are low on 'narcissistic supply' they are likely to try to take you back to court - especially in connection with child arrangements (particularly in the run up to Christmas) or ongoing financial support - the purpose being to cause m…
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Hybrid Mediation - a discussion with Suzanne Kingston
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30:54Send us a text This podcast is intended for both family law practitioners and separating couples - explaining in detail the process of hybrid mediation and the benefits which it can provide. Following the change to the Family Procedure Rules in April 2024 there is now a much greater obligation to explore Non Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) options …
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Valuing a company or business - an interview with Kate Hart from Quantuma
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33:19Send us a text Narcissists are very poor at forming relationships with others in every area of their life. As a consequence they will often be self-employed. Their lack of empathy can make them extremely successful in business but with that comes a lack of desire to be clear and transparent about their business ventures. It is therefore highly Like…
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Recovery from narcissistic abuse - An interview with Nova Gibson, author of 'Fake Love'
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25:03Send us a text Nova Gibson is the Director and Founder of Brighter Outlook - Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service, where she is the Primary Counsellor. She is the 'go to' Counsellor/expert on narcissistic abuse recovery in Australia. In the last 10 years she has supported over 3,000 individual clients, who believe they were abused by an undiagnos…
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What is 'Post Separation Abuse' and how do you minimise it's impact?
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26:24Send us a text Family Lawyer, Karin Walker discusses the impact of post separation narcissistic abuse and how to deal with this - ensuring that you do not unwittingly continue to provide narcissistic supply - even after the relationship is over
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The Ikigai of “Room in Your Mind” with Misha Yurchenko
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55:58On the latest episode of the podcast we are discussing burnout and mindfulness with the founder of Tokyo Mindfulness, Misha Yurchenko. Misha has some amazing insights to share with you all about the pattern of burnout he experienced repeatedly in his work life, and how he broke this pattern. Many people can still experience burnout or stress after …
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The Ikigai of Mottainai & Creativity, with Victoria Close from Biku Designs
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1:01:39On the latest episode of the podcast our guest is Victoria Close from Bikudesigns, a vintage kimono jewellery brand. The Japanese concept of Mottainai ( もったいない ), which expresses a sadness or regret about wasting or mistreating resources, has become very important to Victoria in both her life and work. It also gave her a word for something she’d fe…
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The Expanding Ikigai of Live Theatre in Japan, with Michael Walker
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51:25Welcome back to another episode of Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai. This week I am joined by Michael Walker, Founder and Artistic Director of SheepDog Theatre based in Tokyo, Japan. As a lifelong fan of live theatre I know very well the ikigai of being an audience member, but in this episode Michael shares with us what it's like to be involved in the …
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Finding Yoyu & Cultivating Abundance in Your Life, with Marci Kobayashi
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57:09Welcome to another episode of the Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai podcast. This week we are talking about yoyu, a Japanese concept conveying one’s capacity to handle or afford something. Author Marci Kobayashi joins us to discuss the concept of yoyu and her upcoming book, "Finding Yoyu: The Japanese Compass for Navigating Overwhelm and Cultivating Abu…
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Obsessive Ikigai & The Healing Power of Self Love, with Elizabeth Hendrick
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55:33This week’s episode contains general discussions of BDSM and torture. Welcome to the latest episode of the Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai podcast. This week we talk to author Elizabeth Hendrick about her book EXODAI, a memoir about her struggles with her sexuality and the story of how she eventually learnt to love herself after a particularly toxic B…
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The Ikigai in Vagabondism, with Tengyo Kura
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41:13Welcome to another episode of season three of the Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai podcast. On the podcast this week I got to sit down with Tengyo Kura, a self professed vagabond. Tengyo has a beautiful outlook on life that has propelled him around the world to connect with many people from different cultures, countries and experiences. Vagabondism is …
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Unlocking Ikigai: Navigating Transitions and Emerging with Purpose with Adrian Francis
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49:33Welcome to Season 3 of Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai! Adrian Francis is the filmmaker behind the powerful documentary Paper City, exploring the impact of the firebombing of Tokyo in 1945 and the ongoing struggle for it to be acknowledged and remembered. Adrian was brave enough to come on the show at a point where he has not figured out his next step…
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Finding Your Ikigai in the Midst of a Mental Health Challenge, with David Macdonald
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50:09Content Warning: In this episode of the podcast David Macdonald and I have a frank discussion of mental illness, depression, suicidal ideation and suicidal thoughts. If you are in Japan and want to talk to someone about these issues please consider contacting the Tokyo English lifeline at https://telljp.com/. Today on the podcast we have a very imp…
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The Ikigai in Empowering Others to Have Fitness Autonomy, with Menya Hinga
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50:17Happy Holidays everyone! This can be a time that tests our health and wellness goals, so this episode’s guest is here to help. Menya Hinga is an online health and fitness coach and co-founder of SOGO Fitness—Japan’s largest non-profit fitness community. Menya has helped hundreds of individuals and numerous organizations make better decisions relate…
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The ikigai in fighting and filmmaking with Rionne McAvoy
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1:05:02On this latest episode of Ikigai with Jennifer Shinkai I talk to Rionne McAvoy who I first came into contact with through their documentary film “The Ones Left Behind: The Plight of Single Mothers in Japan.” The film is an incredibly moving look at an often ignored aspect of life in Japan for many mothers and their children, as well as helping to i…
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The COVID-19 lockdowns across the world were a very stressful time for a lot of us, but there were also a lot of stories of positive community building and support that came out of that time. One of those stories was that of Frock Up Friday, a facebook group started by friends Bev and Suzie in the UK. The page started as a place where they and thei…
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Katie gives an update on their adoption process and the new addition to her family! "The Moon Is Always Round" by Jonathan GibsonBy Warhorn Media
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Combining Multiple Sources of Ikigai, Or Not, with Genie Gurnani
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52:34If you are a fan of RuPaul’s Drag Race, you’ll love this episode! Join me as I have a fabulous chat with Genie Gurnani, internationally televised drag queen from Drag Race Thailand Season 2, AND globe-trotting creative leader and marketing executive who has led teams at Disney, Vice Media, and Netflix. We discuss Genie’s dual careers, and how the t…
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